Often referred to as the “West Coast Carrie Bradshaw” or the “Naughty Dear Abby,” Lora Somoza is a sex educator and advice columnist. (www.blissinthebedroom.com)

Currently, Lora writes an online sex advice column that goes out bi-weekly to over 30,000 loyal readers all over the world with circulation growing everyday. Known for her blunt, straight talk laced with her own brand of humor, her readers are fiercely loyal followers.

Lora graduated from UCLA in 1994 with a BA in English Literature and Creative Writing. After spending seven years working in the film industry honing her skills in script development, she turned her talents towards freelance journalism writing articles for various online magazines. She became the head writer of two web sites – www.singlestylish.com and www.goodbadgirl.com, writing humorous advice for women worldwide, focusing on dating, love and relationships.

Realizing the popularity of her columns and understanding the needs of what her readers really wanted to hear, she started immersing herself in research finding all that she could to help create explosively exciting sex lives for women of all walks of life, Lora interviewed hundreds of couples, experts in the field and read every book on the subject she could get her hands on. The result is her e-book, “Bliss in the Bedroom: A Real Woman's Guide to Better Sex.”

Lora says, “The most important skill you need to master in bed is communication. This is where all problems stem from and where all can be solved. The mass majority of challenges couples face is the overwhelming fear of addressing what they really need or what they are really feeling in the bedroom. Learning how to express your needs or concerns in a constructive way and keep a sense of humor it will create a deeper intimacy than you’ve ever had before.”

She has appeared on numerous radio shows and has even been interviewed by several news outlets including the Associated Press. She is the sexuality expert on several sites, such as Howtodothings.com, Racy.com and Cleo’s Boutique. She resides in Los Angeles and continues to write on the topics of love and sex. “Women have two g-spots, the one between their legs and the one between their ears.”

To sign up for newsletters, order her book or ask Lora a question, please visit

www.blissinthebedroom.com.

Blog Entries by Lora Somoza

Dumb Luck and a Call to Action

Posted October 14, 2009 | 06:24 PM (EST)


It's just dumb luck really.

A roll of the dice, a hand that I'm dealt, a flip of a coin.

Heads, I'm lounging in my bed with overstuffed pillows, mango sorbet and the latest on HBO.

Tails, I'm in Darfur, with my own government destroying my village and killing my...

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A Goodbye to a Girl's Best Friend

9 Comments | Posted September 16, 2009 | 04:32 PM (EST)


I just spent yesterday morning caressing her face, kissing her forehead, telling her how much I love her and stroking her soft, sleek fur. My dog had just died.

When I first met Sophie, it was already set in stone. I was a goner: Hook, line and sinker. There was...

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Sex at 13,000 Feet

12 Comments | Posted June 14, 2009 | 05:13 PM (EST)


I'm strapped onto a man I've just met not thirty minutes ago. Shoulder, waist, hips, thighs, and a little too close to my pink parts I might add. And he keeps pulling them tighter! Feel OK? He asks. What the hell am I supposed to say? He's the boss and...

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7 Ways to Survive a Break-Up

5 Comments | Posted June 9, 2009 | 10:50 AM (EST)


There are many different reasons.

It's just not working for me.
I want to date other people.
I'm not ready to settle down.
I need some space.
I don't want a commitment.
We have different lifestyles.
We have different needs.
You're too...

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This Mensa Moment Is Brought To You by G. Gordon Liddy

11 Comments | Posted June 1, 2009 | 02:53 PM (EST)


Dear Sirius Satellite Radio,

Thank you for giving G. Gordon Liddy his own radio show. Because when I need to hear the facts, entertaining theories and clever witticisms, that's where I go.

Why, just last week, Liddy proved his ability to discuss a topical event in a classy yet comical...

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Big Brother Flies The Friendly Skies Too

Posted March 27, 2009 | 03:48 PM (EST)


So, I was flying out of New York the other day and was pleased as punch to find I could get a little web surfing done with American Airlines' new partner, Aircell's www.GoGo.Inflight.com. $12.95 and a few minutes later, I had returned some emails, created a new, absurd Facebook...

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Eco Friendly Sex Toys: Why Your Pink Parts Should Go Green

Posted September 9, 2008 | 05:30 PM (EST)


Here I sit in beautiful Southern California, land of the hybrid cars, cloth bags for groceries and recycled water bottles. So I knew it was only a matter of time before the collective consciousness started turning its attention towards the bedroom and people sought to become more environmentally friendly while...

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Rush Limbaugh, Love Guru?

Posted August 21, 2008 | 04:19 PM (EST)


Listen up, ladies. Your prayers have been answered. Rush Limbaugh has become your new marriage counselor. And he's just unloaded the secret to keeping your marriage intact.

Shut your pie hole.

I'll give you a moment to write that down. You're not going to want to lose that pearl of...

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