Joan M. Garry is recognized as one of the most vocal, passionate and effective civil rights leaders in America, recently completing nearly a decade of service as the Executive Director of the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD). Most recently, Garry served as the Co-Chair of the National LGBT Finance Committee for Obama For America.

She can be found blogging at www.joangarry.com and at The Newark Star Ledger's parenting blog, Parental Guidance. She is also the co-author of www.whosthegrownup.com, a blog she writes with her nineteen year old daughter, Scout Opatut. Joan’s essays are published biweekly in gay and lesbians newspapers across the country.


Garry’s articulate advocacy has been featured across all national news networks, with notable media appearances including NBC’s Today; ABC’s World News Tonight; and PBS’ The NewsHour with Jim Lehrer, MSNBC's Hardball and Fox News Channel's The O'Reilly Factor.

Her comments are frequently sought by leading newspapers, magazines and news services, including The New York Times, the Associated Press, Reuters, the Washington Post, USA Today, Time Magazine, Newsweek.

During her tenure at GLAAD, Joan persuaded the NY Times to include gay and lesbian couples on its wedding pages, she created a national debate about the homophobic words of radio host, Laura Schlessinger and even debated Jerry Falwell about whether Tinky Winky was gay.

She is also the first woman in the state of New Jersey to legally adopt her partner’s biological children and the first female singing member of the NYC Gay Men’s Chorus.

Blog Entries by Joan Garry

"A President Who Fights With You and for You"

43 Comments | Posted June 30, 2009 | 11:09 AM (EST)


I know what he meant. He meant that together we would fight for full equality and that he would advocate for us to get there. But the line is also true if you look at it the other way. Over the rest of his first term (this is how I...

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What the President is Missing on Gay Rights

249 Comments | Posted June 9, 2009 | 09:45 AM (EST)


I know it seems odd. Ironic even. I was listening to the president's speech to the veterans on Omaha Beach, commemorating the anniversary of D-Day and it hit me. Funny I know. I was listening to him address military veterans and I realized what is missing in the president's approach...

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Prop 8. Now what? The US Supreme Court?

76 Comments | Posted May 27, 2009 | 12:53 PM (EST)


The next chapter in our inexorable march to equality involves the most unlikely of characters. Ted Olson. No, that is not a typo. I don't mean Jimmy Olson (cub reporter for Daily Planet), Mary Kate and Ashley Olson (not sure what to even write here to describe them...)

Allow me...

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Don't Ask, Don't Tell, Don't Blow It

60 Comments | Posted May 1, 2009 | 08:53 AM (EST)


Unlike his predecessor, Barack Obama does not see himself as the "Decider." He is at heart a community organizer. And in these first one hundred days, Americans have seen the tenets of community organizing in action. The President has reminded us time and again that we are all in this...

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Remembering the Days of Remembrance

Posted April 23, 2009 | 12:50 PM (EST)


This week marks the Days of Remembrance, an annual program of the US Holocaust Museum. It is of course in the service of ensuring that we never forget. President Obama, the first president to ever host a White House seder, is not forgetting. He was at the Capitol...

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"Take Your Daughter To The White House" Day

Posted March 16, 2009 | 10:43 AM (EST)


My daughter Scout returned to Boston yesterday after a week long spring break. She is not a Daytona Beach, drink beer until it comes out of your eyeballs kind of spring break person. This of course makes me love her even more (if that were possible) (and it's not).

Last...

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What Kind of Boss Does Barack Obama Want to Be?

Posted February 17, 2009 | 02:14 PM (EST)


President Obama runs a big shop. He has thousands of employees under his charge. We often think about him in the 'leader of the free world' category but for the purpose of this exercise, I'd like you to think of him as an employer.

What kind of employer should the...

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25 Random Things About Parenting

Posted February 5, 2009 | 10:06 AM (EST)


I believe I have mentioned that I am a recent Facebook convert. In the last week, "25 Random Things" has taken off virally. It's a very simple premise.

Once you've been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with 25 random things, facts, habits, or goals...

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"Ted Haggard is working hard to tell the truth"

Posted January 29, 2009 | 11:36 AM (EST)


So says Mrs. Haggard in an interview yesterday on Good Morning America. It is why, she tells Robin Roberts, she now trusts him.

Ol' Mrs. Haggard has set the bar mighty low, huh? She clearly can't say that he is now an honest man, especially in light of new allegations...

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What I Learned While Shopping for a Presidential Appointment

Posted January 16, 2009 | 12:51 PM (EST)


For the gazillion people who would drop everything to head to DC to work for the Obama administration, the Plum Book is the Bible. It lists the more than 7,000 government jobs that open up with a new administration.

I spent considerable time reviewing the contents of this...

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What People Really Think About Gay Parents

Posted January 6, 2009 | 01:30 PM (EST)


I forget sometimes. I need to be reminded. Many, many people don't think that gay people should be allowed to parent. I certainly was reminded of this on Election Day when the state of Arkansas passed a ballot initiative prohibiting gay and lesbian couples from adopting.

I think there...

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Constructive Impatience

Posted December 30, 2008 | 11:41 AM (EST)


I'll admit it. The Rick Warren selection stung. I really tried not to take it personally. I raised many gay dollars (insert funny visual here) for the President-elect. I received more than a handful of emails with the subject line; "I want my money back."

My 81-year-old mother said it...

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The Glass Feels Half Empty Today

Posted December 19, 2008 | 01:22 PM (EST)


In my family, I am the leader of the "Half Full Glass" club. I don't have to try hard -- it comes kind of naturally. I am a silver-lining kind of gal.

But not today. I think I've just had it.

The New York Times reports this morning that...

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CNN-ema

Posted November 14, 2008 | 12:27 PM (EST)


Hi. I am Joan Garry and I am a news addict. In the months and weeks leading up to Election Day, I couldn't help myself.

CNN, realclearpolitics.com, five-thirty-eight.com. I didn't just check in at these sites. It got to the point where I would become furious at the...

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Community Organizer of the World

Posted November 6, 2008 | 09:25 AM (EST)


I've been working on algebraic equations with my daughter Kit. She kind of hates them. I kind of like them. They are so tidy. To solve for "x", you have to keep each side of the equation in balance. Maybe it's because I'm a Libra -- I like the whole...

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You Know What I'm Saying?

Posted October 20, 2008 | 11:37 AM (EST)


I spent the weekend canvassing in Pittsburgh. I was part of an LGBT posse from NYC. We drove (a long way). Our charge was twofold. First, we would canvass in a very poor African American neighborhood. Pro-Obama but historically very low turnout. I guess you have to feel like you...

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I Was Born in a Small Town.

Posted September 10, 2008 | 03:50 PM (EST)


I was born in Amityville, New York. Small town. About the size, let's say, of Wasilla, Alaska. My mom was born there too. She's 81 and still lives there. Plays bridge two or three times a week. She has a wide circle of friends, some of whom she has known...

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The Chickens are Voting For Colonel Sanders

Posted September 3, 2008 | 09:54 AM (EST)


I thought the Log Cabin Republicans would withhold their endorsement of John McCain. Maybe I just hoped they would. After all, they withheld their endorsement of President Bush in 2004. So I thought it was possible.

In making its endorsement today, the group pointed to the Arizona senator's opposition to...

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What Americans Think of Sarah Palin

Posted September 1, 2008 | 12:32 PM (EST)


My friend and neighbor Bobbi came over for a visit yesterday. We were both back in New Jersey after our trip to Denver for the convention. Our primary agenda item was to recap our respective experiences at what we both understood was an historic convention and a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. We...

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Juvenile Protesters

Posted August 28, 2008 | 10:43 AM (EST)


Some folks here in Denver try to avoid the protesters. They take a circuitous route, they keep talking with their chums, they look the other way. Lots of people make light of the chants and the signs.

I've been a protester so I pay attention.

And I think because of...

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