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Do You Have the Imposter Syndrome?

Posted: 07/22/10 05:34 PM ET

No, there's not really a recognized condition called "the imposter syndrome." But it's a handy label to describe the self-doubt that many people, particularly high achievers, experience. It's that sense that you don't fully know what you're doing and that you have fooled other people into believing that you're more competent and talented than you really are. This self-doubt can plague people who are in a new job or who really are incompetent, of course, but it can also plague those who truly are at the top of their professions, the ones I describe below.

It's an uncomfortable feeling. People with this kind of self-doubt are frequently concerned that they'll be found out, that others will discover just how limited they are. This is true of Dr. A, who believes he is an adequate surgeon but not the kind of star others describe him as. His imposter syndrome affects only his mood. He's uncomfortable with praise and is frequently a little anxious in professional situations where he thinks he could be negatively evaluated. He suffers in silence, though, and it doesn't really affect what he does.

The imposter syndrome not only impacts the mood of Ms. B, an investment banker, but also her behavior. Her coping strategy is to cover up her insecurity, by avoiding asking enough questions, seeking enough help and assertively speaking her mind. Mr. C, an attorney, has his own set of coping strategies. He blusters his way through meetings, pretending he knows more than he does and gets belligerent when he thinks people are questioning his competence.

"Half the time I don't really know what I'm doing," is a typical comment I hear from people who seek help for the problem. "If people knew my weaknesses, they'd see that I'm pretty incompetent."

There are several reasons why this talented group of people (which is much larger than you might think) is so insecure:

1. They don't attribute success to their own positive qualities. "I got this far by luck." "I was in the right place at the right time." "I do well only because I have good people working for me."

2. They don't dwell on their achievements and keep raising the stakes higher. "I got that research grant but now I have to start thinking about the next one." "That performance went well but I have to do even better next time."

3. They have tunnel vision. They notice every instance where they think they should have done better or where they made a mistake. They then put a great deal of importance in what are usually minor flaws in their performance. On the other hand, they fail to notice, or fail to put sufficient importance on what they do well.

4. They discount their accomplishments. "I got a lot of applause but I didn't deserve it." "I made a lot of money but I should have made more." "I got an award but no one realizes how little I deserve it."

5. They compare themselves unfavorably to others. Frequently they pick out the most outstanding people in their office or even in their field and judge their own performance accordingly. "They would have done a better job." "They earned more than I did."

So what can you do if you're a competent person who suffers from the imposter syndrome? You can begin by working toward accepting the fact that you have weaknesses (you're only human) and if it's important (and if you can't delegate to others), work toward improving your performance. You can give yourself credit throughout the day for both major and minor successes. You can reverse your "yes, buts..." Change "I brought in accounts but she brought in more," to "Even though she brought in more accounts, I brought in many myself." You can focus on your strengths. When you finish a task, you can ask yourself, "What positive qualities do I have that allowed me to do accomplish this?" You can be on the lookout for unhelpful coping strategies you engage in to prevent others from evaluating you negatively.

The imposter syndrome can hold you back and keep you on edge. It's worth taking steps to overcome the problem.

 
 
 

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No, there's not really a recognized condition called "the imposter syndrome." But it's a handy label to describe the self-doubt that many people, particularly high achievers, experience. It's that sen...
No, there's not really a recognized condition called "the imposter syndrome." But it's a handy label to describe the self-doubt that many people, particularly high achievers, experience. It's that sen...
 
 
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10:41 PM on 07/29/2010
All the items in the list above, are they not just basic humility and gratitude (I have good people working for me)? These are all traits we admire. Why are these labeled imposter syndrome?
08:13 PM on 08/01/2010
They are all traits we admire, but as someone who actually deals with this very problem, it runs much deeper than just determining whether something is a just an individual trait or part of an overall pattern of behavior. Personally I think this syndrome has less to do with traits or truly feeling incompetent, and more to do with the real or perceived expectations of others. For example, when someone comes to me and asks me to do something based on knowing I did something similar or "sort of" similar, I become overwhelmed by the expectation from others that what I do will have a successful outcome. I immediately respond by affirming within myself that I am incompetent, and that if I fail I will be exposed as a fake. What has actually created this scenario of unraveling for me is the belief that I will not measure up to someone else's expectations, EVEN IF THE OTHER PERSON'S EXPECTATIONS ARE UNREALISTIC. Instead of telling them so, I'll kill myself trying to prove them wrong, all the time knowing I may be unable to do so. It's a catch-22 situation, it never ends well for me an makes me feel worse every time I go through this process.
12:26 AM on 07/27/2010
I don't know if I have the "imposter syndrome" exactly, but I appear to be doing my job well enough that people are okay with my job performance, but it's all a cover up for a job I don't like and wish I didn't have to do at all. I can't afford to quit a job with decent benefits because there are so few jobs out there, so I spend all my time faking a positive attitude and covering up my inadequacies.
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10:44 PM on 07/29/2010
Unfortunately WhyeverNot, this is part of a stinker economy, trapped in a current position. I hope at least you're being treated well.
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04:11 PM on 07/25/2010
Isn't this the Peter Principle. A person succeeds to the height of his compentency and then once higher into incompetence. Laurence Johnston Peter

I suppose it could be sub divided into :
a. those who know they are incompetent do nothing about it
b. those who know they are incompetent and learn more continuously
c. those who do not know they are incompetent and mess everything up for everyone else
d. those who do not know they are incompetent but are worth the entertainment value
e. the people who are talented but have no self esteem and mess things up
f. the people who are talented but have no self esteem and whine or self efface
g. ...

The cure for any and all of the above is to value yourself and strive for more learning and self truth. Do not seek attention by pointing out personal failings, just address them and improve. Give yourself a break and others too by concentrating on what you do well and be a team member.

With all respect Dr. Beck if a competent person really really thinks they are a fraud, and it is not just an act to get more praise, they really need counseling just to do the suggestions you have mentioned in your last paragraph. This would be a horrible problem for the person concerned and I think you should have taken the risk to sound like an advertisement for the profession and mentioned that fact.
02:57 PM on 07/25/2010
I work in academia and have observed that this "imposter syndrome" is quite common among graduate students and faculty alike. One of my colleagues once tried to put a student of his at ease by telling her that each morning he wakes up, looks at himself in the mirror, and says "I am an academic fraud." This man is of course an expert in his field (at a top institution), and has repeatedly demonstrated the authenticity of his qualifications. So even he feels like a fraud? The trouble with Beck's analysis is in her call to "overcome the problem," as if it were primarily a limitation. It's true that feeling like an imposter can cause much additional stress in one's life, but it's also true that this feeling functions as an excellent motivational factor. My colleague, the ironically self-labelled "fraud," may have assuaged himself and his student through a humorous image, yet I'm sure that at least a kernel of true self-doubt remains. Not only does this kernel motivate, it also teaches modesty -- a quality that is so often lacking among scholars. This syndrome that Beck identifies is therefore less a problem to overcome than a regular state of life that one must work through, on a daily basis (every morning in the mirror). It need not be limiting or destructive.
10:10 PM on 07/24/2010
This is what makes Scientology so attractive. When you audit your life experiences you go back in time and relive them. You see what happened. And you see how your mother put all these doubts into your soul as a kind of gift that keeps on giving. Thanx Mom. Forever.
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06:55 PM on 07/24/2010
I'm never afraid to say, "I don't know." Only insecure people are afraid to admit when they don't know something.
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05:35 PM on 07/24/2010
I hate fakers! I do not care if you have ever achieved anything any your life. The fact that you lied about who you are, is reason enough that I do not wish to associate with you.
04:58 PM on 07/24/2010
Palin certainly could use a dose of this syndrome to give her a little humility.
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04:46 PM on 07/24/2010
Sometimes overachievers are 'family heroes' in dysfunctional / addicted families, which is why they feel like frauds.
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Madelaine
Psychotherapist, researcher; advocate-human rights
10:44 AM on 07/25/2010
I agree. Also, the culture does much to support this. To me, it makes me bilious to see how many programs some toddlers are registered in....every course under the sun.....mastery unplugged. And all that so "they can get into college!" Are you kidding me?! Children need space and time, and not so much TV, so they can explore their minds and imagination...and...just think....and wonder.
05:09 PM on 07/26/2010
I agree. It is disgusting to see people attempt to create "designer" children. Children need time and space to grow and develop into the individuals they will ultimately become.
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rebt
a liberal in the bible belt. Oh the humanity.
01:43 PM on 07/24/2010
I have been to several of Dr. Beck's workshops' and use her and her father's cognitive approach in my practice. One can see the "thought distortions" taught by Drs' Beck occurring all around us after practicing their therapeutic strategies. Thank you Dr. Beck for the knowledge you have provided me. It is truly an effective means of counseling intervention and is supported empirically as to its success rate.
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Madelaine
Psychotherapist, researcher; advocate-human rights
10:51 AM on 07/25/2010
Her entire thesis is a fundamental psychotherapeutic support. However, for me, although her contributions are valid and healing, her thesis comes short (at least as described in the article) to support a client with TODAY...where the skin of the national onion has to be peeled. What I mean is, there are really good folks, not just overachievers, who are expressing self-doubt these days...and they are good, decent folks being the best people they can. Once their generalized anxiety of just LIVING, and showing up, for the next day...with mindfulness and solid moral compasses...is normalized, those clients understand the reality of pressures on themselves. They likely give themselves a lot more credit for doing so, and they can "exhale".
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rebt
a liberal in the bible belt. Oh the humanity.
04:18 PM on 07/25/2010
I think you make an excellent point. I also think you reflect the theory of Ellis and REBT. Whoa, I just gave up my nick. His premise of "rational beliefs vs irrational beliefs" help people to "understand the reality of pressures on themselves", and not to inflate those pressures. Beck and Ellis have similar theories. Beck focuses more on "thought distortions" where Ellis focuses more on a "belief system". I think each theory compliments the other. Forgive the tangential nature of my comment. Just wanted you to know that your comment is from my perspective very salient.
12:06 PM on 07/24/2010
One must imbibe the wisdom of the late Dr. G Venkataswamy (Founder of Aravind Eye Care Systems, Madurai): When we help others, it is ourselves we are helping; when we heal others it is ourselves we are healing.
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Madelaine
Psychotherapist, researcher; advocate-human rights
10:59 AM on 07/25/2010
WONDERFUL!!!! Sort of like that book by James Hillman's, "We've Had A Hundred Years of Psychotherapy, and...(something on the order of "things are getting worse").

I used to use this as an intervention, especially with teens. I would go through the hoops required to have them be able to volunteer in some really interesting projects. I would attend with them. ALL of us were warmed, educated, and saw life through a different lens. Those kids who volunteered, had long integrated some of the moronic notions of the "system" in which they were foster children, in group homes, or in DSS custody. They had "learned" that they were "valueless". Thus, they had a rich opportunity to view themselves in a giving, creative role not yet experienced by them before. It was joyful to see them reference their efforts, and the outcomes of those efforts!!!! That sense of self-concept remains with them their entire life.
11:05 AM on 07/24/2010
I've felt like this most of my life, and yes, I had very demanding parents.
But there's another aspect not mentioned - sometimes it's because the person has an ability (e.g., math or writing) that's easy for them, and they don't understand that it's not easy for everyone. That leads to discounting the value of the talent, particularly when praised for it. "If only they knew how little I worked on X, they wouldn't think so highly of it" is how the internal refrain goes. And that's a tough one to defuse.
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Madelaine
Psychotherapist, researcher; advocate-human rights
11:00 AM on 07/25/2010
Ooooh! VERY INSIGHTFUL COMMENT! Thank you for that!
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11:02 AM on 07/24/2010
I've had a lot of bosses that were incompetent and they expressed the same inabilities to take correction, delegate or take suggestion. They were universally hated.
It's better to come down and be a little human, engage the aid of your coworkers and subordinates and be truly successful.
12:21 PM on 07/24/2010
Absolutely. I've had similar incompetent bosses (one in particular who took credit for other peoples' ideas). A little self-reflection is a good thing.
08:22 PM on 07/24/2010
I've had a similar experience myself. The worst part, though, was when he screwed up. As his only direct report, everything that went wrong became my fault. Fortunately it's easy to see through these people and in most cases they either move on (after they realize they're being figured out) or are forced to.
11:00 AM on 07/24/2010
And I guess I meant "you're"
10:58 AM on 07/24/2010
I'm missing any reference to taxes or horse racing, so I'm guessing your actually proposing an "impostor" syndrome. Beyond this, deponent snarketh not.
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neurolux
...flunked micro-biology.
05:05 PM on 07/25/2010
According to Wikipedia, both "imposter" and "impostor" are correct, yet the spellchecker in Firefox agrees with you.