Our closest relationships affect every part of us. If they are not going well, they take our body, mind, and soul down with them.
See, if a relationship is going down the tubes, it will zap your energy.
The energy you put forth to make my relationships better is not a sacrifice. When you give to a good, mutual relationship, you get back much more than you give. When you don't give, you are drained by the tension and disappointment.
Significant relationships are to support you and help you shine brighter and stronger. They are worth your efforts.
In this video, I show you how to make the significant people in your life feel important, close, and loved so that your relationships grow more vital and uplifting.*
Here's the list so you remember.
When you greet your love, let him or her feel like the most important object of your moment. Make eye contact. Touch them and make sure you smile.
Look for something to comment on. Generously compliment ideas, actions or traits. This is win-win because you feel better, too, when you noticed the good things.
3. Do things you don't want to do.
Get involved in what your love is interested in, even if you don't like it. You may change your mind and it may be a wonderful experience, even if it is just watching them be happy. Your love will feel special and cherished. You'll feel included instead of left out.
4. Don't jump to getting defensive.
Take a moment before responding if you feel upset. Make sure you listen to what your love is implicitly saying. Have compassion for what they are feeling and attend to that before you get defensive and focus on yourself.
When your love is upset, get more gentle and loving. Your understanding and care will help calm them. Give hugs, listen and ask what you can do to help.
What did I miss? What are some of the ways you keep your relationship passionate and happy?
*If your partner is abusive, please don't take these suggestions.
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