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Got Kids? The Good School Will Help Them Get a Decent Education

Posted: 08/16/11 12:25 PM ET

If you want your child to get into a good pre-school in my city, it's not just a matter of forking over $15,000. First you have to get an application. And you don't get one just by asking at any time in the fall. On the day after Labor Day -- and on no other day -- you have to call the schools and request applications. Many schools have only one or two phone lines; you can easily spend the entire day speed-dialing. (It's easier for Goldman Sachs executives with multiple assistants.)

It's not just that the New York City public schools aren't what they might be. Or that wealthy snootballs don't want their darling muffins playing blocks with pooty kids from the projects. Or that, as the joke goes, this is how educators who make $40,000 a year get to show people who make $40 million who's boss. In the end, it's about understanding that early childhood education is essential to later success in school -- and in life -- and acting on that understanding.

There are people on the national scene -- no politics here, so no names -- who think that that giving kids a head start on school is a bad idea. They should be made to read Peg Tyre's The Good School: How Smart Parents Get Their Kids the Education They Deserve. They won't, of course, but if you have young children or have children who have young children, I hope you will -- it's a chatty, non-theoretical story of how our schools got to be testing-machines-so-the-states-get-federal-education-money and how, despite that, you can help your offspring acquire some book learning.

As Tyre tells it, early childhood education is a recent phenomenon. In the 1830s, an influential education warned that the "mental excitement" would over-stimulate children. In l930, only .09 per cent of young children attended nursery school. As late as the 1950s, only 16 per cent left their homes for school experiences.

It's now generally agreed that, as Tyre writes, "the central building blocks of literacy must be laid down before kindergarten." Interestingly, that means talking to kids -- and having kids talk back. A four-year-old from a family of involved, professional parents has heard 45 million words. A working class kid: 26 million words. A welfare kid: 13 million. (Thanks to handheld devices, this is changing. And not for the better. So if you're texting away while your kid tries to tell you something certain to bore you -- put the damn thing down!!!)

What's more important -- a good teacher or a small class? Are audiobooks OK? Why are Asian kids such high-achievers? (Answer: It's not because they're smarter.) How much time in a school day is actually devoted to learning? Does recess matter? Why is education so much better in South Korea and Finland? The Good School will tell all.

Peg Tyre is a mother. (Her last book, The Trouble With Boys, is a smart blend of research and hard-won personal knowledge.) She's not a professional educator. She's as much of a resource as a great librarian or that teacher you'll never forget. Use her.

[Cross-posted from HeadButler.com]

 
 
 
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05:52 PM on 08/17/2011
I wonder if Kornbluth is erring by mistaking schooling from learning when he talks about lack of nursery and other schooling for young children. Letting kids be kids while exposing them to the world as real family members can go far for a child's development. Unschooling is an many ways a return toa more natural and possibly more effective learning. However, this won't resonate for someone who thinks that learning is something that has to be done to a child.
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10:19 AM on 08/17/2011
We cannot assume that our child is getting what we think they need in a school public or private. We have given the schools too much responsibility of educating our kids. There are many ways without "forcing" our students to do extra studies at night to introduce/educate our children to what we consider important areas.
09:06 PM on 08/16/2011
If there are a limited number of seats in GOOD schools then the parents who want those seats for their kids must want some other kids in BAD Schools.

So why can't we make a National Recommended Reading List for ALL KIDS?

Why haven't our Educators begun creating something so simple? And now we have computers cheap enough for just about everybody. But if electronic education affects people positively who were supposed to be in BAD schools then what will that do to our society?

Eight Keys to Eden by Mark Clifton
http://www.xenodochy.org/ex/abstract/eightkeys.html
http://www.onread.com/book/Eight-Keys-to-Eden-6514/

The Fourth R : George O. Smith
http://www.onread.com/book/The-Fourth-R-17950/
09:17 PM on 08/16/2011
If you Google 'National Recommende­d Reading List for children' you get 150,000,000 results. The lists have existed for years, the problem is few people seek them out and even fewer read any of those books to their children. We are the problem we are looking for.
08:42 PM on 08/17/2011
You used single quotes '

If you use double quotes " you only get TWO.

There is a problem alright. It is using the technology.
12:06 PM on 09/13/2011
You put single quotes around the phrase instead of double quotes. That changes the results.
04:41 PM on 08/16/2011
Might be an interesting read. I may look it up, but I am dubious about general approaches. There is so much innate difference between children (even in the same family) that it is necessary to take different approaches to build upon kids strengths, work around their weaknesses, and work with their different motivations. You have to start when they are very young and keep it up. Having good schools available makes it easier, because then the parents only have to supplement the school rather than carry the full load.

I have made clear to my kids that there are two standards they have to meet. Mine, and the schools. And I give homework if needed. If and when the school slacks off, we pick up the load. Over much complaining, my son had been doing a moderate amount of pre-algebra review over the summer. He will be ready when he starts 6th grade in 2 weeks. My 14 year old daughter did calculus over the summer. Both read a lot.
03:26 PM on 08/16/2011
What are "pooty kids"? Urban dictionary is the only place I could find a definition of "pooty", and I don't think it means what the author thinks it means. I'm not sure what the author thinks it means is any better, overall, but that was a really terrible word choice.
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03:34 PM on 08/16/2011
I used it as a term of art, signifying smelly, unclean. It's in contrast to "snootballs," which I believe is also not dictionary-worthy. But I'll bet it paints a picture.