How often have you noticed that formerly normal-weight people have gradually gained weight throughout the years? Or dieters who have lost a significant amount of weight and then gained it back quickly?
Should people even try to lose weight at all? The answer is yes, if they are already having weight-related health problems or if they are putting on extra weight every year and so are likely to have health problems in the future. On the other hand, studies that have examined how much weight people are able to lose and how much they are able to keep off long term are fairly dismal. Most people gain weight back. Here is a surefire formula for gaining weight:
- Lose weight quickly.
- Go back to your old way of eating when you lose weight.
- Continue to eat and exercise exactly as you have been as you get older.
- Eat in the way "everyone else" is.
- Make excuses for why it's okay to eat when you shouldn't.
Each of these items is explained below.
- Lose weight quickly: One of the best ways to gain weight quickly is to drastically cut your calories. Research shows that the faster people lose weight, the faster they tend to regain it.
- Go back to your old way of eating when you lose weight: It's plain biology. If you lose weight on 1200 calories a day, for example, and then your weight plateaus, you will start to gain weight back once you go up to 1300 calories a day. That's the equivalent of one good sized apple or four crackers. And if you return to eating 2,000 or 3,000 calories, as perhaps you did before, of course your weight will increase.
- Continue to eat and exercise exactly as you have been as you get older: It seems unfair, but it's true. Metabolism tends to decrease with age. If you don't start eating less and/or exercising more, you'll gain weight. Now it's reasonable to gain a little weight, especially if you're eating in a healthy way, but those pounds can really add up as the decades go by.
- Eat in the same way you assume everyone else is: It's possible that you know the rare person who can consume a great number of calories a day and not gain weight. But it's more likely that the people you know (especially if they're over 40), are either restricting their eating in some way or are themselves gaining weight each year. In any case, it's irrelevant. If you don't want to gain weight, you'll need to figure out what's right for you to eat -- which isn't necessarily right for another person.
- Make excuses for why it's okay to eat when you shouldn't: Your body processes calories in exactly the same way, regardless of circumstances. It doesn't care if you're stressed, tired, or celebrating; if it's a special occasion; if no one is watching you eat; or if the food is free. It may be reasonable to plan in advance to eat a little more in some circumstances but understand that if you don't compensate by exercising more or cutting an equivalent number of calories another time, you will gain weight.
It seems unfair. It's so hard to lose weight and so easy to gain it back. But once you learn the cognitive (thinking) and behavioral skills you need, the process of losing and maintaining a weight loss (it's the same process!) becomes much easier.