Lea Lane is an award-winning writer and communicator. She writes for magazines, newspapers and Websites, has authored six books (including Solo Traveler, finalist for best travel book of the year from the North American Travel Journalist's Association). She contributes to dozens of other books, from encyclopedias to guidebooks. She wrote a column called "Going It Alone," for Gannett Newspapers, and was managing editor of "Travel Smart" newsletter. She is editor of www.sololady.com.

Lea has earned two and a half college degrees. She has been a high school teacher and college lecturer, vice president of a tech company, an actress ("Nurse One" in a low-budget indie film), an off-Broadway producer, a produced musical playwright (way off Broadway), and a counselor for foster children. As a writing consultant for businesses and government, she has trained over a thousand people to write better, using her book, Steps to Better Writing.

Divorced once, widowed once, Lea is now happily solo and dancing as fast as she can. She has two wonderful grown sons, a lovely daughter-in-law, and two adorable little granddaughters, Sabrina Rose and Chloe Jordan. She lives in New York and Florida when she isn't traveling the world, and writing and speaking about it.

Blog Entries by Lea Lane

For a Bargain: A Repositioning Transatlantic Crossing

Posted December 21, 2009 | 10:32 AM (EST)


I'm writing this watching waves fold to the horizon under a cloud dabbled gray-blue sky in the middle of the Atlantic. I'm on the Azamara Journey, the same small ship I took almost two years ago when I traveled solo to Antarctica. This time I'm not solo, and I'm in...

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I Saw Greenland Melting

23 Comments | Posted December 16, 2009 | 05:20 PM (EST)


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Later this week -- if troubles abate at the climate change talks in Copenhagen -- President Obama will speak with 191 other world leaders about the global warming crisis. But there is posturing and bickering and real problems to resolve...

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The Sahalis: Symbol Of A Decade?

1 Comments | Posted November 30, 2009 | 07:53 AM (EST)


Much has been made lately about naming the decade bookended by 9/11 and financial collapse/continuing wars. "The Noughts," "The Oughts," "The Decade from Hell"? Whatever the label, it was a miserable period for many and deadly for far too many.

But entering the last month of the decade's last year,...

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Two Faraway Thanksgivings, And What I Learned

Posted November 24, 2009 | 12:37 PM (EST)


My ex married a university president and lived in a historic house where leaves were raked by others and fireplaces crackled picture-perfect below important art and the table was set with Lenox and Steuben. My sons usually spent Thanksgiving at that table.

I adapted to that reality. In the years...

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Five Fears About Solo Travel

1 Comments | Posted November 2, 2009 | 10:29 AM (EST)


Here are five common fears about solo traveling - and some honest answers, taken from my website, sololady.com

I'll feel lonely as a solo traveler. Yes, you might. But sometimes you'll be lonelier traveling with others. The worst trips I've taken were with an incompatible traveling companion. (Not only...

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Green Clean Where the Sun Don't Shine: Use a Bidet

3 Comments | Posted October 28, 2009 | 04:37 PM (EST)


When I bought my condo, it came with two toilets in one bathroom. At least that's what I first thought. I wanted to turn the one without a seat into a planter or a fountain or a cat bowl. But I eventually gave up and started using the bidet for...

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Seven Safety Tips When Booking a Room

Posted October 21, 2009 | 10:27 AM (EST)


Most vacations are safe and fun. But especially if you're a female solo traveler, keep in mind these seven safety reminders when booking a room anywhere in the world. Then enjoy yourself!

Make savvy choices. Select a hotel with room-entry only through a main lobby, rather than separate entrances for...

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Ten Extraordinary Things About Rio, Including a Man Called H

1 Comments | Posted October 5, 2009 | 02:32 PM (EST)


We'll get to the famed Man in Rio who gifted me with good jewelry an hour after we met (24-carat gold, thank you very much). But first, reflections on two trips to that heartbreakingly beautiful and beautifully heartbreaking city. Here are 10 extraordinary elements of the venue for the 2016...

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"Turning," or, You Don't Have to Be Jewish (or a President) to Atone on Yom Kippur

1 Comments | Posted September 27, 2009 | 03:25 PM (EST)


Failure to repent is much worse than sin. One may have sinned for but a moment, but may fail to repent of it moments without number. Chasidic saying, from the book, Day by Day

On Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement, Jews around the world repent for the past year's...

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The Inner Journey I Had To Take: Two Weeks Alone on a Cliff

1 Comments | Posted September 22, 2009 | 01:42 PM (EST)


This past summer of rising angst and hate-mongering reminds me of a difficult time in my life when I managed to find peace and strength, by myself, on the edge of the continent. If you are feeling anxious you might consider a time-out for solitude and restoration, as well. Mine...

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Seven Tips for Traveling with Your Pet

4 Comments | Posted September 15, 2009 | 04:33 PM (EST)


Want to roam the world with Fido? (Kitty may be tougher; find a good sitter or cattery, as most cats don't enjoy moving around unless it's to a familiar second home, or such.). The Travel Industry Association (TIA) reports that about 15 percent of us travel with pets - around...

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The UR1HTR Virus ("Hate Flu"): Stop the Epidemic!

7 Comments | Posted September 14, 2009 | 11:37 AM (EST)


It's the flu season and breaking news is that the H1N1 ("Swine Flu") virus can be moderated with one inoculation. But the ever-present UR1HTR virus (also called "hate flu" or "Republican flu") has been spreading rapidly since November, 2008.

Heavily Infected Areas

The hate flu seems to thrive in the...

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My Husband Fought the Same Brain Cancer as Senator Kennedy

3 Comments | Posted August 26, 2009 | 10:00 AM (EST)


As I read the obituaries about Edward Kennedy's death, I feel great empathy. My late husband, Chaim Stern, was diagnosed with glioblastoma in July, 2001-- the same type of aggressive tumor that killed the senator. And so I'm moved to post again a tribute to my brave Chaim.

My husband...

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My Mad Men: When Your Boss Is Your Lover

4 Comments | Posted August 17, 2009 | 09:27 AM (EST)


Many of us who grew up in the era of Mad Men can look back at similar office experiences.

After watching the first episode of Season Three, I reflected back on two of my own past office situations. Between my marriages, as a rather clueless new single, I dated two...

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"The Worst May Be Behind Us": 15 Ways to Cut Back Anyway

Posted August 7, 2009 | 02:06 PM (EST)


President Obama says the worst might be over, the market is rising and unemployment has stabilized. But for many, it will be a long-haul back to recovery.

I've had a roller coaster financial life: well-off (early) and scrappy and single (later) and everything in-between. It started in childhood, as my...

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Julia (and Other Famed Cooks) and Moi

Posted August 5, 2009 | 12:29 PM (EST)


The movie Julie & Julia, and my recent trip to Paris, where much of this movie is set, reminded me of how huge a role Julia Child played for those of us who learned to cook in the 1960s and '70s. Her Mastering the Art of French Cooking Volumes One...

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Daddy's Little Shill: Memories of a Gambler's Daughter

Posted June 19, 2009 | 09:40 AM (EST)


Before I tell you how, as a two-year old, I was my daddy's shill, let me tell you a bit about him. Daddy was a "professional gambler," if betting daily on greyhounds and thoroughbreds could be considered a profession rather than an addiction.

His mornings were spent at the...

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Remembering Anne Frank, Who Would Have Been 80 This Week

3 Comments | Posted June 9, 2009 | 09:54 AM (EST)


Anne Frank has been a lifelong obsession for many Jewish women my age. At Nautilus Junior High in Miami Beach, my English teacher, Mrs. Gelber, handed me a paperback book titled Diary of a Young Girl. It was only 10 years after Anne Frank's death in 1945. I was then...

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The Ballad of Susan Boyle: Has Life Killed the Dream?

4 Comments | Posted June 1, 2009 | 08:14 AM (EST)


"I had a dream my life would be
So different from the hell I'm living
So different now from what it seemed
Now life has killed the dream I dreamed."

-- from I Dream a Dream, Susan Boyle's chosen song for her audition and finale

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Becoming Invisible

6 Comments | Posted May 21, 2009 | 02:09 PM (EST)


I write this as I fly through the night, watching lightning course through thunderheads towering above the dark Caribbean. They seem close, to my right. When the bolts arc through the clouds, for a second or so the sky becomes as blue as at noon. I've seen other lightening shows...

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