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Those Gay Vandals

Posted: 10/18/11 01:56 PM ET

Yesterday, a federal judge appointed by George W. Bush shredded one of longest-held arguments made by anti-gay activists in the United States: gays are bullies and harassers.

The background: The National Organization for Marriage and one of its affiliates wanted to repeal a domestic partnership law two years ago in Washington state. They gathered the requisite number of signatures to put repeal on the ballot, but voters overwhelmingly decided to keep the law in place. During the campaign, the NOM crew demanded that the 138,000 signatures remain under seal. If the names were publicly disclosed, they contended, gay people would threaten, harass and intimidate the signers.

Last year, the U.S. Supreme Court, including Justice Scalia, soundly rejected the anti-gay groups' broad arguments that Washington referendum signatures should be kept out of public view. And on Monday, Judge Benjamin Settle threw out NOM's case, citing no credible evidence. Of course, we condemn all incidents of harassment or intimidation of any American -- but one of the "victims" put forth by the groups said he had been "mooned" and flipped off by people in passing cars but never provided any evidence that these incidents had anything to do with the referendum. (Perhaps it was his driving?) The court dissected NOM's claims one by one, dismissing them as speculative.

This is not the first time a federal court has scratched its head wondering where the evidence is to support NOM's claims. In California, a federal court debunked NOM's harassment allegations, pointing out that "numerous of the acts about which [NOM] complain[s] are mechanisms relied upon, both historically and lawfully, to voice dissent... This court cannot condemn those who have legally exercised their own constitutional rights in order to display their dissatisfaction with [NOM's] cause."

NOM has been painting the gays-are-bullies mural for a while, which, of course, is a tried and true practice of all anti-gay groups dating back decades. It is their loudest battle cry, and is the reason they give to fight tooth and nail through scores of James-Bopp-led lawsuits to keep their donors secret -- despite popular disclosure laws that promote transparency. Vilifying the LGBT community is part of the group's fake victimization crusade -- which has found its way into the GOP presidential primary.

Each of the leading Republican candidates has signed a so-called marriage pledge to support a constitutional ban on gay marriage -- standard fare for a GOP primary. What was unexpected and unreported about the pledge was a little-known provision calling for "investigations" of gay Americans. Each candidate promised, if elected, to set up a presidential commission to begin McCarthy-style inquiries into those who are threatened and harassed.

The more federal courts debunk and delegitimize phony claims by staunch opponents of equality, the more emboldened and aggressive the thin-skinned zealots become. So look for more claims of gays-gone-wild in the states like North Carolina and Minnesota that have marriage equality on the ballot in 2012. However, the narrative is sure to continue before then. Maggie Gallagher just opened up a new website to serve as the repository for gay harassment claims.

Here's the good news: they're losing. The perception of LGBT people is only improving. Most of the country knows we share the same values of love, commitment and family. Look at the tangible public policy gains the past few years -- most recently the historic New York marriage law and the repeal of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell." Support in respected national polls for marriage equality is surging. Let's not kid ourselves. We still have a ways to go, but history shows this country generally moves in only one direction when it comes to equality -- and that's toward it.

 
Yesterday, a federal judge appointed by George W. Bush shredded one of longest-held arguments made by anti-gay activists in the United States: gays are bullies and harassers. The background: The Nati...
Yesterday, a federal judge appointed by George W. Bush shredded one of longest-held arguments made by anti-gay activists in the United States: gays are bullies and harassers. The background: The Nati...
 
 
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r henry
I live between concrete walls
01:40 PM on 10/19/2011
I think the reason NOM and it's ilk are losing this battle is because their hatred is so plainly written all over their faces. Much of the claims they make against homosexuals are clearly false and so many Americans have gay friends and family members. They know it's a lie.

Also, I think a part of this article can serve to prove that this is not a debate over the usage of the term "marriage". NOM is even fighting against civil unions and domestic partnerships.
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practiceempathy
Tolerance need not yield to willful ignorance.
02:20 PM on 10/20/2011
What they are fighting is our VISIBILITY, our right to live out loud, as they do.

The "protect marriage" motivation is a lie, too.

If Ms. Gallagher et al cared so much about protecting the "sanctity of marriage" they'd be outraged that convicted serial killers can legally marry while serving their time in prison.

It's all just smoke and mirrors, and people are starting to widely acknowledge this.
10:52 AM on 10/19/2011
These good "Christian" folks are the FIRST to call for boycotts of companies like Disney and Home Depot (http://action.afa.net/item.aspx?id=2147496231) for supporting equality. Yet, these companies do not hide their support under the cloak of secrecy. Why is NOM & Co. so afraid of exposure? And more importantly, why is it OK for them to flood outside states with millions of tax-free dollars and church-fueled man power to defeat equality and pass divisive discriminatory laws free from the fear of reprisals from those whom they are hurting? Sorry, but my GayTM will not support those businesses and individuals who actively work to hurt me and my family. Get over it. Release the names and release the donors.
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StevenKeirstead
Photographer and Biologist who happens to be gay.
10:17 AM on 10/19/2011
This is a good decision. I seriously doubt anyone would get harassed for opposing Referendum 71, which did after all pass. The Referendum enacted same sex civil unions in Washington State and was a defeat for NOM and a victory for same sex couples.

In Massachusetts the names of people supporting VoteOnMarriage.org's attempt to ban same sex marriage were made public at the time the constitutional amendment was being debated in the legislature. No one was harassed and there were no incidences of anti-ban-supporter vandalism at all.

NOM loves to play the victim while actually acting as oppressors. It's a sham, and NOM should be ashamed of their lies and their bigotry.
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M A Ross
Fear is the main source of superstition & cruelty.
09:52 AM on 10/19/2011
"...one of the "victims" put forth by the groups said he had been "mooned" and flipped off by people in passing cars..."

Could have been because of one of those '1 man + 1 woman = a marriage' stickers on their car?
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Atwill
Proud Father of a gay son.
07:58 AM on 10/19/2011
it is the religious right and religious leaders who are bullies. by going public with their hate and insanity. i think tying someone to barb wire and leaving them to die is FAR worse them being flipped off.
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Valksy
civis mundi sum
07:50 AM on 10/19/2011
Always happy to see NOM fail miserably, again. The law just isn't what they want it to be and it isn't going to capitulate to their needs. I'm sure that this is deeply frustrating to them and they are hoping to get their man in to the position of POTUS so he can make it so that whatever NOM wants, it can have...
06:55 AM on 10/19/2011
Sympathetic joy is when we take in the delight of another instead of begrudging it. Can we allow the lives of others to be different from ours and feel happy for them? Can we rejoice for them as their happiness grows? I do not believe that happiness is a limited resource, that the more someone else has, the less there is for me. I do not believe that heterosexuals have a monopoly on love and commitment. If Ellen Degeneres is happy in her same-sex marriage then I am happy for her too. I say "Love the religious bigot, disagree with the religious bigotry".
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Married Gay Pagan Man
02:47 AM on 10/19/2011
Nice to see yet another defeat of NOM and Co.
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09:50 PM on 10/18/2011
"they wearied themselves to find the door"

"As it was in the days of Lot, so shall it be in the days of the coming of the Son of Man."

"There will be weeping and gnashing of teeth."
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mishi
04:01 AM on 10/19/2011
"Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain."

"I used to be pure as snow, but I drifted."

"There ain't no Sanity Clause!"
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StevenKeirstead
Photographer and Biologist who happens to be gay.
10:20 AM on 10/19/2011
The first generation of Christians thought the Second Coming would happen in their lifetimes. Nearly 2000 years later it still has not happened. Perhaps it's a myth or legend like most of the Bible clearly is.
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09:34 AM on 10/20/2011
Dear Steven,

2 Peter 3:3-4 says: ....scoffers will say in the last days, "What happened to the promise that Jesus is coming again? From before the times of our ancestors, everything has remained the same since the world was first created."

So, scoff, Steven; He that said He will come back, will come back. Believe it's a myth at your own rythk.
07:32 PM on 10/18/2011
Onward...to full civil and marriage rights..
Cheers, Joe Mustich, CT USA
Officiant, Celebrant, Justice of the Peace,
& Non-denominational Minister
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MemphisHopJack
Loving life--one dog at a time
04:46 PM on 10/18/2011
Does boycotting a business run by one of the signers count as a criminal act? I would view it as my capitalistic, constitutional right to spend my dollars where I want to. Or is this what they are most afraid of? That we will use our monetary clout to speak up.
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Married Gay Pagan Man
08:54 AM on 10/19/2011
In some cases, yes. Others, they're afraid that they will be called out for the bigots they are. It's all ridiculous, but I'm glad even Judge Scalia gave the bigots a smackdown.
04:27 PM on 10/18/2011
"Last year, the U.S. Supreme Court, including Justice Scalia, soundly rejected the anti-gay groups' broad arguments that Washington referendum signatures should be kept out of public view."

Must be a 'gay-lover' and he will soon be recalled by the frightwing.
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Awake-and-Sing
named after a great play written by Clifford Odets
05:57 PM on 10/18/2011
Scalia is the most right-wing, anti-gay judge on the Supreme Court. If they cannot win his support, they cannot win anyone's.
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BeatlesPrudence
Beware of Liberals posing as Americans
07:59 PM on 10/18/2011
And thank God for him!
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Asmodean1
Truth is only true if based on facts.
08:22 PM on 10/18/2011
Actually the only way to get rid of a supreme court justice is impeachment. It was tried once and failed.
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Ghostberry
All empty souls tend toward extreme opinions.
12:41 AM on 10/20/2011
I'm Hoping Clarence Thomas sets a new precedent.
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Wayne Peterson
04:13 PM on 10/18/2011
Each such loss by the anti-gay establishment must be publicised broadly!
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BeatlesPrudence
Beware of Liberals posing as Americans
07:56 PM on 10/18/2011
Yessssth, I's agwee