I'm not pregnant.

If I were 17, this would be cause for celebration, but when you are ready for a baby and you can't just materialize one, an empty womb feels like an empty heart.

In January I started the process of trying to get pregnant. I found a fertility...

I didn't tell anyone when I was raped. I didn't run away when I was being sexually abused by my father. I didn't call the police when my ex-girlfriend strangled me in a drunken rage.

What's wrong with me? Nothing.

Over and over and...

In the past month I was inseminated for the first time, masturbated in a circle with 10 naked women and watched myself onscreen in an interactive documentary. None of these things is particularly strange for me.

However, I do feel like I've been in a blender on the high setting....

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Sex can be brutal.

Since my TEDx talk was just released last week, I decided to toodle around the TED site and watch a few other sex-positive videos....

Natalia Ramirez is a power lesbian.

Is it super-cheesy to say that? Yes, it is. However, if you saw her with her leggy frame, her gothic charm and her dry wit, you'd see that she immediately captures the attention at any cocktail...

Netflix is jumping into the ring with a $100-million show to rival heavyweight champs HBO and Showtime, but who will become the prize fighters in the gay division?

Well, if you love The L Word (the original, not the reality...

Once an ex-girlfriend tried to strangle me. She was drunk and much smaller than I, so it wasn't a scary experience, but it was a sad one, as it marked our turn onto a dark path together. It was the beginning of a very long and painful journey to the...

I don't understand my vagina.

Because my wife and I want to have a baby, I've been paying attention to my private parts lately, and up until recently I did not realize that women only get pregnant during a very small window of time every month. Having been brought up...

WARNING: This post contains sexually explicit language. Please read on at your own discretion.

Lately I haven't been feeling too happy about my job as a porn producer.

Sex is a deeply complicated issue, an act that can be blissful and satisfying or painful and confusing. Furthermore, in our...

Have you ever had that dream in which you walk into a meeting and suddenly you realize you're cold because you're not wearing any pants? I have, and it is a recurring dream, showing up about once a month in my sleep schedule....

WARNING: This post contains sexually explicit language. Please read on at your own discretion.

Tie me up; tie me down!

In my last piece, sex educator and real-life submissive Madison Young was here to dish the details on BDSM basics. That piece focused more on how to connect...

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Sexual freedom is attainable.

Back with us for this piece is real-life submissive Madison Young. I have invited her to share some excellent tips on how to incorporate BDSM into your sex life. If...

I am losing my patience with heterosexuals!

Hold on. Let me tick it down a few notches on the intensity dial before the comment section fills up with inevitable judgments about "the angry lesbian." It's not a nice feeling to know that when you express frustration, people automatically pigeonhole you...

Death does not bring out my sex diva.

A few weeks ago I lost my 17-year-old chihuahua, whom we called The Mama. I stayed up for 10 days straight hoping she could live on sugar water, because she had stopped eating. Lying with my dying dog on my chest while...

If you get upset about liberal vagina politics, you might want to click over to another page now, mmmkay?

This week I wanted to write about the kinky sex I've had, but guess what, I'm tired of being called a "slut" and a "whore," so I want to take time...

The ticking of the biological clock is no joke, y'all.

About eight months ago I wrote a scathing piece about the pressure to have children and my general distaste for all things gestational. My, my, how the world does change.

My fears about pregnancy, labor in particular,...

Two babes wearing bathing suits hop into the hot tub before their big scene.

Sounds like the start to a porn movie, right? Nope, it's the Olympics. To be more specific, the twin-like duo readying themselves to perform were Chen Ruolin and Wang Hao, Olympic teammates from China,...

There is no such thing as a "Real Man."

Guess what? Real Women don't exist either. During ABC's The Bachelorette last night, one common thread of discussion amongst the dudes competing for the heart of single mom, Emily Maynard, was the omnipresent concept of the Real Man. Kalon,...

You made it through your wedding! No doubt it was a lot to handle and you're ready to get away with your sweetie to some remote locale and do the horizontal honey-pokey over and over.

Here are six tips to help you plan the perfect getaway with your new husband...