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Emily Gras: Muses Show Their Soul After Girl Is Bullied at Parade

Posted: 02/24/2012 4:10 pm

One day after finding out about a girl bullied on their parade route, the all female Krewe of Muses hosted a personal parade for her in their float den. Muses founder Staci Rosenberg pulled the event together and New Orleans locals are calling it Emily Gras. Author Amy Mueller described how her daughter, Emily, who anticipated the parade all year, was traumatized by a drunk who mocked the autistic girl. Emily left in tears, her Mardi Gras ruined. Amy expresses it beautifully in her NOLA Femmes post, Lit Up Like a Parade

Since the post ran, Emily has not only been hosted by the Muses; she's been entertained by the 610 Stompers ordinary men with extraordinary moves; the Rolling Elvi, Pussyfooters and the Muff-A-Lottas. And a group of veterans has offered her a security escort for any parade she wants to attend next year. The family is still sorting through all the offers from comment boards and Facebook, which have been overwhelming. Emily's story has also reached the national media, as the best in human interest stories will, and I wouldn't be surprised to see her on New Orleans native Ellen DeGeneres' show within the week.

This was my first year to ride with a superkrewe, and I saw many kids who just missed catching a toy have their day saved by someone who caught and returned it. Reading about the worst of human nature in a celebration that's all about joy gripped the hearts of readers and the outpouring of support has reached avalanche proportions. It's also a testament to Amy's writing.

Emily has had only-in-New-Orleans invitations from Chewbaccaus; NOLA Pyrates; a Skinz N Bonez Special Hexx Skellie Brellie; a Krewe of Nyx hand-decorated purse; and hundreds of coveted glitter shoes caught by NOLA Femmes readers from around the world.

After all this morning's excitement, her mom, @amymueller504, Tweeted: "Even on Emily Gras, Queen Emily has math homework." She also advised:

Please remember, as we celebrate #EmilyGras and Miss Emily, to be mindful of your words, offer a bit of kindness to one another, and shine.

This year's Muses queen, NOLA native and Oscar nominee Patricia Clarkson, reigned from the giant stiletto pump lit up by LED lights with Muses spelled out in pink. Saints kicker Garrett Hartley rode in the shoe at the Saints Super Bowl Celebration Parade. Today Emily stood in the same glowing Muses shoe and looked out at the world in its best light.

Hot pink.

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10:00 PM on 02/24/2012
I was right there when the poor girl was harassed. The guy called her a "retard" and "retarded" - and laughed at her mother for getting them to back away from her with their lit cigarettes. They seemed like college kids - I don't know where from. I can tell you that if they are local, they're going to learn quickly that New Orleans is a small city full of good people and acting like that will get you shunned out of here. I was so happy to read about my fellow New Orleanians being so sweet to this girl.
11:54 AM on 02/25/2012
If you were there, then why didn't you do the decent thing and stand up for her? If you just watched while he stood there abusing Emily and her mother, then are you any better than he was for being so abusive and small-minded? I don't know whether you're just trying to get a few minutes of fame by saying you were there, but I wouldn't confess to standing there watching it happen if I had done nothing to try and help. And considering that Amy's original post said that no one did help, you should be ashamed of yourself.
07:50 PM on 02/24/2012
The Nola Krewe Of Pirate Wenches has invited Miss Emily to be an Honarary Lifetime Wench, and our Queen and lead us on our Piratical Procession down the Levee Sunday April 22 2012.

Parade invite was misquoted & we want everyone to get the right date to join us in celebration.

Time to TBA (early afternoon probably) when we confer with our Queen & the Royal Court. All are welcome to enjoy the afternoon under Queen Emily's Reign!! Long Live The Queen!!! www.nolawenches.com
Muses treats bullied girl to special Mardi Gras event
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06:28 PM on 02/24/2012
all hail MUSES and all hail EMILY GRAS!! this is what makes Muses the super krewe that they are!

I look forward too, to seeing emily at shore leave with the nola pyrates... april 19th brings fleet week to the city, in alliance with an International fleet heading to major ports to commemorate Bicentennial of the War of 1812 and The Star-Spangled Banner. The Fleet will dock in New Orleans April 17th through the 23rd, 2012 at piers on Mississippi Riverfront from the Crescent City Connection Bridge to the French Quarter.

The celebration will bring to the Crescent City a flotilla of U.S. and foreign warships and tall sailing ships on the Mississippi River and an air show over Lake Pontchartrain featuring the Blue Angels. THIS will be a day that Emily can hang with the lil pyrates, and more, including many other krewes throughout the city. truly a week of fun!

ALL HAIL NEW ORLEANS for standing tall, but mostly, for Emily... thanks MUSES!
06:16 PM on 02/24/2012
well done muses! all hail muses! the new orleans pyrates from shore leave also will be hosting a week of shore leave with the USNAVY as seven ships come to port Thursday, April 19, 2012 at 8:00pm until Sunday, April 22, 2012 at 9:00pm for the krewe of wenches yearly pyrate event. we welcome emily to join us on the navy ships, and pyrate ships as we celebrate our yearly festival. looking forward to having her out there with the pyrates and the scallywags, and skinz n bonez! all hail EMILY GRAS!!
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05:16 PM on 02/24/2012
Ain't nobody do it like we do in New Orleans!
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04:54 PM on 02/24/2012
Emily Gras is a marvelous response to what has become too common in more recent years as Mardi Gras has swelled from a primarily family holiday to "spring break." This year, Ms. Dalton-Beninato observed many children miss a throw but have their day saved by a helpful adult. That is usually the case. But drunken louts ruining 'the Gras' has become more frequent, too. I am so thrilled about Emily Gras.
05:54 PM on 02/24/2012
I went to Muses with a group of young twenty-somethings and most of us had way too much to drink before (and during) the parade. But this story is as abhorrent to all of us as it is to you. Don't be so quick to dismiss young people drinking and having a good time as "louts." All of the drunken "louts" in my group are educated, passionate, kind-hearted New Orleanians.. being drunk at Mardi Gras is neither illegal nor immoral. No amount of liquor would cause us to act as this buffoon did.
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11:00 PM on 02/24/2012
I said "drunken louts ruining 'the Gras' has become more frequent."
06:38 PM on 02/24/2012
Muses is such a class act!
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04:45 PM on 02/24/2012
This is why I am proud to be from NOLA. I will bet the hooligans that harassed this young girl are from out of town. Muses, the 610 Stompers, and all those who participated show a lot of class.
04:34 PM on 02/24/2012
Glorious outcome. Well done, Muses.