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Muslims Rising Above The Ashes Of Misunderstanding

Posted: 09/ 9/2011 11:22 am

As the 10th anniversary of Sept. 11 approaches, we'll be inundated with reports and recollections of where people were at that moment, what they were doing and how their lives have been changed because of it. This anniversary-keeping activity feels like we have a wound that we know has yet to heal, but we can't stop ourselves from touching it -- just to see if it still hurts.

It does.

The inevitable media coverage will build now until Sept. 12, when folks will try to get back to normal life still smarting from the big press blitz. Muslim Americans will have no choice but to be one of the featured main dishes in this media feasting frenzy, and we will do our part to help heal the wounds caused by those who falsely claimed our faith by telling you again that Islam had no part in this tragedy.

Over these last 10 years, the events of 9/11 taught my faith community that we had been neglecting outreach to the greater society. We've had to step away from the cultural comfort of our mosques, Islamic schools and homes to shake the hands of our neighbors who have been there all along, but with whom we may not have engaged with serious effort or effect. Ten years later, Muslims have made these gestures of friendship to the point that a large percentage of the folks who wanted to know us better, now do. There are others who simply refuse to let go of the bigotry and stereotyping of Muslims in America. You may know them: They have their eyes closed with their hands over their ears singing, "la, la, la. I don't hear you."

For the next 10 years, I am hopeful that our nation will leave these crooners of ignorance out of our society's narrative. We've already seen some of Islam's biggest haters recently outed for propagating bigotry under the guise of being "terrorism experts." Robert Spencer and Pamela Geller have been exposed for their racist and bigoted craziness through a Norwegian mass murderer, Anders Behring Breivik, who referred to their hate-filled blogs and rhetoric many times in his insanely xenophobic manifesto. The Center for American Progress recently released a report, "Fear, Inc., The Roots of the Islamophobia Network in America" that clearly outlines the organized machine operating a small empire of hatred. Besides Spencer and Geller, the report highlights major players like David Yerushalmi (recently featured in a New York Times article outlining his role in this smear campaign) and Fox News (a network owned by the now infamous News Corp and Rupert Murdoch). These people won't stop their work in unfairly vilifying the American Muslim community, but really, how long can that leaky bucket of lies hold water?

It's been a challenge to refute every slam and slur against Islam, but Muslims try to follow the example of the Blessed Prophet Muhammad, who persistently treated his neighbors with respect despite their derision. America's Muslims look forward to our faith community rising above these ashes of misunderstandings to find ourselves welcome as fellow citizens. To make this climb, we know our focus must stay on our youth. There are thousands of young, dynamic American Muslims already creating change in our nation's high schools, colleges and workplaces. Their parents have put heart and soul into raising these young people -- especially within the difficult context of the last 10 years. They have been nurturing their kids with love and giving them confidence to be American and Muslim in the same sentence. We have great and lofty expectations of their futures, and these young people are not failing any of us.

Young Muslims are making advances in medicine, science and technology. Look at the list of young doctors in any teaching hospital and you'll see Muslim names galore. Most major corporations include a cadre of brilliant Muslim engineers. Beyond technology and medicine (traditionally the career paths of choice for Muslims in the U.S.), we are now seeing young Muslims choosing to pursue careers in the less lucrative, but necessary fields of public service, social services and education. And finally, we are seeing more and more Muslim names coming up in the arts and communications fields. This is a hopeful sign for the future, as public perceptions often change through the media in all its forms. Watch Musa Syeed, a writer and independent filmmaker to produce great movies and documentaries, as well as Qasim Bashir, who wrote and directed "Mooz-lum: The Movie." There are thousands of upcoming Muslim journalists, writers, artists, photographers and performers that we will be sure to hear more from in the next 10 years. I'm proud to claim these honest young people who are giving us honest portrayals of Muslims through the arts and media.

We now have young people studying to become Islamic scholars within the American context through the newly instituted Zaytuna College, whose mission is "to educate and prepare morally committed professional, intellectual, and spiritual leaders, who are grounded in the Islamic scholarly tradition and conversant with the cultural currents and critical ideas shaping modern society." We look forward to the graduates of Zaytuna to actively lead and positively shape the American Muslim community for generations to come.

Young Muslims are the backbone of American-Muslim philanthropic efforts, and what they lack in financial resources, they are making up with their time and hard work. There isn't a single charitable event that doesn't depend on student volunteers for its success. Muslims Without Borders has taken this legacy one step further by forming a full-blown relief agency run solely by Muslim students.

I recently had a reporter ask me if it wasn't too big of a burden for my kids to grow up as identifiable Muslims during these last 10 years. It was a sincere question, but I wondered how else she thought I should have raised them. Later, I realized that there are some Muslim parents who have discouraged their children from expressing their faith in any way from fear of reprisal. Recently, my heart hurt for the young checker at the grocery store who told me in a wistful voice that she was "technically a Muslim," but that her parents didn't want her to practice the faith in case she'd suffer here as a new immigrant. I don't know if that statement reflected more poorly on our society, or on her parents; however, for the most part, Muslim families in America are raising their children to be proud of their beliefs and are teaching them that God is infinitely Merciful and Gracious to those who struggle for His sake. These young people who are proud of their noble faith realize that despite some people's innocent ignorance of Islam, or other's outright bigotry, the majority of our neighbors and greater community will have respect for them as long as their character and behavior follow the example of the Blessed Prophet Muhammad. To put it plain and simple, we are raising these young people to trust in God and do good things with their lives.

Muslims in this country are looking forward to seeing an America that once again says we have had enough of hate and fear. We hope everyone will recognize that our country becomes more beautiful with each new color and creed we accept as our own.


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12:05 AM on 09/16/2011
What I wonder is if so many religions have the common belief that there is one almighty God, why do they clash so much?

It's like having 3 kids in a room and ask them to come up with an idea. They all come up with the same or similar ideas. Rather than high-five each other that they were all so smart to have a similar idea, they try to kill each other in hopes that they will be able to claim the idea as theirs.

If only someone could come up with some religion that everyone loved. Just imagine how peaceful the world would be.
04:28 PM on 09/12/2011
"Islam had no part in this tragedy."
Depends upon who issues the fatwa and what sect.
Islam generally doesn't allow killing of civilians specially women and children in war. BUT islam does allow to enslave women and children in war. Women then become sex slaves "malakat aymanukum". A man could marry 4 and have as much slaves as he wishes, very convenient and interesting.
One is what one believes in.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prisoners_of_war_in_Islam#Women_and_children
Women and children

Muslim scholars hold that women and children prisoners of war cannot be killed under any circumstances, regardless of their faith,[19] but that they may be enslaved, freed or ransomed. Women who are neither freed nor ransomed by their people were to be kept in bondage and referred to as ma malakat aymanukum (slaves).
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02:45 PM on 09/12/2011
Islam had no part in this tragedy.
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That's your story, and you are sticking to it.

Good luck with that.
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Doug Sandlin
We see the world not as it is, but as we are.
05:37 PM on 09/10/2011
Another beautifully and clearly-expressed article, Kari; thanks very much.

As Muslims like you continue to show what American Muslims are really like .... bigotry against Muslims will dissolve, as bigotry always does .... because bigotry is always in error.

To all:

That's why no bigotry against any large group of people has ever survived: it's simply not an accurate way to view the members of any vast group of people; there's far too much variety in human nature for a bigoted view of any group to be accurate.

Especially since kind, reasonable and rational people are always, thankfully, the vast, vast majority of people in every general group of human beings (religion, nationality, etc.).

Hatred, violence and cruelty are always aberrations ...... these things just make the news a lot.

Why?

Because they're aberrations; that's what makes them "news".
10:32 AM on 09/11/2011
Well said.
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11:44 AM on 09/11/2011
Thanks as always, Doug. You are a constant counter to those who make their life's purpose to disenfranchise and disrespect everyone and everything I just wrote about in this article.
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01:13 PM on 09/10/2011
It should be noted that none of the "haters" that this blogger describes promote violence in any of their writings.

By contrast, there are numerous passages in the Quran and Hadiths that promote and sanction violence.
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Doug Sandlin
We see the world not as it is, but as we are.
05:33 PM on 09/10/2011
Strange non-equivalence.

You could compare scripture-to-scripture ... all scriptures have violent passages.

Or you could compare personal expression with personal expression.

But comparing violent passages from a given scripture, especially when that scripture only has about 5% violent content (a statistic which applies, approximately, to both the Quran and the Bible), with the expressions of living people who have somehow determined that spreading misinformation about a global religion of 1.6 Billion people .... just doesn't seem to make any sense, I'd say.

And so, let's compare the "haters" who comment here on Huffington Post with Muslims who comment here on Huffington Post.

I have seen Muslims here on Huffington Post (bloggers like Kari, and, mostly, Muslims who comment in Islam-related discussion threads) consistently express themselves, almost without exception, in ways that are far more respectful, polite, kind and reasonable than the ways in which many, if not most, of their detractors express themselves.
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09:42 PM on 09/10/2011
I'm not sure what you think I was trying to make an equivalence about.

I'm just pointing out what needs to be clarified: that the so-called haters do not advocate violence, unlike many passages of the Quran and Hadiths. Therefore, this blogger's attempt at establishing some kind of causality fails.
03:53 PM on 09/12/2011
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"that scripture only has about 5% violent conten. a statistic which applies, approximat­ely, to both the Quran and the Biblet"

- Not really Quran 8.45%, bible 3.89%

http://dwindlinginunbelief.blogspot.com/2006/06/which-is-more-violent-bible-or-quran.html

----------Violence and Cruelty-----Total verses------Percent
Bible--------1214------------------- 31173--------------3.89
Quran-------527------------------- ---6236---------------8.45
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12:50 PM on 09/10/2011
Ignorance has often hid behind the veil of religion and intolerance. Those who would change the world to match their ideas must have an identifiable supreme being for which to call others to arms. It is unfortunate that religious peoples of all faiths have had to endure the ignorance of a few for centuries.
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09:40 PM on 09/12/2011
Are you referring to women who wear identity-concealing garments?
05:30 PM on 09/09/2011
Beautifully written expression of how normal, everyday Muslims live their lives here in America which you always do a wonderful job of writing. I hope with this type of work, more people will see what is true about Islam and those who actually follow it.
03:19 PM on 09/09/2011
Wonderful article, Kari. I think most Muslims are very optimistic of what this coming decade will hold for us all. It will be the same generation of Americans that voted a Black man into office that will open the doors to a better understanding of Islam. Also, this is the first generation of Muslims that have actively taken part in American society (like you point out) and have known no other home. It's all a matter of putting our best face on and broadening how we define ourselves/are defined in this country. It would nice to just feel like an American among fellow Americans with no other labels.
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'You must be carefully taught to hate'...
11:15 AM on 09/09/2011
Thank you, for your sincere words, Kari..