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Lorelei Kelly

Lorelei Kelly

Posted: January 21, 2011 02:37 AM

Today Congresswoman Giffords will leave the hospital. Her steady convalescence sends a signal of hope -- one that should inspire all of us to step back, assess our own surroundings and do our best to make sure a Tucson massacre never happens again.

Who do we blame, The gunman or society?

Judging from most news coverage, it appears we've failed to recognize the impossibility of separating the killer from the rest of us. If we just blame Jared Lee Loughner, we're committing what psychologists call an "attribution error". That's when an incident is blamed on the individual instead of the situation -- or the system. For Americans to learn from this horror, it will be important to understand Loughner's own motivation, but also what culture and society elicited from him. What should we change about the system to prevent the Loughner types from achieving their goals?

Arizona is a laboratory of today's USA, it has a large population that mixes politics, race, poverty, wealth, urban and rural lifestyles. It is probably the state with the most potential to create a new American myth. Or destroy it. Will Arizona succeed or fail? More precisely, will America become a modern and prosperous democracy?

The road signs from Tucson to Phoenix boast "Guns Keep you Safe". Actually, the implicit message here -- that force works -- is often not true, neither here nor elsewhere on the planet. (Look at Afghanistan and our military's struggle to find alternatives.) This is what the golden myth of the West has become. Crass flogging for guns and political discourse silenced by fear. At the present moment, we all live in Tucson. Our country is the Arizona of the world: scared, tense, armed and not communicating well. Can our system integrate the vast pressures pulling it apart? Can we be present and powerful in a different way in the world? Our challenge on the road from Tucson is not just wither America?... but whether America.

Studies have demonstrated that personality traits come to the surface depending on circumstances. Situations can make any of us kind or cruel, creative or destructive, heroes or criminals. From Columbine to Virginia Tech to Tucson, it seems that we have created an enabling environment for murderously violent public expression. Throughout human history, societies that survive develop mechanisms for discharging extreme emotions. If we want Americans to be kind, creative, heroes, we must begin a healthier discussion about the institutions that represent all of us. That would be the government.

But you have to feel responsible before you feel accountable. I've never seen right wing media types get defensive so quickly. They should. The trip wires that protect our system against deranged violence have atrophied because of anti-social conservative legislation: the elimination of mental health facilities, the lack of reasonable gun regulations. Both Democrats and Republicans are against gun control, you say. That's because Democrats are allowed to be liberal or conservative but Republicans must be either conservative or radical. Anybody with a toddler knows that power without oversight is a prescription for abuse. That's what a government is for, to set protective boundaries. Our government has failed to modernize, to keep up. Under the relentless and merciless onslaught of the Right, it does its best just to survive.

These right wing ranters are wrong. The choice is not between freedom and a padded cell. We can't get rid of their malignant voices. What we can do, however, is change the situation. Let's marginalize them with a counter narrative and a new practice of self-governance. It is time for the rest of us to make explicit what we've been taking for granted: Living peacefully is the normal state of affairs in society and its because we have good rules. Government done well has the potential to improve our lives. Rules keep us safe. They make life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness possible and we all participate in them every day. Think of a four-way stop. Think of clean air. Think of Social Security.

What will happen to our public space?

Representative Giffords loves the interpersonal part of politics. The event where the massacre happened -- Congress on your Corner -- allow Members to diversify how they interact with the public. All elected leaders are interested in creative ways to meet constituents and improve communication. For Members of Congress, the Town Hall model has diminished. A friend who worked for a Michigan member told me that her office started experimenting with new methods more than a decade ago -- when the militias started showing up. More recently, the antics of anti-health care activists with free range microphones made large public venues undesirable.

How do we create a new story about ourselves?

Boomers, since you started out well but then left us a broken soundtrack, get involved again. Participate in and fund local initiatives that both improve the community AND communicate about it. Create a tag team of people who can translate federal policy into locally meaningful information. Hire freshly minted college grads to form civic support teams to coordinate all of this activity. Pay them to blog about community. Create new media strategies to amplify this collective message. Use electronic infrastructure in all its forms to disseminate these stories. Help your elected leaders devise new ways to interact safely, in public. Take loud credit for the peaceful society you're creating.

Millennials, it's obvious that you have the global codependence necessary to pull off this change. You appear completely willing to take on responsibility for damages you didn't inflict on society -- or the planet. Keep the spirit, but temper your faith in technology with some kind of governing experience. Real human relationships matter in politics. Our old, stodgy institutions will change, but slowly. Millennials inside and outside of government: Talk to each other!

The most important thing to know is this: We speak our world into existence, so we'd better say some good things about it. After the tears, the best that we can do for John, Gabe, Dorothy, Christina, Dorwin and Phyllis is to carry on stronger than before. And Godspeed, Gabrielle Giffords will soon be back leading the way.

 

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HUFFPOST SUPER USER
JohnBryansFontaine
Liberal Democrat
07:40 PM on 01/22/2011
Loughner committed an act of domestic terrorism
By Jerry Mazza

http://onlinejournal.com/artman/publish/article_6808.shtml
07:16 AM on 01/22/2011
I've said it before and I'll say it again: There is a thriving black market for guns. Restriction will not stop tragedies, but it will breed larger, more organized, and more violent gun cartels. Remember that catastrophe known as the "War on Drugs"? I don't want taxpayer dollars wasted in a "War on Guns".
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flamflurm
The name's Flurm. Flam Flurm.
05:34 AM on 01/22/2011
< More precisely, will America become a modern and prosperous democracy?>

No. It already was one. Now it is sinking.
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lightbulb10
11:22 PM on 01/21/2011
I'm underwhelmed. :( It was not as organized as I would have hoped.
09:49 PM on 01/21/2011
Heartening to read such thoughtful commonsense. How come the ranters haven't come after you yet? The weird schitzoid thing about American culture, at least as it appears to this "alien", is the gulf between what Americans say their values are and how they act them out. Freedom and peace at home - by carrying concealed weapons? Generosity and warm heartedness - and fury at providing health care for all? Staggering wealth - and jealous hoarding of health services (give it to them and there won't be enough for us)? What you say in your piece about creating the new story is much closer to the Americans I met and lived with 30 years ago - strength to your arm! Or your voice and your pen!
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fb0252
10:12 PM on 01/21/2011
tellem i am alian too. america great country. we bring in many relatives from Jamaica. look forward to free health care for all, like u say!!! everything against free health care is rant, just like u say!!!
07:31 PM on 01/21/2011
According to FOX surveys, 80% of Americans believe that Giffords survived due to prayer. By that same token, that means 80% believed the others deserved to die. So either way, 80% of America will be opposed to comon sense.
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Razpooten
Nil homini certum est
11:45 PM on 01/21/2011
Taper, you are a clear expample of why there are only three types of people: Those who can count, and those who can't.
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morris111
fac fortia et patere
01:33 PM on 01/22/2011
No such survey exists. Nice try.
10:02 PM on 01/22/2011
Interesting... both google and fox prove you wrong if you search for answers.
03:38 PM on 01/21/2011
The media is about controlling people or a story publicly and if the media has a problem in doing so they go on the attack. They can't control Sarah Palin for example so they are always attacking her, targeting her if you will and lashing out at her at every opportunity. So when certain people talk about the need for more social or political civility in their tone, I just keel over because they are such incredible hypocrites. So after the media had totally distorted the events in Tuscon we find out that someone forget or neglected to fill out some paper work or they just kept blowing this kid off every time he exhibited a warning sign. He was screaming for help, but nobody listened. But the media found this tragedy to be a treasure trove of opportunity.
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ThreadKiller
It's too bad that ignorance isn't painful
10:26 PM on 01/21/2011
Noting the inaccuracies and h8teful tone of SP's comments in not"attacking her"
It is doing their job.
Nobody wants to "control" sp
Merely hold her to truthful speech

Read the article. Come to grips with the state of our nation and try to contribute to improving it for every citizen
That is a worthy goal that we can all aire to.
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Razpooten
Nil homini certum est
11:48 PM on 01/21/2011
Palin is out of contril and she shoots self on foot every time she opens her mout - doesn't need the press for that.
As for the kid, no one had learned of his issues until it was investigated by the press.
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Mark MacDonald
Pass the Scotch
03:13 PM on 01/21/2011
These are some large assumptions. We are all Tucson? Attribution error? Sorry, but I do not and never buy into such thinking. And, the last time I looked, America was a modern and prosperous democracy. If 'everybody' is guilty, then nobody is to blame. Loughner is most certainly mentally ill. His family, perhaps the administrators at the school that sent him packing knowing that he was dangerous, these people might possibly bear some responsibility. But neither the State of Arizona nor the entire country is responsible for this massacre. Contrary to psuedo-scientific thinking, Utopia does not and will never exist. As Auden said "Always there will be one child skating too close to the edge of the ice."
11:52 PM on 01/21/2011
Society has nothing to do with the laws it enacts or practices it empowers? You see no connection between the world's most violent and punitive society (that would be you) swimming in guns and ammo and a particular act of public, anti-social violence within that same society?

Take another look.
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sporttrac
errinjohnson
02:05 PM on 01/21/2011
I like your article. Yes, we do speak our self into existence. I am getting involved in the politics and keeping up with the issues. I live in Louisville Kentucky and I am still trying to figure out how Mitch McConnell continues to get elected. I am starting to pay attention. We do need to communicate factual information on the issues. Contrast between what is said and what is the actual truth. I don't believe Mitch McConnell speaks for the majority of Kentucky. Lack of information of the facts and the overwhelming information on false statements. Blatant untruths. People go to work, busy with their lives, trying to care for kids, pay the bills, driving in rush hour traffic after working long hours to pay for increased cost and no pay raises to compensate the difference. I challenge Kentuckians that support McConnell to enlighten me because I am just not seeing it. John Yarmuth is my congressman for my district and supports bipartisan and working with others to have this discussion. http://yarmuth.house.gov/index.cfm?sectionid=14§iontree=3,14&itemid=681 and our Mayor http://www.louisvilleky.gov/Mayor/ is focused on jobs and the economy, our governor focused on finding solutions to not cut medicaid. http://governor.ky.gov/pressrelease.htm?PostingGUID={0A03552D-E469-4849-.BE8F-9B4C1144ED86}. We have a great human resources, our housing for low income is great. Civility and Respect please
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HUFFPOST SUPER USER
PolitiConservative
reasoned debate welcomed here
01:59 PM on 01/21/2011
"We speak our world into existence, so we'd better say some good things about it."

What, we are God now? I hope it's the seventh day so I can rest--I'm tired.
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sporttrac
errinjohnson
04:07 PM on 01/21/2011
Not God, just God Like. :) Our words are very powerful, wouldnt say.
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ThreadKiller
It's too bad that ignorance isn't painful
10:14 PM on 01/21/2011
Then just keep up the hate speech
If thats all you can muster
A compassionate conservative Christian no doubt
01:03 PM on 01/21/2011
Culture is a precious thing that should be protected as carefully as we protect our health. I don't think right wing rhetoric caused the Tucson shooting; I'm much more concerned with how exploitative media figures degrade our culture with their rhetoric, regardless of their politics. Tucson was a wakeup call, but not in the way many have portrayed it to be: http://newsprism.wordpress.com/
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lightbulb10
11:23 PM on 01/21/2011
VERY valuable point.
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Razpooten
Nil homini certum est
11:56 PM on 01/21/2011
In an epluribus unum society culture is a many-splendored thing - some glamorize guns and others shoot their mouths.
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Trudy Trejo
Corporation = People = Romney = Obama = Perry = Cl
12:49 PM on 01/21/2011
Yeah, America is the only place in the world that has loonies that commit violent acts.

How does this stuff pass as journalism?
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lightbulb10
11:24 PM on 01/21/2011
(She's not a journalist.)
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Razpooten
Nil homini certum est
11:59 PM on 01/21/2011
blogger-journalist- interchangeable.
This user has chosen to opt out of the Badges program
12:24 PM on 01/21/2011
"What should we change about the system to prevent the Loughner types from achieving their goals?"

Uh, their goal is to change the system. Get it?
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tucsoncindy
dyslexia bob
12:11 PM on 01/21/2011
Gabby just boarded the plane here in Tucson for her flight to Texas. The good folks
in Tucson lined the route to the airport to wish her well and to show our love and
support for all she has done for us. VFW members road along on their Harley's
as well. As a community we have been able to put aside our differences, I pray
that our Country can do the same. As a boomer, I have met and spoken to
so many young folks showing their support and voicing their concern at the
memorials across Tucson. I have hope for the future .
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Lorelei Kelly
World peace without patchouli
09:46 PM on 01/21/2011
Thanks tucsoncindy. Am so glad to hear it.
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Razpooten
Nil homini certum est
12:00 AM on 01/22/2011
I'm in Texas, she had been received with open arms and hopefully competent medical hands.
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sistermoon3
Common sense cant be bought
12:03 PM on 01/21/2011
Did our society lead to 9/11? Did our society lead to Ft Hood, the Christmas day bomber, the new york car bomber? We dont die together, we die individually. We only answer for our sins. People on both sides say nice things as well as not so nice things about each other depending on the situation.
The long person responsible for his hatred towards one woman is responsible. The young man hated Giffords, no one else, but the others were the truly innocent victims, i guess he hated them for supporting her
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ThreadKiller
It's too bad that ignorance isn't painful
10:15 PM on 01/21/2011
Yes
Our society contributed to all of those events
They were fighting back against perceived wrongs
To deny that is just plain silly
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Razpooten
Nil homini certum est
12:01 AM on 01/22/2011
Concur.