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Lisa Haisha
Lisa Haisha, M.A., is showing women, men, and couples how to "show up" in their own lives personally, professionally, and passionately with her fearless expression in all media as a globally sought-after life counselor.

In the field of psychology, Haisha is known as the originator of SoulBlazing, a raw, intense form of therapy based on her proprietary "Impostor Model,” which creates and sustains a life of inner peace by increasing emotional intelligence, learning how to connect with yourself and others, and fulfilling your life legacy. ( Her clients include a "Who's Who" of A-list actors, top producers, and Hollywood and corporate executives.

She is a world traveler and founder of The Whispers from Children's Hearts Foundation, a non-profit whose bi-annual mission trips, fundraising, and donations help children, with a specific focus on orphanages, across the world.

Entries by Lisa Haisha

Your Life Your Legacy

(1) Comments | Posted February 13, 2015 | 3:01 PM

You can't watch television or page through a magazine these days without seeing a half-naked man or woman flaunting their body. It seems more and more people are posing nude for a chance at fame or to reignite their careers. They feel it will lift their self-esteem but most time...

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When We Love Each Other More, What Happens?

(0) Comments | Posted January 6, 2015 | 2:12 PM

"It is impossible for you to be angry and laugh at the same time. Anger and laughter are mutually exclusive and you have the power to choose either." - Wayne Dyer

Lately, my cross-cultural married clients have been struggling with compatibility issues and tempers have been flying, so I've been...

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This Holiday Season, Cop an Attitude... of Gratitude

(1) Comments | Posted December 29, 2014 | 9:36 AM

With the media frenzy so focused on consumerism this time of year, it's easy to forget that the holidays are really about love and gratitude, not gift buying, nor gift receiving. It's a time of year to show appreciation for others, to reflect on your life, and to get clear...

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The Real Cure for Divorce and Adultery... and It's Not What You Think

(7) Comments | Posted May 29, 2014 | 11:43 AM

I recently wrote a column suggesting we need to change our views of marriage, adultery, and divorce. I proposed that it's up to couples, not society, to dictate what their relationship should look like. And apparently, based on the article's large readership, this is a hot topic because I received...

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Está na hora de mudar a nossa visão sobre adultério e casamento?

(3) Comments | Posted May 22, 2014 | 10:28 AM

Na sociedade de hoje, o casamento acontece quando duas pessoas apaixonam-se e decidem passar o resto da vida juntos em um relacionamento monogâmico. Mas sabia que nem sempre foi assim? Na verdade, a versão moderna do casamento surgiu há apenas duzentos e poucos anos atrás. No passado, o casamento raramente...

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Müssen wir unsere Vorstellungen von Fremdgehen und Ehe überdenken?

(3) Comments | Posted May 19, 2014 | 8:13 AM

In der heutigen Gesellschaft wird eine Ehe geschlossen, wenn zwei Menschen (normalerweise ein Mann und eine Frau) einander lieben und die Entscheidung fällen, den Rest ihres Lebens gemeinsam in Monogamie zu verbringen. Aber wussten Sie eigentlich, dass das nicht immer der Fall war? In Wirklichkeit entstand die moderne Form der...

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Is It Time To Change Our Views Of Adultery and Marriage?

(787) Comments | Posted May 5, 2014 | 7:38 AM

In today's society, marriage happens when two people (usually a man and a woman) fall in love and decide to spend the rest of their lives together in monogamy. But did you know that wasn't always the case? In fact, the modern version of marriage emerged a mere couple of...

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What We Can All Learn About Relationships From Gwyneth Paltrow

(0) Comments | Posted April 3, 2014 | 5:12 PM

We've all heard the statistic that 50 percent of marriages end in divorce. And the word itself -- "divorce" -- has gotten a bad reputation over the years. In fact, when most people hear the word, they immediately focus on the bitterness, anger, resentment, disappointment, and emotional pain of an...

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Why Your Desire for Attention May Be Ruining Your Life

(0) Comments | Posted October 29, 2013 | 7:33 PM

Sometimes being the "nice one" or the "peacekeeper" isn't all it's cracked up to be. Sure, being helpful toward others is a great trait, but sometimes it can go too far and become an issue of codependency. This is often when an "impostor"-- a false belief system that colors your...

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This United Nations Day, Break Down the Borders of Your Life

(0) Comments | Posted October 24, 2013 | 12:59 PM

Today celebrates United Nations Day -- a day to remember why the United Nations (UN) was created. It's a perfect day to challenge yourself to think outside your own cultural borders and expand your capacity to embrace diversity.

Believe it or not, while most people have heard of the...

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Why Your Good Intentions May Be Causing Harm

(0) Comments | Posted October 21, 2013 | 8:14 AM

Everyone gives opinions and guidance to their friends and family, but you probably know someone who goes a bit overboard. This person gives unwanted advice in a very professional manner, even though they lack the proper credentials to do so. This person may mean well, but their efforts to help...

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International Friendship Day: Why It's Important to Organize Your Friends

(3) Comments | Posted July 31, 2013 | 2:33 PM

What is a friend?

In honor of International Friendship Day, I decided to write an article about friendship with my dear friend Glenda Shaw. We both work in similar fields. My coaching work is about keeping my clients emotionally and psychologically balanced and Glenda has done years of research...

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It's Time to End Your War Against Hollywood

(2) Comments | Posted June 13, 2013 | 3:21 PM

Today's entertainment news seems to be filled with conflict. There's the Jennifer Aniston versus Angelina Jolie/Brad Pitt saga, the war against the Kardashians, the public's turning against Gwyneth Paltrow and Anne Hathaway, just to name a few. Even New York Magazine released their list of the "20 Most...

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Do You Have a Magnetic Personality?

(0) Comments | Posted May 3, 2013 | 2:38 PM

Have you noticed some people vibrate on such an intense level that when they walk into a room, you can't take your eyes off them? And not because they're so beautiful, it's because they possess so much self-confidence and they have an aura around them like they have a secret...

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When Smart and Social Don't Mix in a Relationship

(5) Comments | Posted April 1, 2013 | 8:30 AM

We've all heard the phrase "opposites attract." But what happens when that happy union of opposites starts to rub you the wrong way?

At my Soul Blazing Sanctuary, I often work with couples where one person is very intellectual and not interested in social activities, while the other person...

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Traveling With Children

(0) Comments | Posted March 4, 2013 | 4:29 PM

I have traveled to more than 50 countries in the past 20 years, a point of pride that came from choosing an alternative lifestyle -- one of independence, freedom, and risk. These qualities have always been a part of my identity, my authentic soul. Without owing myself, or my time,...

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The Truth About Lying

(1) Comments | Posted February 14, 2013 | 4:09 PM

When you were growing up, you probably learned that lying was wrong.

Remember the old adage, "Honesty is the best policy"?

However, chances are that those same people who told you not to lie often told a few non-truths themselves. And today, the mantra of "do not lie" may be...

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Are You Ready to Speak Your Truth?

(0) Comments | Posted January 16, 2013 | 11:19 AM

"I'm calm, I'm at ease and ready to speak candidly." -- Lance Armstrong

Rumors are rife that Lance Armstrong is going to admit to doping in his upcoming interview with Oprah Winfrey this week. It seems very clear he did some doping in his career, how...

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December 2012: The End of the World or a Time for Spiritual Rebirth?

(0) Comments | Posted December 20, 2012 | 7:49 PM

Recently, there's been much hype about the date Dec. 21, 2012. On one end of the spectrum, some people believe it's the day the world will end; those on the other end say it'll be just another uneventful Friday. Still, many believe 12/21/12 marks a time of spiritual transformation --...

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City of Lonely Angels

(2) Comments | Posted December 5, 2012 | 9:34 PM

When I told friends I was writing an article about loneliness in L.A., I got a few raised eyebrows and smirking comments like: "What? You?! With the dozens of close friends and a family you love, who lives not in Timbuktu, but nearby San Diego?" Yes, I sighed. We all...

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