Ken Solin
For 20 years, author and lecturer Ken Solin has worked with men to help them move beyond the issues that limit their lives. Both men and women follow Ken since his work deals with relationships. His Facebook Page is
His website, offers articles and videos about boomer relationships.

Ken's new book is about boomer dating, The Boomer Guide To Finding True Love Online and will be available January 1st.

Ken's page at is Senior Dating where he shares his sex, dating, and relationship experiences with seniors.

Ken is also Dating Coach. His interaction with tens of thousands of readers has given Ken a unique approach to boomer dating. Best contact for dating coaching is

Ken recently joined, a senior dating and activity partner website as an advisor and brand ambassador.

Entries by Ken Solin

As vantagens e desvantagens do sexo casual depois dos 50

(0) Comments | Posted August 11, 2014 | 5:03 PM

Sexo casual ou sem sexo?
Conheço algumas mulheres acima dos 50, da geração dos "baby boomers", que desistiram do sexo. A razão principal é que elas não estão em nenhum relacionamento e não estão interessadas em sexo casual. Apesar de a maioria dessas mulheres ter o desejo de voltar...

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Casual Sex After 50?

(1) Comments | Posted August 4, 2014 | 6:41 AM

Casual Sex or No Sex?
I know a few boomer women who have given up sex. Their primary reason is that they're not in relationships and they're not interested in casual sex. While most of these women would like to become sexual again, they prefer to wait for the...

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Looking For The Perfect Partner Speaks Volumes About Your Imperfections

(30) Comments | Posted July 16, 2014 | 7:21 AM

Too Much Kool-Aid
Robin Korth's article, "My 'Naked' Truth," touched me and countless other readers who felt her pain when her date said perfect bodies had spoiled him, after rejecting hers. I doubt her experience is an isolated one. It brings up an issue unlikely to be...

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Lunch With Mars/Venus' John Gray

(0) Comments | Posted June 13, 2014 | 6:03 AM

I recently met with John Gray, best selling author of "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus," over lunch. His continued passion for his work is palpable. We covered quite a few topics related to sex, dating, and relationships over two hours. But his work regarding ADHD and boomer...

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Is Aunt Bee Having Sex? You Bet She Is!

(16) Comments | Posted May 24, 2014 | 6:55 AM

I read the article in Huff/Post 50 today, Why Baby Boomers Aren't Getting Laid Anymore, by Dr. Robert Lusson. I felt compelled to comment after reading his opening statement. "I guess it's called 'hooking up' now. Whatever. The fact is -- irrespective of what you call it...

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I Panicked When She Said 'You're My Guy'

(11) Comments | Posted April 16, 2014 | 1:04 PM

Stubborn Old Demons
Sarah and I are nearly halfway through our second year. It's been a unique relationship for me because I've allowed myself to be openhearted and vulnerable. What's also special is that we've become best friends as well as lovers, and while this isn't necessarily rare in...

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What I've Learned About Living Life To The Fullest As I Approach 70

(0) Comments | Posted March 19, 2014 | 6:00 AM

A recent birthday brought me to within shouting distance of 70. My thoughts associated with this unexpected but appreciated event are focused on the great energy and confidence I'm feeling about my life. I'm fine tuning it and making adjustments along the way to ensure the joy continues....

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5 Easy Ways To Scare Off The Person You're Dating

(2) Comments | Posted February 21, 2014 | 4:22 AM

My clients have shared a fair number of first date stories with me. While some are amusing, others reflect a surprising lack of social skills. Maybe it's time to rethink boomer dating, especially if you're a newbie.

Health Woes
A client told me about a fellow she met for...

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Leave Your Libido Home On First Dates

(1) Comments | Posted February 6, 2014 | 5:04 AM

Most boomer guys realize that pressuring a boomer woman for first date sex is inappropriate, but the number of complaints from women indicates some guys didn't get the memo.

Sexually fueled rocket rides crash and burn, so boomer women reject that mode of relationship transportation. A boomer woman who's...

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Sex In The Bermuda Triangle

(26) Comments | Posted January 7, 2014 | 5:45 AM

Not The Maritime Or Anatomical
There are three Bermuda Triangles boomer men can get lost in. The first is in the Atlantic Ocean. The second is a crude reference to a part of a woman's anatomy some men insist they routinely get lost in. The third is boomer...

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Boomer Guys and Aging Well

(0) Comments | Posted December 20, 2013 | 12:02 PM

Poor Rupert

I contributed to a recent article in the Sunday New York Times, Styles section. The topic was men and aging, and featured Rupert Murdoch who is single again. (Lock up your daughters.) The Huffington Post had already reported that poor Rupert can't decide about a hair...

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Boomer Women's Dating Faux Pas

(61) Comments | Posted November 25, 2013 | 4:38 AM

My last article encouraged boomer women not to give up dating, and suggested women reconsider if they have. While boomer dating can be emotionally exhausting and disappointing, couples do meet, fall in love, and live happily ever after.

Disclaimer: Since the last article focused on men's dating behavior,...

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Boomer Women Who Give Up Dating

(329) Comments | Posted October 30, 2013 | 6:59 AM

Making A Point
It's virtually impossible to express a strong point of view about dating, sex, and relationships without provoking anyone. When I hear a boomer woman say she's given up dating, my knee jerk reaction is to argue against her decision. Giving up dating conflicts with my lifelong...

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First Date Frogs

(35) Comments | Posted September 10, 2013 | 5:19 AM

A Plague of Frogs
A boomer first date can be an unnerving experience and a double-edged sword. Sure, there's a lot of excitement and some sweet fantasies attached to meeting someone new because there's always the chance they might have partner potential. But the other side of this is...

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Who Gets A Second Shot?

(8) Comments | Posted September 4, 2013 | 6:31 AM

Boomers, and particularly those recently out of long-term relationships, frequently find it puzzling to decide whether or not a second date is warranted. A common response from the question, "Are you going out with him or her again?" is typically, "I don't know, I just can't decide." A dating dry...

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Are You Typecasting Your Dates?

(52) Comments | Posted July 17, 2013 | 7:48 AM

Gangsters And Girlfriends
We all have favorite character actors we love in their typecast roles. James Gandolfini was my all-time favorite gangster because he brought such a wide range of emotions to his character. His face could show joy, sadness, anger and wild-eyed craziness simultaneously. James Gandolfini...

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Dating With Expectations

(31) Comments | Posted June 21, 2013 | 5:14 AM

What's Fair?
Expectations typically disappoint, but knowing this doesn't prevent us from having them anyway, especially around dating. Assuming you can't give up your relationship expectations, what are some fair and unfair ones to have about a new man or woman in your life?

Scary Stuff

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20 Traits A Boomer Man Wants In A Boomer Woman: Redux

(384) Comments | Posted May 16, 2013 | 7:29 AM

Don't Rely On Luck
A year ago I wrote an article listing the 20 qualities I wanted in my next boomer lover. It garnered more than 1,000 comments, both supportive and critical.

While a fair number of commenters agreed that having a list was smart dating,...

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Wild Monkey Sex

(186) Comments | Posted April 17, 2013 | 7:30 AM

Rodeo Rides
While having sex isn't any boomer's first rodeo, having wild monkey sex may be less familiar. What's wild monkey sex? Imagine the hottest sexual fantasies you ever conjured up, becoming your reality. But here's the thing that makes it somewhat elusive; you won't be having wild monkey...

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Why Boomer Women Are Perfect For Boomer Men

(1037) Comments | Posted February 7, 2013 | 5:41 AM

What drives men over 50 to pursue women is as primal as social. We'll always be hunters. Over 50 men are able to start second families, albeit with younger women, but not the other way around. My point isn't what's fair or unfair, but rather that many boomer men date...

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