Kelly Valen
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Kelly Valen is the author of The Twisted Sisterhood: Unraveling the Dark Legacy of Female Friendships and the The New York Times Modern Love essay “My Sorority Pledge? I Swore Off Sisterhood." She earned her J.D. from the University of California, Davis, where she was Executive Editor of the Law Review. Since leaving the law in 2004, her personal essays and commentary have appeared in The New York Times, Los Angeles Times, San Francisco Chronicle Magazine, Chicago Tribune, Baltimore Sun, The Christian Science Monitor, Minneapolis Star Tribune, and other publications. A twenty-year resident of the San Francisco Bay Area, she currently lives with her husband, a diplomat, and their four children in Bangkok, Thailand.

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Bullying: It's Time for Parents to Step Up

10 Comments | Posted October 10, 2011 | 10:28:07 (EST)

Thanks to Lady Gaga, Anderson Cooper, and all those in the trenches, the issue of bullying is again back on our radar. Most of us now know about 14-year-old Jamey Rodemeyer, the latest in a line of children who believed the only way out of their real-time nightmare was suicide....

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Holding Up a Mirror Along with the Bullhorn: Why Women Can't Lay All the Blame Elsewhere

Posted November 17, 2010 | 18:04:00 (EST)

When we consider issues of gender in this country, we tend to assess the progress and prospects of the American woman through an amorphous sort of "look how far we've come" or "look how far we haven't come" analysis, eyes trained on the Man and related cultural influences that have historically...

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An Invitation to True Sisterhood

Posted October 26, 2010 | 10:00:14 (EST)

It's been more than twenty years since I graduated from college but some things, I'm told, haven't much changed, particularly when it comes to issues of humanity and how we treat one another in the day to day -- you know, the basics we all should have mastered in kindergarten....

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