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Jody Gastfriend
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As the Vice President of Senior Care Services at Care.com, Jody Gastfriend is a licensed clinical social worker with more than 25 years of experience in the field of eldercare.

Jody’s broad range of leadership positions include Director of the Department of Social Services and Case Management at Lawrence Memorial Hospital, Clinical Supervisor within the Social Service Department of Massachusetts General Hospital, Chief Operating Officer of a Medicare-certified visiting nurse association, and Director of Adult Care Services at a national backup care company where she established a successful and expansive eldercare division serving more than 130,000 employees.

Jody shares the personal journey of her clients, having helped manage the care of her own parent with dementia for more than a decade. She has consulted to individuals, professional societies and corporations in the field of eldercare. Additionally, Jody has lectured widely on topics related to aging and work/family balance to audiences that include family caregivers, HR administrators, health care professionals and policymakers. A featured senior care expert on NBC and Fox News, Jody has published numerous articles on caregiving and aging, including a 5-part series in USA Today.

Jody received her BA, Magna Cum Laude, from Tufts University, and her Masters Degree in Social Work from Simmons College School of Social Work.

Blog Entries by Jody Gastfriend

Carole King and The Sisterhood of Natural Women

(0) Comments | Posted May 22, 2013 | 4:26 PM

"I feel the earth move under my feet; I feel the sky tumbling down..."

When Carole King, the legendary singer/songwriter, belted out these words at a fundraiser this week, I felt myself tumbling through time. This inimitable song from Tapestry, King's 1971 best-selling album of all-time, has...

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Reveling in Retirement

(1) Comments | Posted May 15, 2013 | 5:56 PM

I love a good fantasy.

These days, I find myself fantasizing about what I might do in my retirement. What trips I'll take, volunteer work I'll do, time I can spend bugging my kids.

And so, at my friend Susan's retirement party, I was most anxious to hear what...

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My Father's Mistress

(1) Comments | Posted February 14, 2013 | 5:25 AM

My folks recently celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary. That's right: Sixty years of mutual devotion, regular frustration, occasional spats and a fierce commitment to the greater good. There were no hot air balloon rides or tandem sky jumping stunts. No open bar. Not even a harbor cruise. The auspicious milestone...

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A Valentine's Day Love Letter to My Younger Self

(1) Comments | Posted February 13, 2013 | 11:21 AM

Being a woman "of age" has its advantages. One of the biggest is knowing how things will turn out. During this season of valentines, I'm going to pen a love letter to my younger self, reassuring her about life's major milestones and telling her what I now know: It will...

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Navigating The Caregiving Frontier: 6 Steps To Accepting Your New Normal

(1) Comments | Posted February 9, 2013 | 5:56 AM

Imagine a GPS that guides you easily along a road for hundreds of miles, then suddenly the voice command blurts out, "Turn left...No turn right! Make a U-turn. Stop! Go!" You'd feel pretty frazzled, right? Well, that's what caregiving is often like, particularly for those who are caught off guard....

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5 Tips For Holiday Guests: Show Up And Shut Up

(7) Comments | Posted December 21, 2012 | 1:36 PM

I recently attended a wonderful bar mitzvah. It was stunning. Afterwards, I called my friend (let's call him "Jonathan"), the gracious host, to tell him. I couldn't believe his response: "I'm glad I have friends who know how to behave."

He then recounted the litany of faux pas visited upon...

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Seniors and the Holidays: 4 Ways to Develop a Plan of Care

(0) Comments | Posted December 10, 2012 | 3:19 PM

Sometimes the signs are right there in front of you -- whether you can spot them immediately or not. For me, it was during the holidays, when my dad wandered away from a family gathering and emerged hours later, disheveled and upset.

"Where were you?" my mother asked, aghast...

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The "I Can't Remember Sh*t Club"

(11) Comments | Posted November 25, 2012 | 7:00 AM

A few weeks ago my sister sent me an apologetic email. She had forgotten my son's birthday. The same week she couldn't remember where she parked her car and she lost one of her favorite earrings. Her excuse? "I'm a card carrying member of the "I can't remember sh*t club,"...

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Political Drama: Let's Agree To Disagree, Shall We?

(0) Comments | Posted November 6, 2012 | 8:29 AM

The 2012 campaign season has been a real mud fest. And, unlike with other extreme sports, no one seems to find this display entertaining. Ask almost anyone you run in to at the supermarket or neighborhood coffeehouse and they'll tell you they hate negative campaign ads and speeches.
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Passing The Turkey And The Torch: What To Look For When You Go Home For The Holidays

(0) Comments | Posted October 25, 2012 | 11:00 AM

As the holidays approach, I want to share a story with you. It's the story of a friend of mine, Noreen* -- a typical sandwich-generation mom and daughter who had many people and priorities to juggle. But it was at Thanksgiving last year when she realized something needed to change....

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Work Should Not Be A Four Letter Word

(11) Comments | Posted October 17, 2012 | 9:06 AM

When I speak to my son and his friends who are entering the workforce, I give simple advice: Do something you love. And don't work for assholes.

Sounds easy enough, doesn't it? But it has taken me a lifetime of trial and error to figure out how to make...

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Patience is a Hard-Won Virtue

(0) Comments | Posted October 4, 2012 | 5:05 PM

A recent CNN headline proclaims, "Smartphones make us superhuman." The story goes on to cite the myriad ways in which handheld communication devices -- complete with multimedia recording and sharing capabilities -- have changed the world. Injustices have been revealed, revolutions abetted and routine chores simplified by modern...

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Fall-Out

(3) Comments | Posted September 2, 2012 | 9:21 AM

Blissful, unscheduled summer is ending and all too soon, autumn will be upon us. While I do have wonderful memories of Fall in New England (truly, I believe Massachusetts is the best place to appreciate the natural, spectacular change in seasons), what I mostly recall -- frantically preparing for

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Is Your Marriage Graying?

(3) Comments | Posted August 10, 2012 | 2:01 PM

Am I the only one who barely (no pun intended) got through book one of Fifty Shades of Grey? Most of the women in my book club, all ages 50 and over, couldn't put it down. E L James' trilogy, which delves into the more esoteric, hard-edged aspects...

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Music Can Be Gentle on the Mind

(0) Comments | Posted August 1, 2012 | 6:27 PM

My friend described the experience of seeing Glen Campbell in concert in one word: Amazing.

Glen Campbell -- the eternal Rhinestone Cowboy -- captivated the standing-room-only baby boomer audience. They cheered, danced and sang as Campbell's sonorous voice echoed through the concert hall. As he belted out...

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Beach Books With Heart and Soul

(1) Comments | Posted July 17, 2012 | 12:21 PM

Beach books promise escape. Frothy language, plucky heroines, flawed heroes and convoluted -- but ultimately predictable -- plots take us away from mundane woes. How can the kids squabbling, coworkers complaining, and house guests taking over the spare bedroom compare to the thrill of illicit affairs, ancient artifacts and death-defying...

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Belly Dancing and Laughter: How to Add Years to Your Life - or Life to Your Years

(2) Comments | Posted June 27, 2012 | 4:05 PM

I hosted a belly dancing class at my house last Saturday night. Ten women showed up, ranging in age from 54 to 64. The teacher, who sold the class to me as a fundraiser for an arts organization, was herself just shy of 60 and has been belly dancing for...

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What I Love About Dad: A Father's Day Tribute

(1) Comments | Posted June 14, 2012 | 5:48 PM

It's part of the American mythology: Dad as hero. He's bigger, stronger and smarter than anyone else, and you can always count on him to ride to the rescue. At least that's the way it's supposed to be.

Sociologists could have a field day sorting out the gender stereotypes and...

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Boomerangers: Returning To A Couch Near You

(17) Comments | Posted June 11, 2012 | 8:31 AM

My friend leans forward, gripping her latte with both hands. "He looked so peaceful, lying there on the couch with an afghan bunched under his head," she said. "I could hear him snoring slightly -- just like he did when he was a baby. Sound asleep. And you know what?...

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From Mother to Daughter: Gifts We Pass On, Burdens We Wish We Hadn't

(0) Comments | Posted May 13, 2012 | 7:26 AM

Mother's Day cards make me laugh. I'm not talking about the wild-and-bawdy cards for single-again Moms or even the sound-chip cards showcasing a chorus of tiara-topped poodles. No, I laugh at all those heartfelt cards that pour forth with flowery verses and profusions of adverbs, all designed to express some...

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