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The Steps to Becoming a Veganist

Posted: 03/15/11 08:40 AM ET

I've been humbled in recent months by the very kind attention given to my new book, "Veganist." As a result of the attention, I've been getting a lot of emails and inquiries, and perhaps the most popular question is some variant of "How did you do it?"
Obviously I didn't pop out of the womb a veganist.

In fact, I was born in the South and grew up on chicken-fried steak and cheesy grits. I loved nothing more than milk shakes and barbecue ribs. I had an appetite for meat like anyone else, and I didn't think twice about it. I wasn't a thoughtless person; I was just enjoying my life and eating what tasted good and what I was told was good for me. It wasn't until I was in my 30s that I started considering where my food came from.

When I made the shift to being vegetarian, it was gradual. I gave up eating one animal at a time. I'd come home and tell my husband, "I'm not cooking any more steak." He'd roll his eyes and say, "Whatever." And some months later, I'd be standing in the kitchen saying, "I can't put chicken on the table anymore" -- he was a little more perturbed about that. Later still, when I said I couldn't bring myself to buy cheese anymore, he thought I'd lost my mind.

Luckily, by then, I began hitting my stride with this lean toward a plant-based diet. I found so, so many delicious foods that were actually the same as our favorite meals, but without the meat. Sometimes I brought home meat alternatives (vegetarian versions of chicken or ribs, etc.) and sometimes I focused more on beans, legumes, and whole grains (like black bean burritos with guacamole or lentil soup with wild rice salad).

I began to love vegan food, and so did my husband, who said one day, "If I thought I could have eaten this well as a vegetarian, I would have gone that way a long time ago." There was no loss. No stringent diet or "bird food." We simply lightened up on the animal-based foods and replaced them with plant-based fare. It took a few years, but eventually, we had a vegan home and were entertaining friends and family with unbelievably delicious (and nutritious) food.

Hence, I became a veganist!

A veganist is someone who looks closely at all of the implications of their food choices -- to his or her own body, to the animals, and to the environment -- and then chooses to lean in to a plant-based diet. The suffix "ist" means "one who does" or "one who studies," so a veganist takes what he or she learns and puts it into action by eating things that grow on trees or in the ground. All of this said, the word is intended as a soft word, a forgiving word. It's all about progress, not perfection.

My husband coined the word veganist one day when I was going on with one of my usual schpiels about the virtues of a plant-based diet and he said, "Honey, you are a veganist!" (I told you it's a gentle word). Vegan used to seem odd, but today things are different (so much so that top chefs rated veganism as the hip new trend of 2010); being a veganist is about being passionate, aware, and solution-oriented.

Think of it this way: just like a violinist is devoted to learning more and practicing the violin, so does a veganist take an intense interest in all things vegan.

As I coach people on their way to giving up meat, dairy, fish, and eggs, I always recommend "leaning into it" (as I did here) so they don't get too overwhelmed by the changes. If you shift your eating patterns gradually, just by giving up eating one animal at a time (start by giving up chickens) or subbing out a favorite meal by veganizing the protein (opting for a black bean burrito instead of a beef burrito for instance), you have more breathing room to discover new food choices and menus. When I decided that vegan made sense, I was suddenly overwhelmed with what I didn't know, what I could and couldn't eat. So I just set my intention to be vegan, and then made the incremental changes little by little until I was entirely comfortable with the new fare.

And then you start reaping the benefits: weight loss, prevention and reversal of disease, increased longevity, the pride of knowing that you are radically reducing your carbon footprint, money saved, and the sense that you are evolving as a conscious and compassionate human being.

Eating vegan is a substantial pillar to our health and wellbeing; it's good for us physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Food is so foundational, so much a part of our daily routine. It reflects who we are and what we value. So eating a vegan diet is the perfect opportunity to put into action -- regularly -- what's important to us.

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I've been humbled in recent months by the very kind attention given to my new book, "Veganist." As a result of the attention, I've been getting a lot of emails and inquiries, and perhaps the most popu...
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02:05 PM on 04/30/2011
It gets tiring hearing about how "healthy" veganism and vegetarianism is when all the data shows that vegans, vegetarians and omnis have the same number of cancers and die at the same average age. Does it really take any more proof than that? The supposed "health benefits" are bunk. If saving lives matters to you, do as Michale Pollan suggests, "Eat the largest animal possible eating it's natural diet", because when you research vegan protein production, you find out that hundreds of thousands of lives are taken collaterally in the the row-crop farming of them. And then finally, the human body evolved for 99% of our existence without grains and beans-- they are quite literally toxic- so just don't eat them. Eat the whole foods that contain the essential nutrients the body needs. What? You mean you have to eat animal foods for natural B12? Well yes, you do. The human body evolved eating animal foods... you can't rewrite history. If it comes out of a bottle it isn't natural. ~Huntress (The former vegan cultist turn ethical omni when veganism almost killed me)
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06:45 PM on 04/10/2011
I started reading your Veganist book last night. I am ready to make the change.
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To walk an ancient road, forever treading...
12:56 PM on 03/30/2011
Kathy, thank you for this Great Book. More and more people, are looking for ways to end animal cruelty. But making this transition to veganism can be difficult, your book will make this much easier for the beginner. Keep up the good work. : )

100% Vegan.
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01:35 PM on 03/28/2011
The purple pre-dawn is broken by the arpeggio of the robin, asking the same question he has asked since time immemorial. The smell of coffee mingles with that of bacon frying in the pan.

I am the hummingbird as well as the asp; there is one question you must not ask.
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Finnegans Wake
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12:58 PM on 03/28/2011
We can't solve this until someone can tell us what the Flying Spaghetti Monster says about eating bacon.
01:08 PM on 03/28/2011
I think the FSM is too smart to get sucked into this bunch of stuff. I'm about ready to hand the thing over to the expletive deleteds and find a more productive conversation.

But, nice to see you back -- be careful where you step, though, the place is crawling with compassionate people.
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My micro-bio may be empty but my head isn't.
10:38 PM on 03/29/2011
He says "Pasta Carbonera"
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12:45 PM on 03/28/2011
Wow, now there are more humorless [expletive deleted] preaching instead of discussing.
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elcerritan
My bio is not micro
01:22 PM on 03/28/2011
Something tells me that the new guru is someone we've seen before.
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01:26 PM on 03/28/2011
Meet the new boss, same as the old boss?
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I don't even know how to read...so...yeah
12:00 PM on 03/30/2011
Next you're going to say there is some sort of connection between Batman and Bruce Wayne!
08:21 PM on 03/26/2011
Like sands through the hourglass, so are the days of our lives.

~ NBC
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01:09 PM on 03/28/2011
Why does the hourglass constrain the sand? Why is the sand not allowed to be free? If time is free, then too should sand be.
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At 6 bn km, it's mostly small stuff.
01:25 PM on 03/28/2011
I LOL'd.
11:12 PM on 03/25/2011
We are the living graves of murdered beasts

Slaughtered to satisfy our appetites

We never pause to wonder at our feasts

If animals, like men, can possibly have rights

We pray on Sundays that we may have light

To guide our footsteps on the path we tread

We're sick of war. We do not want to fight

The thought of it now fills our hearts with dread

And yet we gorge ourselves upon the dead

Like carrion crows we live and feed on meat

Regardless of the suffering and pain

We cause by doing so. If thus we treat

Defenseless animals for sport or gain

How can we hope in this world to attain

The PEACE we say we are so anxious for

We pray for it o'er hecatombs of slain

To God, while outraging the moral law

Thus cruelty begets its offspring: war.

We Are The Living Graves of Murdered Beasts
By George Bernard Shaw (1856-1950)
09:05 AM on 03/26/2011
Of course, George Bernard Shaw also defended Hitler, eugenics, and genocide.
01:54 PM on 03/26/2011
Can't get everything right.
10:44 AM on 03/26/2011
Forever alongside the bough, whilst throughout, is a marmot’s laugh.
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01:08 PM on 03/28/2011
Hey, nice marmot!
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01:35 PM on 03/25/2011
I also find a lot of the generalizations from posters here to be not only uninformed but also inflammatory. Here's a quote taken from a post below:

"We think these animals are so not worthy but look how we have them live their lives. Then we think they are simply dumb ugly brutes."

Thank you for speaking on behalf of every single person everywhere who eats meat.

At one time this country was populated by Native Americans, who lived off the earth by hunting, gathering, and growing their own food. These people killed animals for their survival, but held them in great respect, and a sense that they were part of a greater inter-connected whole.

Today, people who are dissatisfied with industrial food production, including the conditions for animals, the potential for disease, the lack of nutrition compared to traditionally farmed foods, and so on, are returning to food "off the grid." People are seeking out farmers, CSAs, and local farmer's markets. The more they understand where their food comes from, the more they respect the work of the farmer, and cherish the farmers' stewardship of the earth, not to mention respect the life of the animal no matter how humanely and sustainably raised.

Some people even return to the quaint notion of taking a moment to give thanks before their food crosses their lips, thanks to their God or higher power, thanks to the farmer, and thanks to the animal that gave its life.
11:17 PM on 03/25/2011
"animal that gave its life" Most would run away, if they had a chance. Any chance.
EvolveorPerish
R E anna what have you done?
01:53 AM on 03/26/2011
And some would eat you.
01:39 PM on 03/26/2011
Plants to try to escape, too. Doesn't that bother you? Do you have a poem or famous quote to express what you think about that?
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12:59 PM on 03/25/2011
By the way, I'd just like to say that I embrace a person's choice to be vegan, vegetarian, piscetarian, or omnivorous -- I just hope that people are informed about their food and its connections. My wife is a piscetarian, and since I am the cook of the house, we tend to eat a mostly fish and vegetable-based diet, and I reward myself with meat that I carefully source from local, organic, sustainable, humane producers (as much as possible). In fact, we are trying to buy more locally, and to cut reliance on any industrial, processed foods, and to "put up" seasonal foods via freezing and other methods. I have read quite a bit about food, cooking, and nutrition, so I do not appreciate when I am spoken down to by those who choose a different dietary path. This article is, for the most part, enjoyable and interesting, but there are some jarring statements.

"And then you start reaping the benefits: weight loss, prevention and reversal of disease, increased longevity, the pride of knowing that you are radically reducing your carbon footprint, money saved, and the sense that you are evolving as a conscious and compassionate human being."

I find that to be not only a sweeping speculation, but also an unwarranted attack on people such as myself who DO care about all those things and STILL decide to eat meat.
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elcerritan
My bio is not micro
10:11 PM on 03/25/2011
And some of us who eat meat nevertheless ... shock, surprise ... don't have the need for weight loss, have no diseases or medical conditions that need reversing (even those of us who are in our ... ahem ... senior years), already do not have a huge carbon footprint because we're buying locally and not using cr@ppy industrialized food, are able to find meat, eggs and dairy that are fairly priced and actually cheaper for the nutritional value gained than many of the things touted by the author, and don't feel any less "evolved," conscious, or compassionate than the average self-congratulatory, condescending vegan.
12:23 AM on 03/26/2011
Through opened eyes we clearly see
and answer the animal's plea
We must see what others ignore
so we alone unlock secrecy's door

We look inside the anguished eyes
and we have the burden to be wise
When others cover their ears
we are the ones to fight the tears

All of our strength it takes
to endure when our heart aches
When the images etch our mind
it's justice we struggle to find

The screams mark our soul
to end the agony our common goal
Silencing the wails cannot wait
in our hands we hold their fate

If only others would lend their voice
and for the helpless make the choice
With each action we destroy or defend
on each decision so many lives depend.

Through Opened Eyes
By Janet Riddle
EvolveorPerish
R E anna what have you done?
01:56 AM on 03/26/2011
And not only are we stronger and healthier physically, but we don't have to worry about falling of our meds, as some people obviously have to.
12:01 AM on 03/26/2011
I am the Voice of the Voiceless

Through me the dumb shall speak

Till the world's deaf ear be made to hear

The wrongs of the wordless weak.

Oh shame on the mothers of mortals

Who do not stoop to teach

The sorrow that lies in dear dumb eyes

The sorrow that has no speech.

From street, from cage, from kennel

From stable and from zoo

The wall of my tortured kin proclaims the sin

Of the mighty against the frail.

But I am my brother's keeper

And I shall fight their fight

And speak the word for beast and bird

Till the world shall set things right.

Voice Of the Voiceless
By Ella Wheeler Wilcox (1850-1919)
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01:44 AM on 03/26/2011
Tabuism? Is that you?
01:10 PM on 03/26/2011
Martyrdom is the only way in which a man can become famous without ability.

~ George Bernard Shaw
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02:00 AM on 03/25/2011
"Vegan hip new trend" and that's why you should become vegan?

I became vegan 10 years ago and it lasted about 7 years when I started getting sick once a month and pretty intense migraines. Turns out that even though I ate iron rich foods- spinach, beans, kale etc. the female body can only absorb a small percentage of iron from vegetables/supplements and a little more if paired with vitamin C rich food. So I became very anemic and had to chose between animal rights and my body. My body won and I definitely respect the idea of veganism but I feel like at this point in evolution the human body isn't properly equipped to survive on a plant based diet. I think it is important that people eat less meat and hopefully generations to come can benefit from a meatless diet but people should know that choosing a vegan diet comes with very serious health risks.

This is just my warning to anyone looking to hop on a new 'trend'. I feel like in these steps she should have noted vitamins and food pairing, like rice and beans to make a complete protein and other vegan tips but "being a veganist is about being passionate, aware, and solution-oriented" not about your health or future medical conditions.
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10:21 AM on 03/29/2011
QueenMQ, I am sorry a vegan diet didn't work for you. I have heard of several others who couldn't/didn't sustain it for various reasons. And I know many folks who went on a whole-foods, vegan diet years ago, even decades ago, remained on it, and are among the healthiest people I know. Perhaps what each person needs to eat is an individual thing? And perhaps in some cases there were causal factors other than the presence or lack of animal products in the diet.
I became anemic as a teenager who ate lots of meat. eggs and dairy. My doctor said my diet was "great," and he prescribed iron supplementation and rest. I became vegetarian a decade later because my cholesterol was sky-high and to reduce my support of animal agriculture. My cholesterol went down and I lost ten pounds without trying. I went vegan eight years ago, at age 42. My cholesterol, which had crept up again, plummeted once more, I stopped having chest pains when running, and lost another ten pounds without trying. I haven't been anemic since my teen years, including during three pregnancies (two vegetarian and one vegan) and longterm breastfeeding as a vegan.
I'm not sharing my experience in order to imply that your story wasn't correct (for you), but to give a specific example of why generalizing to the entire female population based on your own experience leads to an inaccurate conclusion.
My best wishes to you.
07:43 AM on 03/24/2011
Realising things like how great animal are and can be, but the slave always looks worse when they are down and out stuck in the filth. We think these animals are so not worthy but look how we have them live their lives. Then we think they are simply dumb ugly brutes. It is the direction they have gone under human hands. To blame them for that is akin to blaming a rape victim. It's never too late to turn it around and foster their individuality, intelligence and emotions and watch them live their own lives. Rescue and rehab any animal from some of these places and one can see the difference over time. How can a nation espouse freedom and liberty when animals are held all their days for generations in literal concentration camps? Simply because we claim superiority. If we are so superior shouldn't we be Not** killing them?
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elcerritan
My bio is not micro
10:13 PM on 03/25/2011
Who, exactly, appointed you to say how "we" think and feel?
12:39 AM on 03/26/2011
10 little veal calves in a crate
1 broke loose and ran for the gate

9 little veal calves in a crate
1 broke his neck when he slipped on his slate

8 little veal calves in a crate
1 got dehydrated and lost too much weight

7 little veal calves in a crate
1 died from diseases caught too late

6 little veal calves in a crate
1 died in an anemic state

5 little veal calves in a crate
1 died too thin and got low rate

4 little veal calves in a crate
1 more died of neglect, of hate

3 little veal calves in a crate
1 grew fast and got shipped out of state

2 little veal calves in a crate
1 more approaching slaughter date

1 little veal calf in a crate
1 went to slaughter in a freight

0 little veal calves in a crate
10 little veal calves on a plate

10 Little Veal Calves
By Janet Riddle
07:37 AM on 03/24/2011
People can make all the smarty bacon jokes they want, but really vegan or vegetarian is all about watching or witnessing animal abuse, neglect, slaughter, torture, experimentation, etc, and crying, or grieving inside and wanting things to be different.
Things I realised were about consumerism, more discipline over food, greater awareness and curiosity over ingredients, chemicals, and how they are raised. Thinking how animal exploitation can foster the same desensitized, neglectful or even abusive patterns in how we treat fellow humans.
Veganism is a wonderful tool for further realising the benefits of not dismissing morals, ethics, and compassion. It's also great for making people instantly angry with no provocation, thus I will almost never speak outright of veganism with enthusiastic exuberance anymore, but simply order my food or cook by example and wait for someone to ask me what I eat, as always happens.
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12:39 PM on 03/25/2011
And what makes you think omnivores don't consider the things you mention?

What about the emergent trend of people who support local, organic, sustainable, human farming of livestock, alongside their support of local fruit and veggie CSAs?

I'm fine with a thorough and thoughtful critique of the food industry, most especially CAFOs and GMOs, but including refined and processed (and often vegan) foods as well. It still comes down to a personal choice whether to eat meat or not, but many who do are not uninformed or unconcerned.

Posters like Tabuism only foster resentment towards their cause by condescension and preachiness. I prefer to make bacon jokes in response to such a barrage of posts than bother to converse sensibly, but a sensible dialogue over food production is sorely needed -- not an assumption of which choices are "right."
02:42 PM on 03/25/2011
I guess that's my biggest issue -- the idea some have that, if one considers all these things, there will be only one answer and that is veganism; therefore, those of us who came up with different answers weren't listening to the question. For me, at least, there doesn't seem to be a way to have a conversation with someone who comes from that point of view. Crazy-making, imo.
EvolveorPerish
R E anna what have you done?
01:58 AM on 03/26/2011
Bacon, yum.
08:00 PM on 03/25/2011
It's also great for making people instantly angry with no provocatio­n...

I just wanted to give you a little heads up here. If you are saying anything *remotely* like meat is murder; that those who have meat and dairy in their diets are participating in murder and slavery, abuse and exploitation; if you call people who have meat or dairy in their diets "gluttons" as you do below, then you are being so provocative, the result is as if you punched someone in the face. Stop playing the victim.
07:26 AM on 03/24/2011
2- Instead this idealism, that I personally don't think could be achieved in this present system falls victim to many a bashing from somewhat critical yet biased opinions. Those adopting veganism will basically get the hypocrite stick from all angles no matter what they do or don't do. Against wildlife shooting?Don't eat meat. Against dog meat in China, better not eat cows in the USA. Buy only plant foods from a monopolistic, unchanging, corrupt agricultural system with little to no regard on how massive plantations affect the nature and inhabitants? Your still a hypocrite.

Yes, for wanting to end animal abuse and not just treating them nicer up until they're killed (like peta) and hopefully see it spread as a mode for non violence and peace for all humans and animals and even plant ethics, many are simply brushed aside as stupid do-gooders with no ideas or thoughts of solutions.

It is a one-sided argument to call all vegans or vegan minded people ignorant of complex issues and based around religious fanaticism, out of touch, etc.
Vegans are often mistaken for acting holier-than-thou when they are really just fired up
from watching the reality of animal lives that noone else wishes to witness, as noone wants guilt to go with their gluttony (I say gluttony, not sustenance).

Honestly, I adore veganism because I want to see animals progressing with us instead of always someone's chattel property with no real individual rights.
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elcerritan
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03:14 AM on 03/25/2011
Be careful you don't break your arm while you're trying to pat yourself on the back.
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08:10 PM on 03/25/2011
Everyone gets accused of being a hypocrite.

And, in my opinion, if you believe so strongly in animal rights, and you aren't figuring out how to grow, or at least personally source every last bit of food you eat; if you aren't buying your clothes from goodwill in order not to participate in the killing of all those bunnies that die in the making of your jeans; if you aren't reading up on farming so that you don't make all those mistakes vegans make when arguing about what can and can't be done in farming; if you don't spend every waking moment working on this problem, then you are pretty much a hypocrite, imo. You are certainly no abolitionist.

It takes a lot more than simply not being a consumer of animal products to change the world. And, it's da*n hard work.
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04:13 PM on 03/26/2011
Thanks for telling us what to do.
Although I don't think I do preach about veganism. I know lots who do.
But you just went on giving a manual when you are yourself on a different path so how would you know anyway.
I will say this with all my heart, for those who eat animals just keep on doing it if you think it's for you, it's just not for me anymore, that's all, I used to then I slowly took a path (some 10 years) to stop and eat and think and feel differently. THat's just me. I'm not at war with people who eat what they want. If you ask me I will tell you why I am vegan etc but I don't feel threatened by those who are not.
Bon appétit !