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Why Mitt Romney Should Open Up About His Mormon Story

Posted: 08/24/2012 9:14 am

MSNBC is airing "Mitt Romney: The Making of a Candidate," a one-hour documentary featuring an exclusive one-on-one interview with the presidential candidate himself.

The program comes at a time when many media voices are calling on Gov. Romney to tell the story of his Mormonism with more candor. After remaining tight-lipped throughout the campaign, he now appears more willing to oblige, even by incorporating stories from his faith life into his presentation at the Republican National Convention.

As a Mormon, I am glad Romney will share a bit more of his Mormon story because his avoidance of the subject has given off the impression that Mormonism is something to be ashamed of.

I know Mitt Romney doesn't feel that way about his faith. Neither do I.

Still, the fact remains that many LDS people are ambivalent when it comes to talking about our religion with non-Mormons. Sometimes we proselytize; sometimes we circle the wagons defensively, a habit we've learned in response to the curiosity, ridicule and even antagonism that have been a fact of Mormon experience since the faith's founding in the 1830s. In response, non-Mormons often interpret our guardedness to mean that Mormons are being less than candid about our history and doctrine.

What's missing from the public conversation are more stories from the lives of everyday Mormons -- stories focused not on points of doctrine but on the human dimensions of living this demanding faith.

I've hungered for those stories too. Growing up in an observant Mormon household in Southern California, I was a voracious reader who fell asleep pointing a flashlight at a book under the covers. But I never encountered books about Mormon girls like me -- girls who inhabited a world of Book of Mormon stories, Utah vacations, interminable church meetings, bench-seated family vans and home-baked bread. I turned, instead, to the Little House on the Prairie books, silently imagining through their feisty and flawed heroine Laura Ingalls Wilder what life must have been like for my Mormon pioneer ancestors as they crossed the American plains.

As a tween-aged volunteer at the local public library, I discovered painfully tender puberty sagas like "Deenie" by Judy Blume. I even stumbled into experimental works of African-American literature like Ntozake Shange's for colored girls who have considered suicide and absorbed its stories of grown-woman heartbreaks with wide-eyed amazement. Books like these were quite a departure from the volumes of just-for-teenagers short stories I found at LDS Church-owned bookstores. Those Mormon stories always seemed to end with Sunday-School-perfect answers, but I didn't care: I was so hungry for Mormon content that I was even willing to swallow a little saccharine.

As an adult, I've made books my profession. I've studied inspiring and heart-stopping life writing from every conceivable American era, region, race and culture. Yet I've seen the "Mormonism" shelf at the bookstore stacked with breathless confessionals or sensational exposes written by non-Mormons, with stories written by everyday Mormons about our regular lives few and far between.

That's why I wrote "The Book of Mormon Girl: A Memoir of an American Faith," putting onto paper my own Mormon story of growing up an ordinary American girl in an extraordinary American faith and of confronting big questions about belief and belonging -- as all people of faith do.

I wrote this book because I believe that one person tells his or her story with honesty, humor and tenderness it encourages others to do the same as well. More Mormons need to start writing and telling our own stories -- stories that spare none of the hard parts and reflect the deeply human yearnings and flaws we share with people of other faiths, and no faith at all.

Mitt Romney is not the one to lead that charge. He is, after all, running for president, and has some pretty serious challenges on his plate. But if he does decide to reveal a bit more of his Mormon story at the Convention and during the last weeks of the campaign, he will show by example that Mormons have nothing to be ashamed of in sharing our stories more openly, and nothing to fear.

 

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07:05 PM on 08/29/2012
Arguing about the peripherals regarding the Mormon church is non productive. The questions concerning Mormonism can be resolved by knowing the answer to one key issue. Did Joseph Smith see Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ? If he did, he was a prophet; if he did not, he was a charlatan. If he did in fact see the 2 heavenly beings, then it would follow that the Book of Mormon, and the Church are true.
05:35 AM on 08/31/2012
My last entry should be amended to read.
....."The questions concerning Mormonism can be resolved by knowing the answer to one key question; is the Book of Mormon true? If the Book of Mormon is true, then Joseph Smith was a prophet who saw Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. Also, the LDS Church is the restored Church referenced in the Book of Revelation."
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xxixpines
Truth often causes wailing and gnashing of teeth
01:19 PM on 09/07/2012
your personal theology with disregard to truth was well understood in the first post but thanks for the clarification.
02:57 PM on 08/27/2012
Nothing to be ashamed of? Seriously? Does he believe the story of Joseph Smith? Does he believe that jesus will rule some time during the end of days from Missouri? Does he think either of these beliefs, if aired during a presidential election, wouldn't ruin his chances for holding office?
02:49 PM on 08/27/2012
My name is Joanna and I have a book to sell.
01:41 PM on 08/27/2012
"14 Fundamental Ways To Follow The Prophet of the Mormon Church"

1. The prophet is the only man who speaks for the Lord in everything.
2. The living prophet is more vital to us than the standard works.
3. The living prophet is more important to us than a dead prophet.
4. The prophet will never lead the Church astray.
5. The prophet is not required to have any particular earthly training or credentials to speak on any subject or act on any matter at any time.
6. The prophet does not have to say “Thus saith the Lord” to give us scripture.
7. The prophet tells us what we need to know, not always what we want to know.
8. The prophet is not limited by men’s reasoning.
9. The prophet can receive revelation on any matter, temporal or spiritual.
10. The prophet may be involved in civic matters.
11. The two groups who have the greatest difficulty in following the prophet are the proud who are learned and the proud who are rich.
12. The prophet will not necessarily be popular with the world or the worldly.
13. The prophet and his counselors make up the First Presidency — the highest quorum in the Church.
14. The prophet and the presidency — the living prophet and the First Presidency — follow them and be blessed; reject them and suffer.

Here is a website called, "Follow the Prophet."
http://www.followtheprophet.net/

Mitt Romney's religious beliefs DO matter.
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xxixpines
Truth often causes wailing and gnashing of teeth
01:23 PM on 09/07/2012
That is a link to the "real" president of the United States, should Romney be elected.

The white horse prophecy fullfiled.
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Brooke123456
God is ....(fill in the blank how you like)
09:44 AM on 08/27/2012
"given off the impression that Mormonism is something to be ashamed of"
Given off the impression?
Believing that a known conman found gold tablets in his back yard in ancient egyptian text, and was able to translate them through a magic rock or glasses or something.....and could communicate with an invisible God that is the creator of the Universe, and that a demi god (really God) came to human life, died, was resurrected, in Israel, then made a side trip to Missouri or something, all to "save" us from something that seems rather unclear, so we can have planets or whatever, when we die.....
I could go on...but if you really believe that, then you should be ashamed.
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03:18 AM on 08/27/2012
One of the reasons Mittsy is not releasing his tax returns is the same tax dodges that got his Federal Tax rate down to 13% or lower probably lowered his 10% Mormon Tithe.

No, he's not going to say much about Mormonism.
11:21 PM on 08/26/2012
Here's a list of questions that would need to be asked of a practicing Mormon to "demystify" the religion:

1) There are over 70 prophets in the Mormon Church. All of these officials are men, and almost all of them are white. Would the Mormon Church ever select a woman to be in the Quorum of the Seventy?

2) A quick look at Wikipedia shows that Mormonism and Free Masonry were combined during Joseph Smith's time to create the secret rituals that are practiced in Mormon temples around the world. Not one Protestant denomination builds temples or practices these non-Christian rituals. Can you explain what these rituals are all about?

3) Many ex-Mormons have left the LDS Church because they felt that the culture was too oppressive and conformity was mandatory. Do you know any ex-Mormons? Do they have a point?

4) Can you tell us about Joseph Smith's attempts to translate the Book of Abraham and please explain why historians since the 19th century have said that Joseph Smith's translation is fraudulent. Is the Book of Abraham still used by the LDS Church today?

5) If the LDS Church continues to evolve, what essential parts of the Church will always remain? Is the First Presidency selected by God? Is Thomas Monson God's selected prophet for the world? For Mormons and non-Mormons?

6) Do you think there is a disconnect between the LDS members and their leaders high up in the Mormon Church?
01:38 PM on 08/27/2012
Mormons are taught to "follow the prophet" no matter what.

<strong>"President Marion G. Romney tells of this incident, which happened to him: I remember years ago when I was a Bishop I had President Heber J. Grant talk to our ward. After the meeting I drove him home….Standing by me, he put his arm over my shoulder and said: “My boy, you always keep your eye on the President of the Church, and if he ever tells you to do anything, and it is wrong, and you do it, the Lord will bless you for it.” Then with a twinkle in his eye, he said, “But you don’t need to worry. The Lord will never let his mouthpiece lead the people astray.” (In Conference Report, October 1), p. 78"</strong>

Here is more proof.  

First, a video on the subject:

<strong>Examining the Mormon's Fourteen Fundamentals</strong>
<iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/BJ0alO-fSEM" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
And now for the entire list:

<strong>The 14 Fundamental Ways To Follow The Prophet of the Mormon Church

    1. The prophet is the only man who speaks for the Lord in everything.
    2. The living prophet is more vital to us than the standard works.
    3. The living prophet is more important to us than a dead prophet.
    4. The prophet will never lead the Church astray.
    5. The prophet is not required to have any particular earthly training or credentials to speak on any subject or act on any matter at any time.
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Ninja Spaniel
Renewable energy is homeland security.
10:58 PM on 08/26/2012
People don't want to hear personal stories; they want to hear more about the mechanisms and doctrine of Mormon faith, which is shrouded in secrecy and hidden cult-like behavior. Add to that the arrogance surrounding leadership, more particularly the men in this group, and it's a problem for even the most tolerant of voters.
04:20 PM on 08/30/2012
Visit mormon.org
10:05 PM on 08/26/2012
Let's face it...highly educated people can believe all sorts of crazy stuff when it comes to religions...Brigham Young reportedly said that Joseph Smith, Jr. will determine who gets into heaven...both were profligate bigamists...and what about those gold tablets...Catholics believe the bread and wine become the body of Christ in the Eucharist...isn't that cannibalism/?...and one could go on...why this is so cannot be explained in any rational manner...and no one leaves their religion at the door when they go to work...it all must be the will of God as there can be no other...the generator, operator, destroyer...ergo Theofatalism....google for details..
01:27 AM on 08/27/2012
Actually, Jesus Christ is the "Keeper at the Gate of Heaven". We do not believe that Joseph Smith Jr will determine who gets into heaven.
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Brooke123456
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10:58 AM on 08/27/2012
oh, well that is just so much more sane! Thanks for clarifying!
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09:19 PM on 08/26/2012
The worst thing about Mormons is their absolute smug demeanor. I never heard of anybody or any religion that is so cocksure of their superiority. And that is speaking from experience, not making it up.
01:24 AM on 08/27/2012
The Jews believe they are God's chosen people.
The Catholics believe theirs is the one and only true Church founded by Jesus Christ who commissioned St Peter as the first pope, and they have an unbroken line of succession from the current pope back to St Peter. They also believe that the pope is God's representative on earth and that the restoration of the Gospel spoken of by John in the Book of Revelation will happen when all the other Christian denominations will reunite with the Catholic church and acknowledge the authority of the pope (or so I was told by the Catholic nuns who taught me in parochial school.
The Muslims believe that non-Muslims are infidels.
I suspect that there are other religions that teach that their faith is the one and only true one.
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12:27 PM on 08/27/2012
Nearly all do. It's part of the requirement to keep people attending services in specific buildings and dropping money into specific baskets. I wish adherents of all religions were required to take at least one training course in the psychology of religion.
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GoodwithWood
Dis eas all yoooour fault
11:27 PM on 08/27/2012
Mormons take it to a whole other level.
They’re so sure they’re the one and only true church that they must "save" the dead by baptizing them into their church.
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03:20 AM on 08/27/2012
so true
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07:46 PM on 08/26/2012
Maybe he is afraid the fact that his grandfather fled to Mexico in order to take as many wives as he wanted. That is why Mitt's father was born in Mexico.
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06:55 PM on 08/26/2012
Nothing to be ashamed of? Mormons should have told that to black people before 1978, when the official position of the LDS was that black people are black because they're cursed by God. To this day black people are still not allowed in the best churches and positions within the LDS.
01:29 AM on 08/27/2012
Black people are allowed into the best of our churches and are called to be General Authorities.
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05:26 AM on 08/27/2012
Are they or are they not permitted in the highest of your heavens?
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06:51 PM on 08/26/2012
And black people are black because they're cursed by God.

But only until 1978.

If we're allowed to state our opinions in these forums, Mormonism in my view is arguably the silliest religion in human history.
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04:17 AM on 08/27/2012
To qualify the above I'm referring to the theology and history of the religion, not their charitable work and most of their other activities.
05:51 PM on 08/26/2012
http://exmormon.org/
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05:35 PM on 08/26/2012
The fundamental Mormon story is completely cracked, bad science fiction. The only shame is in believing it.
06:16 PM on 08/26/2012
Whats your critique on the fundamental Christain story?
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12:19 AM on 08/27/2012
All religions have their crazy stories, starting with the idea of gods. The Mormon one is just the most recent, and the fact that Joe Smith's nutty story was taken seriously in relatively modern times makes it particularly bizarre.
07:41 AM on 08/27/2012
The problem with Christianity is they have ancient scriptures that must be believed, but they contain flaws. Mormonism made the mistake of adding to the stack of flawed books that must be believed, so they have even more contradictions to deal with, and their people have to be even more unquestioning for it to work.
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jorjan
08:00 PM on 08/26/2012
People should read "Under the Banner of Heaven" to get a real history of the Mormon church. It certainly is not "Donny & Marie". Talks about the massacre of a wagon train on this mountain where the Mormons dressed as Indians killed these people because they wanted to take their guns, supplies and horses and then blame it on the Indians. They were run out of Illinois and Missouri because of their arrogance and polygamist beliefs. Since they believe that God talks to them, they have a high rate of splinter groups (higher than any other religions). Also the book "The Mormon Murders" tell how they seek to hide their early beginnings and lock items pertaining to that up where noone can question them. When you have a religion that bans all contact with your family if they are not in the church, what you have is a cult plain and simple. If you are so afraid that ex Mormon's will steal away their loved ones from the church then you haven't got much of a real religion do you? All cults do this i.e. Jehovah's Witnesses, Scientology, Moonies, Heaven's Gate, etal. I could never ever believe that God would want us to shun our loved ones like that.
05:00 PM on 08/27/2012
Great suggestion, jorjan. I've read many books on the Mormon topic and "Under the Banner" is definitely well-researched and well written. Your comment about banning family contact is also true -- one of my friends remains heartbroken after his 20-year-old daughter left college to marry a Mormon. My friend and an entourage of lifelong friends and relatives made the trip to the Washington, D.C. area (site of the nearest temple) and were literally told at the door that they could not enter. When my friend's wife was dying of breast and brain cancer, his daughter and her church friends offered no comfort, no visits, no help with caregiving, not even any of the infamous Mormon casseroles. BUT in his wife's final days, when she was barely lucid, the daughter finally visited. She brought a man into the hospital and they "converted" his wife to Mormonism.