"I was just kidding!"

How many times have you seen someone justify hurtful barbs with the disclaimer: "I was just kidding"?

But, were they just kidding? Or did they use their alleged "humor" as an opportunity to dish out a message they didn't have the courage or weren't comfortable enough...

Matt [not his real name] was trembling with rage. Once again, his father had humiliated him in front of the entire staff. Matt had proposed a carefully thought-out recommendation for a new project, and his father had dismissed his suggestion without giving him the opportunity to fully explain his ideas....

Marilyn groaned when she saw Al Springer (names have been changed) elbowing his way towards her husband John. The two men have diametrically opposing political views and have had heated arguments in the past. Marilyn had warned John to keep his distance should Al come up to him. She cringed...

When your child goes through a divorce, you certainly wish to express loyalty and support to your own flesh and blood. But what if you have enjoyed a rich, mutually supportive bond with your child's spouse over many years? Should you be expected to give this relationship up?

There...

If you are going through the pains of divorce, your friends and loved ones will hopefully rally with sympathy and support. The most patient and loyal will lovingly give you ample opportunity to cry and vent, offering tissues and hugs.

In fact, it's my guess that most of the people...

Tara (not her real name) couldn't listen to another word. Her mother was complaining yet again that she'd gotten the short end of the stick in the divorce. Tara really didn't need to hear how horrible her father was.

Jordan closed his eyes in disgust as his father berated the...

"Greg" knew he was in for it when he saw Susan standing at the front door, glaring at him. It was wishful thinking to believe he would come home to peace and quiet. The disagreements between Susan and his daughter, Lindsey had become quite ugly. The two hadn't liked each...