In week six of Children of Divorce and Changing Families' 8-week program, we do an exercise where we ask each child in the 10-12 year old group to create a set of rules that they wish their parents would follow to ease post divorce stresses.

The rules they...

When I heard Alec Baldwin's famous phone message, I had already worked with families of divorce long enough to recognize that his frustration wasn't really with his daughter Ireland. But it did reinforce something I have always believed... that the only truly innocent party in a divorce is...