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Let's Make Today the Last International Women's Day

Posted: 03/ 8/2012 11:03 am

Today is International Women's Day, an event the world has been celebrating for more than 100 years. Personally, I hope it's the last one.

Do we celebrate International Men's Day? No, we don't. Because, when it comes down to it, every day is International Men's Day. In pretty much every country across the globe, men still rule. Sure, there are some female leaders. But most of the powerhouses -- the ones making the laws -- are still men.

Although women make up more than half the population, they are routinely treated like second-class citizens all over the world. And before we get any grandiose ideas that it's any different in the United States, let's take a look at some of these facts:

Equal rights in employment, healthcare, safety and respect should not be a political issue. It should be our right as American citizens. All men are created equal -- and so are all women. There is a war against women going on in this country, and it's time to fight back. Imagine Democrats, Republicans, Independents and Libertarians all coming together as women.

This is an election year, ladies (and men who care about us). We need to really study and question each of the candidates' positions on women's issues and make our voice heard through our vote. If you think the rights we've fought so hard for can't be overturned or taken away, think again. Who would have believed we'd be arguing about birth control in the United States in the year 2012? We can not be complacent.

The good news is we really can make a difference. Just watch this amazing documentary, "Pray the Devil Back to Hell," about the woman who took on the war lords of Liberia and miraculously brought peace to her country. If ONE woman can do that, imagine what we can do TOGETHER. And take a look at the video below about the woman behind the groundbreaking Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act which President Obama signed into law in 2009. Again, just one woman made this happen, improving the future for our daughters and granddaughters.

We can help our sisters around the world change their fates. We can send money, donate our time, sign petitions. But, as we're told to do on every single flight, we have to take care of ourselves before we can save anyone else.

Let's celebrate International Women's Day by banding together to make the day unnecessary. As women, we don't want special treatment - just equal.

 
 
 
 
 
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JohnnyAce Okeke
GRAND MASTER SEN$Ei {{-_-}}â„¢
03:42 AM on 03/09/2012
By the way, International Men's Day is November 19th. {{-_-}}
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JohnnyAce Okeke
GRAND MASTER SEN$Ei {{-_-}}â„¢
03:40 AM on 03/09/2012
If every day is Men's Day, every day is Women's Day also. {{-_-}}
12:06 AM on 03/09/2012
i am a man real man if every women with a computer would read this and take it at heart.and men that love their wife mother dauther sister aunt and dont forget your grandmother.should join togeather and knock the hell out of all those no good crooks at the polls.
04:10 PM on 03/08/2012
To be honest, specifically regarding the ERA, is was at least in part defeated by women. Fresh on the heels of Vietnam, many prominent women were heard to remark that the defeat of the ERA was the only thing standing between them and the draft. This is probably only one reason is was defeated, but worth noting. With more women serving in today's military, the outcome could change. I, for one, support the ERA, I just ask that everyone be cognizant that with equal rights comes equal responsibility.
10:18 AM on 03/09/2012
On those grounds alone feminists would detest it. They desire equal rights without the share of responsibility that it entails.
10:53 AM on 03/09/2012
Completely agree!
04:13 PM on 03/09/2012
And what responsibilities are you referring to? Mr. Big Bad Responsibility swinging man. Hopefully not the responsibility to blow each other up. Left to women, there would be no wars in the first freakin place.
03:50 PM on 03/08/2012
Re: "Women earn less than 80 cents for every dollar a man earns in the same position."

This is patently false. If "greedy, cut-throat, profit-obsessed" employers could get away with paying women less than men in the same positions, no man would have a job.

No law yet has closed the gender wage gap — not the 1963 Equal Pay for Equal Work Act, not Title VII of the 1964 Civil Rights Act, not the 1978 Pregnancy Discrimination Act, not the 1991 amendments to Title VII, not affirmative action (which has benefited mostly white women, the group most vocal about the wage gap - http://tinyurl.com/74cooen), not diversity, not the countless state and local laws and regulations, not the horde of overseers at the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, and not the Ledbetter Fair Pay Act.... Nor will a "paycheck fairness" law work.

That's because pay-equity advocates continue to overlook the effects of female AND male behavior described in "Will the Ledbetter Fair Pay Act Help Women?" at http://malemattersusa.wordpress.com/2011/12/03/will-the-ledbetter-fair-pay-act-help-women/
03:12 PM on 03/08/2012
Happy International double X chromosome day! :)
03:04 PM on 03/08/2012
I am so sick of the rhetoric on the left talking about as War on Women! I'm a woman and I object to Birth control being given out for free! Nothing is free, and we all know that. The cost will be reflected in our premiums or some other denial of service. Go buy your opwn contraceptives as I always had to. Stop with the nanny state! Not to mention the fact that this was an affront to 1st amendment religious liberties. But they were getting too much heat and realized they had made a huge overreach, so they changed the subject to War on Women. Pretty good fake, however false and underhanded.
03:45 PM on 03/08/2012
The use of birth control extends to a multitude of other reasons: acne, cramp alleviation, and a medication for polycystic ovarian syndrome. I take birth control for the third reason and it costs me $60/month. It's an extraordinary amount of money to keep my health in check and if the government is willing to help me pay for my medication, why not?

Also, it is not an affront to religious liberties. No one is forcing you to take birth control if you don't want to.
09:35 AM on 03/09/2012
"Also, it is not an affront to religious liberties. No one is forcing you to take birth control if you don't want to."

And this has always been the case... so why are we having a debate over birth control?
05:09 PM on 03/08/2012
Um, I don't think anyone expects contraceptives to be given out for free, but access to be able to get contraceptives is the central issue here.
Brainwashed much?
09:36 AM on 03/09/2012
Have you been paying attention to the news? The whole debate is over an employer's mandate to provide free access to birth control. In other words, free contraceptives. No one on the Right wants to make contraception illegal, except maybe Rick Santorum.
02:56 PM on 03/08/2012
so actually having an ultrasound to see your child before you kill it with tax payer money is a bad thing? forget women's rights, no one has the right to murder another, especially when that person deosn't have a voice. however, you claim to have your voices unheard everyday, yet you would not dare to place yourselves on the same level of the unheard as an infant in the womb. yes, you are the mighty hand of justice aren't you?
02:24 PM on 03/08/2012
This is nonsense. For starters the pay gap is both misleading and exaggerated:

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-505125_162-28246928/the-gender-pay-gap-is-a-complete-myth/
http://www.businessinsider.com/actually-the-gender-pay-gap-is-just-a-myth-2011-3?op=1

Secondly, there -is- an international men's day and I'm A-OK with this:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Men%27s_Day

Look, old feminism was a healthy thing back when women were truly second class citizens in the United States. Neo-Feminism, however, is simply a gratuitous and absurd sexist movement that has nothing to do with 'equality' and is more akin to a female supremacy movement.

I'm sure you, the author, (and others) will disagree with the various findings that state the gender pay gap is almost nothing like most would have us believe and I'd welcome that debate.

I just feel more than a bit disgusted that 'equality' and 'championing' sex/race/religion is ONLY 'acceptable' when it is a minority or seemingly oppressed group in question. White male? Nope. Christian\Catholic? Nope. Heterosexual? Nope.

"Well Christians\White\Men shouldn't be strutting their self!" Why? Because the politics of today have dictated that somehow we're this oppressive evil group that have enslaved and dominated others in the past? Is our understanding of history really this skewed?

Are we really so gullible?

There's a difference between equality and "having your cake and eating it too".

This whole thing is a sham.
04:29 PM on 03/09/2012
If women 'have already had their cake and want to eat it too', how come we make up less than 10% of the US government? How come much more women suffer and die from domestic abuse than men? How come more women suffer violence, such as rapes at the hands of men than vice versa? How come when women divorce they and their children are more likely to live in poverty or have a lesser standard of living than divorced men? How come we only had 12 female CEOs running Fortune 500 companies in 2011? How come when 2 idiot teenagers get pregnant, the chances of the boyfriend having a normal future are 4 or more times higher than that of the girlfriend?

The women's movement towards equality will happen with or without you, if you can't support it, then don't waste your energy opposing it and for goodness sake STOP WHINING!!!
02:21 PM on 03/08/2012
Everyday is not "International Men's Day". Stop complaining, and actually do something to make a difference.
Florence Nightingale
Hatshepsut, King of Egypt
Rosa Parks
They did stuff.
Don't ask for equality then get mad when men no longer hold doors open for us or treat us like ladies. I’ve seen it too many times with my friends
02:18 PM on 03/08/2012
Actually International Man's Day is in November...
02:11 PM on 03/08/2012
http://www.internationalmensday.com/. You want equality.. cool. Let's level ALL salaries, remove any gender based educational benefits, women's or men's colleges.. see ya! insurance rates.. level. Men get the same consideration when going through custody battles. Oh.. and I'd like to see as much passion and dedication shown toward prostate cancer as breast cancer. I'm under no delusions about who has the power in my marriage anyway. And at the end of the day guess what... most men don't care. Take your power! We're ok with that. Just don't treat the majority of guys out there who respect women and would totally stand behind equality 100% like we're part of the majority that wants to prevent it. Uggg... I'm tired of being lumped into that group.
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08:00 PM on 03/08/2012
You -- and most men -- are not lumped into that group unless you're one of the guys doing any of the bullet points above. And, yes, let's absolutely level all of the things you mentioned -- as soon as the Equal Rights Amendment is passed and Equal Pay for Equal Work is a reality. As far as prostate cancer vs breast cancer -- well, be careful what you wish for: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/lois-alter-mark/its-time-to-rethink-pink_b_1268350.html
09:37 AM on 03/09/2012
We should pass an End World Hunger Act next, since apparently anything can be solved by making a law.
01:44 PM on 03/08/2012
While I understand the articles intention and 100% believe that rights around the world should be equal, as well believe there should be more women in power. Why can we not take a day to say thank you, i appreciate you... Should we also take away Valentines day and Mothers day? What about the Single women without children? Should we not stop and say, you are appreciated to them...
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02:01 PM on 03/08/2012
Absolutely -- it's always good to say "thank you" and "I appreciate you." The problem with International Women's Day, though -- just like Black History Month, for example -- is it makes the assumption that the group being "honored" is different than the "majority." The fact that there's pretty much a "one day" commemoration of every group except white men speaks volumes.
01:26 PM on 03/08/2012
"Feel guilty for being male" is how feminism makes me feel. Can't we just have an equal gender day not one for women and one for men (which is basically unheard of)?
01:23 PM on 03/08/2012
I don't think we should calm down--I think we need to ramp up--ramp up your intelligence about what is going on in the US and the world.I found the origins of IWD here as well: http://www.workers.org/2008/us/iwd_0313/
It is also Women's History month. Learning our history isn't "cute" it's essential, especially if you have been lulled into thinking that women have made great strides in key areas, so we should just calm down.