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How Political Correctness Is Killing the DREAM Act: A Candid Conversation About Jose Antonio Vargas, Mom and Me

Posted: 06/27/11 10:00 PM ET

There have been a number of times in which I've been proud of my mom, but I don't know that I've ever been more proud than the day I told her that a dear friend was here in the U.S. illegally.

When I confided that Jose Antonio Vargas, a terrific journalist and all around great human being, was the illegal immigrant in question my mom's first response was, "How can I help? I mean could I adopt him or something?"

Her reaction nearly brought me to tears (and Jose too when I shared it with him). You see illegal immigration is a subject I've never written about, in part because my own feelings about the subject are complex, and I know my mother's feelings are too. But ultimately her compassionate response, and our conversation that followed, made it crystal clear to me that there has been a real failure in our country when it comes to the issue of comprehensive immigration reform.

Not simply a failure in terms of policy but a failure in terms of communication. And not merely on the part of conservatives (although they certainly bear some of the blame.) There has been a fundamental failure on the part of progressives to make a compelling case to people like my mother why they should care about this issue. Even more important, there has been a failure to acknowledge and communicate a simple truth that has severely limited the progressive movement's ability to mobilize more people like my mom -- die-hard Democrats who care about civil rights -- around this issue. That simple truth is this: all undocumented immigrants are not created equal.

Much like the term "deserving poor" became a dirty word among progressives, (despite being a term very much rooted in the realities of poverty) the idea that some undocumented immigrants in this country are far more deserving of a second chance than others is an idea that supporters of illegal immigrants remain hesitant to fully embrace -- to their detriment.

I began thinking about the disconnect around this seemingly obvious fact after coming across the recent New York Times article "Illegal Immigrants' Children Suffer, Study Finds." Anyone looking to disprove the theory that the New York Times is a bastion of liberal bias, with a secret agenda to advance progressive causes need look no further than this piece. It's hard not to surmise that the person writing it was purposely attempting to provide fuel for critics of illegal immigrants. The piece introduces us to a young illegal immigrant struggling to find services to aid her following the birth of her first child -- yet somehow she has two more children in quick succession, all of whom are currently on government assistance.

What I found so disturbing about her story is that it is not the story of many illegal immigrants in this country -- those who actually contribute and do not take advantage of government programs that cost taxpayers enormously.

Immigrants like Jose Antonio Vargas.

For some reason the conversation over illegal immigration seems to have been hijacked by two equally extreme positions: Those who believe that all illegal immigrants are bad people and should be deported, and those who believe that all illegal immigrants deserve a path to citizenship, (and that anyone who disagrees is a bigot).

Both sides operate under the illusion, (or should I say, delusion) that all illegal immigrants are equal. And both sides are equally wrong.

Someone who comes to this country -- or in Jose's case is brought to this country -- and spends his entire time here contributing in every way imaginable is not comparable to someone who doesn't contribute at all, and it's disingenuous for supporters of illegal immigrants to pretend otherwise. However it's equally disingenuous for immigrant opponents to pretend that our country has not benefited greatly from illegal immigrants, those who as the president often notes, learn English, pay taxes and break no law (beyond the ones they break to begin their journey in the first place).

Vargas, for instance, has already made much more of a contribution to this country with his writing than I probably ever will with mine. In addition to a shared Pulitzer, his work covering the AIDS crisis in Washington, D.C. inspired a film on the subject that may just end up saving lives. As my mom said, "I can think of ten American citizens off the top of my head I'd gladly trade for one Jose."

I can think of 20.

America would simply not be America without people like Jose. (Click here to see a list of the most Politically Influential First Generation Americans of the Last Decade.) For this reason, I hope this issue finds a resolution, for him, and others like him. But that's not going to happen until supporters of the DREAM Act and other compromise measures stop wasting valuable political capital denouncing the president and the government's efforts to deport people who have not worked to earn the privilege of remaining here. This includes people who are legitimate criminals (and yes if you drink and drive and endanger other people on the road, or commit any crime whatsoever after already committing one to enjoy the privilege of living in the greatest country in the world, that means you). Not to mention wasting valuable political capital denouncing legitimate conservative criticisms as bigoted.

Asking a person who chooses to come to this country to learn English and earn his own way and make responsible choices (as Jose has) so that taxpayers don't end up subsidizing him or his family, does not make the person doing the asking a bigot. And if you have ever called a person who believes in the above that word, then you should look in the mirror and congratulate yourself for being one of the people responsible for our country's inability to reach consensus on this issue. Because there are fair-minded people who may be willing to compromise who will not do so as long as you dismiss them as bigoted, simply because it's easier to do that than to engage them on those issues in which they have expressed valid concerns.

Ultimately, we will never find common ground as long as we alienate each other with name-calling, and as long as liberals and conservatives are unwilling to acknowledge that no one owns the moral high ground on this issue. No one.

When Jose first shared his secret with me, he mentioned that he had spoken with some who were encouraging him to speak on behalf of all illegal immigrants. My response was, "But you're not the voice of all illegal immigrants. You're the voice of immigrants like you. And frankly they are underrepresented in this debate."

Here's hoping that thanks to his courage more voices like his will join the debate and progress will finally be made. Because our country can't afford to lose Americans like him. In fact, as my mom pointed out, we could use plenty more.

Keli Goff is the author of The GQ Candidate. This piece originally appeared on TheLoop21.com for which Goff is a Contributing Editor.
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There have been a number of times in which I've been proud of my mom, but I don't know that I've ever been more proud than the day I told her that a dear friend was here in the U.S. illegally. When ...
There have been a number of times in which I've been proud of my mom, but I don't know that I've ever been more proud than the day I told her that a dear friend was here in the U.S. illegally. When ...
 
 
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04:21 PM on 07/06/2011
When will Democrats realize that you cannot be pro-union and pro-illegal immigration?

Republicans like Reagan pushed for amnesty because it helped to break the back of the unions.

Are Dems too stupid to realize this?
04:15 PM on 07/03/2011
It's impossible to break a deal with conservatives because they're constantly moving the goal posts. For them there will NEVER be enough enforcement, NEVER the border airtight shut enough, NEVER legal immigration curbed enough. But in the meantime millions of people, including millions of prospective immigration orphans and widows, are suffering right now. So much for "the pursuit of happiness".... If there's a car accident you don't take the car to the body shop first and then see if you've got the will to help the injured. I believe you help people first. After all Jesus didn't say "shut thy border as thyself"....
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09:52 PM on 07/03/2011
reduce border penetration by 70% and then we'll talk.
Until then your support of illegals is rejected as irrational and harmful to the interests of American people.
04:01 PM on 07/03/2011
Your article is very interesting and very well worded. I agree with a good deal of it, but I don't agree when you say that it's no question that we benefitted from illegal immigrants. There are many studies that show the great cost to America. Also, the word "illegal" is hard to negate. No one should be here illegally! It's kind of a joke that we take such careful measures when we take a census and we're not sure if there are 12 million or 20 million illegals.
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02:48 PM on 07/03/2011
Whats with the comments being in italics?
02:45 PM on 07/03/2011
Just because an illegal immigrant is here and happens to be contributing in some fashion (rather than being a drain on the country), that does not make it even the least bit more acceptable. This person still have broken a US law, and their actions undermine the time, work, and sacrifice all the other LEGAL immigrants who have had to go through to become an citizen of this country. It is disrespectful to real American citizens, and shows a willful disregard for the laws of this country. Your friend should be deported immediately and become a LEGAL American citizen using the process laid out by the US Gov. PERIOD.
01:48 PM on 07/03/2011
“Here are my two cents.

I love immigrants . They bring new ideas and culture and make this country better. But one of the reasons this country used to be great is we had an easy set of rules and they were enforced. We have gone the other way. We now have rules that are so confusing they can't be enforced.

We need to make legal immigratio n much much easier. Here are my thoughts. First get rid of birthright citizenshi p. It creates a very dangerous set of incentives . Change it to be you have to be born to a citizen. Have a trial period say 5 years similar to green card but don't limit the number. You can come and go as you please during that time. The minimum wage would be twice that of the state you are working in and your income is subject to a flat 50% tax to cover all costs to the immigratio n system and border patrol. If any time during those 5 yearsmyou are convicted of a felony you are deported and can't get a green card for 10 years. After 5 years of paying taxes and staying out of trouble you can automatica lly become a citizen if you choose or keep your green card.

This system would allow easy acess to and from this country for the majority of immigrants that are good hardworking people.â€
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07:45 PM on 07/03/2011
Do you love immigrants, or illegal aliens? "We need to make legal immigration much much easier? Do we need to make robbing banks easier too? Easier so the people who want in get here faster without much effort. Do we lower the bar too or does everybody make the cutoff?

What tool do we use to turn it off when we have enough? Or is too many not enough?

The way it works is you apply to come here first, get a visa and then come and work. You don't sneak into the country stay here 10 years and then cry how you earned to be a citizen.

Why do people who can't meet requirements for a passport & visa think just being hard working is going to get them over? When i go to Japan w/o a passport/visa i'll just tell them at customs that i'am a hard worker, or i'am looking for a better life, or we are all humans and children of god and see if that'll get me in.
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01:37 PM on 07/03/2011
Here is what is left out of the debate so often:

The IMF, the World Bank, Wall Street, currency speculators and other banksters and the fact that if the wealthy and powerful wanted something done about the problems (on both sides of this far too heated debate) of illegal immigration then something would be done.

"The late Jude Wanniski was a conservative economist who was at one time a Wall Street Journal editor and adviser to President Reagan. He cynically observed of this banker coup:

There was a big party at Morgan Stanley after the Mexican peso devaluation, people from all over Wall Street came, they drank champagne and smoked cigars and congratulated themselves on how they pulled it off and they made a fortune. These people are pirates, international pirates."

http://www.webofdebt.com/excerpts/chapter-22.php

So how about we quit bashing each other over the 10% of the wealth that Wall Street hasn't stolen from us and educate ourselves?
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09:04 PM on 07/03/2011
Very interesting, and I have no reason to doubt this point of view. In fact, however, the notion that illegal immigrants line the pockets of Corporate America in much simpler ways (i.e., working for sub minimum wage under sometimes horrid circumstances) is currently a much more salient argument.

America is in a lose-lose situation here. Repubs (and Dems too) and their corporate cronies want as many undocumented, illegal workers as they can get into the country (despite everything we hear) to drive down wages and have a permanent unnaccounted for workforce (i.e., slaves). The so-called "progressives" in this country get all giggly and just want their illegal friends to to remain here - just theirs, mind you (as this article tries to deny) at the expense of enslaving thousands of others. All parties involved are acting selfishly. Very selfishly.

I wonder what happens to the places where the brightest and best all leave "for a better life"? How on earth can impoverished places EVER get better when their best and brightest are chasing the almighty dollar in a foreign land, while their families wither away in the old country where nothing ever changes?

No, the way to come to a consensus here is for Americans to stop lining their pockets at the expense of slaves, and to stop destroying the immigrant culture and home country by whining about their illegal activity being unjust. No new laws. Just enforce the ones we have.
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09:59 PM on 07/03/2011
"The so-called "progressives" in this country get all giggly and just want their illegal friends to to remain here - just theirs, mind you (as this article tries to deny) at the expense of enslaving thousands of others. All parties involved are acting selfishly. Very selfishly.

I wonder what happens to the places where the brightest and best all leave "for a better life"? How on earth can impoverish ed places EVER get better when their best and brightest are chasing the almighty dollar in a foreign land, while their families wither away in the old country where nothing ever changes?"

I don't think you read the article.

I have lost promotions to people who manage to mangle both languages because I am not bilingual and I have competed with illegal aliens (and those with stolen or fake SS#s) for jobs, and my family members and friends have been victims of alien criminals.

Guess what?

I am a liberal, a progressive AND a Democrat, and I know why people come here from countries with less opportunitiy than we historically have had because I listen to them. I have learned much from immigrants, illegal, alien or not.

Do I think that anybody that travels across the border or flies into this country should be able to stay?

No, but I am tired of the polarization of this issue. Those of us who are fighting over 10% of the wealth need to just stop, look and listen.
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12:58 PM on 07/03/2011
I am a Reagan conservative

let me say that your article was thought provoking and and well written ....

what you seem to miss is what most liberals miss... the vast majority of conservatives WILL support some kind of pragmatic amnesty with conditions

IF...IF AND WHEN AND ONLY WHEN.....

like me, they feel we won't be doing this again in 20 years with yet another 30 million illegal aliens in our country!!!

GIVE US ASSURANCE THAT OUR SOUTHERN BOARDER IS SECURE... they won't because they can't

Americans are generous people and it's shame when their generosity is used against them.

The 20th century's greatest president, Ronald Wilson Reagan made one of his few mistakes by granting amnesty back in the 80s..

I say it was mistake having the benefit of hindsight, but even he could not foresee the incredible influx of illegals that we say in the 90s and later...

seeing the results.. he would not do it again unless, our soveirgnty was guaranteed first.
12:48 PM on 07/03/2011
Has anyone here ever heard of the North American Union, that was singed back in 2006?? It will make the USA, Mexico and Canada one, erasing our boarders. Not very meny people have heard of it, look it up on google or youtube. Oh and there would also be a new currency to go along with this called the AMERO this money has started to be produced. This all sounds like what happend to Europe with the European Union and the EURO.
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12:24 PM on 07/03/2011
Illegal immigrants lay a heavy financial burden on community's social services, law enforcement, medical services and education.
Compounding this burden is the fact that many illegal immigrants siphon off their earnings to their home countries, instead of spending it in U.S. communities.

Therefore, I propose a law taxing these foreign remittances.
Benefits:
1.Cash workers would be forced to contribute fairly to the upkeep of infrastructure of their communities.
2. This would somewhat reduce the allure of U.S. job market to those who think about crossing the border illegally.
3. This would encourage Latin American politicians to work harder to fix their internal problems or face unrest.
Of course, #1 is the most important in these troubled times.
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12:11 PM on 07/03/2011
Increase security border personnel by 500%. Reduce border penetration by 90%. Then we'll have a discussion what to do with Illegal immigrants already in. But these periodic amnesties are wrong, as they validate illegal beahvior and provide "pull" to hundreds of millions of people who live in failed states of Latin America.
12:10 PM on 07/03/2011
Ms Goff, I can't believe I waited so long to fan you. You are absolutely correct that the boneheaded maximalist approach by some on the left has made it impossible to have an intelligent discussion on specifics and nuance (such a dirty word). The right has clearly made illegal immigrants cartoon characters and ignores the complex love-hate relationship we have with them. But this is huffpo where most people here know about the deficiencies of the right.

To the left: Not everybody who disagrees is an enemy or a bigot. Insulting those who make distinctions among undocumented immigrants and/or who want some kind of standard re learning English just makes the universe of allies that much smaller. And dooms things like the Dream Act. We should learn from the past: The whole political correctness thing poisoned the discussion on bilingual education as well. And social promotion.
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12:06 PM on 07/03/2011
I cannot think of the more unproductive and unhelpful approach to solving this problem than splitting illegal immigrants into "deserving" and "undeserving" cohorts.
Violating nation's borders and violating nation's laws is a criminal behavior. No matter how sympathetic a person is who did it.
There are paths to achieving legal status. U.S.immigration laws are fairly liberal. Those allegedly "deserving" who achieve a degree of financial success would have no problem achieving legal status.
04:28 PM on 07/03/2011
We do this in other crimes, even in ones so severe as murder, determining that conditions such as intent and premeditation can play in the deserved punishment.

Even though I'm pretty strict relative to immigration laws, I do concede that there is a difference between a person knowingly coming here illegally as an adult as opposed to being brought here as a child with little or no understanding of the issues or consequences.
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06:04 PM on 07/03/2011
It is highly doubtful the author of this article advocates providing amnesty only for the narrow demographic you indicate ( minors ranging from anchor babies- to -14 y.o.)
P.S. I am glad you agree those adult enough to understand their actions must face the consequences of their illegal action--- deportation.
11:14 AM on 07/03/2011
Logistically we can neither deport all illegals or give them all citizenship, we do not have the resources to do either. We do need reform in our immigration. We need to ensure that we are allowing those who want to come to the country and obtain citizenship are able to do so, in a fair and timely manner. I have no idea how to do it, but we also need to ensure those who overstay their welcome pay the consequences for those actions. Can we charge them an extension fee and a higher tax rate while they are in the country but not a citizen? But none of that solves the illegal problem. Is the first step helping the countries, Mexico and Central America, that a good deal of people come from modernize and improve their economy? I know I do not have the answer, save for one thing, we can no longer sit on the sidelines and think this will resolve itself.
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02:54 PM on 07/03/2011
End the War in Iraq,afghan,libya and use those drones we got in pakistan,somalia and Yemen and use them to round up Illegal immigrants
10:46 AM on 07/03/2011
A number of years ago, a Delta Airline pilot forgot to put down a misdemeanor conviction ten years old for DUI on his medical form. The FAA discovered the error, and he was convicted of perjury, lost his job, his license, and went to prison for five years. Vargas has committed perjury, fraud, forgery, on multiple counts, yet HE is still walking around free! This double standard is what infuriates most Americans. The illegals get a pass on following the laws that the rest of us are held accountable for.

I guess he feels that he is entitled to preferential treatment since he is here illegally. I think that he needs to be picked up for his crimes, prosecuted, and then deported just like the illegal woman in Chicago who took sanctuary in a church. She plead guilty to only three felonies before she was deported, though she had committed many more. It is high time that illegals be treated with EQUAL justice that the rest of Americans get.