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Karen Finney

Karen Finney

Posted: April 7, 2010 04:56 PM

Virginia Shame

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Gov. Bob McDonnell's decision is shameful. If you're going to declare April as "Confederate History Month" to commemorate, "... the Commonwealth's shared history, to understand the sacrifices of the Confederate leaders, soldiers and citizens during the period of the Civil War, and to recognize how our history has led to our present;" then have the courage and character to embrace the full truth, not hide from or censor it. This is not about being "PC."

What lesson are we teaching children when we tell them that it's OK to pick and choose the facts they want to believe, and ignore the ones that might be ugly, painful or we might even disagree with?

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The shame is in the proclamation's failure to acknowledge the full range of the truth about the Civil War and Virginia's role in it. What about the sacrifices of whites who were part of the underground railroad and helped slaves escape to the North, or those who did not support the Confederacy, or the African slaves who actually fought on the side of the Confederacy? If we are going to celebrate and honor sacrifice, let us also celebrate the progress we have made since the Civil War, which should be a source of pride for every American, just as we must acknowledge the work that remains to be done.

For me this is very personal. My father, who is African American, is from Virginia. The Finney name comes from the man who once owned my family as slaves. My mother, Mildred Lee, is the great, great, great niece of Robert E. Lee, or "the General," as he is referred to by my family. I am therefore the great, great, great, great niece of General Lee. That is my American story, a mixed race heritage that I am proud of, just as Virginia, the South and our country has a mixed history.

Rather than fall prey to the mindless politics of "either, or", we must stop being afraid of the truth and acknowledge all of it. Denying one part is like denying a part of ourselves and it does a disservice to our country's rich history and to the people who have worked hard to help make America a great country.

 

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12:02 PM on 04/10/2010
I live in VA, and I need to address some of these postings:

McDonnell is showing a different side of himself than what he showed us in the campaign. His commercials were not unlike those of Paul Wellstone when he ran for Senator from Minnesota. Just a regular guy, who would govern with competence and not be one of those culture warriors at Tea Bag parties. Had he shown his true face, the race would have been much tighter.
His Democratic opponent didn't have a lot going for him, and when McDonnell's vile "thesis" he wrote at Pat Robertson's clown college became public, McDonnell said he had changed in the 20 years since.
He can't be voted out. Va Govs serve one 4 - year term. A recall would have to be done for things way more serious.
Whatever race Barack Obama "claims", he is considered black in the South. He wouldn't have been allowed to sleep in Richmond,s best hotel or eat in it's finest restaurant in the Jim Crow era. In the South, even one black ancestor makes you black. Sally Hemings was only 25% black and 75% white, but 100% slave!
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12:16 PM on 04/10/2010
It doesn't bother me so much that Jefferson fathered a child with a slave compared to the fact that somehow, in his mind, he could see it as morally acceptable to enslave one of his relatives. Jefferson was an extremely intelligent person yet this wasn't a one-time mistake but one that he committed throughout his life.
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11:27 AM on 04/10/2010
I know there's ONE Virginian who won't be celebrated during Virginia's Confederate History Month. In fact, he's the ONE Virginian who had the greatest impact on the Civil War than any other. I refer to Petersburg, VA native, my relative, Old Fuss & Feathers himself, General Winfield Scott, Conqueror of Mexico and Architect of Union Victory.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Winfield_Scott

Scott was Chief of Staff of the US Army at the outbreak of the Civil War. He formulated the Anaconda Strategy that was used by Union forces to Defeat the Confederacy and Preserve the Union.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anaconda_Plan

He was the most hated man in Virginia at the time because he upheld his oath to Preserve, protect and defend the Constitution and remained loyal to the Federal government. How deliciously ironic that the ONE Virginian who had the greatest impact on the outcome of the war ISN'T mentioned because he brought the dreams of the Confederacy crashing down arond their ears.
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04:45 PM on 04/10/2010
Thank you. Great info! Fanned and faved.
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10:48 AM on 04/10/2010
This is a great article because it illustrates the absurdity (insanity) of racial "issues" while at the same time written by one who speaks clearly about the issue. I, too, am reminded of "Love v Virginia."
10:28 AM on 04/10/2010
The people of the state of Virginia,
must love Gov. McDonnell!
I'm boycotting that state-
12:53 AM on 04/10/2010
Sadly VA now joins the likes of Texas and South Carolina. A few of the more prominent states with looney-tunes governors...But we have the double misfortune of also having a crackpot for AG.

Sigh, we used to be so normal.
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09:14 PM on 04/08/2010
I belive that the populace of a state elects the people that best reflect their views. If there is any shame to be placed it should be placed on the voters of the state.
11:55 PM on 04/08/2010
and what if someone wins 51 to 49? Then you blame the 49% for what 51% believe? Sounds like a bad idea to me.

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12:14 AM on 04/09/2010
He also misrepresented himself before the election. He portrayed himself as a "Centrist" and as a social Conservative. But then you know when a Republican is lying when his mouth is moving.
05:54 PM on 04/08/2010
One thing the election of Barack Obama as president has brought the racism in this country that has been simmering and marinating over the years to a full seemingly unhealthy percolation. Gee Whiz! Who knew it was this bad the governor is just beating the drum of that old familiar Southern Battle Cry "the South shall rise again" I realize it. Do you realize it? Led by the GOP these people had power and control of the Country for 20-26 of the last 32yrs and look where Our Country is. Both parties have been gross mis-managers of whats best for the American people and were on the road to Civil War again. Power and greed have ruled the day and the robber barons will sit back and drain,reap and count their profits from both sides in a Civil War. Seeing the GOP's actions since Obama's election does anyone with sight see that these people may possibly be capable of being responsible for 9/11 if it produced the desired effect? I wouldn't write it off given all the evidence at hand and their antics over the last 15 months.
08:13 PM on 04/08/2010
Even more specifically in my voting life Repubs have held POTUS for 28 of 40 years which is 70% of the time. I have watched a steady erosion of the economic, intellectual, educational and moral of the foundation of my country in that time. What about accountability over the longer term as opposed to one year of a Dem admin? I can't believe that the American public is so fickle as to renege on something so fundamental as an historic election after one measly year (or two if we talking mid-term elections) If this is the case the Hamiltonian view that the ignorant masses couldn't be trusted to choose their leaders is surely validated. I know historically there has been retrenchment after a new admin comes in, but maybe the times we are in call for some more introspection and patience. I'm not crazy about alot of what this admin has produced, as they constantly move toward right wing positions all the while the right says "No!" There is no spirit of leadership or compromise from the right. If the people embrace this political point of view, the depth of my despair and faith in essential intelligence of my fellow citizens will be heavy.
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05:04 PM on 04/10/2010
Just fanned and faved you and dieselis. Very intelligent statements.
05:41 PM on 04/08/2010
I have never understood the worship of the Confederacy. Let's face it: they were traitors. This isn't a case of picking on them out of political correctness. They were traitors; they committed treason. And they lost.
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10:30 PM on 04/08/2010
Almost all Germans are deeply ashamed of ther Nazi past -- and none display the Nazi flag except neo-Nazis.

In the American South, many whites are not only NOT ashamed of the attempt by the Confederacy to perpetuate slavery, they have fond memories of white supremacy and proudly fly the Confederate Battle Flag to this day.

Of course, Nazi genocide is a far more horrific thing than slavery -- but only as a matter of degree.

Still, it is unimaginable that a German official would fondly commemorate the Nazi era -- and no American official should likewise honor the traitors of the Confederacy.
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09:33 PM on 04/09/2010
One of the best and most intelligent comments I have seen about this topic. The Confederacy was indeed a simple act of treason. All of them should have been hanged and exiled. The flying of the Confederate flag should be against the law condemned in the same way the flying of the Nazi flag is.

However, the Nazi era didn't come close to what happened during slavery and what resulted from slavery. As recently as this week CNN just ran a story about a WW1 African American war veteran being burned alive. http://www.cnn.com/2010/CRIME/04/06/isadore.banks.cold.case/index.html?hpt=C1. More than 200,000,000 Africans died during the middle passages of Africans to enslavement. Those who didn't die were cursed not to have died because they were subjected to some of the worse crimes against humanity ever perpetrated upon humans. What the Nazis did lasted a few years. What Americans and many other countries did to Africans lasted well over 400 years. Even Africa today because of what the Europeans did in the not too long ago past is causing most of the conflicts there today. The Rwandan chaos is totally because of the Germans and Belgians. Well over 2 million people have been killed by people who have no differences other than class. A facade created by commercialization by Europeans. The Confederate attitude of many Europeans all around the world has haunted African people everywhere.
12:46 AM on 04/10/2010
I have never understood the worship of the Civil War, period. (Or ANY war for that matter). Until moving to the South, I was blissfully ignorant of people who call themselves "Re-enactors." They gather regularly to, what?, "play war"?---but as realistically as possible right down to perfecting the technique to simulate the body-bloating of corpses. Blech. I thought this was surely some kind of sick joke but, no, these loonies exist, are extremely serious and go running around woods and fields to "pretend-fight" the various famous and/ or local CW battles. It totally creeps me out. They think of it as "a hobby".

The study of war and history is one thing--and it's a good thing. But I don't think it's healthy to glorify war. And this Re-enactor stuff goes WAY too far. Perhaps indicative of people with way too much time on their hands. IDK.
03:45 PM on 04/08/2010
Love the South, hate its politics. MCDonnell is also the product of the very lame candidate the Dems produced. Shame on both sides.
03:40 PM on 04/08/2010
The Governor's actions are not occurring in a vacuum; in Waterproof, Louisiana, the African-American mayor and Chief of Police were arrested and removed from office without due process or just cause. Their crime? Being uppity, applying for grants (this is northeast Louisiana, and one of the poorest parishes (counties) in the nation. The people who removed them were white Southerners, undoubtedly proud of the Confederacy. In fact, they're re-establishing Jim Crow and de facto segregation today.

I don't feel like celebrating racism, slavery, inequality, bigotry and criminality. The White South didn't build the nation: their fine buildings and farms were built by African-American slaves, who then became economic slaves under repressive Jim Crow. They remain unfree under rethuglican rule.

We may be facing an insurrection by those who hate American values. Pretending this isn't happening will only embolden the seditious and traitorous American Right.
03:07 PM on 04/08/2010
Then, as now, it was all about money. The South could not maintain their wealth if they had to PAY their labor force.... kind of like we do now in foreign countries, only, obviously, we do not 'own' those children, I mean, people. It's funny what people will justify in order to hold on to their pocketbooks. Kind of like listening to the Republicans about the Health Care Reform Act - or, God forbid, Universal Health Care. And I know for a fact that these people will fight tooth and nail so they don't have to 'touch' their parent's house, etc. to pay for their care at the end of their lives - let the government do it then, right?
I'm shocked that this idiot governor would honor the Confederate Army - hey.... yes, we honor our ancestors, but let's see... they tried to BACK OUT of being Americans because they didn't want to have to reduce their wealth!!! Wait... were they Republicans? Patriotic when it benefits them? All tea-bagging if it doesn't?
03:01 PM on 04/08/2010
I agree with so many posts here in support of the author. I too have been told through family lore that I am a decendent of The General - my father actually had his name. I must ask, HOW LONG WILL THE CIVIL WAR CONTINUE TO BE FOUGHT???!!! I have watched much of the coverage of the VA GOV's declaration and am embarassed to admit that I am from the South. I cannot for the life of me understand why so many people from down here want to perpetrate this kind of meaness and hatred. I look at the CW not as the war of northern agression, but as one of the most shameful and painful periods of American History. Leadership in southern states need to be constantly vigilant against continuing this kind devisiveness.
03:00 PM on 04/08/2010
Did Gov. McDonnell think , no one would notice the omission of his proclamation?
What a laugh? I have never forgotten our shameful history. In fact, one day my husband was talking to our granddaughter (jr.h) about that period of our history and her only response, was tears running down her face. So people of Virginia, you have an idiot for Governor, vote him out!
12:09 AM on 04/11/2010
And if you think HE'S bad, check out our wacky AG. I weep for VA.
02:35 PM on 04/08/2010
To Gov. McConnell:
Maybe I'm too married to my roots as a Yankee, but it is stunning to me that an elected official in the USA would use his office to honor the Confederacy. Wasn't that a group of treasonous rebel States who tried to secede from the United States, taking up arms against our Union, declaring us to be their sworn enemy and leading us into the bloodiest and costliest war in our nation's history? Isn't Virginia proud to be part of that Union? Shouldn't Virginian's be thankful that America forgave them and welcomed them back into the Union? Isn't that what you should be celebrating?
From my Yankee perspective, the Governor of any State in the Union asking Americans to "understand the sacrifices of the Confederate leaders, soldiers and citizens during the period of the Civil War" is tantamount to asking us to "understand the sacrifices of the al Qaeda leaders, soldiers and citizens during the period of the Iraq War." If you want to commemmorate the fact that the Confederacy surrendered at Appomattox courthouse on April 9, 1865, how about declaring April "Preservation of the Union" Month? For example, Germany signed the Armistice on November 11, 1918. But we don't declare November to be "Axis History Month." Rather we celebrate Veterans Day.
Here's a thought. How about celebrating the United States of America? You know, the country whose flag hangs in your office, and whose Constitution you swore to uphold?
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02:52 PM on 04/08/2010
It's interesting that the people who glorify leaving the union are the very same people who support right wing Republicans and attack the liberals as anti-American: from Palin's husband's advocacy for Alaska leaving the union to Gov. Perry of Texas suggesting his state leave, to the people who glorify the Confederate flag. No doubt crazed Jefferson Davis, who drove a great general like Lee, reluctantly, to choose between his country and his state, was the Glenn Beck of his day.
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07:21 PM on 04/08/2010
So true. I wish the media would challenge would-be traitors like Perry and McDonnell about their treasonous wishes for secession. I also wish the media would challenge idiots like Palin who know nothing about American history, openly support secession from the union and yet try to position themselves as All-Americans. It's time we called out the real traitors.
02:58 PM on 04/08/2010
Great post. I'm originally from New York but have been living in Virginia for about 25 years now, so I definitely agree with a lot in your post. I can also tell you that many Virginians don't see it as the Confederacy starting the Civil War, to them it's actually called "The War of Northern Aggression". I've seen a lot of Confederate flags flying in front of houses and businesses lately. I want to believe that it's more of a southern pride thing and conveniently forgetting about the slavery thing, but I don't know. At least I really hope it's like that.
08:07 AM on 04/09/2010
VTVinnie
This transplanted northerner is seeing the confederate flags too..... The only thing I think we can do is not spend any money where we see these flags. And drive straight through virginia without a meal break whenever we must get to the northeast states.
Any overt sign of our disagreement could lead to a confrontation with a bully with a gun.....
I am crying for America and hoping we don't repeat the errors of the Germans.......
02:15 PM on 04/08/2010
Governor McDonnell's already walking back some in an apparent effort to tamp down the criticism. Yet that action lacks credulity since we all know he's accomplished his goal of signaling racists already.

Most of us realized that we still had a long way to go before we achieved a country where every child learns and believes we're all "created equal." It's tragic, though, when elected leaders exacerbate the divisions which limit our potential and thereby distract us from making the synergistic progress that would help re-establish the USA as a model for others to emulate.

Perhaps if he'd paid more attention to the famous "house divided" speech McDonnell might have carried out his duty to all the citizens of his state more honorably, rather than catering to a vocal minority.