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Mother To Mother: I Feel Her Pain

Posted: 06/01/09 05:15 PM ET

I watched this video on GlobalGrind.com, astounded, as two uniformed police officers manhandled this bloodied, black male teenager. I could not believe what I was seeing. I have since read that the two grown men choked and beat 14-year-old Trevor Casey so badly that his own mother, Karen, was unable to recognize him afterwards. He was not a "thug," he was a child. He could've been yours or mine. I am not trying to rush to judgment against the police officers, but it was clear from the video that something obviously went wrong.

Writ large in the video, a metaphor: an overly aggressive and out of touch system using excessive force on our youth and our communities.

But the video tells a larger story than the violent incident visited upon the Caseys of Toledo, OH. It's a story about the on-going conflict across our country between our communities and the agencies created to police them. Too often, these victims are black males. This is important to note since I've come to realize that, because this incident has been largely overlooked by the mass media, and also because it's dawned on me that our children may not be safe.

As a mother of two beautiful daughters and one son, I am horrified at the way that our young black males are stereotyped: as negligible and disposable and destined for trouble. Mortified, then, is a good word to describe my reaction at having seemingly witnessed an attack on thin-limbed Trevor, who can't weigh more than 115 lbs -- including his non-threatening attire: summer shirt and wind shorts.

I'm writing this in support of Trevor and Karen Casey and anyone else who has suffered at the hands of those who have a sworn duty to protect and honor them. I'm also championing anyone who is working towards ending brutality -- including law enforcement personnel who do the right thing for their agencies and their communities. However, I hope we stop for a moment and begin to analyze or explore why these confrontations continue to occur and what's being done to stop them.

Until justice is served in this matter, we should all be vigilant in holding accountable not only those who use their authority and force to undermine our rights as citizens -- but also all of the officials, officers and citizens who let them get away with it.

A fund will be established to aid the Caseys in their legal proceedings and I will be pleased to contribute and encourage you all to do so, as well. Any amount you can give will help. No amount is too small. I will be sending out the information once the fund is set up. Until then, please spread the word.

Originally published on Global Grind.

 
I watched this video on GlobalGrind.com, astounded, as two uniformed police officers manhandled this bloodied, black male teenager. I could not believe what I was seeing. I have since read that the ...
I watched this video on GlobalGrind.com, astounded, as two uniformed police officers manhandled this bloodied, black male teenager. I could not believe what I was seeing. I have since read that the ...
 
 
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08:21 AM on 06/07/2009
http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=259_1244299102

This is the reality for a lot of black males. And you wonder why their first instinct is to run when they see cop cars?
07:51 AM on 06/04/2009
Let me begin by saying i have more than a "suspicion" that "most" of the people in jail deserve to be there, note i did not say "all" i said "most". I live in a city where people/ men openly boast of criminal activities, that they happen to be darker than a tan seems to be the "norm". Nobody seems to want to talk about that part, the "willfull participation" in criminality, the callousness in which they, the criminals shoot each other down and us "civvies" who are not fast enough to get out of the way. The brutality and moronic behavior that seems to be part and parcel of "our" neighborhoods ALL ACROSS THE NATION. If you can tell me with a straight face you have not seen this at all either you are lying or deaf, dumb, and blind. Maybe i'm just old but i do remember a time i would have taken the side of the kid, not now, having been a victim of crime, living in a city that seems to breed more criminals everyday i have to go along with the cops.
09:34 PM on 06/04/2009
You've missed the pt. The point wasn't whether most black men in prison are guilty. The pt wasn't whether many black communities have suffered at the hands of black men who have brought violence to them. The pt is that it's no excuse for making the lives of ALL black men more dangerous at the hands of the cops and in the eyes of everyone else. The pt is that I shouldn't have to clean up these problems BEFORE I can expect that my 16 yr. old son won't be hassled, detained or killed because the cops (or Joe citizen) are pretty sure that he's guilty. Want some honesty? I'm rich. We'll live in a nice place upon our return from living abroad and you know what, it's more likely than not that my son will be stopped by cops/security to make sure he "belongs" and that's OK with you because OTHER black men commit a lot of crimes? I have more than a "suspicion" that most of the Latinos in prison are illegal aliens. Anyone called the "Latino community" (I know I've got that number here somewhere) to let them know that we won't be "siding" with them until they fix that illegal alien problem? Acknowledge the problem and lock up the black thugs who have brought violence and shame to their communities but don't victimize my son and the millions of other black men out there in the process and not give a damn.THAT'S the point.
10:39 AM on 06/07/2009
MLK Jr said it best, "injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere."

There will always be crime, but who, where, and when is often determined largely by the apathy of us so-called "law abiding citizens". Our lack of compassion breeds opportunities for criminals to form, entrench and expand their activities and influence in our communities. You seem to think you have more in common with the police officers (even if the ones in question are vicious bullies), than with the brown-skinned kid. May I remind you that you are a self-identified "civvy", so what will you say when it's you getting the hell beat out of you? When that happens, I guess the rest of us should just say, "Oh well, it was his day to take one for the team." Ridiculous!!
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11:24 AM on 06/03/2009
For those of you who believe this not to be a race issue, please find for me one high profile case of a white man being beaten severely and unjustly by white cops, or black cops for that matter. How weak your memory is. Oscar Grant? Amadou Diallo? Sean Bell? How long will we allow our cops to feel no repercussions for the killing of innocent black men?
09:18 AM on 06/03/2009
The environment and upbringing is important for a child to have a chance to break away from poverty. Black doesn’t mean violence nor does it mean killing or stealing. You are black doesn't means to be poor either. Don't blame yourself for your predicament instead work your way out.
Take a lesson from the Chinese in your country. They were migrant workers in the US and they were treated as a third class citizens before. They worked their way out of indignation and poverty for the good of their future generations. Perhaps a touch of Confucius will help the people there.
10:59 AM on 06/02/2009
This is no surprise to me but so many of you seem to give this whole subject a shrug of the shoulders. You seem incapable of thinking this through to what it means to be a mother of a black son who has to send him out there knowing that he cannot expect to be given the benefit of the doubt. Kimora's point wasn't about the dude with 9 children or the guy with 3 violent felonies it was about the black men and boys who are harassed and treated with suspicion on a daily basis on their way to work or school or to pick up their children for whom they take complete responsibility. And save the space if you're going to write that if black men are behaving they'll be treated as well as anyone else. Let's keep it real. Do not tell me that I need to fix the worst problems in the black community before I can reasonably expect our black men to be treated justly. And that doesn't just go for the cops, it goes for all of you.
05:01 PM on 06/02/2009
Wow. What a real perspective and right to the point that matters. We need more "big picture" reality in our lives - so thank you very much for sharing your poignant and well-reasoned thoughts!
10:59 AM on 06/02/2009
For all of you who immediately dismiss this article by demanding that the black community take responsibility for gang violence, drug use, our children, etc., you are clearly and LOUDLY missing the point. And it is this very attitude, this, "Well, black folks need to get themselves together and then they won't have to worry about things like this" attitude, that terrifies women with black sons.

See, here's the thing you missed in that article and that you apparently haven't thought of with regard to black folks: millions of our black sons are NOT criminals, drug users, deadbeat fathers, unemployed, violent, lazy and threatening and they don't deserve to be suspected of criminal behavior and brutalized simply because they are black. THAT is what we fear. Why would you think that black people don't want violent individuals, black ones included, apprehended? Has it even occurred to you that the fear she is talking about extends to that black family across the street from you in a nice neighborhood with the same values, work ethic and hopes that you have? That's the friggin' point people. If the police think black males = likely suspect then my clean cut, fabulous and much loved black son is looked at with suspicion, fear and in many cases, loathing, just because he's black. That's dangerous. We don't have the luxury of sending our black sons out into the world wearing placards that read, "Wait, I'm one of the good ones, don't shoot."
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12:32 PM on 06/02/2009
Flagged as favorite - well said!
09:56 AM on 06/03/2009
Great post. My mother and I witnessed my brother being beat by police for just standing outside talking with friends. After that incident, he had a real hatred for all cops. In his mind, there were just bullies. People will never understand the fear black men have of cops. That instinct to flee is not always because of guilt but because of panic.
09:57 AM on 06/02/2009
"As a mother of two beautiful daughters and one son, I am horrified at the way that our young black males are stereotyped: as negligible and disposable and destined for trouble. "

Apparently, you think "stereotype" and "statistics" are the same thing. Your argument is false.
09:58 AM on 06/03/2009
Apparently, you dont know any black people. AND as for your statistics, you somehow have forgotten that prisons are FULL of whites as well. Your comment is stupid.
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07:39 AM on 06/06/2009
Agree!
09:54 AM on 06/02/2009
I think the lack of respect people have for police and the difficulty of their job is incredible. Police officers are literally putting their life on the line every single day, dealing with things that most of us could not handle for one day let alone 20 or 30 years. As citizens, we demand safe communities and an active fight against the undesirable elements of civilization. But the way our society operates, almost any person could be carrying a gun and because of this fact a police officer is perhaps forced to act with more force than otherwise may have been required out of pure self-preservation.

It's easy to speak out against an innocent black kid being hurt by white police officers any sane person is against this type of abuse of power. It would be nice, however, see leaders in the black community acknowledge and take on the culture of gang and drug violence that plagues urban youths and contributes to the very incidents Ms. Simmons bemoans.
01:32 PM on 06/02/2009
Eusebio, Perhaps you will need only one experience where cops don't extend you the courtesy of the possibility that you are not guilty until proven so. Most experienced good cops out there don't make the mistake of shooting when its not necessary or using other deadly force. You cannot tell me that each of these incidents require to cops to use the ultimate force in every situation. There are no situations in which one could choose the lesser force? Please...hell if the only option is shoot them..why use cops, just give everybody a damned gun. Experience=judgement. "It's easy to speak out against an innocent black kid being hurt by white epolice officers"???? You don't get it do you? Do you suppose a white family who lost their white kid at the hands of white cops would be any less angry, hurt or devastated? Race is driving your argument, not the possible dangers police face. But that said, when they applied for the job, they knew what it entailed or at the very least that their lives could be on the line...but I am sure somewhere in that cop manual it talks about not shooting so quickly all the time, every time...and given the history in this country...it is not strange to question if you had been standing there, would they have been as quick on the trigger...if its yes..then hey you're dead!
07:23 AM on 06/02/2009
How about parents and communities taking responsibility for their children, regardless or race, color, creed? Taking back turf from gangs? Refusing to glamorize gang and criminal culture?
You're leaving that part of the equation out of the picture.
10:29 AM on 06/03/2009
You have got to be kidding. Glamorize gang and criminal culture? Whites do the EXACT SAME THING. Godfather, and Sopranos is thrilling, and exciting. You buy Harleys to look tough like the biker gang thugs. What communities do white criminals come from? Poor, white, trash communities? The rejects that cannot afford suburban living? What communties should take responsibility? The black community? The global community? Are you taking responsiblity for the kids in your community? Do you live in a crime-free utopia?
12:28 PM on 06/03/2009
Thanks, dontpanic1. We say: "We are afraid because the lives of our upstanding young black men are not valued and they are stereotyped as criminals and dangerous." All of the Mrs. Fonebones gather in chorus to say: "Well fix the 'bad ones' amongst you and perhaps, just perhaps, the rest of us will begin to care about what happens to the 'good ones'."And just to make certain that the Mrs. Fonebone chorus appears to be "colorblind" they find some inane way to throw in the line, "...regardless of race, color or creed." Let's do this Mrs. Fonebone: since the overwhelming majority of young people who shoot up a bunch of their classmates are White boys and since the overwhelming majority of men who go "postal" on their coworkers are middle-aged White men who LOOK like they might like guns, I say we park police cars out in front of our high schools and places where a lot of White guys work. And until you White people take responsibility for your mass killer problem, your young White boys and pudgy, middle-aged White guys who might be likin' them some guns will just have to deal.The rest of us will just nod in approval as your young boys and men get randomly stopped, falsely arrested, beaten and occasionally shot in the chest. We'll be wishing that we could be more sympathetic...really, we will be.
12:21 AM on 06/02/2009
They're not going to stop until these people start shooting back......
11:59 PM on 06/01/2009
Hi Kimora -

Congratulations on your new edition. You are a delightful mother and woman. Thank you for shinning a light on this situation. I agree, there is a problem. The solution is to keep shinning a light on injustice. Instead of a scowl to young men in general, it is important that we smile at them and encourage them to do better. Society has got to have a heart when it comes to our youth. Thank you for reminding me to be kind to the future of our world.
11:30 PM on 06/01/2009
thanks, Kimora. congrats on the birth of your son!
11:11 PM on 06/01/2009
Almost as horrific as this incident is the lack of coverge it is getting. Had I not read this post, I would have never known.
08:00 PM on 06/01/2009
Cops have way too much power and not enough oversight. In addition, people are trained to venerate and never question police officers--witness the many comments on the video site saying, essentially, that we don't know what happened before than and the young man must have done something to deserve it. I'm sorry. No 14 year old kid, no matter how defiant or temperamental, deserves to be beaten to the point of unconsciousness and possible seizures. As police officers, those men have an even higher responsibility than an ordinary citizen to curb their tempers, act responsibly, and avoid doing harm. Trouble is, too many cops take their position of power as a license to abuse and hurt people.
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07:40 AM on 06/02/2009
If a cop is confronted by somone with a tree branch, a screw driver, a hammer, why not shoot him
in the leg rather than killing the individual. Just not right, no matter how one looks at it.
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07:16 PM on 06/01/2009
After doing some research about 8 months ago...I came up with this.

Out of every 100,000 black men, 1400+ are in prison.
Out of every 100,000 mexican men, 1200+ are in prison.
Out of every 100,000 white men, 470+ are incarcerated...

Something wrong with that picture? I think so. I taught in a private prison until last fall and I talked to the offenders frequently about the statistics and how all of them can stay out of trouble when they are released.

A felon has a very hard row to hoe in our society where the citizens are addicted to prisons and the private corporation are more than eager to build "one" more.

I was also appalled at the number of children that all of these men left behind when they were locked up. I had a 32 year old student who has 9 children with two different women. Never married them, sends no child support (there are jobs in this prison) and doesn't stay in contact with any of them. He had his first child at the age of 14. Something is very, very wrong with a society that allows this.
01:24 PM on 06/03/2009
"Something is very, very wrong with a society that allows this."

I hope you aren't assuming innocence on the part of these men. Obviously, there is a problem with the legal system and I am aware that there are statistics that state that minorities are more likely to be imprisoned for the same crimes as their fellow whites. But the simple fact is this: Most prisoners come from poorer neighborhoods where selling drugs, commiting robberies, and other activities are the most profitable (financially speaking) activities. There are plenty of poor people who DO NOT choose to partake in these activities, and for the most part, they stay out of prison. Many men in prison (though not all, because I will not assume that they are all guilty) have a long history of reckless behavior, some of it legal, some of it illegal. The fact that you mention the 32-yr old man with 9 kids supports my point. Though they aren't always guilty, some make one major mistake that more responsible people would have identified to be a bad decision.

The best thing that blacks (and everyone) can do is to teach our kids from the cradle about how to make good decisions, recognize bad ones, and how to recognize and not follow peer pressure.

And I am glad to hear that you are teaching in a prison. I'm sure it is rewarding. :)