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Kerry Kennedy

Kerry Kennedy

Posted: September 1, 2009 05:45 PM

On Losing a Human Rights Icon and a Beloved Uncle


I think continually of those who were truly great.
Who, from the womb, remembered the soul's history...

The names of those who in their lives fought for life
Who wore at their hearts the fire's center.
Born of the sun they traveled a short while towards the sun,

And left the vivid air signed with their honor.

-Stephen Spender

Senator Edward Kennedy served on the Board of Directors of the Robert F. Kennedy Center for Justice & Human Rights from 1968 until his passing last week. Witnessing the outpouring of love for him over the past week has been deeply moving and a source of strength and inspiration.

It was heartrending seeing those crowds lining the streets from Hyannis Port to Boston, from the Basilica of Our Lady of Perpetual Help to Hanscom Field, and from Andrews Air Force Base to Arlington Cemetery -- often ten deep. People held placards, waved American flags, and saluted. I shook hands with several thousand of the 50,000 mourners who came to the viewing at the JFK Library, each with her or his own story of being touched by Teddy's vision, spirit, and love. People came because they appreciated his courageous stances on civil rights, health care, minimum wage, his support in multiple forms for the oppressed and dispossessed, and more. But most didn't know his record on these issues. They came because they knew he loved people -- not the people, but actual, living, human beings.

Teddy called every one of my cousins, each of their spouses, and their kids, 119 of us in all, on every birthday and anniversary. He regularly rented a bus and took us on trips to visit battlefields with the greatest historians in the country. He took us skiing, rafting, and sailing. Every time he won a race and received a trophy, he had a replica of the trophy made and sent to every member of his crew.

He made politics come alive, not with esoteric policy discussions, but by telling wonderfully engaging stories about the senators with whom he worked -- their bravery, their foibles, and, to our great delight, always, their accents.

Sailing on the Mya last summer, he talked about his first days as a senator. He watched in awe as an impassioned colleague from Virginia railed against the evils of a particular bill and then saw that very same senator vote yea at roll call. When Teddy expressed his bewilderment, the senator explained "Well son, it's like this, to those who are for the bill, I send my vote, and to those against, I send my speech." Teddy roared with laughter and shook his head.

One of the most memorable trips I took with Teddy was a family visit to Poland in 1986. Lech Walesa had been organizing strikes in the Gdansk shipyards, martial law had been declared, and tension was high. We had gone to Poland to present the Robert F. Kennedy Human Rights Award to Adam Michnik -- known as the intellectual force behind Solidarity -- and Zbigniew Bujak, the leader of the Warsaw underground. The night we arrived, Teddy hosted a dinner, and it was the first time the Solidarity activists were able to communicate openly and in person. That, in and of itself, was a major victory. Formal greetings led to intense discussions, and those in turn gave way to stories, laughter, and a rousing exchange of Polish and Irish folk songs. The next morning came far too early, and I sat in awe at a conference table as Teddy dueled with General Jaruzelski, pressing him on basic rights -- to form a union, free expression, and democratic elections. Watching Teddy assert moral authority with such a depth of emotion and intellectual might was a breathtaking experience. I learned a lot from him on that trip about advancing the cause of human rights and loving democracy.

My work means spending time urging lawmakers to do the right thing on human rights issues. But Teddy is the person I always called not to seek support but to help formulate our political strategy and to find out what he was already doing. He was my "go to" guy. I'm not alone, and it wasn't just about being family.

For 30 years, Senator Kennedy was the human rights movement's strongest ally and its soul on Capitol Hill.

When Haitian refugees were being detained and deported, Ted Kennedy stood with us and with Haitian activists like Ray Joseph to demand an end to arbitrary detentions and sham legal proceedings. Ray, whose life was literally saved by Teddy, is now Haiti's Ambassador to the United States.

When asylum seekers were denied legal standing, Ted Kennedy authored and engineered the passage of the Refugee Act of 1980, helping to create a legal right to asylum.

When the U.S. government turned a blind eye to South Africa's State of Emergency and torture of young children, Ted Kennedy led the fight to pass the Anti-Apartheid Act of 1985, bringing U.S. policy into alignment with our values.

Wherever freedom's sons and daughters have been on the march for liberty -- from the Soviet Gulag to the streets of Central America, from Marcos' Philippines to the killing fields of Cambodia, Uganda, and now Darfur, Senator Ted Kennedy was their drum major for justice.

Here in the United States, he inspired, guided, and most importantly helped us provide protection and relief to some of the most vulnerable people on this planet. There is simply no one else like him.

Throughout my life, strangers have told me how Teddy was there when a child was diagnosed with cancer, when a father lost a job or had a blow to his reputation, when a wedding was to be celebrated. Over the last year, particularly these past few days, everywhere I have gone, people told stories about how Teddy changed their lives.

Heraldo Munoz told me how, as a young dissident in Chile under Pinochet, one night visiting his mother's house he heard sirens.

He looked out the window and saw a military battalion blocking the street. There was no escape. He saw his two best friends having already been captured, in the back of a pick up, blind folded and manacled. He turned to his wife and said, "They are coming to take me. Just be sure to call Ted Kennedy in Washington. He will save my life."

Today, Heraldo Munoz is the Chilean Ambassador to the United Nations.

Last June, I was at a fundraiser at Hickory Hill for major supporters of the Obama campaign. There was a couple with a distinctive accent, and I was not expecting such a dramatic response when I asked what brought them to the event that evening.

They said they'd met in Washington, D.C. as college students at American University. At the time, militants went on a rampage in Ethiopia and slaughtered every member of both of their families.

The I.N.S. denied their asylum claims, saying there was no evidence that this young couple was at risk should they attempt to return home.

Desperate, they went to the Senate, found Teddy's office, told him their story, and he went to work. They received asylum, started a business, and raised a son. Their son became the field organizer for Obama in northern Virginia, and they came that night to Hickory Hill, to express their gratitude to Ted Kennedy.

When Teddy saw an injustice happening in Guantanamo, he demanded an investigation.

In the fall of 2003, James Yee was known as the Muslim chaplain who had betrayed America. Accused of espionage, Army Captain James Yee saw his notoriety bloom overnight. According to USA Today, "He was vilified on the airwaves and on the Internet as an operative in a supposed spy ring that aimed to pass secrets to al-Qaeda from suspected terrorists held at Guantanamo Bay, Cuba, where Yee ministered to them. After his arrest, Yee was blindfolded, placed in manacles and taken to a Navy brig, where he spent 76 days in solitary confinement." Meanwhile, his name was released to the press and became synonymous with traitor.

Eight months later, thanks to Teddy's demands for justice, the criminal charges against the 36-year-old West Point graduate melted away. A subsequent reprimand was removed from his record, and he left the military with an honorable discharge in January 2005.

I love Teddy, and I will miss him with all my heart. He was truly great.

 
 
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wilinot
06:55 PM on 09/06/2009
Thank you Kerry. It's taken me a long time to read this as I can't stop crying. Your uncle Ted was a great man and we are going to miss him. Bless your family for sharing him with us.
04:35 PM on 09/06/2009
I am so sorry for your loss and all of our loss as well. Your uncle will be remembered for decades to come.
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Manhattanite
01:58 PM on 09/06/2009
Senator Kennedy was the last of the great progressives. Hopefully, one of the Kennedys can carry his mantle.
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teddyr
01:12 PM on 09/06/2009
Beautiful blog for your Uncle.
Every generation has someone great to do the things that need to be done for World, Country, Family.
Ours was Ted Kennedy. He came forward when we, as a generation lost your Uncle John and your Uncle Bobby. As a young person at that time, their deaths were life-altering (even as an ordinary child from a small town). It jaded us. Showed us a cruel world at a very young age. Very sad.
But Teddy was OUR rock. He was always there, trying as best he could to replace the loss of his dynamic brothers. And ultimately he was everything to this country. You can be proud of such a man.
We as a country will miss him.
05:36 PM on 09/06/2009
...not "Uncle" Bobby, but rather, "Dad." Kerry Kennedy is the daughter of the late Robert F. Kennedy.
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12:23 PM on 09/06/2009
I am looking forward to reading Teddy's memoir. The excerpts of Teddy impassioned speeches belong in a musical portrait about him, something along the lines of Copeland's "Lincoln Portrait.
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dlo2
10:28 PM on 09/05/2009
Teddy Kennedy was a giant of a man who served his time with intelligence, poignancy, generosity and amazing courage. I remember seeing him in Boston when I was training at the MGH. A dear and wonderful soul and I am thankful for the time he gave us and for his wonderful family who shared him with us. Thanks so much. I hope that one of those he mentored will think of serving in public office one day soon.
10:02 AM on 09/03/2009
Teddy and the Kennedy family, were raised with an Irish ethic, that as you stepped up in life, you extended a hand to the next less fortunate person.Wish we had a little more of that today.....
05:59 AM on 09/03/2009
Thanks for the details on how Senator Kennedy kept the Camelot flame alive during the decades after his brothers were slain Along with millions, I will miss the Senator and continue the struggle for human rights and justice inspired and illuminated by Ted and the other Kennedy's.
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Guytar
I'm sorry that I made you cry
03:02 AM on 09/03/2009
Thank you Kerry.
Your beloved uncle is smiling down on you.
And what a beautiful smile it is.
02:01 AM on 09/03/2009
Teddy voted NO on the Iraq war in 2002. For people like him, it was common sense. For others, they sold their sensibility for public favor and future votes. It's too bad TK couldn't have influenced others to take a stand with him on this vote. BUT, it's a very good mark for him during a time when, upon future reflection, the 23 Senators and 133 Reps that voted NO will most certainly be viewed as the last bastion of personal conviction backed by common sense in the first decade of the 21st Century.

With the anniversary fast approaching, check out this moving 9.11 story from inside the WTC building. http://thehappeningstory.blogspot.com/
cellarette
reading the writing on the wall...all of it.
12:49 AM on 09/03/2009
Thank you for sharing your memories, and thank you for sharing your uncle. I don't think I ever reflected on his life until the funeral for your cousin John Kennedy Jr. , but I suddenly realized how much had fallen on him, and how no one expected it would have to be Teddy who held you all together. So much weight of responsibility fell on his shoulders! And Bless the man, but he carried it. Without a stumble? No, but what fool expects that? He carried the weight life brought him and he carried it long, and he picked up more that he didn't have to -and Bless the man, he did it with grace.

I lost my father when he was 46, but I was lucky in uncles too. The eldest, who was in the merchant marine, then the navy and then the air force, died of brain cancer in 2001, shortly after September 11th -he wanted to be buried in Abraham Lincoln National Cemetary, so that's what we did. I remembered that day watching your family at Arlington the other night. I'll stand with you awhile -a lot of us will. God speed to you and your family -and let's hope your uncle has some "political capital" to cash in there on the other side!
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Elle Bach
Mr. Einstein...please call me
08:56 PM on 09/02/2009
Thanks for your memories, Ms. Kennedy.

Reading over the comments here, I was pleased to discover I had lots of company as a "stranger" who used an entire box of Puffs upon hearing the news of your uncle's passing.

it wasn't like it was a complete surprise; a prognosis for ecovery from brain cancer is never promising. it was more like it seemed unnatural and almost cruel that he should have been taken from us at a moment in time when the nation needed him most.

But, as story after story unfolded, and the depth of this man's character was revealed, the true scope of the loss became apparent. There was no "optimal" time in the course of his life to lose such a powerful advocate for the least of us. We'll have to learn the lessons he tried to teach us, without him now. (And, can I tell you, as a nation, I think we may be far too stupid to ever learn them well.)

By the time the funeral coverage ended in the evening shadows, I was emotionally exhausted, and throughly changed.

continues...
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Elle Bach
Mr. Einstein...please call me
08:59 PM on 09/02/2009
The stories of his dedication to serving, just to his simple philosophy of showing others that he cared, inspired in me a renewed sense of what's important in this world, and renewed determination to look for ways to give more than i take from it. And, I imagine you can multiple me times perhaps a few hundred thousand souls who came away from the coverage with the same committment to live a better, more caring life.

So, maybe, in the end, he left us with something as important as a congressional vote; little lights burning everywhere in America, with renewed devotion to practicing compassion and kindness in rememberance of his example. Maybe that's the legacy - that he will always exist in the nation's consciousness as an example (if imperfect) of the hero - a good life, one lived well, a life that made a difference.

Blessings to the entire Kennedy family, and thanks for all the service and sacrifice. Our country will not be the same without Teddy Kennedy.
06:36 PM on 09/02/2009
I am neither Irish nor Catholic, but I feel that one of the most inspiring parts of Senator Kennedy's legacy is the way he reached out to those of all faiths, all ethnic backgrounds and those who could do nothing in return except feel gratitude.
I remember being at a rally in Washington for the Soviet Jews who were kept from leaving the country. We were trying to persuade the US government to work with the Soviet leadership to obtain the release of these religious and political prisoners. Senator Kennedy worked tirelessly for this cause and never looked for publicity about it.
To me the difference between a politician and a statesman is that the politician is always interested in the next election and a statesman is always interested in the next good deed.
Senator Kennedy was a statesman.
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BlueZoo
Independent voter, Independent thinker!
06:04 PM on 09/02/2009
Kerry, please, will you or one of your siblings please write a book on all of this so it can be written down and kept for posterity? Senator Ted, in his own words, is one thing but I'd love reading of all your memories too! I suspect your wonder-filled blog is just a smidgen of the stories you all could tell about this great man!
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TomDegan
Author of "The Rant": http://www.tomdegan.blogspot
06:26 PM on 09/02/2009
Yes! Great idea! In the fine old Irish tradition, an oral biography of Teddy is in order. I have a proposed title:

"As We Remember Him"

Yeah! Yeah! I know. It's been done before - but what the hell....

Tom Degan
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Karen Russell
05:36 PM on 09/02/2009
Kerry -

Thanks for sharing this wonderful blog about your Uncle Teddy.

I was fortunate enough to talk to fellow mourners at the JFK library and like you, I was amazed by the PERSONAL stories I heard. Teddy touched so many of us. The diversity of the crowd was amazing.

His funeral reminded me about my own commitment to public service. How the more you give, the more you get back.

Teddy inspired so many, myself included. I am grateful for his example and rededicating myself to the causes I am passionate about.

I also loved his wicked sense of humor.

We can all learn from his life: work hard, play hard, love and laugh.

RIP Uncle Teddy. You were America's Uncle!