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When One Door Closes, Another One Opens

Posted: 05/22/2013 2:40 pm

Last month, I said goodbye to my 30-year career in corporate communications at one of the most beloved consumer food companies. I won't tell you the name of this company, but suffice it to say that Andy Warhol's painting made it even more famous many years ago. I actually have an original framed print signed by the artist himself when I did a PR program with him early on in my career. It hangs on the landing step at my home.

I remember the day I arrived at the company's corporate headquarters in Southern New Jersey. It was November 1983. I remember it clearly. I arrived from New York City with my blue suit. It had a short-cropped jacket and a full skirt below the knee. My blouse was red and I wore a strand of pearls. I was ready for work in Marketing Communications. Ready to conquer the world and break the glass ceiling as they said in those days. There were IBM electric typewriters -- no computers or mobile phones.

Over the years I climbed the corporate ladder, always reaching higher. Networking, mentoring, teaching, learning, sharing, building teams and watching them grow. I worked with four successive CEOs, I helped found and nurture the company's Women's Network and developed external and internal communications programs that continue today.

There were good times and bad times in my life during the three decades. I got married to M. I gave birth to my two children -- A and D -- and joined the ranks of working moms. I lost my dad to heart disease in the late '80s. After 24 years of marriage, I lost my husband at the end of 2007, after a valiant struggle with illness. And just a month ago, I lost my mom at 91 years of age.

My oh my, how times have changed.

For the past five years, I have been living a double life. Judy with a 'y' during the day at my corporate workplace and Judi with an 'i" at night at home on the computer. Yes, during my countdown to 50, I started a little blog. And then the blog grew. And then I turned 50 and started to blog about my life after 50. Blogging has indeed become a big part of my life, as have all of you -- my blog readers.

In November, The Huffington Post recognized my blog as one of their "7 Favorite Blogs For Post 50 Women." A few weeks ago, my blog won a 2013 Webby Award Honoree in the Personal Blog Category. And just recently, a publisher came calling to tell me that they loved my writing and that I should submit some of my posts for publication in their journal or perhaps a book. I am very proud of my little blog and look forward to nurturing my community even more during my life after 50. With millions of boomer women across the globe -- the sky's the limit for the JudiBoomergirl brand.

It's time for me to spread my wings and take off in a new direction. I do hope to write a memoir about my journey these past five years -- it's been quite a transformation since losing my spouse, selling my house and emptying out my nest.

I hope to spend time traveling -- my first stop is France with my two favorite people, my daughter A and my son D. Plus, there's also my new partner and fellow planner, L. "Your mom was so glad you met a new fella," my aunt told me the other week.

And there is also my condo on the corner at the Jersey shore where I will spend the summers. I bought this little condo almost five years ago as a place to go to grieve and renew after losing my spouse. The ocean is a special place to stop, to breathe and to be.

NYC is calling me too... will I become a New Yorker again? Maybe yes, maybe no.

When one door closes another one opens.

I am officially retired from my 30-year corporate career as of three weeks ago. It's time for my second act. I am a blogger and a writer now. I am a consultant, too -- ready and willing to share all my learning with other companies who may need my communications help.

My champagne glass is full, as is my big bathtub. The 6:00 a.m. alarm clock is in the off position. But I'm keeping the coffee pot brewing so that my coffee is nice and warm when I sit down to read the New York Times each morning.

Ooh, ooh, ooh, is it Thursday yet? Thursday is the Style Section and the Home Section. How I love them both. Better brew another pot of Joe. Life after 50 is going to be just grand!

 

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