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International Women's Day: Honor the Oldest Woman You Know

Posted: 03/ 6/2011 12:06 pm

Have you ever heard of International Women's Day? I hadn't, until last year, and I have been interested in women's studies all my life. The holiday is widely celebrated in Europe, Africa and Russia -- complete with parades, fanfare and gifts of acknowledgement for the women who make a difference in your life. Who knew? Why isn't it celebrated here? Recently, the whole month of March has been officially proclaimed Women's History Month by President Obama on Feb. 28, 2011.

This coming Tuesday, the world will celebrate with extensive global women's activities. Performer and social activist Annie Lennox will lead a mass march across London's Millennium Bridge for charity. In Washington, D.C. over a thousand people will descend on Capitol Hill demanding a better world for millions of marginalized women and girls around the globe. A major international businesswomen's conference will be hosted in Sydney, Australia. Schools and governments around the world are participating in the day. Trade Unions and charities are campaigning. Global corporations are hosting conferences and distributing extensive resource packs. The United Nations Secretary-General will deliver a formal message.

The first International Women's Day events were run in Austria, Denmark, Germany and Switzerland in 1911 and attended by over one million people. 100 years on, International Women's Day (IWD) has become a global mainstream phenomena celebrated across many countries and is an official holiday in approximately 25 countries, including Afghanistan, Russia, Ukraine, Vietnam and Zambia.

International Women's Day is a global celebration of the economic, political and social achievements of women -- past, present and future. However, activity has not always been on the increase. Australian entrepreneur and women's campaigner Glenda Stone created the global hub of events and information. She said:

A decade ago International Women's Day was disappearing. Activity in Europe, where International Women's Day actually began, was very low. Providing a global online platform helped sustain and accelerate momentum for this important day. Holding only a handful of events 10 years ago, the United Kingdom has now become the global leader for International Women's Day activity, followed sharply by Canada, the United States and Australia. 2011 will see thousands of events globally for the first time.

More recently, social networking websites like Twitter, Facebook and YouTube have helped fuel International Women's Day activities. Generally the day has moved away from its socialist suffragette beginnings to become more mainstream in celebrating women's achievements. Women's rights campaigners, however, continue to remind that vigilance rather than complacency is essential in striving for women's equality.

This day has become close to my heart, as I have been asked to host over 50 interactive conference call events this month to celebrate International Women's Day and National Women's History Month in the "100 Women of Destiny Teleretreat." Amazing thought leaders like Marianne Williamson, Lindsay Wagner, Ricki Lake, Lynne McTaggert, Rickie Byars Beckwith and Marci Shimoff will get "up close and personal" with callers from around the world.

This week, I had a chance to talk to actress and activist Mimi Kennedy from "Dharma and Greg" about how International Women's Day helped to spurn the suffragist movement at the turn of the century and galvanized women to fight for the right to vote. Kennedy created a one-woman play called "Waking Matilda" about suffragist Matilda Joslyn Gage with Dr. Sally Wagner, a veteran 40-year professor who received one of the first doctorates in women's studies, and helped established the first college women's studies program in the U.S.

"More than ever, we have to remember the voices of our great-great-grandmothers," said Kennedy. "The causes they were fighting for are still relevant today."

Take a moment to contemplate; just a couple generations ago, women could not work, vote, leave a marriage or even have a say in the fate of their children. "If you were an adult woman 100 years ago, you would have been corseting your body for so many years to achieve an 18 inch waist, that you would not be able to stand up straight without the corset, and all your internal organs would be pushed so far down the abdomen, that childbirth became life threatening," said Wagner.

Women gave away all of their rights when they married. Their husbands could beat them, take all their money, if they had any, and even will away their unborn children. Women had no say in the matter, and had nowhere to turn for help. Imagine this reality compared to today. Most of us saunter around in cozy sweats, and our fellow sisters are flying around in the space shuttle, running companies and wrangling with Gadhafi as Secretary of State. It is truly staggering to take in the strides that have been accomplished in such a short time.

"Matilda Joslyn Gage and the other Suffragists sat around a table and decided to take action," said Kennedy. "Imagine, no phones, no internet, no cars and yet they created a national movement with handwritten letters that took two weeks to receive a reply."

Today the world looks much different, but the need to create social change remains the same. I also spoke with Claire Diaz Ortiz this week, an executive of philanthropy at Twitter, about the modern methods of creating a movement. "As we have seen in the Middle East, change can happen very rapidly now," said Diaz Ortiz. "Non-profits and causes can effectively use social networking to make change like never before."

How can you honor International Women's Day? Check out the official website to learn more about the holiday, including a special "Join Me on the Bridge" campaign happening on major bridges across the world. I will be connecting live in the teleretreat with women in Mombasa, Kenya, who have created the "Listening to the Women of Africa Conference."

To honor the 100 years of International Women's Day, Leni Herscher created a tribute, carefully choosing 100 women who have all made significant contributions to the world from all demographics and walks of life; in a rapid cascade of faces from then to now -- including our own Arianna Huffington.

Enjoy and click here for a full list of who they are:



Who is the oldest living woman you know? Make a point to get in touch with her this week -- give her a call or pay her a visit. Maybe show up with some flowers, or a card, and ask her to tell you what her life was like as a woman when she was young. For it is upon the shoulders of these foremothers we all stand today, and they cannot be recognized enough.

Tell me about her in the comments below, and happy International Women's Day to all.

 

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Have you ever heard of International Women's Day? I hadn't, until last year, and I have been interested in women's studies all my life. The holiday is widely celebrated in Europe, Africa and Russia --...
Have you ever heard of International Women's Day? I hadn't, until last year, and I have been interested in women's studies all my life. The holiday is widely celebrated in Europe, Africa and Russia --...
 
 
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03:55 AM on 03/09/2011
What a great idea!

My mama is the next-to-oldest woman I know (I think.) I remember being furious with my grandparents, years after the fact, when I learned that Mom had been accepted after high school to a college that trained kindergarten teachers. Mom would have been *stellar* at this, but my grandparents refused to let her go. Years later, my grandmother tried to dissuade me from going to college, for the same reasons: I'd just get married, and then all that time and money would be "wasted." Since Grandma knew I wanted to travel, she recommended I go to work for an airline so I could travel free... until I got married! (My uncle worked for TWA.) That wasn't the only time Grandma and I clashed. Since she was used to getting her way (can you say matriarch?) and I've never been good at standing up to bullying, I still take pride in never giving in to my grandmother's negativity. But I *still* resent the way Mama got short-changed!

The oldest woman I know (possibly; she doesn't reveal her age) recently celebrated her 70th anniversary; she and her husband are the most charming couple I know. She always insists, with a very roguish twinkle, that she was a "child bride." Still interested in life, still enthusiastic, generous, loving... she's a delight, and a smile from her acts on me like a tonic.

I will look her up and ask!
08:49 PM on 03/07/2011
Fantastic call to action for women old and young. Rather than contact a living older woman to co-story with, I shared the life story of a dead woman who has influenced me from the time I was a child: Mary Poppins via the pen of Australian author, Pamela Travers. A fascinating women's story , I pay tribute to Pamela Travers (and link back to this post) at http://thejunkwave.com/2011/03/08/mary-poppins-and-pamela-travers-on-international-womens-day/

Happy International Women's Day from Megan in Australia
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10:03 PM on 03/07/2011
Hi Megan!
What an iconic archetype created by Pamela Tavers in Mary Poppins- thanks for the smile!
05:41 PM on 03/07/2011
I love the idea of contacting the oldest woman you know to connect with her and listen to her amazing life stories. We've set up a site to collect the stories of inspiring, strong women, in collaboration with National Women's History Month, and we'd be more than honored if you added her as part of celebrating International Women's Day. http://1000memories.com/women-in-history
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10:03 PM on 03/07/2011
Wow! Fabulous! I am going to check out the site now! Thank you!
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I propose a toast to my self control...
11:35 AM on 03/07/2011
My 95-yr-old Aunt Pauline and I exchange greeting cards and little notes every month because she lives 2000 miles away..I think this calls for some flowers! She is a gas to talk to...We were recently talking on the phone and something about Betty White came up..my aunt quipped 'Oh, shes's just a kid!'
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10:05 PM on 03/07/2011
Betty White a kid! ha ha - Love it! Aunt Pauline sounds like a gas indeed! Send her a few hello's from Huff Po!
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"A large lady given to speaking her mind."
09:24 AM on 03/07/2011
thanks for this. i will certainly celebrate my "oldest woman"....who happens to be my 85 yr old foster mother. This woman took me in, back in the sixties, because i was a child with no mother. She got $3.50 a day from the government for my care. Her life has always been about giving...caring for others. Not long ago she was named Volunteer of the Year in her city for her work with the homeless.
Every morning she woke me with these words, "Time to rise and shine." I'm still trying to shine as much as she always has.
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10:07 PM on 03/07/2011
What a blessing- for her and for you,to have found each other... she sounds like a truly extraordinary woman! Thank you!
01:03 AM on 03/07/2011
Not to nitpick, but International Women's Day is on March 8th..it is on Tuesday..
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10:07 PM on 03/07/2011
Jeez! Fixed! Thanks
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12:51 AM on 03/07/2011
The oldest person in our family is my Mom. She's 91, healthy, goes bowling, drives, lives off soup and coffee, and smokes.
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10:08 PM on 03/07/2011
Ha!
That made me laugh out loud! So much for the health food craze.... Lucky woman!
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12:11 AM on 03/07/2011
I try to, every time I see her. She's 96 and a real kick. She always asks me how my horse is. She loves horses. When she was younger, there was a boy who would ride by one his horse. Trick riding in some way or another. When she told the story to me she had a huge smile on her face. Or the time when she had to ride this other horse because her pony was pregnant, and this horse took her home at this breakneck lope. She told the tale with a chow eating grin on her face. I love her with all of my heart.
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10:09 PM on 03/07/2011
I just love these stories!!
It has a big grin on my face too!
Thank you!
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11:32 PM on 03/06/2011
Great article! It is so true that we take for granted the rights and privileges that are so newly earned for women in today's society. In the scheme of things women's rights have really only travelled to where they are today in the last half of the 20th century. We owe our foremothers the respect of their sacrifices and perseverence.
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10:01 PM on 03/06/2011
I am so happy to read this and for the reminder about Thursday! I will definitely call my 88 years young Aunt! In 2006, she lost the love of her life, her husband of 60 years and then, two years later, lost nearly everything they both had owned, including their home, in Hurricane Ike. Her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren came and helped her sort it all out. She moved into an apartment and reveled in buying all new things, some of which she never had before! She uses her china and crystal (which had been in storage) everyday, as she said she wondered "Who the hell have I been saving it for?" Her resilience in the face of adversity is a lesson for all. She is the entire family's "mother" and we all love her a great deal!
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10:13 PM on 03/07/2011
WOW!
Incredible story- THANK YOU and thank your Aunt for showing all of us the power of perseverence... what a blessing to have such a matriarch in your life! Super role model. THanks!
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librainstars
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08:54 PM on 03/06/2011
If i could I would honor my Mom and Grandmother and my aunt. I still do. But they are gone.
They all passed with in 4 years of each other.
My Grandmother ....taught me grace. She passed away at the age of 91. She felt everyone mattered.
My Mom ....who taught me that sticking up for ppl ..thats just what you did.
my aunt...who went well beyond being a aunt.
All three of them taught me how Precious life is.
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10:14 PM on 03/07/2011
Thank you.
what a gift.
I am sorry for your loss, but what a blessing to have them.
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05:21 PM on 03/06/2011
We already did, yesterday was my grandmother's birthday and we had a party in her honor. Games, cake, family, friends, and laughs all in one night. Go grandma! :)
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06:52 PM on 03/06/2011
Go grama! What a fun occasion! Glad you can share it with us here... it is just something we never think of, and what joy it can bring.
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12:28 AM on 03/07/2011
Oh certainly, we take a lot of things for granted and then wonder what the big deal is when someone chooses to celebrate life. We're a little spoiled in that way, but awareness helps to bring about appreciation.
03:39 PM on 03/06/2011
Great idea.
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02:31 PM on 03/06/2011
People take for granted the fragile path we have walked to equality.
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01:52 PM on 03/06/2011
The oldest living woman I know personally is my mom, soon to be 93. She was 2 years old in 1920. I don't think she has missed an election once since she was old enough to vote. She and my dad taught me that if you don't vote, you have no right to bitch. (This does not include those in countries where people can't vote, before anyone decides to get on my case) I can still remember going with her to vote when I was a small child. Here's to you, Mom, and all those like you!
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06:54 PM on 03/06/2011
Hey! Thanks Jill!
Many of our mother's or grandmothers grew up not having the right to vote. It is unfathomable to the younger generation, and perhaps part of the apathy? We forget what a privilege it is to have the right to choose who to lead... we are learning this now by watching Libya, Egypt and Tunsia fight.

Thanks for sharing the story of your Mom!