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I Read My 5-Year-Old Banned Books & You Should, Too

Posted: 09/29/2011 11:12 am

It's pure coincidence that I taught Nadine Gordimer's luminous, difficult Burger's Daughter during Banned Books Week this year. Banned in South Africa immediately upon its 1979 publication in the UK, Gordimer's novel is a fictional portrait of the daughter of white anti-apartheid activist Lionel Burger, who is loosely based on Bram Fischer, who, among other revolutionary actions, served as Nelson Mandela's lawyer. The book's central question -- to whom and what are we responsible? -- raises questions that are provocative even today about the nature of personal relationships and political responsibility. It's a profound novel of ideas, one of those big, important books that makes clear why Gordimer is a Nobel laureate.

I'm used to confronting books like this in my professional life. I'm less used to thinking about banned books in relation to my kids, who have not yet discovered Mark Twain or Vladmir Nabokov. And yet, Gordimer's book shares the list of censured and banned books with Captain Underpants by Dav Pilkey, which my son and I read for months straight last year, when he was in kindergarten. Pilkey's title has been banned four times since 2001 for anti-family content, promoting rudeness and "unruly" behavior, and offensive language. My son adored it. And for him, the series was a breakthrough reading experience, not so much in the sense that it taught him to read, but because these were the books that pulled him so deeply into their fictional world that they seemed to him real. Far from promoting anti-family values or unruly behavior, these were the books that made him leap into a bed with me when it was time to read and which brought him to tears when the series ended. They taught him to love books and the difficult, unruly world of the imagination. The vulgar, misspelled, deeply inappropriate hijinks of George and Harold taught him that it's okay to challenge authority, that there's great freedom in language, and that a sense of humor is a pretty good skill in life. These books are in every way the opposite of Burger's Daughter. They strive for no greater idea than to entertain kids (especially boys) and to give them something fun to read.

And isn't this exactly what we want for our kids -- that they love books? That they read? Does it really matter what they read?

The problem is not really the appropriate -- or inappropriateness -- of Pilkey's world. The problem is much bigger: we limit our kids' literacy all the time. As parents and educators, we ban books every day in all sorts of ordinary ways. Every time we tell our kids that a picture book is "too easy"; or when we steer them away from a graphic novel or comic book; or when we refuse to read them that encyclopedia at bedtime; or when we encourage them to read a chapter book instead of that how-to manual or that investigation of the giant squid, or even that beginning reader tie-in about that movie we hate; every time we limit our kids reading, we are effectively banning books. But kids should read what they want to read. If they can read it, they should be able to read it. I won't censure my kids reading, and I will read to them any book they bring to me. Including How Things Work. Again.

The most heartbreaking experience on my book tour last spring occurred during a meet-and-greet at a terrific independent bookstore in New Jersey. A mother and her adolescent son came in, and he made a beeline straight for The Invention of Hugo Cabret. She grabbed it from him, thumbed through it, and looked at him sternly. "Why do you want to read this book with all these pages?"

"I heard it was really good."

She drew a breath and he sat down on an ottoman, already defeated. She went on. "Let me tell you what's wrong with this book. It's all pictures. It's like that other book you were just reading, that whaddyacallit graphic novel, the one with all those pictures, about the mouse?"

After she was quiet, he pulled out a handheld device and began playing games. They left without buying a book. Booksellers have told me they witness this scene all the time.

It shouldn't matter what kids want to read. They should just read. If they want to spend half an hour doing MadLibs, or reading a sports magazine, or a comic book, or novel or a fix-it book, or a book of jokes they should. It's all reading. Because in spite of the reasons why I read, or ask my grad students to read, or why teachers tell students to read -- to experience other worlds and other people, etc. etc. -- we read -- and need to read -- for a lot of different reasons. We read for information. We read for explanation. We read because we are curious. We read to relax. We read to laugh. We read to be thrilled or shocked. We read for answers. We read to figure out other lives. We read to find our own lives.

We read in hundreds of different ways, every day. And so should our kids. But they won't if we don't let them.

 

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Fran Jaime
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12:35 AM on 10/04/2011
Totally loved this post! As a child, my parents had lots of books and we were allowed to read anything we wanted. There was no censorship, so I grew up reading voraciously and as a result I became an ESL teacher and translator! My daughters have also been able to read anything they want from the "Mister Men" series to Les Miserables, The Hobbit, etc. Some of their favorite outings are to bookstores! We can spend a whole afternoon there! It's so much fun to share books. Now, they recommended books to their dad and me! That's how I came to read "The Devil Wears Prada," the Harry Potter books and a couple of Asimov's books that I hadn't readand some amazing graphic novels. Let your children read whatever they want!
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11:20 AM on 10/01/2011
In honor of Banned Book Week I had a conversation with my 15 year old twins (boys), sophomores in high school, about what it meant and asked what they thought. They said, "Why would anyone ban a book?!" I love it.
11:51 AM on 09/30/2011
A beautiful post, so well put! I want everyone to read your words, and allow their children to love reading.
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Lisa Catherine Harper
03:37 PM on 09/30/2011
Thank you, John. Am grateful.
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09:00 PM on 09/29/2011
My kids are 19 and 24 and are both voracious readers. I started them on cereal boxes, comics, super mario game guides, video games like Zelda that had reading incorporated in the game and lots of Robert Munsch (which come in convenient pocket/purse size versions). For Christmas, they'd get subscriptions to Sport's Illustrated, Mad Magazine and the Nintendo magazine.

I cried like a baby when my oldest asked for a list of books (Hugo, Dostoyevsky, Dickens) for Christmas when he was 20 because he wanted to read the classics. My youngest will pass books on to me or his dad so we can talk about his favorites. John Dies at the End is the latest book he had me read.

I think the only thing more important than giving your kids access to a wide variety of reading material is to give them a good example as a reader. My husband and I always have a pile of books and magazines beside us and if we have spare time, we're reading.
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09:12 PM on 09/29/2011
Boy would our families get along!!! My 2 boys 17 and 20 read all the time, and I just asked them last week where did they want to go (they could choose anywhere) and it was an old used bookstore (The Brand) in Glendale.....my 17 year old read Beowulf and The Hobbitt in 2nd grade, his teacher bought them because he was done with everything and he was bored, he loved Dantes Inferno. my older one reads languages, all languages he is fascinated.We have piles of books everywhere. I would never have a Kindle because I just love books.My parents were the same with us (: my dads best friend was head librarian in SF sio mostly we had discards. I always let my boys read anything.
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09:43 PM on 09/29/2011
I always say that if we got rid of our book cases and piles of books, we'd have a really tidy house but our home is always bookmessy. Every table has a pile.

Both my guys read the Hobbit around that age too. My youngest read Heart of Darkness when he was 13 (lord, I HATE Conrad) and came running in so excited telling us he finally understood what the Simpsons and South Park episodes were all about. He gave me examples of dozens of games, cartoons and tv shows that were based on the book and couldn't believe I'd read it and it wasn't my favorite...
I have a kindle but I keep forgetting I have it so I end up buying books instead of downloading them.
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03:52 PM on 09/29/2011
I never banned any written words from my son. I feel it's my job as a parent to open up his world and have discussions on what we've read and how we feel about it. He loved the Underpants and Goosebumps series of books and now he is in a sci-fi/fantasy stage. I feel bad for the kids who don't have a chance to explore the wonderful world of books.
12:26 PM on 09/29/2011
We've been having this same discussion through MomsLA.com. In my senior year English class, I had one of those teachers that you never forget--Mr. Joseph Sakach. He chose books for each of us to read and report on. He chose books for each individual based on something he saw in us. I never got to ask him how he came to assign Emile Zola's Nana for me because he was killed in a biking accident the year after I graduated. But I loved that book. Loved it even more because another English teacher demanded to know why I was reading that "dirty book." It gave me great pleasure to tell her that Mr. Sakach had assigned it.

Nana is on many lists of banned books as are other works by Zola. Looking over lists of banned books is like walking through my library. Long live the books that challenge, disturb and make us think!

You can check on the conversation at MomsLA at http://tinyurl.com/3tyq3av.