Last week's column about Barbara Grufferman's new book, The Best of Everything After 50: The Expert's Guide to Style, Sex, Health, Money and More got lots of comments. Readers weighed in on a range of topics, but one simple question really stirred the pot, "Can I still wear jeans after 50?"
Well, the HuffPost community delivered someone to me who's made answering that question her life's work. A woman who knows that middle-aged derrieres can look hot.
Our saviour's name is Marla Ginsburg.
Marla was a television producer -- with hits like Highlander and La Femme Nikita -- living the good life in Paris and Los Angeles. After she turned 50, despite her considerable success, no-one would take her call. TV executives were much younger now, and simply weren't interested in what she was pitching. It was a terrible blow. How was she going to keep a roof over her family's head?
She started to imagine what she would do with the rest of her life. "I had two fantasies," she told me when we spoke by phone. "Talk show host or clothing designer. Both rational, well-thought out goals!" She laughed.
Marla said she decided to pick the thing she knew least about, so went out and bought a bunch of fabric and a sewing machine. She had this crazy idea that she should make clothes for baby boomer women like herself, a demographic not well served by the fashion industry (amen to that!). "I figured that I knew what women like me wanted to wear, just like I once knew what we wanted to watch."
A business plan came next, followed by successful financing, and a launch. Then, the recession hit. Marla's new business tanked. She lost everything. Now what?
Well, by then she was hooked. She could see that she wasn't just making clothes -- she was actually helping women feel better about themselves. "Women our age are always apologizing for their icky bits and feeling that they don't look good anymore. When they put on something that's actually designed for their bodies, something that's cool and flattering, they're transformed."
Financial necessity being the mother of midlife reinvention, Marla kept going. And one day her agent called to see if she'd like to meet with a jean manufacturer in Montreal, FDJ French Dressing. Two smart young guys (Noah Stern and Ayal Twik) who saw the same opportunity Marla had spotted, and wanted to find someone who understood this demographic. And the rest is history.
Marla is now the creative director (working closely with designer Suzanne Schiller) for FDJ, and also has her own line, M.Wynne, on the Home Shopping Network. And she feels like it's the perfect career. Not only is she putting her kids through school, but she's making a contribution. "Clothes are a way to help us feel better about the skin we're in. It may not be going to Africa to build homes for street kids, but it is a way to make a difference."
This is the third in a series about women in their fabulous 50s -- would you like to read more? (The other two were about Barbara Grufferman, as noted above, and Betty Londergan and her inspiring and witty WhatGives365 blog.) And how do you feel about the "skin you're in"? Or have you reinvented your work at midlife and found a way to make someone else's life a little better? Please comment below, or write to me: Julia (that familiar symbol) wearethenewradicals (punctuation) (suffix)
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Now I could say I'm gonna wear them, anyway, until I die. And I probably will. But I can't pretend they actually flatter me. They don't!
WHAT THEY THINK THEY SEE, WHICH IS HOW THEY LOOKED 20YRS EARLIER...IF THEY WERE LUCKY!!!!!
IT ALL DEPEND'S ON THE 'CUT' IF ITS RIGHT FOR YOU, THEN THERE IS NO 'MUFFIN TOP'
DOES'NT FLATTEN THE 'BUTT' OR GIVE A 'CAMEL'S HOOF' TO THE CRUTCH.
THE FIRST CROP OF "NYDJ'S' WERE GREAT FOR THE MAJORITY THEN OF COURSE BACK FOR MORE & THE FIT & FABRIC CHANGED & NOT FOR THE BETTER.
BOTH MY 85YR YOUNG MOTHER & I NOW WEAR 'FDJ'S' THEY ARE FLATTERING & COMFORTABLE
& IMPORTANTLY AFFORDABLE.
IN FACT I LOVE THE DESIGN'S FROM MARLA GUINSBERG , SHE REALLY KNOWS & HAS A GREAT SENSE OF STYLE. I WISH SHE WOULD DO MORE.
Trilby, if you are worried about your butt, try Jillian Michaels' 30-Day Shred. She incorporates lunges and squats and they definitely raised my own "profile". You should rent it first to make sure it won't be too hard on your knees; I can see where that might be an issue. But I love it. Best part is that it is a tough workout, but you are finished, warm-up to cool-down, in 27 minutes. I do it three days a week and then do spinning twice a week. I give myself weekends off, but with summer coming, I will be out and running around anyway. There's just no getting around it. The older we get, the harder we have to work to stay in shape. Damn.
Nothing more comfortable.
I think no one UNDER size 5 should wear them either. If you want to be that skeletal, fine, just keep it covered up. We don't want to see that.