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If I Were a Middle Aged White Man

Posted: 12/13/11 05:03 PM ET

If I were a middle aged white man, I wouldn't write articles called "If I Were a Poor Black Kid" for Forbes. With a title like that, it wouldn't matter what points I was making. You are not a poor black kid, tech writer Gene Marks -- you never were, and you never will be. The problem with this hypothetical is that a middle aged white person lacks the necessary context to begin understanding what it means to be a poor black kid. You know only what you would do with your means -- it's easy to imagine how you could be "better" at being a poor black kid when you're doing so from your privileged, middle aged white male perspective.

I imagine the title of Marks' piece was designed to draw attention to it, and yes, controversy does equal page views. So, you know, kudos. But it's shocking to me that neither Marks nor his editors at Forbes realized the inflammatory nature of the article detracts from any legitimate points the author might be making. If the attempt were to write a piece about how technology can help students bridge the inequality gap, that's short-sighted but it's arguably worthy of discussion. A piece about what Gene Marks would do if he were a poor black kid -- that's a whole lot easier to dismiss.

If I were a middle aged white man, I wouldn't write, "If I was a poor black kid I would first and most importantly work to make sure I got the best grades possible. ... I wouldn't care if I was a student at the worst public middle school in the worst inner city." Because no, it's not just as simple as studying hard. The worst schools may have their best students, as Marks notes, but the challenges those students face far outweigh the challenges of students in more privileged suburban schools. Marks did not go to a public middle school in the worst inner city, so maybe he doesn't know that those schools are frequently understaffed and always underfunded. Certainly he didn't consider that the socioeconomic conditions facing the students who attend these schools might make it more difficult for them to focus on their studies, as he humbly suggests they do.

Marks continues, "I would use the technology available to me as a student. I know a few school teachers and they tell me that many inner city parents usually have or can afford cheap computers and internet service nowadays." And for the inner city parents who can't afford cheap computers and Internet service? Will Marks be inviting them into his home to use SparkNotes and Wikipedia? (These are seriously two of the great equalizing tools he recommends.) Or perhaps there is more than one student living in the same house, and they have to share one computer between them and their parents. I wonder if Marks has ever had to pass his iPad over to a sibling or parent before he was finished using it. If the parents don't own a computer, Marks notes that students can use the computers at their school libraries -- because despite being government institutions in serious financial distress, they can surely afford enough technology to go around, right?

If I were a middle aged white man, I wouldn't write, "Is this easy? No it's not. It's hard. ... But it's not impossible." Here are some other things that aren't impossible: climbing Mount Everest, inventing Facebook, winning the lottery. And lest you think "winning the lottery" is an unfair comparison, Marks goes on to discuss magnet schools and charter schools, which -- as it turns out -- sometimes use a lottery system to sift through the thousands of students who want to attend. Either way, saying that something is "hard," even acknowledging that it's harder for a "poor black kid," is a cop-out. How does Marks quantify how much harder it might be for someone not born into privilege? He doesn't. He just notes that someone can. The implication of the article's title is that he himself could, if he happened to be poor and black and growing up in an inner city.

Once in these schools, Marks suggests that students talk to their guidance counselors about scholarship opportunities and minority programs. What Marks may not realize is that higher education is a seriously troubled institution as well. Public schools once designed to give everyone the chance to attend college continue to raise tuition by the thousands. And in the current economic market, a college degree doesn't guarantee employment, so the implication that just by getting into these universities, the former "poor black kid" will be set for life is ridiculous. He might have trouble obtaining the kind of job he'd need to pay off the student loans he'd certainly accrue. (Not all schools offer need-based scholarships. Chances are, a student born into poverty is going to be indebted to someone before he's graduated college.) And need I address the elephant in the room? That a culture of racism and white privilege might make it more difficult for a young black man to get a job over a young white man with the same skills and educational background.

If I were a middle aged white man, I wouldn't write, "If I was a poor black kid I would get technical. I would learn software. I would learn how to write code." I am a twentysomething white person, and I am terrible at software and code and technology in general. I don't consider it a personal failing, and no one has ever told me I'm not worthy of success because it's not in my skill set. Marks seems to be saying that "poor black kids" should neglect their interests and strengths and focus entirely on technology, something he himself has had luck with. And sure, there may be more jobs in the tech sector, but the notion that the underprivileged kids Marks writes about need only sacrifice their personal life goals in favor of "practical" skills is absurd and insulting.

Marks continues with this stunningly ignorant final thought: "Technology can help these kids. But only if the kids want to be helped. Yes, there is much inequality. But the opportunity is still there in this country for those that are smart enough to go for it." If solving inequality were as simple as wanting it badly enough, I'd like to think we'd all be equal. Who in his right mind would put himself at a severe disadvantage? The economic and social disparity in this county has less to do with apathy than Marks might think. Being "smart enough" to know about the resources Marks identifies doesn't mean having access to them--and having access to the resources doesn't guarantee success.

I'll put it this way: If I were Gene Marks, I'd be ashamed of myself.

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07:03 PM on 12/25/2011
Once I had a flat tire on a rainy evening miles from town. It had just stopped raining so I got out to change the tire. Found the jack, very good! Spare tire in good shape, so far so good! I jacked up the car, removed the lug nuts and put them in the hubcap for safe keeping while removed the flat and put the spare on. Ooops! I had accdentally kicked the hub cap into the stream of rain water running down the side of the road and it was no where in sight. A kid on a bike stopped and ask what was problem. No lug nuts, I said. The kid said, "There's five on each of the other three wheels. Take one off each wheel to use to drive slowly back to town where you can buy more." "Hey, kid!" I said, " You've never driven a car, you've never been stranded without lug nuts for your spare. You can't possibly know how I feel about this." How dare that kid, suggesting a solution to my problem. What does he know? He's never experienced this problem. That wouldn't give me new lug nuts! What arrogance! He should just keep his mouth shut!
05:26 PM on 12/25/2011
If I were trying to make a living as a freelance arts writer with little or no talent for the job, I would find another writer and attack his articles. That would be much easier than straining to write something productive. I would whine and snivel on and on because the writer did not roll back history and solve all problems before they developed. I would try to over shadow any ideas that may help someone improve their lot in life, telling them, don't pay any attention to these suggestions, you're beaten, just give up and wallow in self pity. More than one of the managers at one of the companies worked for encouraged us to "think out side the box". Louis Peeitzman has worked hard to not recognize that the fact Gene Marks was not a poor black child gives him the ability to see possible solutions that they have not considered, help them to 'think outside of the box'. True, Marks ideas may not turn all of these young people into wealthy upper income earners, but it may help some of them break through some of the economic barriers. Marks has tried to make positive, doable suggestions and encourage them take advantage of all possible opportunities. Peeitzman , in effect, is saying, "he's not one of you, pay no attention to him. He doesn't realize how defeated you really are, just give up!" Which of the two should really be ashamed of them self?
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05:36 AM on 12/21/2011
If I were a middle aged white man, I'd believe the poor were lazy and ignorant. I'd take opportunities in life that kids of other races and classes may live their entire life without seeing and never realize it was given. I'd see police lights in my rearview mirror and never hesitate pulling over in a desolate or dark area. I'd go to banks for business loans anytime instead of when the bank board gets warned they must equally lend in the community. I'd never know what it felt like to have to explain why I had to wear the same shirt to school three times in the same week. I would drive through ghettos thinking that the people there liked living that way. If I were a middle aged white man, I'd know very little about being a poor black kid in a society that subconsciously stifles them.
10:26 PM on 12/19/2011
I got bored reading all the cliche excuses for why blacks aren't ruling the world. Refresh my memory from the first paragraph. Are you a black kid in a white man's body? Are you a white man trying to be a black? Do you provide a service? Are you salaried? Can men and women both use your service? Do you work indoors? Do you wear a uniform? Is special training needed to perform you service? Can I pass to Miss Kilgallen?
05:37 PM on 12/18/2011
I am not a "poor black kid", but I was in my youth. If challenged to write such an article I would mostly write about three things educational hunger, the hundreds of mesages you receive every day that you are doomed to be a failure and the random acts of harshness that remind you you are a "poor black kid". The latter being the most harmful, because ultimately, you are actually a kid who happens be both poor and black. Being black is not such a bad thing. being poor can be challenging, byut you do not waste much time on things like inheritence and how poor you are . You invent new ways to have fun and enjoy life. Largely, what kids do. Kids tend to understand that life is often fun. That is why kids tend to get along until adults start with the negative messages. Good luck with the bad assignment.
02:21 AM on 12/20/2011
Mr. Peitzman makes very good counter points. Having worked in schools that are always underfunded, lacking in dedicated, properly trained staff, I know that the issue is not just access to technology. Everyone thinks that just bridging the gap between technology is the answer. However, as Bill Gates discussed in a one on one interview in the October 2011 issue of Ebony Magazine; "parents need to rise up and demand better teachers and better use of technology to help teachers teach and students learn." He also states, "parents settle for incompetent teachers and failing schools." (page 84) The essence of the Bill Gates article is that when he started crusading against inequality in education, he was under the impression that technology was the answer. However, the more he worked on this issue, the more he found that even with the best instruments in technology, parents still play a bigger role. The state of inner city schools should activate people with the high dropout rates, and just the overall poor conditions of inner city schools. In fact Gates stated "why isn't there outrage, protests everyday" such as it did during the Civil Rights Movement (p.83).
07:28 PM on 12/21/2011
Schools are a reflection of the society that funds and regulates them, and more so a reflection of the community it serves. When we criticize struggling schools, whether rural, inner city, or suburban, we must pay attention to the big elephant in the room everyone ignores-socio economic status. Very easy for people without educational background or experience besides going to (and dropping out of) college to shout out answers without any guidance or idea on how to impliment them.
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04:56 PM on 12/18/2011
I think that it is time to stop pointing out others faults and judging others. It is time to stop finding problems with others opinions and turn towards the possible solutions. It is time to listen to others opinions and disparate voices without judgment and add to the creation of solutions, rather than looking for more problems. We all have the inner capacity for understanding, compassion, acceptance, respect for others voices and opinions, and intuition. We are all connected on a deeper level. I think it is time for the end of looking for others faults and to start getting together to find new creative solutions to our collective world problems.www.newheavenonearth.wordpress.com
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topkatnc
Give a stray cat or dog a chance .
10:02 PM on 12/18/2011
Spot on .. f/f .
04:50 PM on 12/18/2011
If I were a poor Black kid I’d start a revolution to hold the ruling class accountable for their waste, fraud, abuse of power, scandal, corruption, sexual deviancy, bold-faced lies, media consolidation, welfare for the rich, war profiteering, Enron/others from a corporate crime wave and violations of our Constitution?
09:55 PM on 12/17/2011
If I am correct do not know if I am but I do believe Albert Einstein failed the 3rd grade so to anyone with the desire to better themselfs can do so.
06:16 PM on 12/19/2011
Actually, he didn't. A historian looking at his school records thought he did because the school system reversed their grading protocol in his last year. They went from 6 meaning the best score to 6 meaning failure.

Einstein aside, most of the richest people in this country won the parental lottery to begin with. The half-dozen Wal-Mart heirs own a double digit percentage of this country's wealth due to dumb luck.

Conversely, researchers have found that attaching a photo of a black person to a resume halves the chance of an interview compared to the same resume with a photo of a white person attached. There a many studies like this. When certain orchestra hiring committees started listening to potential instrumentalists from behind a curtain, suddenly minority candidates started getting hired in larger numbers. And so on. The deck is stacked.
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08:16 PM on 12/17/2011
now he could do follow up stories like, If I were a poor White kid and, If I were a poor Asian kid, and If I were a poor Hispanic kid, and so on. Because every race has many poor in it.
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topkatnc
Give a stray cat or dog a chance .
10:06 PM on 12/18/2011
Indeed they do .. no one race has a monopoly on being poor .
05:46 PM on 12/25/2011
HEY! Stop being so politically incorrect! ;>( and don' t make fun of my nose.
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09:41 AM on 12/17/2011
I'am offend this is journalism at it's worse. the last time i check Black Americans/African American are not the only ones, who are suffers from lack of resources. I use the word resources because, that's what been poor is. people who lack the knowledge, and understanding of who we are as a culture of people is more deadly to us then someone with a gun "theoretical speaking".. why? words have power. think before you write for that matter think better you, speak
06:33 PM on 12/16/2011
Wow,"you lack the context to begin understanding" What a cliche. Like,no one can understand the "black experience". News Flash........there is no such thing Anymore than there is such a thing as race. Every race has been everwhere over the centuries and. everyone has little of everything in them. Skin color is a tired sorry storyline.
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04:53 PM on 12/18/2011
so because the races have traveled and intermarried, race and racism have ceased to exist? really? and what about culture and socioeconomic status? Have they no effect anymore on anyone too? As tired a story line as skin color is, the benefits of white privilege still exists as do the negative effects of that on all who are not "white."
05:55 PM on 12/25/2011
"so because the races have traveled and intermarriĀ­ed, race and racism have ceased to exist?">>>> ancestry of my grandchildren are French, Cherokee, Irish, Scottish, Choctaw, Russian, and German. I have an 18 month old granddaughter that sounds Chinese, I'm not sure about her. Races still exist but give us a little more time.
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05:25 PM on 12/16/2011
Now, had he written "If I reached out to a poor Black kid" , and then discussed how he could introduce these options to one who might use those vast resources Marks wrote about, that would be a story worth reading- and sharing.

Had he then actually gone and reached out to a poor Black kid, that would have been noble; but we know he is an elitist and would NEVER reach out and touch "one of those people".

That may leave a stain on the ivory tower.
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BartStratton
11:36 AM on 12/16/2011
Most of the points Gillian raises apply to poor kids of any race. Also, Gene Marks imagines himself as a smart poor kid. Many poor kids aren't that smart, just as many kids of any income group aren't that smart. Marks can't really imagine what it would be like to be average; he imagines how he would escape poverty using his intelligence. The fact is not every person can escape poverty; especially, if skilled manufacturing jobs are outsourced to countires with much lower standards of living. Marks has a really selfish view of the problem and the solution.
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03:18 PM on 12/16/2011
Sorry, Bart, you know nothing about the potential of children. I was an elementary science school teacher in the heart of Detroit - I had A LOT of bright kids. THEY WERE G R E A T and they wanted to learn and DID learn when people instill an expectation of them. But many came exhausted in the morning, hungry since they hadn't eaten since the morning before (just so you know the food in the "school breakfast programs" are SLOP that I wouldn't feed to my cat). I had kids in 5TH GRADE that didn't show up to school half the time because I discovered they were to embarrassed for their classmates to know they couldn't read.

I had great kids, sweet and funny and SMART. Some had great parents, some had not so great parents. My point is that their are a lot of drivers to motivation and learning. It is not their failure because they "aren't that smart", the failure is on the adults for not providing the systemic support, parental support, nutritional support that is the right of every child.
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BartStratton
12:43 AM on 12/19/2011
I wasn't saying no poor kids are smart. I was saying his advice applies only to smart kids, which is in itself a limited sollution. As you rightly point out, eeven smart kids face tremendous hurdles.
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03:57 PM on 12/16/2011
I think that Marks is comfortably average. Not the sort that ought to endeavor to give advice at all to anyone.
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12:45 AM on 12/19/2011
LOL.
10:26 PM on 12/15/2011
Great article. The challenges facing a "poor black kid" are incomparable to those of a middle class white kid (which I assume the author was); he clearly knows nothing about poverty culture. As a friendly observation, however, I do find it ironic that in an article about "inequality" and "privilege" you use gender-exclusive pronouns like "his" and "himself," thereby implicitly disregarding the perspective of 51% of the population.
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02:00 PM on 12/17/2011
'He' (the writer of this article) uses pronouns like "his" and "himself" to reference the writer he is criticizing--Gene Marks. No need to get all gender-offended...Louis was not disregarding anyone's perspective.
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06:26 PM on 12/19/2011
You know, you are doing the same thing the middle aged white guy was doing - thinking your perspective is right for everyone.

No need to be all patronizing.
07:24 PM on 12/17/2011
This is simply convention. It is not meant to exclude. Yes, modern Western society developed from the patriarchal society before it. Often, in order to make a cogent and grammatically correct statement, it is necessary to use a pronoun. Given our patriarchal history, the standard is to use the male pronoun. Your argument has led to people specifically using either male or female pronouns simply to make a point; and gender neutral pronouns tend not to fit grammatically. This is not a slight against the female population, it is simply the way language has evolved. In situations in which I see a female pronoun I am thrown off because all of a sudden I feel like the author is either trying to advance an agenda unrelated to the topic at hand or trying to protect him/herself (see what I mean about just being awkward... and no themselves would not fit grammatically) from people like yourself. Or using m/f pronouns as I just did, which, I'm sorry, but I just don't think belongs in formal writing. In either circumstance, the flow of writing is inturrupted and the article or essay made worse. I am very liberal, and support the feminist movement. But when it comes to writing, there needs to be a standard for pronouns to avoid confusion and allow for strong presentation of arguments. Sorry for the long response, obviously we disagree and you are entitled to your opinion, this is just one of my pet peeves.
12:33 PM on 12/18/2011
(Sorry, that last comment was intended for the previous poster)

@Benjyhe - I am going to go ahead and ignore, for the moment, that one of your "pet peeves" is that a traditionally oppressed segment of the population believes they deserve equal language representation in language. Maybe you didn't have or pay attention in social science courses and are unfamiliar with the strong scientific connection between language and reality. I cannot, however, ignore the absurdity of claiming to be in "support [of] the feminist movement" and in favor of using language that effectively "erases" women. As Professor Sherryl Kleinman has argued, "[M]ale-based generics are another indicator—and, more importantly, a reinforcer—of a system in which "man" in the abstract and men in the flesh are privileged over women." Many people dislike using the she/he convention because it can be awkward, and are unsure of newly devised gender-neutral pronouns. I understand this. Switching up which pronoun is used is becoming more popular (i.e. using both "she" and "he" interchangeably), however, and I think it is at least a step in the right direction. As the UNC Writing Center so aptly stated, "Words matter, and our language choices have consequences. If we believe that women and men deserve social equality, then we should think seriously about how to reflect that belief in our language use." (http://writingcenter.unc.edu/resources/handouts-demos/citation/gender-sensitive-language)
12:33 PM on 12/18/2011
I *strongly* encourage you to read this article, in which the author does a much better job at explaining why sexist language matters than I can: http://www.alternet.org/story/48856/
07:31 PM on 12/15/2011
I loved the rebuttal to Gene Marks's article written in Forbes by Peitzman.. His points were on targetted, straightforward and onpoint.. I am really disappointed that it was published by Forbes in the first place. A real shame!!! Often times, those that claim that the problem is so simple and that their solutions are the answer tend to underestimate all the contributing variables while overestimating their knowledge!! Kudos to Peitzman!!
09:57 AM on 12/16/2011
Disappointed in Forbes...yes. Surprised...not at all.