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Female Writers Reveal Why They Drink

Posted: 09/17/2012 1:55 pm

Each week, since we started the Drinking Diaries blog in 2009, my co-editor Caren and I have been asking women the same question: Why do, or don't you, like to drink?

These women -- writers and other creative types -- beautifully articulate their thoughts about drinking, its pleasures and perils.

Looking back on all the interviews we've done, I wondered: is there a common thread? While there isn't any one big reason women drink, or don't, I did find some themes.

I'll leave it to the writers to explain why they like to drink:

1. Because it's relaxing:

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2. Because it's social:

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3. Because it's a great equalizer; a ritual that cuts across time, cultures, religions and traditions:

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4. Because drinking helps us see the world differently:

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5. Because drinking helps lessen our psychic pain, (even if it's only temporarily):

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Stay tuned for Part II of this post: Some of the Best Writers of Our Time Sound Off About Why They Don't Like to Drink.

Leah Odze Epstein is a writer and co-founder of the Drinking Diaries. She is currently working on a young adult novel about a character who is the daughter of an alcoholic. She has reviewed books for BookPage and Publisher's Weekly, among other publications. She also writes poetry, and her poems can be found on the website Literary Mama.

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Each week, since we started the Drinking Diaries blog in 2009, my co-editor Caren and I have been asking women the same question: Why do, or don't you, like to drink? These women -- writers and other...
Each week, since we started the Drinking Diaries blog in 2009, my co-editor Caren and I have been asking women the same question: Why do, or don't you, like to drink? These women -- writers and other...
 
 
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11:47 AM on 09/21/2012
Why do they (I, we) need a reason? To whom must they (I, we) justify our personal choices?
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10:34 PM on 09/20/2012
Whoever put white text on a pink and white background should probably be fired.
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DomainDiva
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10:00 PM on 09/20/2012
I work with complicated numerical data every day and there are some days when a glass of wine is necessary to get my brain back in my head.
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Acorn Tree
in the beginning man created god.
07:47 PM on 09/21/2012
you sound like an alcoholic
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DomainDiva
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08:20 AM on 09/22/2012
and you sound like on eof the ladies promoting prohibition
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11:04 PM on 09/22/2012
Are you serious?
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BlueZoo
Independent voter, Independent thinker!
09:18 PM on 09/20/2012
Because alcohol is legal and drugs are not! Well...we all have to have a rationale for what we do!
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Acorn Tree
in the beginning man created god.
07:48 PM on 09/21/2012
i do both in tandem
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BlueZoo
Independent voter, Independent thinker!
12:58 AM on 09/22/2012
LOL! It's been a long time since I have done "both in tandem" but I'm not ruling it out for another try when/if the mood strikes me!
03:08 PM on 09/19/2012
I have one drink about every 2-3 months... it's fun, sometimes inspirational, and relaxing, but there is always a price to be paid after the effects wear off: the next day, there is a little less spring in my step, a little more irritation at trivial inconveniences. Everyone should be free take whatever substances they choose, but it is common to disregard the subtle costs of all mind altering drugs. They don't add anything good to your brain, rather just cause you to use up a bunch feel-good stuff quickly in one shot, leaving a deficit that takes time to replenish.
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Act out
Make love not war.
02:34 PM on 09/19/2012
I'm surprised more wasn't said about the inspirational effects of alcohol. Many great novelists claim alcohol helped them write. Even Jesus approved of drinking wine and worked a miracle to share it and he probably had a few glasses of wine before his big sermon on the mount. Shows like Saturday Night Live bragged about pot use and alcohol as a way to inspire a lot of their sitcoms.
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Joshy X
observer in Weimar Amerika
12:07 AM on 09/19/2012
yea demo women drink a lot...and smoke a lot
10:06 AM on 09/19/2012
...Many women, and many men, regardless of political affiliation, drink a lot and smoke a lot.
12:51 PM on 09/19/2012
have a drink and chill out...
06:04 PM on 09/18/2012
Wine and steak taste good together.
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10:20 AM on 09/21/2012
I'll have to try that, I usually have wine and wine.
04:29 PM on 09/18/2012
Could not agree more! There's nothing like that warm, fuzzy feeling after the first sip of wine or champagne after a long, stressful day at work. It's the one moment of the day that's all about me, where I can kick back, raise my glass, and say, "Ahh, I made it!"
04:28 PM on 09/18/2012
Could not agree more with all of these! There's nothing like that first sip of champagne or red wine after a long day at work ;)
03:57 PM on 09/18/2012
People that don't drink,
well when they get up in the morning that's as
good as there going to feel all day !
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Dolmance
03:14 PM on 09/18/2012
It's when your liver goes and you start vomiting blood that it stops making sense, but unfortunately, by then it's too late.

Vile image, I know, but I've seen it happen more than I like to admit.
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moonflowerjewelry
Buy American made, no excuses.
08:17 PM on 09/20/2012
Yes, but that doesn't happen to MOST people, just a "lucky" few!
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Dolmance
09:32 AM on 09/21/2012
Yeah, but it happens to writers more than others. Not sure why exactly, but it might have something to do with drinking alone. When writers drink, wow do they ever drink!
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kudzumaster
People are more than political affiliation.
02:25 PM on 09/18/2012
Don't like alcohol. Do like a joint from time to time. Usually prefer life without additives altogether.
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BuckyJamesDio
This monkey's going to Heaven
02:22 PM on 09/18/2012
For me, drinking and writing is a bad combination. Especially when it involves an email to my boss.
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yopeac
02:13 PM on 09/18/2012
You could write the same article about Tramadol or Vicodin if it was as socially acceptable as alcohol I guess. FAIL.