Every year, John Brockman, a New York publisher, editor, author and agent, queries thought leaders and scientists with his annual question. This year's question: How has the internet changed the way you think?
Answers this year range from explorations into gray matter, to personal musings. My answer explores the tension involved in navigating my physical and virtual lives. Other essays can be found here.
Navigating Physical and Virtual Lives
Before the Internet, I made more trips to the library and more phone calls. I read more books and my point of view was narrower and less informed. I walked more, biked more, hiked more, and played more. I made love more often.
The seductive online sages, scholars, and muses that joyfully take my curious mind wherever it needs to go, wherever it can imagine going, whenever it wants, are beguiling. All my beloved screens offer infinite, charming, playful, powerful, informative, social windows into the global human experience.
The Internet, the online virtual universe, is my jungle gym and I swing from bar to bar: learning about: how writing can be either isolating or social; DIY Drones (unmanned aerial vehicles) at a Maker Faire; where to find a quantified self meetup; or how to make Sach moan sngo num pachok. I can use image search to look up hope or success or play. I can find a video on virtually anything; I learned how to safely open a young Thai coconut from this Internet of wonder.
As I stare out my window, at the unusually beautiful Seattle weather, I realize, I haven't been out to walk yet today -- sweet Internet juices still dripping down my chin. I'll mind the clock now, so I can emerge back into the physical world.
The physical world is where I not only see, I also feel -- a friend's loving gaze in conversation; the movement of my arms and legs and the breeze on my face as I walk outside; and the company of friends for a game night and potluck dinner. The Internet supports my thinking and the physical world supports that, as well as, rich sensing and feeling experiences.
It's no accident we're a culture increasingly obsessed with the Food Network and Farmer's Markets -- they engage our senses and bring us together with others.
How has the Internet changed my thinking? The more I've loved and known it, the clearer the contrast, the more intense the tension between a physical life and a virtual life. The Internet stole my body, now a lifeless form hunched in front of a glowing screen. My senses dulled as my greedy mind became one with the global brain we call the Internet.
I am confident that I can find out about nearly anything online and also confident that in my time offline, I can be more fully alive. The only tool I've found for this balancing act is intention.
The sense of contrast between my online and offline lives has turned me back toward prizing the pleasures of the physical world. I now move with more resolve between each of these worlds, choosing one, then the other -- surrendering neither.
How has the internet changed the way you think?
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It's likely feedback -- like the Toyota Prius offers or biofeedback, that will enable embodiment, breath, and a sense of presence while we're computing. My friend, JJ, says, "There's past tense, present tense, future tense, and internet tense." Where is this place we go when we're tethered to technology.
What I like about the Prius is that the feedback is ambient and non-invasive. Without punishment and finger pointing (naughty gas guzzler!), our driving habits evolve to use less fuel.
I think these type of technologies will strongly emerge over the next 15 years.
jcd8822 - You might also enjoy a piece Brad Stone wrote for the NYT, January 9, The Children of Cyberspace: Old Fogies by their 20's. What's a book for a child born today? Is it a Kindle? Is it on paper? Kids born today, called the iGeneration, seem "cable ready" to me. They have instincts for technology that are breathtaking.
Fiotheo - I hope you have a vampire-free lunch with a friend.
Dr. Laura T - People love getting thank you notes. It's a terrific tradition to keep!
Thanks for your comments!
I almost didn't reply -- you know there is all the digital work involved in becoming a member, so as to log in... And then I realized, in a way, that is what your article is about -- that we have become these passive info-sponges that have lost touch with our own real lives. Thank you so much for saying something that I have never seen broached in all my hours combing the internet -- you have bravely offered up a portrait of the husks our real lives have become. I have wondered why I haven't had lunch with one of my best friends in years, why I have stopped using the phone much anymore, why there are so many things from my pre-internet life I have slowly felt fall away. You'd think it would be obvious what has happened, but the internet offers such an alter-life that you don't entirely notice it sucking the blood out of your real life. Maybe this is why we are so interested in vampires lately. I've always hated the whole contemporary obsession with addiction... but what happens when the whole culture is addicted. Yikes. Well, I'm gonna quit this post right now and get off the internet and brush my real teeth, and climb into bed with a book -- something I haven't done in a long time. Thanks for throwing water on my virtual face and waking me up!