Facebook protects many groups from hate speech. Here's one they don't offer protection to: Fat People. Check out these Facebook groups:
• beautiful girls, all over the world, except you. fat bitch.
• If sex is such good exercise, why are there fat sluts?
• You're not "thick", you're a fat-ass in denial
• I don't hate you 'cause your fat, you're fat because i hate you.
• "Do you ride Elephants in India?"..."No, do you ride fat people in America?"
• i hate fat/ugly people that try to act bitchy. like no, your fat.
• Friends don't let friends bang fat bitches
• I would carry you to the moon and back...LOL jk, your fat and i'd die
• Being Fat and Ugly
• we all know a fat slag who thinks their fit
• You're wearing a tight clothes and you're fat....that's not good.
• SHUT UP AND GET NAKED. LOL jk... your fat
• HIT THE GYM FAT ASS !!!
Terrible grammar and lack of creativity aside, this cannot stand. When a user starts a Facebook group, they're notified that:
"groups that attack a specific person or group of people (e.g. racist, sexist, or other hate groups) will not be tolerated. Creating such a group will result in the immediate termination of your Facebook account."
The entire purpose of the above groups is to propagate hate speech against fat people, specifically women. Can you imagine similar slurs being cast on any other group? Yes, you can. That's why Facebook is so rigorous in removing groups that attack federally protected minorities. That's fantastic--except lots of minority groups that aren't federally protected under the EEO laws, including gay or transgendered people, and Facebook appears to have silenced hate-groups against them. And it's not because there isn't a single person on Facebook who hates gay or transgender people enough to take two minutes to start a group. It's more likely that every time a group of that nature pops up, it's very rightfully flagged and removed.
Well, the fat-hate groups listed above have been flagged numerous times, and yet they remain. What's worse, multiple women have had their pictures used without their permission in Facebook fat hate groups. Bloggers such as Fat Nurse, Definatalie, and Pretty in Plus all write of experiences with this.
Shannon Russell of FierceFatties.com and the creator of the Facebook group, "Facebook, Please Stop Permitting Fat Hatred", who is currently pressuring Facebook to expand its definition of "hate speech," says that his emails to the company about this matter have remained unanswered. He goes on to say, "The sole purpose of these groups is for brow-ridged mouthbreathers to collectively exercise their inferiority complexes at the expense of others. There's no reason why Facebook should continue to allow hate speech directed at any group, let alone to defer their ethical rights and responsibilities to an outmoded federal mandate."
If Facebook is in the business of deciding what constitutes hate speech, they must be evenhanded about it. The cruelty of such groups cannot go unchecked, and we must all remind Facebook of this until they're gone. If you're outraged and interested in doing more, join "Facebook, Please Stop Permitting Fat Hatred" and let Facebook know that this kind of imbecilic, vile hatred against any group is not okay.
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Despite propaganda to the contrary, you not only have to choose to be fat, you have to go out of your way to be fat.
Sorry, not buying this one.
Comparing the comments at HuffPost to the comments at Jezebel I knew would be an interesting contrast; I find Ian Gonsalves's intense interest in this issue amusing, and more than a little bizarre. I'm not surprised that by the garden-variety "fat haters" like Ian, plus more than a few more "englightened" fat acceptance people. The most interesting though I think are the people in between, who admit to thinking the really fat are gross, yet are good enough people to recognize that groups like "beautiful girls, all over the world, except you. fat bitch" are pretty reprehensible, and should at least in some way be discouraged.
Because the truth is, I don't really think the Ians of the world really give that much of an eff about the health of the people they find so disgusting. They just find them disgusting, and rationalize their disgust. I've heard that homophobia is generally rooted in most people's disgust for anal sex - not that surprising, considering we're conditioned to find feces disgusting. It doesn't really make that much sense to me (evolutionarily) why we find fat people so gross, but the truth is, we just do. It's not about health, and it's not about personal responsibility, it's just about repulsion.
Peace,
Shannon
The point is that to protect federally-protected groups (religion, race, ethnicity, disability) and non-protected groups (gays, lesbians, transgendered) from Facebook hate groups while not protecting fat people is hypocritical.
Some here seem to think that because being fat is a "lifestyle choice", and an unhealthy one at that, it is OK to hate on that group. But aside from the federally protected status, how is "Being Fat and Ugly" any less reprehensible than "Being Catholic and Pedophilic"? Religion is not an immutable characteristic; it is a "lifestyle choice". Furthermore, one must eat to live; one must not pray to live. Oh, and I can prove cake exists; fat people never exploited, colonized, and forcibly made natives fat for hundreds of years; and nobody ever covered up thousands of fat men raping little boys (well, maybe some of those priests were a little portly...)
I'm only still here out of morbid curiosity when it comes to the way obese people rationalize and cherry pick facts to feel better about being unhealthy.
I'm reminded of Denis Leary's routine on smoking, where he points out that Sammy Davis Jr. smoked every day of his adult life and drank booze like a fish and died at age 64. Or that smoking will take ten years off your life. "Yeah, but they're the ones at the end! They're the adult diaper, kidney dialysis years - you can have those years, we don't want 'em! I'll take 64 Sammy Davis Jr years over those any time!"
And spare me the "fat people cost society" arguments... everybody costs society. I'm 6' 250lbs, but I'm also childless. A perfectly healthy triathlete dad with two kids is costing society more than I ever will.
Being fat could be considered unhealthy, but so is being a coal miner, an NFL lineman, or a beer drinker. So what? Why do so many feel the need to hate on one type of unhealthy, but not others?
(If you're really concerned about America's obesity, ask yourself why a Big Mac costs half as much as a salad. Rush likes to point out we're the only country with obese poor people... yeah, because they're eating the food they can afford.)
As someone for whom both issues are incredibly poignant (a priest I respected immensely in my youth has turned out to be a predator) for me. Thank you for summing things up so succinctly.
Peace,
Shannon
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I mean come on... lets get this right!!!!
Peace,
Shannon
And let's not stray too far from the point here, Facebook, as you say, is a private company so they can do as they like as long as they are not inciting violence. Currently they seem to only be inciting whining which, last time I checked, is not illegal...
"I wouldn't hurt them by saying anything mean, but I will say they make me physically ill if they burden me with their presence."
Really? Really?!?
I am constantly amazed at the number of people who do not understand the meaning of the word freedom.
You are free to not care about people who say things you don't like.