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Curtis, Blogger, Living Off Wife's Breast Milk

Posted: 09/22/11 02:50 PM ET

People will blog about almost anything these days. Case in point: A man is attempting to live off of his wife's breast milk and posting his daily experiences on a blog called, "Don't Have A Cow, Man."

A father protesting the dairy industry, perhaps? Or one trying to cure his cancer by supplementing his diet with breast milk like this guy did?

Not so much. Curtis's wife, Katie, just has an ample supply: she pumped every two hours following three pregnancies and premature babies who were in the neonatal care unit. She has since managed to fill up a freezer -- seven cubic feet deep mind you -- that the couple purchased specifically for her excess milk.

The two claim that they had trouble donating the milk due to the costs associated with doing so, and on top of that, Curtis says it helps his digestive issues.

Feeling annoyed yet? You're not the only one.

"Please donate the milk!! Seriously. You have no idea how many women you are offending and infuriating with this crazy scheme!!" writes one respondent on the couple's blog.

The outrage could stem from a variety of factors. For starters, despite (or maybe because of) the couple denying it, this experiment is going to sound to some like a gimmick to get attention and a subsequent book deal (The couple specifically say on their website that they are not doing this for attention.)

That five-minutes-of-fame issue aside, what about breast milk being in high demand both at home and abroad -- it can sell for around $4 an ounce. In addition to all the mothers whose supplies run out or who can't breastfeed for medical reasons, there are orphaned children in Africa whose mothers have died of AIDS. Several organizations are dedicated to providing them with milk.

Last May, Wired reported about the booming internet market for breast milk. One woman estimated she could make $20,000 a year selling her milk.

Curtis and Katie say they tried to find needy recipients for the milk, but that each one fell through. One woman wanted the couple to pay shipping costs, another wanted a medical test done that insurance wouldn't cover. The couple also argued that milk banks would not accept their donation. They pointed out that donating couples don't get a cut of the profits.

Now, women are practically begging them for the milk on their own site.

"I want that milk! Where are you located!?!?! (I have a four month old son who survives on donor milk)" wrote one woman on the couple's blog. Another, an adoptive mother, offered to drive to their house from Texas and pick it up herself.

So are there any medical benefits to Curtis living off the milk that might redeem the experiment? It seems unlikely.

"Biologically, just because something is good for babies does not mean it is good for adults," said Dr. Tonse Raju, a pediatrician and a neonatologist with the National Institutes of Health, who pointed out that all mammals wean from their mothers eventually. Calves eventually move on to grass, he said, and after six months, human babies need to start eating solid foods.

Raju pointed out that breast milk may be calorically sufficient if an adult drinks enough of it, but it would still be deficient in several nutrients like protein and fiber. A chronic lack of either can cause a host of health problems, including harm to the liver, kidneys and an increased risk of intestinal cancer.

"Human milk has evolved to support the baby's needs during the years of the baby's growth. When you begin to grow bigger, you have different needs," said Raju.

 

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People will blog about almost anything these days. Case in point: A man is attempting to live off of his wife's breast milk and posting his daily experiences on a blog called, "Don't Have A Cow, Man."...
People will blog about almost anything these days. Case in point: A man is attempting to live off of his wife's breast milk and posting his daily experiences on a blog called, "Don't Have A Cow, Man."...
 
 
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10:40 AM on 10/10/2011
Many women have leftover milk. When their husbands drink it it is the sexiest thing in the world. Let the husband and wife have good intimacy and sex and people freak out. YES, there are many sex craved and deprived people out there, but you don't have to take it out on a woman who does something a little out of the ordinary. There will ALWAYS be more milk for the baby. This is a little ridiculous.
01:15 PM on 09/26/2011
What is absurd is the mindset that this family is obligated to do anything with their excess supply. It is the mother's to do with as she wishes and no one else's business. Are you all blood donors? Are you all identified as organ donors on your driver's licenses? No, not everyone? Of course not, because that is your own personal business, and some choose not to. Even when there are others who may need it.
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04:58 PM on 09/25/2011
So it's a bunch of mothers here who would otherwise be protesting anyone who tried to stand in the way of them breastfeeding their children and doing what they wish with their bodies in public or private.....angry at a woman who chooses to let her husband drink her leftovers at no detriment to her child? Just making sure.
06:04 PM on 09/24/2011
Due to distance and having a high risk pregnancy, I stayed in an on site facility during my youngest's first few weeks of life. (She was premature and in hospital for a while) I was very surprised by a call I got at the facility one day. "Umm, Mrs. _____ could you please keep your milk stored at the facility? We have ran out of room in our hospital refrigerator, there is sooooooo much of it." LOL, I had no idea someone else could use it, but really don't think I would want my child's father ummm, well, just, NO!!!
My youngest is almost fully grown now, and so healthy.
She could have a better graduation present had I sold even a 1/4 of what I was producing.
12:19 AM on 09/24/2011
This is absurd!! I donated over 4000 ounces of breast milk to a milk bank in Raleigh, NC in 2007. There are about 3 or 4 milk banks in the country that accepts donated milk. Of course there was an initial screening process....but once I was given the clearance, I pumped milk and saved half for my "micro-preemie (1.7lbs)" and donated the other half. I, too, had an ample supply...pumping about 64 ounces a day. I had to purchase a deep freezer to contain the milk. I was even featured on the local news (wbtv channel 3 in Charlotte, NC 2007) when a story aired about milk banks. The milk bank supplied me with a cooler & storage bags. I would contact fed ex, who would pick up directly from my home and ship to the milk bank...at no cost to me. The frozen milk stayed frozen, since I would only ship when I had a enough milk to fill a large cooler. All milk bags were dated and labeled with how many ounces were in the bag. If I took any medication, even down to an aspirin, I would inform the milk bank. It was good to help others!! If you have an ample milk supply....please contact a milk bank, get screened, and donate for the good of others!!!!
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09:39 PM on 09/23/2011
20K a year selling milk? Why, God, why can't I ever make enough of it??? I could almost stay home full time....wow..... Sell it to those people who make cheese out of it...as for her guy drinking it? I guess I could understand the kink of getting it fresh, but leftover frozen? ewwww.
05:56 PM on 09/23/2011
FYI it isn't so easy donating milk. I am totally healthy, but did not meet the requirements to donate my extra milk.
04:27 PM on 09/23/2011
You know what,? ...I hate when someone milks a story...
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02:13 PM on 09/23/2011
I like to do what I like, and I like to know that others can do what they like.
01:37 PM on 09/23/2011
Breast milk from a woman might be good for a man, especially if the woman happens to be Christina Hendricks.
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10:42 AM on 09/23/2011
my choice is what i choose to do
and if i'm causing no harm it shouldn't bother you.
your choice is what you choose to be
and if you're causing no harm
then you're alright with me.
-ben harper (burn one down)
10:29 AM on 09/23/2011
Blog has been removed?
05:45 AM on 09/23/2011
If the couple wanted to take the breast milk and feed it to their pet unicorn or water their herb garden, it is none of the blogger's business, and certainly not the business of the nosy hens who join her in her artificial outrage. If they were at all sincere, she and her coven would pay for the non-covered medical tests and the shipping costs. But I saw no indication that any of them were taking steps to do so. So much for their moral outrage....
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10:40 AM on 09/23/2011
you can be sincere without having money for medical tests. which generally are quite expensive in this anti-health country.

but i strongly agree with the first sentence :)
12:35 PM on 09/24/2011
What the heck is an Anti-health country? I agree that healthcare can be expensive--but we certainly are not a country that is anti-health.
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01:05 AM on 09/24/2011
Yes but if you blog about your choices for all the world to see, you better be ready for the criticisms.
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10:08 AM on 09/25/2011
sure we are...we are for profit for big business health country. we aren't concerned for people's health unless they can pay and pad the pockets of the uber wealthy.
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05:43 AM on 09/23/2011
It is her milk, it it her right to choose what happens to it. She wants to sell it but agencies that specialize is mothers milk will not share profits. They want it free and sell it at $4 per ounce. Just like plasma. Where I live after your 5th donation your price goes down to $30 per donation but "apparently" they sell it for $1500 a unit.
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05:41 AM on 09/23/2011
Her body, her milk, her business
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08:25 PM on 09/23/2011
And, this is why I've got you fanned, cinemaven. Oh, I do love your ground of being and your authentic Voice. Beautiful.

Blessings,
Cara
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09:26 AM on 09/24/2011
Then it's definitely a mutual admiration society... off to read your latest uplifting column
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dr-cara-barker/love-your-enemy_b_970272.html

And for anyone peeking in, I can't recommend Dr. Cara's columns highly enough. If you're not familiar with them, do yourself a favor and take a look.
12:38 PM on 09/24/2011
I agree fully that it is her body and her milk but once she or her husband starts blogging about it then it becomes the business of the cyber world and invites the opinion of all that choose to read said ramblings.