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Life in Buddha Standard Time

Posted: 06/ 4/2011 1:02 pm

The 14th-century Christian theologian and mystic, Meister Eckhart, said: "To reach the now, where one is present to oneself and to God therein, I say to you, be awake."

It's so simple that it's complicated.

People often ask me: How can I make time for meditation, yoga, prayer and retreats when there is no time? Should I get up earlier? Stay up later? Work faster or less? What about my family and relationships? How do I create spiritual space for myself?

But there's an underlying question: How can I give anything up? When everything in our lives feels equally important we begin to burn out. Even resting doesn't feel safe or restful.

I think it's important to pause and consider our priorities. Everyone can make more time for themselves, however brief. Even when my life is at its busiest I remember to take a breath break, to enjoy moments of mindfulness throughout the day. I inhale, relax, exhale, center and smile. Then, refreshed and renewed, I return to what I was doing. This is how I enter the realm of Buddha Standard Time, the wholly now, throughout each day. Each and every moment is a stepping stone to heaven, nirvana, the high ground within.

Tuning into the present, the moment, is curative, a natural medicine. It heals us because it allows us to connect to the holy now -- the sacred within mundane, conventional time.
Rest is sacred. This is not a new concept. The spiritual culture of India has long understood that faster is not necessarily better; we need meaningful time to accomplish our best self's aims and purposes. Tibetan Buddhism's esoteric Diamond Path reveals that right now is the perfect time, right here is the perfect place, our presence is sublime, it is the perfectly appropriate teaching lesson and each of us is the ideal person to be where we are right now. (Perhaps this last perfection is the hardest to swallow because of the critical way we habitually see ourselves.) These are called the Five Diamond Perfections, a marvelous system of elevating how we view the world and all things in it, which can ultimately reveal the innate light of divinity, the Buddhaness or Buddha nature, in everyone and everything.

Once taking a breath break has become a part of your day, try a more advanced practice of inquiry and reflection by asking: Why do I feel that I must do what I'm doing right now? And whom am I doing it for? If you're overwhelmed, look for the wiggle room. What can you do to make things manageable -- the project, the to-do list or the obligation -- to avoid being overwhelmed? It sounds basic, but this is a life-saving practice because it greatly helps reduce the stress and tension that both wears our physical organism and enervates our energies, which is our life force and vitality.

Personally, I find it extremely helpful to focus on trying to do less and be more. This lets me leverage my time, energy and resources more effectively, while emphasizing meaningful time and activities that matter. We can learn mindful time management through breath breaks and reflection, by returning our awareness to the present moment -- one moment at a time -- and catching ourselves before the busyness of our lives overwhelms and entangles us, since this so often leads to unnecessary stress and even victimization. This nowness-awareness is living in Buddha Standard Time.

Become the master of yourself and your life, rather than a victim of obligations and conditions, by cultivating this process of awakening to the present and practicing it again and again. Carry on with this practice until it naturally and spontaneously starts to carry you. This is spiritual practice with benefits.

There is a meditator's lesson I first encountered as a young child playing hide-and-seek, and later as a three sport athlete: The more still and focused I become -- in body and mind -- the more clearly I am able to see. And as I see things clearly, more and more things become clear to me. This is a manifestation of self-mastery and harmonious oneness through heightened awareness.

So what's the most important thing? To remember to catch yourself before things catch you; to take care by staying aware; and to live free in your own time. Breath breaks, reflection and seeing clearly are means of nowness-awareness, the ultimate therapy, freeing us from preoccupations with past and future concerns and healing our psychological conditioning and self judgment and limitations. Nirvana isn't an esoteric concept; it is right here and now, in this very moment. Living in the present helps us to be there while getting there during every moment of each day. This is life in Buddha Standard Time.

Lama Surya Das is the author of 'Buddha Standard Time: Awakening to the Infinite Possibilities of Now' (HarperOne, May, 2011).

 
 
 

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The 14th-century Christian theologian and mystic, Meister Eckhart, said: "To reach the now, where one is present to oneself and to God therein, I say to you, be awake." It's so simple that it's compl...
The 14th-century Christian theologian and mystic, Meister Eckhart, said: "To reach the now, where one is present to oneself and to God therein, I say to you, be awake." It's so simple that it's compl...
 
 
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miggiepdx
Time goes by, and things change.
01:21 PM on 07/11/2011
Just love on this thread. Went through and fanned all of you. Look forward to seeing your comments.
01:05 AM on 06/19/2011
" ... Look for the wiggle room."

Lol, I *love* it!

Got it: breath breaks - ahhhh, lovely! - and looking for the wiggle room, taking care by staying aware and do less, be more. Okay, I'm ready - bring on the Nirvana!

It can only happen ... NOW.
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Beautiful! Thanks, Lama Surya!
10:08 AM on 06/06/2011
"Why do I feel that I must do what I'm doing right now? And whom am I doing it for?"

Oh, if people were to keep these question in mind! The current order of civilization would collapse, I suppose.
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Tulka2
Solidarity. Courage. Humor.
11:05 PM on 06/06/2011
If all are mindful, everything that is done, is done well, but you are right.  Somethings we would stop doing and probably a good thing too.
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Jeremy Lin = Game Change
09:27 AM on 06/06/2011
No more crows. Semanary, '86.
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Tulka2
Solidarity. Courage. Humor.
12:04 AM on 06/06/2011
Skillful.
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MJ Donnery
06:57 PM on 06/05/2011
Thank you, O Wise One... :)
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Indigo1941
Time traveler.
10:14 AM on 06/05/2011
I never before realized how difficult your writing is to follow. No wonder I don't buy your books.
10:06 AM on 06/06/2011
Hahahahaha!
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miggiepdx
Time goes by, and things change.
10:25 AM on 06/06/2011
He's better in person. Definitely needs an editor who can bring LSD's humor to the page.
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Mari Harmon
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08:04 AM on 06/05/2011
"What can you do to make things manageable -- the project, the to-do list or the obligation -- to avoid being overwhelmed?"
This is so very important! My entire professional life has been involved in working in kitchens, the very embodiment of chaos. The only way to manage and make that chaos into harmony is to become inwardly very still, see the path to get things done, and then follow it with economy of movement. It changes the situation from being a tangle of bodies and no time to do anything into orchestrated movement and what seems like all of the time in the world. It's absolutely impossible to do without touching on that inner clarity, finding the still-point, and working from that place. When things go wrong, one has to return that point rather than get caught up into the situation. Losing the present and falling into the past or jumping into the future and you find yourself lost in "the weeds".
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Jack Daniels Esq
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03:59 AM on 06/05/2011
Huffpost and my mountain bike - perfect yin and yang
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Eileenla
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12:57 AM on 06/05/2011
Lovely reminder...thank you.
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BurtonDesque
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11:01 PM on 06/04/2011
Excellent advice in an all-around excellent article.
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miggiepdx
Time goes by, and things change.
06:40 PM on 06/04/2011
I have attended an event where Lama Surya Dass was the speaker. He's funny and crisp and insightful. Highly recommended. If he's ever in your town for a book signing or a workshop, just go. You don't have to be Buddhist to appreciate his point of view. You'll learn something new about yourself, and you'll have fun along the way.
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Tulka2
Solidarity. Courage. Humor.
12:03 AM on 06/06/2011
Hi, Miggiepdx, I enjoy the way American Buddhism is unfolding with its own flavor b/c Buddhism is flavored stylistically by every culture where it takes root.
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miggiepdx
Time goes by, and things change.
12:32 AM on 06/06/2011
So true. Look how it changes as it rolls from India to China to Japan to America. I sit weekly with a large group of American Buddhists at Portland Insight Meditation Center. Very thoughtful and calm bunch. Utterly resistant to dogmatic thought and behavior.
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solitude1951
10:53 PM on 06/06/2011
I think it caters to the pragmatism of the western mind.It's become a type of religion in the countries where it has flourished for centuries. Not so here. It is the map of our senses and thought and will gain a foothold here and replace the dualism of the present.
04:12 PM on 06/04/2011
This method is the one that I try to use to be present in my life. All of our days are so busy, it really can be difficult to find an extended period of time to meditate or reflect. If we just take a minute or two several times a day to feel gratitude, love, and equanimity, perhaps we can have something that we ALL want - a more peaceful world. :-)
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researcher
03:46 PM on 06/04/2011
"The 14th-century Christian theologian and mystic, Meister Eckhart, said: "To reach the now, where one is present to oneself and to God therein, I say to you, be awake."

I find the sermons of meister eckhart interesting as I have only met a few catholics that have heard of eckhart and have never met a catholic that has read any of meister eckhart.

his letters to the pope are a worthwhile read as his sermons also contained great wisdom. one would think the catholics would welcome such knowledge. the priests stay away from preaching on his mystical genius for obvious reasons.

now buddhism is a religion but a worthwhile study at least for me it was worthwhile. the buddha realized one of the great mysteries of life. the origin of suffering as ignorance. the next great question is the origin of that ignorance.

without our ignorance what would we be? ie we would be not "individualized" but the ocean of that emptiness the buddhists write about. we owe our soul to our unawareness.

of course we are always within that ocean of awareness; infinite demands it. that simple that complicated. :o)
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ShinjiIkari
Do you understand how stupid it is to be afraid?
11:19 AM on 06/05/2011
"buddhism is a religion but a worthwhile study at least for me it was worthwhile­. the buddha realized one of the great mysteries of life. the origin of suffering as ignorance."

I tend to think of "illusion" rather than "ignorance"because, following your take on the paradox of enlightenment, we know life but we don't KNOW it. If there is a ground-rule for gaining awareness or knowledge or enlightenment or whatever word you'd use, we can look to the opening words of Max Ehrmann's "Desiderata": "Go placidly amid the noise and haste". I like the phrase "Buddhist Standard Time" as the quest for that placid place.
12:31 PM on 06/05/2011
excellent thought and analysis
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Cindbird
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03:41 PM on 06/04/2011
I had heard this advice many times, but never figured out how to practice it. Then I read an article by Thich Nhat Hahn. He talked about "mindfulness bells", using some sound or sight that will remind you to take a breath. He suggested the ring of a phone. For me, it is TV commercials and stop lights. When I'm at home I don't always watch the TV (obviously) but my husband and kids do. So when I hear a commercial, I stop and breathe. It's a chance to re-center no matter what I'm doing. With stop lights, I can stop and re-center while waiting for it to turn green. There are many of these mindfulness bells we can find in our lives. And Lama is right, it makes your life much less hurried, less impersonal. It gives you the chance to be present to your life and not just drifting through it.
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researcher
04:53 PM on 06/04/2011
well stated.

I know of a couple of preachers that are married and one complains about long stop lights and the other loves stop lights. one that loves the stop lights is the one that prays at each stop light. she looks at each stop light as a chance to pray; her husband is in a hurry to get there. ie male thing.

an interesting aspect of males, they will drive around town for 2 hours lost before they ask for directions. stop lights are an example of the venus mars thing. :-)
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french queen13
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01:23 AM on 06/05/2011
Great anecdote, researcher! :)
02:46 AM on 06/05/2011
And Moses raised his hands and did part the traffic...
08:48 PM on 06/09/2011
Cindbird, taking a breath at the ringing of a phone is a great idea! At work, I'm the backup for our receptionist and the ringing phone usually makes me tense up. Remember to take a breath and be present to help the person on the other end of the line will not only help the constituent (I work for my State government) but help me.
Thank you for your post.