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Kids Lie Every 90 Minutes -- And That's a Good Thing (VIDEO)

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Kids are bad at lying, at least at first. In the magical fairy dust of the childhood mind, kids initially have a hard time distinguishing reality from fancy, which you can see in their eagerness to engage in imaginative play.

They also perceive their parents to be essentially omniscient, a belief that won't be completely destroyed until the 20-kiloton blast of puberty. The fuse gets lit early, though, around 36 months, when kids begin to realize that parents can't always read their minds. To their delight (or horror), children discover they can give their parents false information without its being detected. Or, at least, they think they can. The child's realization that you can't always read his or her mind coincides with the flowering of something we call Theory of Mind skills.

What is Theory of Mind? This video from brainrules.net explains:

This timeline suggested to researchers that children have an age-dependent relationship with certain types of moral reasoning, too. There's evidence that kids are born with certain moral instincts, but it takes a while to coax them into their mature form.

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John Medina is a developmental molecular biologist and author of the New York Times bestseller "Brain Rules." His latest book is "Brain Rules for Baby: How to Raise a Smart and Happy Child from Zero to Five." He is an affiliate Professor of Bioengineering at the University of Washington School of Medicine. He is also the director of the Brain Center for Applied Learning Research at Seattle Pacific University.

Around the Web

Children And Lying | American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry

Lying children will grow up to be successful citizens - Telegraph

Dr. Phil.com - Advice - When Your Child Won't Stop Lying

Why Children Lie -- and How to Deal with It - FamilyEducation.com

Are Kids Copying Their Parents When They Lie? -- New York Magazine

About author John Medina | Brain Rules |

Amazon.com: John Medina: Books, Biography, Blog, Audiobooks, Kindle

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