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Arresting Parents When Kids Are Late For School?

Posted: 01/25/2012 1:52 pm

At least one police officer in Loudoun, VA thinks that one mother of three little girls should be punished for "contributing to the delinquency of her minor children." The specifics of her crime? Getting her children to elementary school late. Seven times. As she wrote to the blog FreeRangeKids.com (which, by the by, has been making a lot of news around here lately) :

After the fifth offense there was a meeting with a truant officer. We were late twice since then, which resulted in the surprise of three officers showing up on this Sat night (1.21.2012),  where I was literally handcuffed and brought to the Adult Detention Center to meet with the magistrate who chose to release me with a $3,000 bond promised to be paid if I fail to show up for the arraignment in a few days.

That court date is today.

The mother, who signed her letter "A Virginia Mom," argues that the charges are technically ridiculous because the law speaks of punishment "in cases in which students are absent without awareness and notification from the parent." Her girls were not absent, they were "tardy" she says -- noting that they missed the starting bell by about ten minutes each time. And their parent certainly knew about it because she was part of these (unsuccessful) scrambles to get to school.

There are other factors specific to this case, including the fact that the mother and all three children have diagnosed disabilities such as ADHD and other psychological issues. But the central, more universal question, the mother says, is whether it should be "criminal behavior" to be an "imperfect" mother.

Yes, that is one way of phrasing the question. Another is, does prosecuting a parent actually work? And what falls within the logical realm of what you prosecute them for?

This one officer in one Virginia country is not the first to ask this question. A move to hold parents legally responsible for how children do in school has gathered steam in a number of states recently. In Florida, a measure was introduced in the legislature to give parents a report card measuring how prepared their child is for class. In Indiana, the proposal was to require parents to spend three hours each semester volunteering at or after school. (Neither measure was brought to a vote.)

In Alaska, legislation was passed allowing districts to fine parents $500 a day for every day a child misses school. And in California, ten absences without a doctor's note can now trigger a call from the school to the district attorney to bring charges against the parents.

It is too early to tell whether the laws are having an effect on student absences. The way "A Virginia Mom," tells it, similar laws are not likely to get her out of her house any earlier. She already seems to know it's important, and yet it still hasn't been happening.

Should this mother be handcuffed and prosecuted for her children's "tardiness"? When IS arresting the parents the answer?

 
 
 
 
 
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04:14 PM on 02/08/2012
http://www.aljazeera.com/programmes/insidestoryamericas/2012/01/20121318318540671.html
The US has the highest prison population in the world.
How can anyone justify this as criminal behavior?
Unless the father is abusive and created these disorders, I don't see how it is justifiable to clog the court system with this nonsense.
All the parents doing whatever it takes to get their kids to school deserve awards and the critics need a lesson in humanity.
05:55 PM on 01/31/2012
I guess parents don't pay enough taxes or have a parents union to prevent gestapo from coming to our hosue and arresting us. When cops arrest and terminate teachers, politicians and administgrators for failing to do their job I will agree they can do this but not for one second earlier.
08:44 AM on 01/27/2012
I do not offer answers, however I will share my concerns. We, teachers, are under the gun today. Article after article uses pejorative language like "failing schools" to describe performance data in schools located in communities that wrestle with high percentages of poverty, English language learning and other assorted factors that are part an parcel of poverty (which most of us simply cannot identify with).

In reality, most of us assert (and there is decades of data to support our position), the child's culture (which includes homelife, the values taught at home both directly and indirectly) and access to the opportunities exerts a far greater influence on educational outcomes

Therefore, as a teacher, I can assure you that students who are chronically tardy or truant are not able to benefit from my instruction and are therefore not learning. I will not accept the responsibility for their test scores when their parents chronically fail to get them to school.
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04:30 PM on 01/26/2012
My daughter was a high honor student with a mind of her own. She knew what she needed to do and did it. Meaning, sometimes she just decided not to go to school. When the school would call I would say, "You will have to ask her." To my knowledge she went to school. I was threatened with being charged and I said, "OK, if that makes you feel better, that you are putting the stocks on me?" I think they thought I was going to suddenly drop everything in my life and drag my kid to school, kicking and screaming. We treat our kids like they are adults when it comes to sex and abortion and contraceptives but the schools haven't yet figured out that a school should not be a chain around their neck but an opportunity.

Freakin' socialist country we have become. "Forcing" is all Obama knows. Make it illegal to drop out of school? The system is not designed for kids to learn but to be conditioned in their thoughts and ideas.

Arrest the parents if in any way they get in the way.
04:17 PM on 01/26/2012
arresting that mom is ridiculous but then again, the mom's ridiculous as well
12:49 PM on 01/26/2012
And, who watched the kids while she was in jail???? This is totally wrong-headed, indicates that the government is more interested in punitive and financially gainful actions than in collaborative problem solving and is generally stupid. It is one among many reasons why our and other families are going the learn at home route.
12:39 PM on 01/26/2012
well seems to me this has been going on a long time. No one seems to have a problem with it when it happens in "urban" communities, but soon as a Loudin County, VA or "suburban" parent gets arrested, now they throw their hands up saying "it's not fair". What's good for the goose is good for the gander
10:41 AM on 01/26/2012
I don't know about being arrested, but she should be punished. I can not stand people who are late! You are disrupting others' lives every minute that you run behind. When it is being late for school, you are taking away much needed time for the teacher AND learning time for the 20+ other kids in the classroom. Why should parents be allowed to do that? You are also teaching your child that being late is ok, certainly not an example I would ever want to set.
10:40 AM on 01/26/2012
Interesting question. How do we educate children if their parents can't get them to school regularly and on time? I don't think criminalizing the behavior is the answer, but we shouldn't give up on addressing the problem. Perhaps the kids here should have been required to stay after school for the amount of time they arrived late? If they missed work because of their tardiness they could do it then, or they could help clean the classroom. They might be a motivation for the kids and make sure that they weren't falling behind.
maxfax
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10:29 AM on 01/26/2012
Parents don't have a hard enough time? And police have time to waste their assets and taxpayer money on this?
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09:38 AM on 01/26/2012
The parents of the two monsters who killed 14 kids at Columbine HS were not held accountable in any way after enabling them to collect guns and develop pipe bombs, but we have to arrest a mom for running late? Wow.
09:46 AM on 01/26/2012
very good point.
maxfax
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10:31 AM on 01/26/2012
Guess if she had a limo service, this wouldn't be a problem (you know if she was rich) (heavy on the sarcasm)
01:30 AM on 01/27/2012
Absolutely true. If she had a car that was registered (and not out of compliance due to work she can't afford) and could drive the kids that might make it easier as well. ( The Loudoun Mom.)
01:32 AM on 01/27/2012
If she had a car that was legally registered (rather than it not in compliance because she can't afford the repairs on it yet), that might help as well since there is not bus service and she currently can't drive but is relying on help from others temporarily.
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09:19 AM on 01/26/2012
I'm not a parent, so maybe I can't make relevant comments, but my first question is "are the kids late to their first class or late to home room by 10 min?" If it's a class, then, yeah, be upset. I do remember going to college classes (before online learning) and there were a couple of students that couldn't get to class on time if their life depended on it. It was a distraction but the students did lose grade points. If it's just home room, although a distraction and tardiness should be counted, arrested? Sounds like "Big Brother" to me and a waste of state, county, and city resourses to me.

I also read the comment about the new truancy law in Nebraska passed and endorsed by the Repub gov. The Repubs have been trying to get rid of public education for the last 40 yrs. They want it all privatized, "Christianized", "whitized" etc. but paid for by American Middle Class taxes with vouchers. What better way to prove a free, public education is a failure and ending it by defunding it (slashing education budgets) , demonizing teachers (unions), teaching the test and not students (No Child Left Behind), screwing with the cirriculum (evolution vs intelligent design) and making it almost impossible for parents to continue to send their children to public school (truancy laws).

People-please get out and vote.
09:09 AM on 01/26/2012
For what it's worth: I attended a committee meeting at my son's elementary school on Tuesday afternoon with 6 teachers & the principal to evaluate the school's performance in certain areas required by the state (I was asked by these teachers to represent the parents & I gladly accpted). All of the teachers & the principal were 10-12 minutes late for the meeting. Every single one of them were late (the start time was agreed upon by the teachers as I had no say so). The start time was 45 minutes after school let out. None of the teachers were rushed to get there because of other things going on (1 teacher was late because she wanted a candy bar. It took 30+ minutes to get a candy bar?). None of them apologized for being late, not a single one. Also, when we set the time for the next meeting a week later 3 of them said they could not make it. The reasoning? One had a hair appointment, one had a neighbor coming over to discuss plans for an upcoming pampered chef party & the third "just couldn't make it". My point with all of this is we are all human. Things that might seem ridiculous to others for reasoning might not seem so ridiculous to the party involved. I am not picking on teachers; but if these people were late to an important meeting but didn't have any remorse then why should they expect the parents to be
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09:09 AM on 01/26/2012
And where is the father?
10:13 AM on 01/26/2012
very good question.
08:58 AM on 01/26/2012
These foolish laws have come about because of the tendency by Republican legislators and state officials to show off for their fellow conservatives. They are constantly trying to outdo each other in showing how tough they are, especially on "liberals" and anyone else who doesn't fit into their white-bread idea of how the world should work. If they had their way they would pass laws that require children to attend Sunday School every week. They have no concept of individual liberty, although they claim to fervently respect the Constitution. Just google the right-wing antics of state officials in Virginia, Florida, Oklahoma, Nebraska, Texas, the Deep South and other areas. The only thing keeping the U.S. from collapsing entirely into fascist tyranny is our relatively liberal court system, which has a tradition of protecting individual rights from statist zealots like the Republicans.