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10 Tips for Better Sex

Posted: 02/ 6/2012 3:40 pm

The most beautiful sex organ is... your brain! Follow these steps for a blissful full-body experience. Let the games begin!

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1. Don't Rush!
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Are you rushing? Our obsession with climaxing makes us lose out on the buildup. A sexual peak resulting from a slow arousal could turn out to be much more intense than a "quickie" -- relax and enjoy the ride!

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The most beautiful sex organ is... your brain! Follow these steps for a blissful full-body experience. Let the games begin! For more from "Dr. Limor," visit her official website. To learn more about ...
The most beautiful sex organ is... your brain! Follow these steps for a blissful full-body experience. Let the games begin! For more from "Dr. Limor," visit her official website. To learn more about ...
 
 
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01:27 AM on 02/08/2012
11. Vodka. :-)
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TFlint
10:54 PM on 02/07/2012
1. Don't get married.
01:40 PM on 02/08/2012
Don't worry, many of us Americans who visit Gay Voices can't anyway.
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stepfordhusband
03:19 PM on 02/07/2012
#11 try it with a partner
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imfedup
Fight the lies.
02:25 PM on 02/07/2012
Where's the tip about pinning his hands over his head? That was in the photo that linked to this page . . .
GuiltyUndertaker
no se mata la justicia!
05:07 PM on 02/07/2012
She wasn't getting into specifics. Just telling you to use your hands as much as you can. How you carry that out is up to you.
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CrnkyOldMan
I'll accept Co's as people when TX executes one
01:27 PM on 02/07/2012
11. Some people are a little too old for ass-play, so put whatever the hell that thing is back in the bag.
12:58 PM on 02/07/2012
OK, but...can we all just agree to stop saying "lover," after Will Ferrell and Rachel Dratch blew it up forever? "I was in the Andes of Peru, with my beautiful lovah...."
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Gudrun
My micro-bio is empty
02:48 PM on 02/07/2012
Agreed!
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Darth Cheney
12:38 PM on 02/07/2012
This article was so boring it put me out of the mood.
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Terri Skau
the moon rises as the sun sets
12:26 PM on 02/07/2012
It should never be rushed...It should be romantic, teasing, seductive, sensuous, and when all of those come together wow...;-)
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typeterson
12:14 PM on 02/07/2012
this article is such a waste of a read.

how many hundreds of times have these exact same points been brought up in other articles?

at the end of the day, or night, the number one thing that will determine whether or not you and your partner have good sex is pure, blunt, open and honest communication. thats it. you say what you like, they say what they like, and l'aventure commence!
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littlewitch
losing faith in humanity one vote at a time
11:57 AM on 02/07/2012
Talking dirty is always weird and embarrassing. Maybe I have never been with someone for whom this is a real source of excitement. Most people just sound forced and stupid. To quote Diane Weist in BULLETS OVER BROADWAY..."don't speak, don't speak" except for words of love.
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Henry Jumkins
shadowboxer, poet
11:19 AM on 02/07/2012
just some tips from my experience:

both partners should have a glass of water with lemon at least a few minutes prior to fooling around.. this will help with salivation and lubrication.

stretch. yeah i know it's a bit much, but it relaxes you and puts you in the mood-- they don't call it sexual tension for nothing!

anything that is going to open up your sinuses and increase olfactory awareness (sense of smell) is helpful-- coffee, chamomile, etc. in my experience, the smell of my partner is a huge turn-on.

alcohol should be used in moderation, at least for men. a few glasses of wine helps to loosen you up, but beyond that it's overkill and will desensitize the experience. it may be good, however, if you are planning on going into uncharted territory and you need to numb yourself a little in order to be more open to the experience, but that's a personal choice.

a cloth, paper towel, etc. should always be nearby for easy cleanup.

BE IN THE MOMENT. there's nothing like climaxing at the same time. it takes effort, but above all, it takes really being absorbed in what's going on and paying absolute attention to your partner.
GuiltyUndertaker
no se mata la justicia!
11:14 AM on 02/07/2012
Why won't HP allow me to become new fans with anyone?
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11:21 AM on 02/07/2012
Guilty-Sorry about that, the tech team is aware of the problem this morning and they are working on it to restore the "fan" button. We do apologize to everyone who has been having issues with that this morning. Thanks for letting us know it is still going on.
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GuiltyUndertaker
no se mata la justicia!
11:29 AM on 02/07/2012
Thanks, Jan. Keep up the good work.
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imfedup
Fight the lies.
02:24 PM on 02/07/2012
Jan, I can't view my comments. Is that part of the same problem?
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Terri Skau
the moon rises as the sun sets
11:48 AM on 02/07/2012
Hey I was locked out of yahoo acct. this morning...I wish I could reply to your post but it's still in the pending world...:-)
11:08 AM on 02/07/2012
#11 Get off of Huffpo and just do it.
11:01 AM on 02/07/2012
"Observe your partner's reactions and avoid heavy cursing or scary notions."

Ummmm...isn't that the whole purpose of dirty talk in the first place???
It's not called Safe and Boring talk, is it?
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Gringostan
Gringostan No Ka Oi
11:00 AM on 02/07/2012
The tortoise or the hare - and I thought the article was going to be salacious.