Thich Nhat Hanh: Could Your Happiness Be Just a Breath Away?

Breathing in, I calm my body.
Breathing out, I smile.
Dwelling in the present moment,
I know this is a wonderful moment.

That's it.

That's all Thich Nhat Hanh has to say.

Yes, you can take his Essential Writings and Teachings on Love and Fragrant Palm Leaves and all the other books of this Vietnamese Zen master and Buddhist scholar and shove them to the side.

Grasp this one idea, and you're well down the path to mindfulness.

"We often become so busy that we forget what we are doing or even who we are," Thich Nhat Hanh explains. "When we settle into the present moment, we can see beauties and wonders right before our eyes....We can be very happy just by being aware of what is in front of us."

First, though, there's a hurdle you have to jump.

Why would smart, sophisticated, complicated you surrender to anything as simple as... breathing?

Thich Nhat Hanh understands our resistance. That's why, in the 75 pages of Present Moment Wonderful Moment, he has assembled a collection of gathas --- which he defines as "short verses which we can recite during our daily activities to help us dwell in mindfulness" --- and brief commentaries.

His ambitions don't seem large: "When we focus our minds on a gatha, we return to ourselves and become more aware of each action. When the gatha ends, we continue our activity with heightened awareness." And most of the gathas are on topics that may seem distressingly small: opening the window, looking in the mirror, using the toilet, washing your hands, brushing your teeth, getting dressed. But these are the moments of your day. They add up to a life. Start now, start small.

Here's a sample of a gatha and Thich Nhat Hanh's commentary:

Washing the dishes
is like bathing a baby Buddha.
The profane is the sacred.
Everyday mind is Buddha's mind.

If I am incapable of washing dishes joyfully, if I want to finish them quickly so I can go and have dessert and a cup of tea, I will be equally incapable of doing these things joyfully. With the cup in my hands, I will be thinking about what to do next, and the fragrance and the flavor of the tea, together with the pleasure of drinking it, will be lost. I will always be dragged into the future, never able to live in the present moment. The time of dishwashing is as important as the time of meditation. That is why the everyday mind is called the Buddha's mind.

"Be here now" --- it's not exactly a new message. What's different about Thich Nhat Hanh's presentation is that he gives you both the home truth and the technology to get to here. And how staggeringly simple this tech is! No need to meditate, no palms to grease, nothing much to learn. You just watch your breath and express a modicum of gratitude.

That's too simple for the likes of me, and so, more often than not, I forget my breath and my gratitude, and the miracle of my life becomes an end-of-the-day bonus, my reward for crossing off a few dozen items on my to-do list. By then, of course, I'm angry and frazzled, unfit for gratitude, craving only a glass of wine and a new episode of Law & Order. And there goes paradise, lost again.

Which is not to say I write these gathas off. I always come back. Not every day. But often. Because they're the start, the key that unlocks the first door. And on the other side? Everything I crave.

Thich Nhat Hanh's books are gentle reminders. Note to self: Get over myself. And another: I'm just one breath away. Seems so easy, doesn't it? Then you try it and discover that there's almost nothing harder.

[cross-posted from HeadButler.com]

Comments

[communicatinghumanity]

Being mindfully present as we wash dishes IS the easy stuff that prepares us for the bigger stuff. Being mindful of the impact of our thoughts, choices, actions and behaviors upon all we come into contact with, and choosing to live with impeccability and transparency with what we profess to believe and how we show up in the world in every situation in every moment takes a bit more effort. We all have to do the work, and it's not always easy and definitely not always comfortable. There's no skipping steps, no "instant enlightenm­ent." There is a lot to learn - or perhaps more precisely, to UN-learn in terms of the less than mindful way many people go about their lives. It is all very simple, but we humans tend to make it very complicated. :)

When meditation moves from eyes closed on a cushion for X number of minutes, to meditating with our eyes open during all our waking minutes, then it simply becomes our life, and each breath re-minds us to be fully present no matter where we are, what we are doing, and who is around us. Dishwashing, driving in traffic, choosing what we allow into our bodies and minds is all the same thing.

[h4tch]

It's Thay's ability to apply Buddhist teachings to our hectic modern day lives that make him one of the greatest teachers of our age, unfortunately his work rarely receive any attention from outside Buddhist circles because he doesn't promise the quick fixes that have become the trademark of the 'Self Help' industry.