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Thank You, Rush Limbaugh

Posted: 03/ 3/2012 9:00 am

Dear Rush,

From one talk radio host to another, thank you so much for your recent attack on Sandra Fluke, the Georgetown Law Student who testified before Congress in favor of a policy that would include birth control as part of health care coverage. You called her a slut. You meant to insult Sandra. But because you called her a slut for exercising her right to speak up and demand birth control, you have stripped the word of its traditional, cruel meaning. I am now a slut too. All women who have ever attempted to decide when and how many children they would have, and with whom, are now sluts. I'm guessing your sister, if you have one, is a slut. Your three ex-wives are probably sluts as well. Might the newest Mrs. Limbaugh be one too?

Slut is a loaded word, a word used for many years to impugn women for exercising sexual freedom. Men are not sluts. We don't even have a word in English for men who like a lot of sex with different partners. What does that tell you about the corrosive effect of discriminatory language? We don't have a word for men who sleep around, therefore we don't even have a way to express the idea that such behavior might be as morally bad for men as it is judged to be for women. Of course, that is not surprising.

The thought that a woman might actually enjoy sex for its own sake is so scary to some men that they will do anything to shut us up, including wrapping a burka around us, body and soul. You even invent words to tell us how sinful our behavior is. Thank you so much today for removing one of the uglier of those words from our vocabulary. After today's tirade, the word slut has become a badge of honor, a rallying cry for all women who demand freedom.

I envision a march on Washington, joined by my fellow women, and the many men who love and like us, in which we link arms and wear sandwich boards declaring, "I am a slut too". Now that you have rendered the word "slut" impotent, perhaps you can refill your Viagra prescription. But since you don't approve of sex for fun, I know you won't mind our insistence that Viagra be banned from health insurance. After all, if we can't enjoy sex, neither can you.

Yours very truly,
Lisa Wexler

PS- If you want to hear my voice on this, here is the link to my radio show today. and-sluts" target="_hplink">http://lisawexler.com/index.php/shows/2012-shows/march/apal-rush-and-sluts

 

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04:55 PM on 03/05/2012
Lisa is brilliant like this every weekday! You can hear her show daily from 4-6PM. go to lisawexler.com and listen and watch the show.
04:27 PM on 03/05/2012
GOOOOO Lisa!!!!!
03:44 PM on 03/05/2012
I thought his use of the word slut was terrible but I don't think you listened to why. He said her demand for birth control to be paid for by someone else was akin to being paid for sex and made her a prostitute and having so much sex that you can't afford birth control makes her a slut. I disagree with his comparisons but I don't see how he changed the meaning. Also, what did Ed Shultz at MSNBC do to the meaning of the word when he called Laura Ingraham a right wing slut for disagreeing with him?
09:52 AM on 03/05/2012
Obama and HHS must be thanking their lucky stars that Limbaugh turned the liberal war on religious freedom to a "Republican" war on women over the same issue, in one day, with one word.

In a year the Republicans should be smoking the liberals, they keep shooting themselves in the foot every chance they get.

Too bad none of the posters here were bent out of shape when Palin and Bachmann were called worse insults than sl*t by media pundits, comedians, etc.
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09:50 AM on 03/05/2012
I LOVE this!!!
12:47 AM on 03/05/2012
My tubes were tied many years ago because (my choice) of the complications with birth control. That being said, I will gladly take one for my sister team and be called a slut. As you said Lisa, it is now a badge of honor!
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09:39 PM on 03/04/2012
Love it Lisa, brilliant!
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08:43 PM on 03/04/2012
Brilliant!! And the fact that he has NOBODY to blame except himself for the fact that 8 advertisers have now jumped ship.
12:51 AM on 03/05/2012
If the remaining advertisers were smart they would jump ship also!
01:51 AM on 03/05/2012
I did not think his advertisers could be smart enough to do that.
06:29 PM on 03/04/2012
BRAVO !!!!!
Thank you~ This has nothing to do with anyone's religious views on birth control, this has to do with Rush Limbaughs VIEW OF WOMAN!
08:32 PM on 03/04/2012
And his view of women is that he wants them to become the best they can possibly be. He hates feminism as he feels it demeans women, he hates political correctness, as it is discriminatory in and of itself, and he hates progressives telling him their liberal opinions are more important than his conservative ideals.

You are right that it has nothing to do with anyone's religious views on birth contol - it has everything to do with the GOVERNMENT intrusion on the views of religious organizations and whether or not any medcation should be free or paid for with co-pays like other medications.
02:28 AM on 03/05/2012
You, LVObserver, missed the boat!
03:14 AM on 03/05/2012
Why is it "conservative ideals" and Liberal opinions? I have ideals, ethics, morals. Just because we differ, doesn't make one of us better or less than the other. We're all in this together. And the rest of your comments about RL's view of women - well, my liberal ideals are better than his conservative opinions.
03:24 PM on 03/04/2012
I am not surprised by Lisa Wexler's articulation of her argument, her eloquence and command of the English language. After thousands of cases in and out of court I found that women tended not only to be smarter than many of their male counterparts but did it with style, for the most part anyway.

A talk show host or an attorney know or should know the value and weight of words used and the impact those words can have and the use of words either like a scalpel or a cudgel.

Lisa is the scalpel of reason whereas Rush is the blunt instrument of misogyny.

Well done and thanks Lisa.
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03:11 PM on 03/04/2012
The problem with this whole Rush slutgate thing is that it started with a grossly inaccurate description of Fluke's actual testimony, which was not at all about herself, and focused almost entirely on the need for access to contraception coverage for the myriad of legitimate health reasons OTHER than birth control. She never even really talked about sex or controlling unwanted pregnancy, mostly she focused on the many other uses for the same prescription as part of women's health care.
08:45 PM on 03/04/2012
OMG - the example that Fluke gave didn't go to Planned Parenthood and handled the issue for $20 per month? If you can afford $40K+ for Georgetown, suck it up and go to Planned Parenthood. And if I understand most policies we have had in the past, estrogen (birth control) for health reasons instead of birth control is covered. Possibly a bogus arguement to begin with.
02:29 AM on 03/05/2012
You missed it again!
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03:05 PM on 03/04/2012
Very nice.
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03:03 PM on 03/04/2012
Thanks for this outcry! It's one of many to come in what is surely a war on gender. It's just further proof that the cultural divide brings us back to the Dark Ages when you're on the side of the "right"
02:52 PM on 03/04/2012
Lisa, did you listen to what Limbaugh had to say, or were you just making up your story from MSNBC?

She did not "testif(y)before Congress in favor of a policy that would include birth control as part of health care coverage." She demanded that it be free of charge to her. She knew that Georgetown's plan did not cover birth control when she enrolled, as it is against the teachings of the church. To expect them to change their religious beliefs after 2,000 years of consistency is pretty arrogant.

Limbaugh never said she should be denied birth control (the whole commentary is on the internet). He only believes that Georgetown should be able to keep its religious beliefs and that individuals should be responsible for their sexual behaviour. Pretty much - if you want birth control, pay for it or abstain.

I do believe "sl*t" is too loaded of word and should not have been used. It is almost as offensive as Bill Maher calling Sarah Palin a c*nt on his HBO show, and that word is even more loaded. I just don't recall you getting bent out of shape and asking for a march on HBO when Maher made his comment. Maybe I missed the article.
12:59 AM on 03/05/2012
LVO you only get the point for Fluke not testifying before congress. She did not testify because the all male panel did not see her fit to testify. Which is pretty dang stupid. Her argument was birth control was for health issues. Not 'birth' control.
09:04 AM on 03/05/2012
The quote "testif(y)before Congress in favor of a policy that would include birth control as part of health care coverage." came straight from the article. I apologize for not chastising Wexler on her poor choice of words. Don't blame me, I cut and pasted from her,
02:38 AM on 03/05/2012
She didn't testify before Congress because Mr. Issa said she wasn't "qualified" to. She spoke before a "hearing". And, I heard Mr. L and he is as incorrect as you are. This is only about religion in the eyes of the leaders of some religious groups. There are many who do not subscribe to these religions and their skewed views of women. And I am sure you have heard that this has not been an issue for about ten years in a number of states where organizations are including birth control in their insurance coverage, so I won't bother you with that. You keep missing the boat.
08:32 AM on 03/05/2012
Nona, the "testified before Congress...." came straight from Lisa's article. And this is not "only about religiion in the eyes of the leaders of some religious groups. It is about the first amendment and whether or not the government can stomp on freedom of religion and force religious organizations to violate the tenets of their faith.

Nobody is missing the boat except those who believe that Government trumps individual and religious freedoms guaranteed in the first amendment.
02:25 PM on 03/04/2012
If the American consumer would quit buying products who support and advertise on Rush Limbaugh's radio show, Rush could be effectively neutered. It is that simple, stop buying products which are advertised on Limbaugh's show.