Many of us are caregivers, whether we have a special-needs child, a parent with Alzheimer's, an ill partner, or are in a caregiving profession such as being a nurse, therapist, or teacher. When the stress of continually being there for others is high, we can become overwhelmed by our caregiving...
(2) Comments | Posted June 27, 2011 | 8:19 AM
In my work I have defined self-compassion as having three main interacting components: self-kindness, a sense of common humanity and mindfulness. Self-kindness refers to the tendency to be caring and understanding with oneself rather than being harshly critical or judgmental. Instead of taking a cold "stiff-upper-lip" approach in times of...
(16) Comments | Posted May 29, 2011 | 11:17 AM
The number-one reason people give for why they aren't more self-compassionate is the fear that they will be too easy on themselves. Without constant self-criticism to spur myself on, people worry, won't I just skip work, eat three tubs of ice cream and watch Oprah reruns all day? In others...
(16) Comments | Posted April 25, 2011 | 9:04 AM
The golden rule tells us that we should treat others as we would want them to treat us. Maybe so, but hopefully we won't treat them even half as badly as we treat ourselves.
"You're so lame!"
"What a screw-up!"
"How can you ever show your face in public again!"
...(82) Comments | Posted April 6, 2011 | 8:59 AM
It has almost become a truism in our culture that we need to have high self-esteem in order to be happy and healthy. Psychologists have conducted thousands of studies touting the benefits of self-esteem. Teachers are encouraged to give all their students gold stars so that each one can feel...


(0) Comments | Posted May 23, 2012 | 2:58 PM