Have you noticed some people vibrate on such an intense level that when they walk into a room, you can't take your eyes off them? And not because they're so beautiful, it's because they possess so much self-confidence and they have an aura around them like they have a secret...

We've all heard the phrase "opposites attract." But what happens when that happy union of opposites starts to rub you the wrong way?

At my Soul Blazing Sanctuary, I often work with couples where one person is very intellectual and not interested in social activities, while the other person...

I have traveled to more than 50 countries in the past 20 years, a point of pride that came from choosing an alternative lifestyle -- one of independence, freedom, and risk. These qualities have always been a part of my identity, my authentic soul. Without owing myself, or my time,...

When you were growing up, you probably learned that lying was wrong.

Remember the old adage, "Honesty is the best policy"?

However, chances are that those same people who told you not to lie often told a few non-truths themselves. And today, the mantra of "do not lie" may be...

"I'm calm, I'm at ease and ready to speak candidly." -- Lance Armstrong

Rumors are rife that Lance Armstrong is going to admit to doping in his upcoming interview with Oprah Winfrey this week. It seems very clear he did some doping in his career, how...

Recently, there's been much hype about the date Dec. 21, 2012. On one end of the spectrum, some people believe it's the day the world will end; those on the other end say it'll be just another uneventful Friday. Still, many believe 12/21/12 marks a time of spiritual transformation --...

When I told friends I was writing an article about loneliness in L.A., I got a few raised eyebrows and smirking comments like: "What? You?! With the dozens of close friends and a family you love, who lives not in Timbuktu, but nearby San Diego?" Yes, I sighed. We all...

We all have an authentic soul, although often it's buried deep beneath a thick and strong layer of "impostor" personalities. These "impostors" are really a false belief system that colors your world, takes over your life, and causes havoc. Your impostors prevent you from achieving your highest personal and professional...

Identify someone in your life who is strong, unique, willful, and in charge, and you're probably thinking of a narcissist -- one of the eight "impostors" I've identified that manifest in people's lives. The narcissist is arguably the most noticeable in the impostor family because it doesn't just expect the...

It's a good idea to think things through, especially for major decisions. But sometimes people over-think a situation, even when the decision is relatively small. Welcome to the world of the "overthinker," one of the eight "impostors" I've identified as a saboteur of people's behavior.

As a life coach working...

It's always fun to talk to approachable, great listeners who have the latest scoop on your mutual friends' lives, with even a small penchant for gossiping. But, when these friends go too far and begin gossiping incessantly, prying into friends' lives, and constantly advising "here's what you should do," you...

It's always fun to be with someone living a vibrant and exciting life, but sometimes these people are acting out from deep-rooted self-esteem issues. Such is the case for the "Sex God or Goddess," one of the eight "Impostors" I've identified that keep people from living from their authentic soul.

There's someone in every family and group of friends who always has a joke ready for any situation. Being able to see the funny moments in any situation can be a great quality, but sometimes the laughter is really meant to cover deep negative emotions. When that happens, the "Clown"...

Being gifted doesn't necessarily work in your favor. While there's nothing wrong with being born with great intelligence or aptitude for creativity, if you're not conscientious, it can lead to an "Impostor" taking over your behaviors.

In my work as a celebrity life coach, I help people deal with...

Over the past months, much has been written about the Occupy movement. Critics bash the movement, calling protesters "lazy freeloaders who should shut up and get a job," while supporters praise the movement, donating money, time, and supplies. Regardless of where you stand on the spectrum of support, one thing...

Just because you're in love with someone doesn't mean you should marry them. And just because you're married to someone and connect with him or her emotionally, spiritually, and physically doesn't mean you can tolerate living with your spouse.

Am I anti-marriage? No. I'm simply saying that as society evolves,...

While most people in the world know about the current famine in Africa, when a problem is hundreds or even thousands of miles away, it's easy to ignore it. But let's face the facts:

• The Horn of Africa, which includes Somalia, Ethiopia, Kenya, and Djiboutiis, is experiencing its worst...

It seems a week can't go by without news of another teen committing suicide due to being bullied. From Jamey Rodemeyer of New York, to James Robinson of Nevada, to Devon Pritt of Indiana, bullied teens are taking their own lives at an alarming rate.
Unfortunately, many...

Have you ever thought about the legacy you're leaving your family, your community, your world? Most people never give it a second thought. But a legacy is something you're creating every day, whether you realize it or not.

What exactly is a legacy? Webster's Dictionary defines "legacy" as "something transmitted...

These days, it seems that many people need some tough love when it comes to their financial health. Every day, I meet people who have become unemployed, have taken a pay cut, or are experiencing a slow period in their business. On top of that, they have credit card and...