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Karl Kozel

Karl Kozel

Posted: July 20, 2010 12:00 PM

It Is Over When It's Over

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Last week I visited the beautiful city of Charleston, South Carolina, and I must say if you haven't yet visited this picturesque and historic city, you should put it on your list of places to go. Located close to the Atlantic Ocean on a peninsula facing the Charleston Bay, it boasts magnificent homes, many of which pre-date the American Revolution. For Civil War buffs, it has Fort Sumter, where the first shots of the war were fired. For those who love food and wine, the city has many fine restaurants to choose from, and many of its kitchens are manned by James Beard Award winners. Its hospitality is unmatched and the pride in its city shines through in many details.

While visiting "The Holy City," something occurred that inspired this piece. I was at one of the best hotels in the city having a cocktail at the bar when the bartender made "last call." That was fine, but once she made the drinks for various customers, myself included, the lights came up quickly and the bar atmosphere suddenly became unwelcome. She could not have been nicer up to that point, but it would have been more appropriate for her to have allowed a proper amount of time for us to enjoy our cocktails. It felt like we all were being given the "bum's rush."

The next night, at a different hotel, the same thing happened. Now this is not to pick on Charleston because I know this happens everywhere. The closing dance that occurs nightly in our bars, restaurants and clubs across the U.S. is fraught with misunderstandings and potential confrontation between staff and customers. I think it is a problem that needs to be addressed. Simple guidelines can be set so that the customer has a clear idea of just how long they have to finish his or her drink.

The problem with closing down a bar is that the bartender has ambitions, whether to go home or to go out somewhere and imbibe, but certainly not to stay any longer at the bar than they have to. They have worked a long shift and are tired. The customer, however has a different agenda, namely to enjoy a drink or a nightcap and perhaps more than one. So, when we have a bartender who wants to go home and customers who want to stay, we have two desires that unfortunately are polar opposites. Bartenders become resentful of those who don't heed the "last call" rule and ask for more after the call has been made, which is a no-no, or those who nurse their drinks without taking into account the burden they are placing on the staff who must wait for them to finish their drinks. Customers can become resentful of bartenders who serve a drink that should come with the tacit understanding that it can be enjoyed in the same atmosphere the customer at seven or eight o'clock enjoyed. To serve a drink and then to crank up the lights or turn off the music, or run the vacuum cleaner is an insult to a customer, and the practice should stop.

I have some simple solutions to the problem that I would like to share with my readers:
First, let's talk about the "house" and its policies. Establishments, within reason, should have a closing time that is well-defined for the bar staff. Closing times should be consistent, which can help to attract some late business if in fact the locals know that you will be open until your stated closing time, and therefore they won't hesitate to come because they know you will be open whether there is one patron or twenty at the bar. A consistent closing time can also dissuade a bartender from arbitrarily calling last call before the agreed upon time to do so.

The bartender should know when to give last call, and then when to clear the drinks off the bar. If possible, the patrons should be told before they order their final drinks, just how long they have to finish them. Let's say hypothetically that the bar closes at 2:00. The last call should either come at 1:30 or 1:45. Then, the customers have time to enjoy their libation, without the stress of not knowing how long they have until they must leave. If a bar serves a drink and then changes the atmosphere to shoo away the customers, I believe it is a breach of ethics when a façade is created that the establishment is still open and then the ambiance is changed. Whether intentional or not, serving a drink and then rushing the customer is frankly gouging, and it is a very bad policy to have no matter what type of drinking establishment one runs.

From the customer's side, we have a responsibility, and that is to conduct ourselves like ladies and gentlemen. When last call has been given we should know whether we want another drink or not. We cannot order more drinks after that, because that is not respecting the house rules. Last call is last call, period. If one wants another drink, find an establishment that has later hours, or go home and have your nightcap there -- which in many cases is the best thing to do anyway, especially for those who are driving. The point here is to never argue with the bartender over why you should be allowed to have another if you have been given last call. Let the poor bartender, and whoever else is waiting for you to finish your drink, go home for god's sake!

Let's all consider this: ending the evening graciously is a fine dance, and many establishments need to work on their closing routine. So too should customers respect the establishment's closing time. Starting tonight wouldn't be a bad idea. After all, isn't the bar or restaurant an extension of our homes?

I'll see you when I see you!

 
 
 
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Hardyman1966
The antonym of liberal is INTOLERANT.
11:43 PM on 07/26/2010
It's always better to leave a party while it's still your idea.
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Edward Taylor
12:34 PM on 07/22/2010
He's supposedly a bartender? I know in NY the law states last call at 4am, drinks and money off the bar at 4:15am, customers out at 4:30am. We can give last call at any point before then as well. This guy has never had to deal with all the nonsense at 3 in the morning. When the customers have had enough and I know I've had enough.
05:14 AM on 07/22/2010
Its 1:30am, we yell last call, turn on the lights and turn off the music; not so subtle, but drunk people don't get subtle hints. Trying to get drunks out of a bar is sometimes like herding cats. Excuse us if we have to be aggressive about this, it's the law and our jobs depend on us staying within the law.
05:24 PM on 07/21/2010
What a stupid article. I tended bar for one summer and would never do it again. Bartenders everywhere have my sympathy. Bars are governed by local laws and don't decide to close down arbitrarily. Generally speaking, most of the people who are still hanging around a bar at 2:00 am are drunk or on their way to being drunk so you will get an argument from them whether you tell them 15 minutes or an hour ahead of closing. As for the comments about how knowing the bar is open later than others will actually get you customers: ask any bar tender how they feel about the customers who stagger in at 1:00 am.
04:41 PM on 07/21/2010
This is easy in the state of Texas. The bar closes at 2AM and it is ILLEGAL for you to drink, even a cocktail you have paid for, after 2AM. The lights come up and your server will collect your glass at 2AM. Last call is anywhere from 1:30 to 1:45 and you have until 2 to finish your drink.
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mrh85
05:55 PM on 07/21/2010
actually, i think the actual law states nothing can be sold after 2, but you have until 2:15 until it is considered a violation.
04:34 PM on 07/21/2010
Here in Boston, we have pretty strict laws about this. My bar must stop pouring at 1 AM. Last call is 12:45. The restaurant is closed at 1 AM, and so the lights go up so the staff can start to clean. Customers must be out the door at 1:30. Very cut and dry, as that is exactly what our license allows.

Is it kind of rude to turn up the lights and cut the music at 1 AM? Eh...kinda. We are technically closed. We allow you to finish up, but we are no longer open for business. "Last Call" is the end of the business day for the restaurant. We don't force you out and start getting somewhat hostile until we have to (drinks must be out of customers' hands by 1:30 AM...no exceptions.)
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Donald Fannin
04:34 PM on 07/21/2010
It has been my considerable experience that when the bartender says last call, you have already had enough.
04:08 PM on 07/21/2010
At closing time we would play "The Star Spangled Banner" and people would automatically stand up. Then we played "March Around the Room" a children's song one might play at a birthday party. Then the lights came on and we played a dreadful "dictation" practice record. That drove everyone out.
03:56 PM on 07/21/2010
While every municipality is different, I think the measurement needs to be the same. What I mean is that we should have every municipality dictate "Last Call" times, rather than this mix of bar-closing and alcohol-serving and 'drinks on the table' times.

If no bartender was allowed to "serve an alcoholic drink" after 1:45am in Florida, everyone would know what to expect when they go to a bar. If the bartender calls Last Call at 1:30, he should be able to get out all the drinks ordered by 1:45.

The bartender can then always say to any customer wanting a drink after 1:45, "hey, I cannot legally serve you." No mystery, no begging for another drink.
04:42 PM on 07/21/2010
sorry that does not work. once they're good and sauced, customers will still beg, argue, and shout for another drink. by your logic police would only have to say "hey now, don't do that!".
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05:40 PM on 07/21/2010
I worked as a bartender for 15 years. You know what works? No and get out.
03:27 PM on 07/21/2010
Or you could save a lot of money by buying a bottle of Stoli and the mixer of your choice. The entire night could be paid for, for the price of one drink at a bar.
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drumz
Those little red panties they pass the test
04:22 PM on 07/22/2010
I bet you don't tip either...
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GraphicMatt
Somebody make me a sandwich!
03:24 PM on 07/21/2010
Those in the restaurant biz may know the term "power bussing". That means if you really need a table and there are people camping (another ITB term) you have the busser clear everything from the table that isn't nailed down. It's a subtle of way of saying "you're done with your meal, you've paid, now please leave so we can use this table." Turning up the lights right after last call and starting to clean is basically the same concept.
03:46 PM on 07/21/2010
Only in America! It's interesting to compare this "power bussing" philosophy to waitstaff practices in Europe: as the customer, the table is yours for as long as you want it, and the server never brings the bill before you ask for it.

A related issue is American vs. European wine pouring customs. In the US, servers or sommeliers tend to keep your glass overfull so your party goes through more bottles. In Europe, the server usually let's the customers refill their own glasses at their leisure. Much different eating & drinking habits. I think both cultures might learn a thing or two from one other.
04:05 PM on 07/21/2010
That is because in Europe servers and bartenders are paid a livable wage. In America they are paid $2-3 dollars an hour. Do the math.....if a couple sits down at a cafe in Paris and stays all day....the server makes the same amount of money as he or she would if that same table turns over 20 times. If that same couple sits down at a bar in Washington, DC and stays all day.....that server makes $16 in wage and what ever that couple tips. It's basic math.
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GraphicMatt
Somebody make me a sandwich!
04:09 PM on 07/21/2010
The biggest difference is in Europe being a server is more geared towards being a career (they are paid more therefore less dependant on tips.) Although there are career servers in this country, many are college students and younger people aspiring for other careers.

As for the "power bussing" this would never fly in an upscale, dining establishment. This was more for the "turn and burn" place.
03:12 PM on 07/21/2010
As a native Charlestonian, I am quite familiar with the routine you describe. In most respects, we are a very polite city, but bar closings are an exception. It is mandated by law that bars close at 2 am here. If any drinks are present at 2 am, the bar will get a very hefty fine. Most bartenders would prefer to make last call earlier so that customers could enjoy their final drinks in peace, but the bar owner is interested in serving as late as possible. This is why last call is mandated to be later than it should be. Once last call is made, the staff's job is to get everyone to finish their drinks and be out of the bar before the 2 am deadline. If you fail to get everyone out and the drinks cleared before 2, the bar will get fined and you may even get fired.

The real answer to the problem is to remove the mandated closing time. Although it may seem like a good idea to set limits on how late a bar can stay open, the downside is that every bar empties out at the same time and the streets become crowded with drunk people who are irritated that they just got kicked out. Friday and Saturday nights can become pure chaos.

At any rate, the fault is not usually with the bartender - it is the bar owner and the city law.
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04:41 PM on 07/21/2010
I agree with you, RobDaniel. People don't realize that "late-night" licenses have to be purchased if the business is to continue serving alcohol past 2 a.m. (And I've been in some establishments where the license will allow beer/wines sales until the place closes, but will only allow sales of liquor for maybe another hour or two past 2 a.m.) I'm in SC - Columbia seeks to emulate Charleston by closing ALL of its bars @ 2 a.m. instead of some to continue closing at 3, 4 or even 6 am. So far, that idea is not going over very well - interestingly enough, the biggest opponents are not the patrons, but rather the people who work at the establishments that already close at 2 a.m. (because they'd like to unwind after their shifts as well, and if all places close at the same time, they can't). It'll be interesting to see how this story progresses...
05:47 PM on 07/21/2010
thanks for sharing your experience on this topic, since many posters, including myself, can easily get off topic (and, frequently, too personal).

yeah, i think the last-call closing time is part of the problem to be sure. and it doesn't allow fair competition between business can handle staying open later and those that want to close earlier.

in my experience, this last-call drama is compounded by some confusion as to whether the bar must be cleared of DRINKS by 2am OR if the building must be cleared of DRUNKS by 2am. lol.

these laws do vary from place to place - i've been to cities where they serve drinks as late as possible and then only require people to surrender their drinks on their way out the door (at 2am). while other bars seem more intent on clearing the place and having the doors closed before 2am.

so i agree with the author, Karl Kozel's assertion that some consistency in policies would be useful in limiting some of the confusion that arise from last-call disputes.
03:03 PM on 07/21/2010
as a bouncer i feel i must interject. the problem with this article is it neglects to mention that at closing, a lot of bar patrons are drunk and belligerent. they do not respond well to being politely asked to leave, or being told to leave. many of them BEG for one last drink, attempting to enter the bar even after the precious ambiance has gone. in many (if not most) cases, there are laws in place saying how late a bar can serve alcohol, with fines as punishment. Around here one drink after 2am can result in a $10,000 fine and possible revocation of the liquor license. The bartender is protecting their livelihood, and it is my advice to abide by their commands before someone in my profession takes over and removes you by force.
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Godweiser
The eyes have it.
03:09 PM on 07/21/2010
To be honest, and please don't burst my bubble, the idea of beating on obnoxious people for a living sounds like a fabulous and rewarding career.
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exxman
I Am The 99%
03:11 PM on 07/21/2010
In Washington state bartenders are licensed. Two infractions and you loose your license. You can't even waite tables in an establishment that serves liquor. You bet I'm protective of that.

And while I'm at it; thanks to all the bouncers that stick their necks out to see that everyone has a good time. You guys are under appreciated and underpaid.
03:00 PM on 07/21/2010
Let's face it; if you can't get you're drink on by 1:30 AM you are doing it wrong.

Announce last call 30 min. before closing, start pulling drinks 15 min. after that.
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krayonc
Travel is fatal to prejudice & bigotry.
02:53 PM on 07/21/2010
Who is moderating this and what's your problem????