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The Abortion Stalemate: Can 'I Don't Know' Break It?

Posted: 10/23/11 09:54 AM ET

When does a fetus become a human being? I don't know. Do you?

A lot of people think they do. We have heard a great deal from them since 1973 and Roe v. Wade. In the process, the two sides have fought pitched battles on a host of issues. They have made little if any progress toward dialogue with each other.

Perhaps we should start the discussion over. Perhaps "I don't know" is the place to start.

Perspectives on when human life begins have covered the spectrum over the past three millennia or so. The Greek Stoics believed that the fetus was not human till the moment of birth. Aristotle asserted that the embryo takes on a human soul 40 to 90 days after conception, depending on gender. The notion of "quickening" -- when the woman could first sense movement in her womb -- was sometimes used as a dividing line between ethical and unethical abortion. St. Augustine, in his Enchiridion, suggested that this question "may be most carefully discussed by the most learned men, and still I do not know that any man can answer it." (For more on the variety of approaches to the question, see Justice Harry Blackmun's opinion in Roe v. Wade.)

True, Augustine didn't have access to ultrasound. One might argue that today's medical technology has proven what the ancients could only guess at. But while it has informed the debate to a great degree, it cannot provide a definitive answer, because "becoming human" is not a scientific question but a spiritual or philosophical one. And who can answer any such question definitively? Even that great bastion of Christian dogma, the Apostles' Creed--to which the Church has demanded undying fealty over the centuries--starts not with "I know," but with "I believe."

So the answer to "when does a fetus become a human being?" is a matter of belief, not certainty. But before we retreat back into those beliefs, and the pitched battles that have accompanied them, perhaps we should dwell with "I don't know" for a while.

Why? Because "I don't know" can jolt us out of our timeworn certainties. Consider this: If the human status of a fetus is a matter of belief, whose belief holds sway? In a free society, can we honestly prohibit individual believers from exploring and acting upon answers for themselves? Ironically, this question describes what, on most issues today, would be called a conservative position -- leave the decision-making power closest to the local community and the individual citizen -- yet many self-styled conservatives would cringe at this choice.

"I don't know" is no easier for those in favor of legal abortion. If human life might begin at any time between conception and birth, wouldn't it be better to err on the side of caution and discourage abortions at any time, or at least earlier in the gestation cycle than we do currently? After all, conception is the first moment when all the building blocks to make a human being are in place.

"I don't know," if we take it seriously, pushes us to relax our grip on our cherished certainty -- at least long enough to consider the possibility that we may be wrong. When the certainty goes, so does the strident hostility that often accompanies it. Relieved of that anger, we have a window of opportunity to look afresh at people on the "other side" and ponder the question with them, rather than shout at them.

Gil Fronsdal, a Buddhist teacher and Soto Zen priest, suggests a meditation practice that involves adding "I don't know" to every thought. In meditation and throughout our daily lives--especially when we find ourselves judging our actions or those of others--we respond with "I don't know." "Repeating the words 'I don't know' allows us to question tightly-held ideas," Fronsdal writes. "Done thoroughly, 'I don't know' can pull the rug out from under our most cherished beliefs."

Abortion is an extraordinarily multifaceted issue, and the question of the fetus's humanity is but one (albeit an important one) among many. But if "I don't know" enabled us to explore this question together, we might build a foundation to explore the other questions as well. Who knows how far that might take us?

 

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AUveritas
John 6:68
11:02 AM on 10/28/2011
If human life might begin at any time between conception and birth, wouldn't it be better to err on the side of caution and discourage abortions at any time

This is the very reason pro abortionists will never admit the truth of your premise.
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goatini
We are two-legged wombs, that’s all
04:48 PM on 10/28/2011
Since only living, breathing persons can be citizens, ergo, only those born are persons, wouldn't it be better to mind your own business?

You and your wife are welcome to err on the side of whatever you want to err on. You do NOT have the right to err on MY human, civil and Constitutional rights.
11:46 PM on 11/02/2011
Thank you AUveritas. You are fav'ed:)
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Dr Idris
polymathy is not understanding
01:34 AM on 10/27/2011
Well said. Neither side can convince the other re the beginning of life. and the religious dogmatists do not even try. But science does not, cannot have the answer either. And even the Church Father Augustine, the most influential western Christian thinker had his unresolved doubts on the issue ("pace" the teachings of his Church.) Therefore metaphysics remains necessary. Indeed, it is a philosophical question.
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gloriaswanson43
Ask and you will get more info.
07:47 PM on 10/26/2011
"I don't know." There are many things I don't know. It's a terrific place to be, this land of I don't know. There's so much to learn and much exploring to do!

No, I don't know when a fetus? zygote? becomes a human being. I guess I would have to say that when the pregnancy is wanted, it's a baby. If it's not wanted, you can call it whatever you like as long as a woman isn't forced to carry it to term. This isn't about the baby. This isn't about life, really. This is about control. This is about women having sex outside of wedlock (like that has ever really made a difference, men would cheat on their wives and leave their families even in olden days) and women not wanting to be slaves to their own biology. We want to plan our families. We don't see ourselves as brood mares, dropping a baby every time a sperm connects with an egg. We have more to offer than just what our wombs present.
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Claude Hosch
A single bracelet does not jingle
07:40 PM on 10/25/2011
Heres an idea. Lets stop presuming what others would do or say, and focus on what we would do.

I would start by getting material to get the pregnant teen more informed early in the process, offer assistance such as a ride to the doc, or babysit. I have a practice of getting pamper after birth, for young teens I know of. Makes me feel good, and they feel better for it. We all have waaaaaaaaaay too much time. I could give up 20% of my fb and blog time in the fight against abortion. Your turn.
02:35 PM on 10/26/2011
You are 'informing' her much too late in the process, if you wait until she is pregnant. By then it is too late to reasonably expect her to evaluate information rationally, the emotions pushing her one way or the other already have the upper hand.

And no, it is not just in women or pregnant women that such situations arise, where the emotions sieze the upper hand and it is too late for reason. But this situation is one of the most conspicuous in its class.
06:25 PM on 10/26/2011
Every life choice is emotional. Some choices are more considered than others.
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Claude Hosch
A single bracelet does not jingle
07:25 PM on 10/25/2011
"I don't know" might be a good start. Perhaps, go back to before abortion became legal, and both mother and baby were dying in back alley abortions. Making it illegal doesn't stop it any more than the speed limit stops us from speeding. Making abortion legal didn't start abortions, and making it illegal wont stop it.

One place we can start is to separate sex from pregnancy. In the moral sense sex outside marriage is wrong; I never read that being pregnant is wrong or bad. If we nurtured unwed mothers more it would go a long way toward stopping abortion. Then, we could apply the same effort to teen sex.
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Cye
06:55 AM on 10/27/2011
I disagree with your comment that sex outside of marriage is wrong. But I think your post is otherwise correct and insightful.
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GHY1
04:41 PM on 10/25/2011
I sometimes wonder what would happen if local government could decide if abortion was OK in their town or even precinct. Would that lead to all out war or would people learn to live with abortion being OK. It seems that after a few states legalized gay marriage it has gained a lot more acceptance pretty fast. I wonder how soon that will happen to abortion
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goatini
We are two-legged wombs, that’s all
04:55 PM on 10/28/2011
I wonder what would happen if anyone interfering with a female US citizen's Constitutionally protected right to and access to reproductive health care options, services and options would be vigorously prosecuted to the full extent of the law.

Prosecution and punishment are, sadly, the only ways to bring this War on Women to an end.
10:43 AM on 10/25/2011
"When does a foetus become human" is a very easy question to answer - birth. It's like asking when a child becomes an adult(the answer is post-pubescent btw). Both are self-evident states of development

Philosophers and other social actors(whom I have nothing but disdain for) seek to alter very simple, objective definitions to further their own agendas and worldviews.
01:49 PM on 10/26/2011
Wrong answers are always easy. There is nothing 'objective' about your 'definition'.
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ZenGardner
This is NOT the Zen you're looking for.
08:19 AM on 10/25/2011
"I don't know" is the best place to start from. Will it help? I don't know.
06:18 AM on 10/25/2011
Backman asks, "When does a fetus become a human being?" The answer is simple. A human fetus IS a human being. "Human fetus" is the name science gives to human beings at a particular stage of that human being's development. "Human zygote," "human embryo," "human infant," "human adolescent," and "human adult" are terms used to describe human beings at other stages of their development.

Never, in the history of recorded science, has a non-human being turned into a human being by becoming older and bigger.
01:37 PM on 10/25/2011
No, but a human cancer, for example, or a human liver, is still human. It doesn't turn into any other species, whatever you do to it. Still doesn't make them "A BEING". That's the whole point.
A "being" is a living organism. The foetus that can't live on its own ISN'T a living organism, it's just a shuman-shaped growth in the body of a human being (yes, although it may surprise you, women ARE human BEINGS". Good luck with you philosophy !
02:45 PM on 10/26/2011
You are equivocating. The sense of the word 'human' is not the same in the two phrases, "human cancer' and 'human adult".
08:44 PM on 10/25/2011
anthonybrown, thank you very much for telling them the truth. You are fav'ed!!!
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NotEvenAmerican
03:33 AM on 10/25/2011
One of the points for me that is often overlooked in these discussions is the following:

The fetus becomes a person when the mother makes an positive emotional connection to carrying the fetus to term. The commitment to a positive outcome. This may include the quickening, it may include when she realises she is pregnant, it may be when she shares the news with family.

But to ask any woman to carry, against her will, a child to term is to commit her to a sentence without a trial. In the specific cases of rape - this is clear. In the cases of medical viability, and a woman knows her child is damaged - the same. In the case of a woman knowing she is bringing her child into a life of poverty, yet another version of this issue.

If the fetus is carried by a woman who is hostile to it, I wonder if the right to lifers have considered the inherent possibility in that case that the 'host' and negative feelings/behaviours/actions may actually damage this 'soul' in the long run?

The fact remains 'we don't know' if that's the case, so who would want to risk in-utero emotional damage?

Just a thought.
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TuoulumneFlower
Not anymore.
12:01 PM on 10/25/2011
Fanned and faved. This can be boiled down to an old pro-choice saying: if you can't trust me with a choice, how can you trust me with a child?
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NotEvenAmerican
09:52 PM on 10/25/2011
You know, my ex used to yell and scream at me while I was pregnant with our daughter, and the fear and adrenalin would course through me - and she would kick and become very active. After she was born, she would burst into tears as the sound of his voice.

Always made me wonder if there was a similar association that they claim with music?

Either way, I came to that conclusion when I had her: you've got to want that child or what damage are you causing it?
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iLdoRight
Encouraging The Rightest Rightness
02:14 AM on 10/25/2011
Jesus said we should not hinder the little children from coming to Him, some Jewish say they are still waiting for the Messiah. How is He or they suppose to get past the abortionist?
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GDWhiteman
Christian mystic iconoclast
09:56 AM on 10/25/2011
Personally, I have no doubt that God is capable of getting a Messiah past the abortionist.

In response to your comment to the effect that you don't believe there's any such thing as a Christian mystic: Christian mysticism has been around for a long, long time. An argument can be made that Jesus disciples were the first Christian mystics. Rather than rely on religious beliefs and intellectual knowledge, Christian mystics want to know (as in "sexual intercourse intimacy") God on an experiential basis in the present moment- seeking transformation thru actual relationship into unity with God.

Rather than attempting to set ourselves up as some kind of Pope (the supposedly "ultimate" leader of a fear-based religion dishonestly named after Christ), mystics seek only the removal of ourselves from that which intervenes between us and an utterly intimate relationship with God - first and foremost in that would be freeing ourselves of the illusion that we are God or can control Him in any way be it thru sacrifices or belief systems.
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iLdoRight
Encouraging The Rightest Rightness
05:58 PM on 10/25/2011
Sorry, I should have stated my objection to your declaration that you are a "Christian mystic" more on the order of, According to Scripture there are no humans who have any approval from Our Creator to refer to their self as a "Christian mystic". 1 Chronicles 10:13,14 "So Saul died for his transgression which he committed against the LORD; which he kept not, and also for asking counsel of one that had a familiar spirit, to inquire of it; And inquired not of the LORD" John 8:44 "...When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it" Anyone can say they are a "Doctor" a "Physician" but there are those in society who like God have the right to confer such titles and authority on people who are qualified. I should have said, "From my Scriptural knowledge, I do not believe Our Creator has authorized anyone to be a "Christian mystic".
01:40 PM on 10/25/2011
"Little children" are not the same as "embryos" or "foetuses". Learn your English. A child is past the age of a baby and that of a toddler.
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iLdoRight
Encouraging The Rightest Rightness
05:32 PM on 10/25/2011
" If men strive, and hurt a woman with child, so that her fruit depart from her, and yet no mischief follow: he shall be surely punished, according as the woman's husband will lay upon him; and he shall pay as the judges determine. And if any mischief follow, then thou shalt give life for life " Exodus 21:22,23 Anyone who wants Our Creator's approval will always try to error on the side of caution and study the Scriptures to try and understand Our Creator's thinking on various matters. Some take a "Jobs", "the rules don't apply to me" attitude. I believe the God who says "not even a sparrow falls to the ground without my knowing it" has a better judgement of all than any human has.
01:52 PM on 10/26/2011
You are the one who has to learn English. Don't you know what the expression means, "she is with child"? That is perfectly fine if archaic English, where 'child' refers to the child still in the womb.
11:59 PM on 10/24/2011
What's always missing from the debate is the motivation for abortion in the first place. If a mother hamster is short of nourishment she will summarily eat the runt so that she will survive to nourish the others. The tragedy is not abortion, but the unwanted pregnancy, particularly an economically disastrous pregnancy. This is people with their backs to the wall; a few very bad options. "Should" doesn't buy you much.
10:28 AM on 10/26/2011
An unfortunate subtext in the discussion is the visible intent of forced-birthers to make contraception unavailable. The only acceptable method is rhythm, and you know what? People who practice rhythm as a method of birth control are called parents.
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busterggi
I'm a Sally Randian
02:00 PM on 10/24/2011
If believers weren't intent of shoving their dogma down everyone else's throats there wouldn't be a stalemate.
01:34 PM on 10/24/2011
Backman says, "Even that great bastion of Christian dogma, the Apostles' Creed--to which the Church has demanded undying fealty over the centuries--starts not with "I know," but with "I believe.""

But this misquote shows a total failure to understand not just the Creed, but even faith itself. The verb "I believe" has a few basic, different meanings, Backman chose the wrong one. In the Creed, "I believe" does not mean "I think it may be so". It means, "this is the faith handed down infallibly to us from the Apostles, who knew it from Christ himself".
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John Backman
02:28 PM on 10/24/2011
Hmm. Perhaps my sourcing needs work. I heard this idea from a priest who is so conservative that "traditional" is too liberal a term to describe him. If anyone would interpret "I believe" in the way you suggest, it would be him. And yet he was the one who pointed out the "I know"/"I believe" business.

Still, he and I could both be all wet. I'll need to dig into this further. If you have sources, I'd appreciate them.
01:57 PM on 10/26/2011
The first 'source' that comes to mind is A. V. Kartashev's "The Ecumenical Councils". But that will be hard to find in English.

The second is Henry Bettenson's "Documents of the Christian Church" which include not only the Creeds, but commentary on them and contemporary discussion of them.

Last but not least, there is Jaroslav Pelikan's classic "The Christian Tradition". You would want the first volume.
01:21 PM on 10/24/2011
The major problem wih starting from "I don't know" is that most participants in the debate will immediately use this as an excuse for the infamous fallacy of "argumentum ad ignorantium", using it to 'support' whichever side of the debate they wanted to believe already.
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John Backman
01:48 PM on 10/24/2011
You're right, that's a problem. I'm assuming people are acting in good faith--which, I know, is assuming a LOT. Truth be told, I think coming to a place of authentic dialogue on this issue would require a change of heart as well as a change of thinking: not necessarily a change from one side to another, but rather an openness to hearing different perspectives.
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GDWhiteman
Christian mystic iconoclast
11:46 AM on 10/25/2011
"rather an openness to hearing different perspectiv­es" - that may be difficult to achieve when someone believes that their perspective is synonymous with God's and proceeds to total certainty that anything else is absolutely "morally" wrong.
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PhilosopherJon
Just self-sustaining chemistry.
11:04 AM on 10/25/2011
Yea, which is why the "I don't know" approach will discourage resolving this issue, not help.

Once you give the opportunity, all those who would succumb to such a fallacy will re-image the argument in a way that portrays science as epistemologically insufficient. These people may partly crave perpetual indecisiveness.

The problem is that no one ever seems to justify HOW neuroscience CAN'T provide this knowledge. You included, Mr. Backman.
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John Backman
10:22 AM on 10/26/2011
"The problem is that no one ever seems to justify HOW neuroscien­ce CAN'T provide this knowledge. You included, Mr. Backman."

That's a fair criticism, so let me try to answer it. It seems to me that neuroscience can describe, with great accuracy, the chemical and electrical dynamics of the human brain. I'm enthralled by what the field is discovering about the brain's effect on emotion, spirituality, etc., and I absolutely think it deserves to be taken seriously. But, in order to use these data to help us determine when a being is human, we have to agree on what human IS. Is it when the being has 40% of the functioning of a "normal" ex utero human being? 60%? Are certain capacities essential for being human and others not? How does this affect our understanding of people with profound disabilities?

I don't see that science has the tools to make this determination. Maybe this quandary demonstrates that "humanity" is an artificial construct, and therefore the question is moot, but I can't see many people buying that.

So, to the larger point: Yes, I do think science is epistemologically insufficient to explain absolutely everything. I do not crave perpetual indecisiveness. Science deserves all the respect and consideration it gets. But there are other ways of knowing, and I believe we should avail ourselves of them all.

In the spirit of this discussion, I admit that perhaps I'm all wet. Which is why I would love to hear your response.
02:02 PM on 10/26/2011
But when you object, "The problem is that no one ever seems to justify HOW neuroscien­ce CAN'T provide this knowledge", you are essentially complaining about their refusal/failure to prove a negative.

But you should know by now: proving a negative is SO hard, most people just give up and call it 'impossible'.

Now in truth, it is not always impossible (it is easy to prove that there is no line that meets a plane in exactly three points); but when possible, it still tends to be very difficult. This is why we haven't proven that the abominable snowman does not exist.