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Want to Support the Troops? Start by Supporting Their Families

Posted: 04/12/11 01:05 PM ET

Last June, the Afghanistan war officially became the longest-running conflict in U.S. history, and thousands of Americans are still serving in Iraq after eight years of combat there. But perhaps the most unusual thing about these wars is the small number of Americans who are personally affected by them. Only 1 percent of Americans currently serve in the military, which means the same group of service members is returning to the battlefield for duty, deployment after deployment.

Meanwhile, on the home front, our military families are stretched thinner than ever before. Raising children when one parent is away at war for months at a time is emotionally taxing. And we're all aware that military members are not the highest paid workers in our society -- to support a family today, their spouses must be employed as well. Considering how frequently military families must uproot and move to a new location, nailing down a job can often be difficult.

First Lady Michelle Obama recently visited "The Oprah Winfrey Show" to talk about the struggles facing America's military families:

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"Because so few Americans are serving, you've got families that are dealing with their fourth and fifth and sixth deployment," said the First Lady. "Parents are struggling to do this alone... We have to find a way to embrace all of these families."

Indeed, we can hardly say we support our troops if we don't make an effort to support their families at home. In January, President Obama took a step in the right direction when he announced a major presidential initiative directing every cabinet department to craft policies and programs that help serve military families, from education and career development to housing and financial services. But the President made a point of noting that this is not a problem that can be solved solely by government:

"We also recognize that this can't be a mission for government alone," Obama said. "Government has its responsibilities, but when one percent of Americans are fighting our wars, 100 percent of Americans should be supporting our troops and their families."

On April 12, First Lady Michelle Obama and Dr. Jill Biden will launch an initiative designed to encourage individual citizens and communities to make this same commitment to help our military families. As the First Lady said on Oprah, there is likely a unique way that each one of us can help. Businesses can make it a point to hire military spouses even if they know those individuals might move on in a few years. Accountants can help military families prepare their taxes, offsetting an expense that could make or break a tight family budget.

At Goodwill Industries, we raise money by selling donated items in more than 2,500 retail stores and online, and we use the revenue to fund job training and placement programs, including placing workers in positions at our own stores. In response to the Obamas' call to action, Goodwill Industries International has launched Goodwill for America's Heroes and Their Families, an initiative that extends Goodwill's existing programs to military spouses and families. We will also target more than 20 percent of our new positions this year (1,300 jobs) to military spouses, veterans and their families, and we will provide career counseling and family strengthening services to thousands more.

This is just one approach to better supporting our military families. There are many more ideas out there -- ideas that you can be a part of and help to implement.

We all like to say we support our troops. Now it's time to take it one step further and actually support them by first helping their families.

 

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11:08 AM on 04/13/2011
I was asked to write something about LIFT ("Like it for TIME") as part of the military family awareness week initiative for AOL. You can (please do) read it here: http://jobs.aol.com/articles/2011/04/14/behind-the-grassroots-effort-to-make-military-familys-times-20/
11:03 AM on 04/13/2011
This is a fantastic article. Thank you for encouraging the support of military families.

Often what you'll find is people a) don't know what that means, or b) haven't been introduced to enough military families to WANT to "support" them, which is why "Like it for TIME" (http://likeitfortime.com) was created. At LIFT, you'll find interviews with military family members that go beyond what you see on "Army Wives," read articles about war, the media, etc. from the military family perspective, and more.

(You'll also see, on the main page, LIFT LINK LOVE, which is a supersized show of military family support LIFT is currently working on, and that you and your kids will love.)
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HamletsMill
All Myth is Astronomy
05:22 PM on 04/12/2011
If you want to help veterans start researching why WWI, WWII, Korea, Vietnam, Gulf War I, Iraq, and Afghanistan ever happened in the first place? Start researching why you and your entire family as Americans are utter hapless dupes. Try to research why no one at Goldman Sachs gives a flying f* about you and your family and no one of their ilk has for 235 years and counting. Then get back to me. You might start here:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=swkq2E8mswI

War is good for business. Invest your son and daughter.
04:58 PM on 04/12/2011
I support our troops!!! We now pay them a decent wage, provide a housing allowance and free health care. They signed up service (and thank you) but so did all the police and firefighters in this country. Enough of this hero stuff already. No one was drafted they all signed up and they are doing what they agreed to do.
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johnb123
All I ask..just be reasonable....do things my way
04:26 PM on 04/12/2011
Why don't you take this message to Wall St and the banks? Why do you direct it to families already struggling to get by every day. Wall St and the banks have the power and money to do much more. Tell Wall St to spend part of their wealth on groups helping service men. If anyone should be greatful for the sacrifices of our military, it's those on Wall St.
02:58 PM on 04/12/2011
How many of you who don't have children would appreciate getting far less money for your job than someone working at the same place and doing the same job ? Maybe these military people should stop having children at 19 .
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neighborhoodmole
no one really knows who anyone is here
02:13 PM on 04/12/2011
Once DADT repeal is complete, gay military families will become visible but they will not get any government support. I recently met a lesbian couple while on vacation in Honolulu. One is in the Navy and being redeployed to San Diego. Her partner is quitting her job and having to move at her own expense and then seek a new job with no help or consideration from the military. This will remain true even after they can be out, because the military claims that DOMA prevents them from providing any support to gay families. Many lesbians in the military are in long term relationships and have children to support.
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usna73
We are all in this together
01:22 PM on 04/12/2011
Bravo Zulu. Let's hope more read this post and act. Thank you.