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Don't Ask, Don't Go!

Posted: 11/18/10 03:12 PM ET

I sure hope that Don't Ask, Don't Tell is repealed. Gays deserve equal rights across the board. Case closed.

That said, why on earth would anyone want to enlist right now?

The two unpopular wars we're fighting barely even came up in the midterm elections. Except with gays -- for some reason we're eager to join in the fight. Dan Choi, the poster boy for repeal, recently equated the bullying that the legislature engages in by keeping DADT in place with the bullying that's caused a rash of teen suicides that shocked the gay community. OK, so I guess all gays agree that bullying is a bad thing. And that no one should do it, right? As the most hawkish nation, the US is the biggest and meanest bully in the world! Yet Choi and others want participate in its actions abroad? It's not logical. Either bullying is wrong or it isn't. While the schoolyard bullies harass people verbally the Pentagon flies soldiers to occupy foreign countries for indefinite killing sprees. Oh, but we call that Operation Iraqi Freedom.

The Iraq war is a blight on our nation's reputation and the healing can never begin until we've aired out this festering sore. It was a huge mistake and yet we're still at it? You shouldn't seek to fight in it -- you should seek to fight against it ever being waged in the first place. We also need to combat whatever conditions made it possible to be tricked into such a gruesome mess so that it never happens again. Those conditions would include recognizing that George W. Bush couldn't have gone to war if it weren't for Americans' own bloodthirsty wish to avenge 9/11 in the wrong country and also the failure of the media, which even liberal bastions CNN and the New York Times admitted to, to ask harder questions of the Bush administration leading up to the war.

I'm not so such a naive peacenik that I'd suggest disbanding that the military. Of course we need a trained reserve of brave men and women ready to protect us from attacks. But that's not what the military's been up to in Iraq, is it? They're protecting the profits of the military industrial complex's kingpins and that's not a noble cause to lay your life down for. Nor is fighting Al Qaeda in Afghanistan long after they've left the country. Far from enhancing our nation's security, our actions in that part of the world will probably spark generations of future terrorists to attack us. And we're sent into battle by a legislature full of fat cats which mostly never served, but they'll gladly send pawns to do their dirty work protecting the wealth of the corporations which line their pockets. During the Bush years, the Pentagon prevented images of soldiers' coffins from being shown on the news. I guess the dead ones might discourage new recruits. And at all costs, we must keep on playing this dirty game which the troops always lose.

Now if gays just want any job in a crummy economy and can stand bloodshed and withstand post-traumatic stress disorder, then the military's a fine choice. But perhaps an independent contractor could hire you instead. They may not offer the same benefits as military service and there are no medals to be won, but you're still technically working for the US government. You won't be hampered by all of those pesky military regulations and you can continue to work long after combat has ended.

There can be no honor from serving in a shameful war. Anyone attempting to enlist now is condoning the horrors of of it. If fairness and equality is really the concern of gay people, then we can't sign up to use force to impose our misguided will as we've been doing in Iraq for almost a decade. As people who've been bullied ourselves, we of all people must value compassion. Dan Choi has claimed that "War is a force that gives us meaning." Anyone who needs to obtain their meaning from something as depraved as preemptive attacks against innocent countries is at odds with any civil rights movement I can conceive of. Last night on Rachel Maddow, discharged Lt. Colonel. Victor Fehrenbach described his service by saying "It's my life." Too bad that he can't live his "life" without causing someone else's death. Of course gays deserve civil rights. But Iraqis deserve them just as much as we do.

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11:17 AM on 11/20/2010
After blacks began serving openly in the military they began to become accepted as citizens by a majority of Americans. There's just something about risking your life for our country that has that effect.

Likewise, today gays want the ability to risk their lifes (openly, they're already risking their lives) for America and to gain acceptance by doing so. We should give them that chance.

On an semi-related note, this might work for illegal immigrants too. Maybe if we put a bunch of Army recruitment centers all along the boarder and offered a faster path to citizenship like "serve 4 years and become a citizen" instead of the current 15-20 years of bureaucracy it takes now. We could grow the US with needed workers, increase the tax roles, reduce the numbers of illegals in the country, along with allowing the soldiers in Iraq to go home once in awhile! Not to mention they'd be more used to the heat in the middle east. Just my 2¢.
06:43 PM on 11/19/2010
It is so obvious and who is dying to go to war ? All this kids coming back with missing limbs and no jobs is sad , but gays shouldn't be discriminate from anywhere , even from horrible war .... if they reaaaaaaly want to go
12:23 PM on 11/19/2010
Right on Bunny! I AGREE 100% !
10:44 AM on 11/19/2010
Why enlist? How about 20% unemployment here in Jackson County Oregon. That's over 12,000 unemployed here. For many young folks, straight or gay, military enlistment is not a choice but a necessity.
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Kenyatta J Yamel
10:09 AM on 11/19/2010
Excellent ideas.
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Carl Caroli
Give peace a chance
08:20 AM on 11/19/2010
The military is the only career path for many young Americans these days, thanks to the lack of jobs. The republicans and the MIC like it this way.
03:02 AM on 11/19/2010
Right on sister, I've been saying the same thing!
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queertodaydotcom
01:07 AM on 11/19/2010
The activists of QueerToay THANK YOU lady bunny!!!!
10:07 PM on 11/18/2010
"There can be no honor from serving in a shameful war." Nicely put Lady Bunny.
09:27 PM on 11/18/2010
Gays and their supporters in the military need to register as being Gay, and people who want to enlist need to say they are gay.

Then, when the Armed Services run out of people, they just might go, "Ya no what, Sparky? Maybe we NEED these 300,000 people who are saying they're gay!"

Minority rights, women's rights, children's rights, animal rights - gay rights. The same groups fought all of them, tooth and nail, and most quoted the Bible in doing so.

Obviously, those people were/are stupid. Let's push them out of the way and move on!
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ObamaSupporterPete
07:33 PM on 11/18/2010
ROCK ON, Girlene!
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Jdaddy1951
03:55 PM on 11/18/2010
OK, Lady Bunny, you're a voice of reason. Many of us share your views on war and certainly a good many share your views on gay rights. I guess right now, working for equality --- and particularly in the military --- seems like a more winnable goal than ending war altogether. But let's at least try to work for gay rights --- putting an end to war, and making the world peaceful for mom's apple pie, children, the memory of Joan Crawford, and buns of steel, well, after all, tomorrow is another day!