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A Letter to My Grandson, Alexander, About Religion

Posted: 09/15/11 01:13 PM ET

Dear Alexander:

Do you remember when we talked in the TV room about different religions and God? The conversation was pretty short because you were busy with the TV and I remember thinking: I should write you a letter that might explain better about religions that might help you understand them better.

Religions are sort of like cars! Everyone drives a different kind. Some have Fords, some Chevys, some have BMWs and some have Toyotas. Some are slow and some are fast. Some are smaller and some are larger, and they may have different colors. It would be pointless to argue about whose car is better. Each person would like his own and would praise it over another choice. But can you imagine what would happen if each person felt so strongly about his own car that he would argue with, fight and even kill someone who disagreed with him? This would be ignorant and harmful because, basically, all cars are really the same: all have the same internal combustion engine, a metal body, four wheels and all serve the same purpose of taking the owner to his destination. It is the same with religions. Each one might look a little different than the next but they serve the same purpose: ideally, to get someone to God.

It is said that God sent different men of wisdom to earth. They were called prophets and came to help people at different times in history: Abraham, Jesus, Muhammad -- each brought truth at a certain time in history to help human beings to search for peace by finding God.

These men of God came only to bring truth to man. They did not come to establish religions. That was man's work, not God's. Over time, the understanding of the truth of each prophet was interpreted, formed, written down as a religion and presented to man.

In the Middle East we see what has happened over the past years. The original truth of unity and compassion -- that we are all the same and should treat each other as family -- has been destroyed. The Prophet Abraham was the patriarch from whom the three Middle Eastern religions descended -- Judaism, Christianity and Islam. Each religion carved out its own territory in the Middle East and had a different way of praising God. Instead of acting as one family, these descendants of Abraham are now killing one another in the name of God.

Alexander, I was born into a Christian family and went to Sunday School and Church. Later in life, I became interested in Buddhism and entered a monastery in Japan to study for a year to learn how to meditate in the Buddhist tradition. After that I became interested in Islam, read the Quran and studied the teaching of the Prophet Muhammad. At this time I was very fortunate to meet a true sage who was Bawa.

Bawa, himself, had practiced all the religions and had come to a deep understanding of them. As a Sufi, he had that special gift of finding and revealing the essential truth that is contained within all religions, namely the purity and oneness of God. Thus, whenever he spoke, Buddhists, Hindus, Muslims, Jews and Christians would sit together for hours listening to his wisdom.

This is what Bawa asked us to do to live a meaningful life:

  • Have faith in God.
  • Respect your parents and help them.
  • Respect your teachers and treat them as your second parents.
  • Change your life by having good thoughts, good intentions and good behavior.
  • Always tell the truth and what is right.
  • Show compassion, love and unity equally to all.
  • Do not hurt others with your thoughts or your actions. The pain you cause another will come back to you.
  • If you do not hate others, they will not hate you.
  • God exists in any heart where there is truth, conscience and justice.
  • So light the lamp of wisdom in your heart. Then, you will find heaven here in this world.

Alexander, I hope this is of value to you. If you like, we can talk more about these things at Christmas time.

I look forward to seeing you,

Much love, Lockie

 
 
 
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Damn Damien
Naturally!
09:22 AM on 09/18/2011
1. Have faith in God. (Think rationally--especially when it comes to Bronze Age superstitions.)

2. Respect your parents and help them. (Learn from your parents, but constantly question them.)

3. Respect your teachers and treat them as your second parents. (Question everything that you are taught, never believe anything without evidence.)

4. Change your life by having good thoughts, good intentions and good behavior. (...Toward as many people as possible.)

5. Always tell the truth and what is right. (And, the truth is that there are no gods or prophets.)

6. Show compassion, love and unity equally to all. (...who reciprocate.)

7. Do not hurt others with your thoughts or your actions. The pain you cause another will come back to you. (Feel free to criticize others; but, be responsible lest innocents, including yourself, come to harm.)

8. If you do not hate others, they will not hate you. (Prejudice is irrational.)

9. God exists in any heart where there is truth, conscience and justice. (God doesn't exist, the heart is a pump; educate yourself of the evidence and laws based on the same.)

10. So light the lamp of wisdom in your heart. Then, you will find heaven here in this world. (There is no heaven or hell, try to make life better for everyone on Earth.)
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Damn Damien
Naturally!
05:49 PM on 09/17/2011
"Religions are sort of like cars! [...] It would be pointless to argue about whose car is better."
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Except if one finds a model with parts of it blowing up all the time; and previous models have been known to cause havoc--causing enormous losses in life and property; and the user-manual cannot be understood by anyone.
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04:46 PM on 09/17/2011
The trouble with bumper sticker wisdom is that it fails you when you need it most--when things get complicated.
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Jelle NL
Unity in Diversity
04:22 PM on 09/17/2011
PS -- I almost forgot. Here is a list of what I consider to be the 10 most important books. Don’t miss them: 1) ...

See you soon, Lockie
04:05 PM on 09/17/2011
It is such a shame as I read how people are searching for the peace of God. The simplicity of Jesus Christ, God the Father and the Holy Spirit is just that. People make it hard because they think they have got to do something. In John 14... Jesus saith unto him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me". How simple is that??? Don't people know the truth of the scriptures. We walk by faith, not by sight or any other way. All these things are simple. The Bible is the LIVING WORD OF GOD! If you don't believe and trust in the Lord Jesus Christ, you might as well forget it. You must be converted not just in mind but in your heart. When you receive Jesus Christ God sends the Holy Spirit to dwell in you and teaches you ALL things of God. The widom of man is foolishness to God.
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Jradxit
Faithless morality over baseless faith
10:49 AM on 09/17/2011
My letter to my grandson:

The world is full of religious people who all believe things to a greater degree of certainty than the evidence supports. Many of them also believe things to be true which are in direct contradiction to the available evidence. Believe to be true only those things for which you can find support in real observable and repeatable evidence and you will see the world and yourself as close to it really is as you are able. This will lead you to be a happy and contented person with intact intellect and curiosity. Do not worry that most people don't agree with you and remember that in the past most people believed that the world was flat and that the four humours controlled your health. Most people have been mostly wrong throughout history and it will likely remain so. Don't be one of them. Learn to embrace and recognize when something is unknown and say "I don't know" with clarity and pride.
08:40 AM on 09/17/2011
It is not good to teach a child that an acceptable path to truth is faith.

"The way to see by faith is to shut the eye of reason." -Benjamin Franklin
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Sarah Trickey
love, luck and lollipops. Narf!
12:23 AM on 09/17/2011
Simplistic - but fun, nonetheless.
'These men of God came only to bring truth to man. They did not come to establish religions. That was man's work, not God's.' - this rings particularly true to me. The truths Mohammed taught could not be the exact same truths Jesus (or Abraham, Buddha, Moses, Zoroaster, Baha'ullah) taught as they were teaching at different times, in different climes where different understandings and practices also put limitations on scope.
May your conversations with your grandson bear the fruits of understanding, compassion and love.
01:20 PM on 09/16/2011
This is a nice sounding article, but it is simplistic. And while it is true that religion has failed to unite us as one people, there are more historically sound causes of war.The bottom line is that difference­­s in religion have not typically started wars. Greed, lust for power, injustice, fear and the like start wars. WWI, WWII, the Korean War, Vietnam, the Gulf Wars, the Serb/Croat and even the Irish wars were not about religion. Religion has often been used as one of many factors in motivating those involved to dehumanize the enemy as well as reduce the fear of dying, but religion is not the cause. Science could as easily be blamed for providing the tools of war.
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Timothy Thocher
my doG looked in the mirror and saw God
05:11 PM on 09/16/2011
I understand your thoughts, but you are making a chicken and egg arguement. You say that religion is not the cause, but is one of the motivating factors. Religion is a primary shaper of how the religous view their world. I dont think many of the wars and conflicts you stated happen with out a strong religous aspect pre conflict. England for instance has had many conflicts where the division was Catholic / Protestant. Serb/Croat is a religous feud going back centuries. Christian / Muslims have been in conflict back to the crusades. Religion, is a power intitution created by men, its purpose it to divide and seperate those with from those outside. As John Lennon said, imagine no religion, it isnt hard to do.
03:04 PM on 09/15/2011
This is such a nice article, written by such a nice man. But, unfortunately, I do not agree with a number of points. Jesus, for example, if he indeed lived, did not become a Christian, did not change Judaism into anything other, had a jewish mother, a bris, was bar mtzvah, walked this earth teaching Torah, not anything other. He was a Rabbi, and died on the Cross praying to the one God of all men. He taught the LAW as given. The other two religions interpret not according to what was given (written), literally, but made changes to suit human beings. Jesus said: not a jot or tittle of the LAW shall change until all is fulfilled. Pretty straightforward.

It is also not true that if you do not hate others will not hate you. Proselytizing Religions teach and cause hatred if others do not conform to their beliefs and standards. Those are human beliefs and standards. Even naming The Deity, using prophets and their NAMES, tries to make the Deity conform to human standards. If we are listening, hearing, learning and actively searching for the lessons and applying those lessons we will improve. That is why lessons from Buddhism, Judaism, Christianity can be compatible if they go to the core issues, which always come down to the LAW. And, if we do not respect The Law, or The Deity's Creation, be it animals, nature, your parents, your siblings or your neighbors, we will have no PEACE.
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phal4875
The world is run by cats; we just feed them.
08:33 PM on 09/15/2011
Dear mommamia526:

You are quite right about Jesus. The Apostle Paul created what we know as Christianity. Jesus was Jewish and practiced that religion. Paul was Jewish, too, but he ran from it as hard as he could and dragged many others with him. Paul was clever and first changed Judaism. Then he gradually made it unrecognizable.
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QuarkGluonSoup
11:05 AM on 09/16/2011
no he didn't. he was one persecuted man constantly running for his life. the church itself took centuries grow from the seed laid by Jesus, although Paul was the most important sower of this seed in the generation after Jesus' death.
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Cindbird
05:24 AM on 09/16/2011
Buddhism and the Abrahamic Religions can NOT be compatible. Because Buddhism doesn't believe in two things which form the basis of the Abrahamic Traditions: No Creator God and no independent soul.

The three things which define ANY Buddhist Teaching are called the Three Marks of Conditioned Phenomena.
They are
(1) Impermanence (nothing is permanent, not even yourself)
(2) Non-self, No Self (no independent self or soul)
(3) Unsatisfactoriness (there is nothing in life which can bring permanent happiness or satisfaction)

These can NOT be reconciled with the Abrahamic Traditions.
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QuarkGluonSoup
11:07 AM on 09/16/2011
eastern religions often coexist with each other. many asians are buddhist, confucian and taoist (or others). some buddhists are even Christians too. buddhism is more a metaphysical system than a theological system, so while they can't be reconcilied, they don't necessarily conflict either.
01:05 PM on 09/16/2011
I am not into religion per se, and do not know that much about buddhism. I am a realist, and my emophasis is what makes sense. Non violence, no murder, makes sense to me. It is part of Judaic faith and also a buddhis philosophical tenet. I understand it from careful observance in myself of what happens when I nurture negativity, anger, revenge, vs going with the flow, no anger, no revenge. If religion has any value, behond a cultural one, and adding rhythm to life, there must be eternal truth which applies to every aspect. As a jew, I am well aware that nothing is permanent, and that I am not permanent, that there is no independent soul - jews practice communal responsibility, and if one of us fails morally, we mourn as a community and assume responsibility as a community. The idea of permanent happiness/satisfaction has never come up. The idea is that thought, words, action influence all under the sun. Make this world a better place, start with yourself. For me there is great affinity between Eastern religions (buddhism) and judaism. Being a light to the world, does not imply permanent illumination. A spark is enough. Many sparks illuminate, not self, but the world. Outward towards the other.
02:10 PM on 09/15/2011
"It is said that God sent different men of wisdom to earth. They were called prophets and came to help people at different times in history:"

No..according to the sources god talked to people and gave them instructions. It's not like the "prophets" claimed to be giving their philosophical opinions.

"Abraham, Jesus, Muhammad -- each brought truth at a certain time in history to help human beings to search for peace by finding God."

So how come they all contradict each other, if they are all true? Do you for example, believe that muhammed was repeating verbatim instructions from angles?

"These men of God came only to bring truth to man. They did not come to establish religions."

Talk about clap trap. Actually think about this statement, and ponder why it makes no sense
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free reign
My country tis of thee!
03:27 PM on 09/16/2011
As a child we would have various freinds, family and neighbors over for dinner. My father an engineer(solar, elect cars @1975+), would invite, a Jewish Ivy League Phd Professor, a Greek astrophysicist and his 1/2 Asian child. Discussions at dinners and our fri night guests were always interesting, and on this occasion the three men, the friend's child and our family had dinner.
After a particular terrorist event, I can remember the men agreeing that reilgion was the scurge of the earth. All of them believed in their God, all of them believed that religion was corrupted by certain people for misguided intentions. I would say "these men of God came to bring peace to man." Reality of the destruction caused by greed and indifference, is simply, truth. If following laws or codes formed around truths, brings peace, Amen to that, however man arived aot truth or truth arrived to man. They were not "of"the religions that were later formed on their words.
05:43 PM on 09/16/2011
"They were not "of"the religions that were later formed on their words. "

This only makes sense if you are completely ignorant of what those words were