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Six Summer Strategies For Busy Moms

Posted: 06/10/09 09:30 AM ET

Now that the kids are out of school and summer is just peaking around the corner, busy moms need to find a way to manage themselves and their brood.

According to a research report women in the labor force average 76 hours in total weekly work, which includes 33 hours dedicated to household tasks. The time requirements of household and paid work are complicated and often conflicting. The term "double day" has been used to describe the dual work responsibilities that many women have. Here are some time management strategies all moms can use.

1. Negotiate: For working moms one of the keys is to negotiate with employers about adapting their work routines and work hours to accommodate domestic necessities, sick children or home matters that require their attention. Solutions such as job sharing, telecommuting and results based work are examples.

2. Make Activities Routine:
To help keep the family on schedule develop checklists for kids to use as a reminder to get things done. For example a morning chart might include get up, wash face, brush teeth, comb hair, dress, eat breakfast, get school lunch money, get backpack, kiss family good-bye, and catch the bus.

3. Create A Team:
Get the kids involved in the house work by making it part of their family job. For example, having the kids help you pick up their toys before lunch/supper will not only get your house clean faster, you are teaching your children good habits and spending time with them all at the same time.

4. Multitask Chores: Arrange errands and chores so that many can be completed simultaneously, thereby eliminating extra trips. Doing the laundry while fixing dinner is one example of multitasking chores. Picking up dry cleaning and doing the grocery shopping while a child takes a music lesson is another.

5. Plan Contingencies:
Plan in advance a way to manage family emergencies and unusual circumstances, such as sick children, difficulties with babysitters,or special events (birthdays, overnight trips, etc.). Contingency arrangements replace or change regular schedules. This can include negotiating a change of schedule with your employer or delegating the responsibility to a spouse, an extended family member, or a neighbor.

6. Calendar Everything:
Many moms find it useful to keep a central family calendar clearly visible at home. This allows everyone to see what is coming up the next day, week, etc. Consider putting high priority to do's for that day on the calendar as well.

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Karen Leland is author of the recently released books Watercooler Wisdom: How Smart People Prosper In the Face of Conflict, Pressure and Change and Time Management In An Instant:60 Ways to Make the Most of Your Day. She is the co-creator of a new line of Productivity Pads from Time Tamerâ„¢ and the co-founder of Sterling Consulting Group and its subsidiary Sterling Marketing Group. You can follow her on twitter at kfleland. For questions, comments or to book Karen to speak at your next event, please e-mail kleland@scgtraining.com.

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Now that the kids are out of school and summer is just peaking around the corner, busy moms need to find a way to manage themselves and their brood. According to a research report women in the labor ...
Now that the kids are out of school and summer is just peaking around the corner, busy moms need to find a way to manage themselves and their brood. According to a research report women in the labor ...
 
 
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well behaved women rarely make history
05:31 PM on 06/24/2009
But what if mom is at the golf course, and dad is the "golf widower"? Shouldn't the title of this article be Six Summer Strategies for Busy Parents? Unless we are totally taking the 1950's the the absolute extreme.
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Karen Leland
10:05 PM on 06/25/2009
Point well taken.
12:16 PM on 06/10/2009
All good ideas, but I have to say I was expecting something to help busy moms remember to take time to put our feet up with a good book or a cool drink or to play with our kids. Even for a few minutes. This article seems to forget the joys of summertime!
12:11 PM on 06/10/2009
Surprisingly, this advice works for us dads too. While my wife works on her PhD this summer, I'm in single dad mode. I'm taking on the full brunt of the household chores, keeping the kid fed and bathed and entertained and exercised and all that jazz for six days a week. Normally, my wife and I manage to divide all this up pretty well. Obviously, she needs time to focus on her schoolwork at the moment, though. My point being, it's not just busy moms out there. Sadly, it may be a little easier for dad's to get a compromise out of the work place. Too often when women ask for such a thing, they are then labeled as not the professional type but more of the family type. Sad but true.

Part of my personal solution to the madness has been to join a gym with childcare. It's a great way to relieve stress and you can get a little personal time for a few hours a week. My kid loves playing with the other kids in the gym as well.