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The Blind Lion Who Never Roared

Posted: 11/10/11 09:44 AM ET

Want to know what starting a war on lies and getting away with it because nobody has the guts to stand up and yell stop does to a nation?

Want to discuss what happens when a country that prides itself on a bill of rights, starts torturing people?

Care to talk about what happens when greed takes over where morals were lost?

How about what happens when adults start to believe their own lies because its more convenient?

It was bad when Americans took to the streets and celebrated the death of Bin Laden a mere 8 months ago. To me, celebrating murder was something only our enemies would ever do as they had allegedly done on the morning of September 11th when my husband was killed.

What is perhaps even more unsettling is to wake up this morning and witness the young adults at Penn State University rioting in the streets about the firing of Joe Paterno.

Joe Paterno is a man who turned a blind eye to the brutal rape of a 10-year-old boy and perhaps several others for years in exchange for greed, reputation, or even worse to win a few more football games.

I'm no moral compass. But I am a mom. And an American. So I take the actions of those Penn State kids personally and as a sobering reflection.

And I am ashamed.

What has become of us and our priorities in the past ten years?

We have so clearly lost our way.

And, I ask, where have all our leaders, our coaches, and our parents gone?

 

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11:20 PM on 11/15/2011
Had the pleasure of meeting you at C.M.U. in Pittsburgh back in the day....and I've always admired your guts Kristen, especially in the wake of 9/11. Everything you say here is so true and so very sad.
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JustSomeGeek
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04:11 AM on 11/11/2011
Every mom is a moral compass; every dad a weather-vane. One is always drawn in the true direction, while the other is pushed there by the capriciousness of the winds of the moment...
05:27 PM on 11/10/2011
I agree with you totally. I read something I thought was very profound. It stated that as a society we have been told to be "tolerant"--however tolerance has silenced us. It has caused us to suspend our judgements and not make pronouncements on good and bad behavior. Just look at how each viewing season, the envelope is pushed a little further..shows like Shameless, with aberrant behavior. Maybe we should be a little less tolerant and start requiring more of society. Raise the bar--not continually lower it. Our children no longer have a childhood or age of innocence. Throw all these people under the jail.
11:20 PM on 11/10/2011
Who on earth advocates "tolerance" for child rape?
01:58 PM on 11/10/2011
So true Kristen. I'm a huge fan.

I am relieved that in the SF Bay Area, the sportscasters at 95.7 were pushing for Joe Paterno to resign immediately, ever since this horrible news that he had known about it came out. They were asking how he could possibly go out and coach on Saturday, both before and after Paterno said he'd retire at the end of the season. John Lund and Roxy Bernstein correctly stated this morning that despite what most of the rest of the country is saying, it is all about those abused kids and NOT about the firing of so-called great Joe Paterno.

As a former middle school Physical Education teacher and coach for 37 years, I was a huge Paterno admirer for what I thought were the values he taught his teams. No more. He obviously didn't live by those so-called values himself, and furthermore perpetuated what I consider to be the most heinous crime of all, pedophilia.
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01:55 PM on 11/10/2011
Penn State spirit runs incomprehensibly high and deep, and JoePa is emblematic of the school.

Most of the students there now don't really know this criminal who betrayed innocent children and youth, because they weren't there when he did those horrible things.

They only know that JoePa embodies THEIR school. He made his guys get good grades if they wanted to play, and has headed the team and been the soul of the school for longer than most of their PARENTS have been alive.

They're angry that these terrible things have stained their school and their JoePa, and they don't want to relinquish the squeaky-clean image of either.

It is possible to be enraged that a career symbolizing a school is ending, tarnished, like this while also being enraged that such evil was done under his nose and purview.

You act as if these students are supporting the man who committed the crimes, when in reality they are expressing their frustration that somebody they revere is being dethroned for something he might have known about in part--because to them, it isn't conceivable that he knew more than the least-evil portion of what happened, or knew that it continued.

They are acting out their anger at having those horrible evils compounded by a good man doing nothing, and also their anger at what THEY see as an injustice of this inaction they never saw overshadowing a life full of great actions they've seen in full.
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Luman Walter
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12:52 PM on 11/11/2011
That's a pretty and naive justification for abhorrent behavior. They are supporting a man who committed crimes; Joe Paterno. To continue to call him that nickname alone implies justification for his actions. He was told, in detail, that the man who was his closest assistant for over thirty years was caught raping a ten year old boy in Paterno's locker room and all "joe pa" did was take Sandusky's keys away. He sure was Sandusky's and McQuery's "joe pa" but he sure wasn't "joe pa" to any of Sandusky's victims. He should spend the rest of his life in prison not a house paid for by the taxpayers of Pennsylvania and the the students of Penn State. All of these criminals are Pennsylvania Commonwealth employees and should be prosecuted and stripped of any and all association with the university. Anything else is a permanent injustice.
01:08 PM on 11/10/2011
Here is a link to the Grand Jury Report - reader warning: will make you sick to read the details and how many adults were silent: http://i.cdn.turner.com/dr/teg/tsg/release/sites/default/files/assets/sanduskygrangjury.pdf
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12:54 PM on 11/10/2011
Thank you. I've always appreciated your work and dedication to speaking the truth.
12:08 PM on 11/10/2011
You are so right about this and I am very thankful someone had the guts to say it! Please don't let this go - we need to make these kids understand what they are demonstrating for! They are standing up for a man who allowed a pedophile to continue to abuse kids - and these Penn State students are disgusting for sticking with this guy!
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02:01 PM on 11/10/2011
Don't judge them as disgusting for being angry at the tragedy of their hero's human faults erasing all the good he's done.

Judge them as human, and as infuriated as you are that the man they judged in only one way has proven to have more to him than just great deeds or foul inaction.

These are students who riot even when they WIN. They're not demonstrating for a man who allowed a pedophile to continue to abuse kids, they're standing up for a man who did so many other things that people like you refuse to see because he was weak when courage really counted.

You're calling innocent bystanders disgusting for not wanting to see their hero's flaws, when you refuse to see anything but those flaws. You're just as wrong as they are.
11:36 PM on 11/10/2011
Egal, you are the only rational one here. I went to that school. I was at the so-called "riots" in 2001 when our basketball team went to the Sweet 16. These are not riots. Yes there is some violence, some idiots out there, some mob mentality going on. Which is what happens when thousands gather. The majority of the students that were in the streets, were simply there. Just to belong. Just to gather with each other in cameradiere at a supremely trying time. They don't know what to think. No one in this country has dealt with anything on this scale since Virginia Tech in '07. And that was an outsider perpetrating that crime. This crime happened from within. Whatever the outcome of who knew what and when, these students, both current and alumni, are simply reacting to having their family torn apart. They don't truly "support hiding a child molester". They don't even really care too much about Joe himself. They're just holding onto what little good is left at their home.
12:07 PM on 11/10/2011
Could not agree more Kristen. I do believe that it has to with being a mother. If any of those kids could stop long enough to think about the rape of the boy, and perhaps this boy was theirs, I do believe their stomachs would turn.
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Luman Walter
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12:05 PM on 11/10/2011
I disagree with you; whole heartily on one thing; you are a moral compass. A brilliant one. And also my hero.

Thank you, thank you, thank you!
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11:58 AM on 11/10/2011
Thank you Kristen for pointing out what has been going wrong for so long.
11:36 AM on 11/10/2011
I feel we are losing our moral compass as a nation and as a society. I am glad you said what needed to be said. If it impacts only a few people's outlook on life than your words will not be wasted. Great post, thank you.
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11:09 AM on 11/10/2011
Your grief is palpable, and I share it with you. I too believe that this all is part and parcel of what we're seeing in our country - a sell-out at a high level for the almighty buck - no holds barred. Shame on those in our society who have created such a toxic environment.