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Children Mending Hearts Visits Haiti

Posted: 04/16/11 01:24 PM ET

I recently had the honor of working with the beautiful children of Artists for Peace and Justice. I can't say enough about this wonderful organization. They have virtually no staff (by choice) and have been able to change the lives of thousands of Haitians. They are a grassroots organization that truly walks the walk.

We enjoyed the wonderful experience of leading a workshop with over 100 children. We were informed that our first group was orphans, which I've learned is an extremely loosely based term in Haiti. Most of the 'orphans' likely have family members here in Haiti who are simply incapable of providing for their needs.

When the little ones arrived, they were not quite sure of what to expect. They politely sat at the tables and began to stare curiously at the paint and paintbrushes. It was as if they were gazing at aliens from a far away planet; they simply stared at all the art supplies laid before them and refused to touch anything.

I explained to my team that these children had most likely never seen, much less touched, a paintbrush and relayed that we would physically have to grasp their little hands, teach them to hold the brushes, then place brushes in the paint and watch magic happen. For many members of my team, this was their virgin international trip, and to see the look on their faces when the children began to beam was one of those memories that will be etched in my heart forever. To witness a child holding a paintbrush for the first time is a wonderful feeling, and at times, has literally been my saving grace.

As wonderful as our day was, we still had not received our duffel bags from customs and the ransom to collect them was growing higher by the moment. However, we didn't let this turn of events dampen our spirits or our ability to get creative with the children. Thinking on our feet had become the norm.

Tired, dirty and thirsty, we returned to our hotel. My cameraman informed me that he had decided to go inside the IDP camp located across the street, stressing the importance to get footage inside a camp not run by an NGO. I begged him not to go since we had already let our security guard go home for the evening, but he insisted.

He came back a short time later -- everyone could see he was rattled. This is a man whom I've seen escape from militia in the Congo and not bat an eye. He said that he had been surrounded and threatened. He nervously relayed the angry mob kept repeating over and over, "Hey you, hey you, we know what you're trying to do, get out now or else, get out now." They then tried in vain to take his camera.

For me, this was just a quick reminder of how angry many Haitians are, and I must admit, I can empathize with them. We have had the pleasure of working with some amazing grassroots organizations, but it appears that many of the NGOs seem to be working at cross-purposes. In my opinion, they are more interested in temporary band-aids and donor dollars than exacting change and partnerships. While I'm well aware we don't live in a cave, strong partnerships and alliances will be the only way to exact a true measure of change.

Tomorrow is another day in Haiti. I look forward to seeing the children laugh and smile and dance until they can no longer.

 

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I recently had the honor of working with the beautiful children of Artists for Peace and Justice. I can't say enough about this wonderful organization. They have virtually no staff (by choice) and ha...
I recently had the honor of working with the beautiful children of Artists for Peace and Justice. I can't say enough about this wonderful organization. They have virtually no staff (by choice) and ha...
 
 
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Tom Joad
"While there is a lower class, I am in it "
07:57 PM on 04/16/2011
...I'm all for art, but I wonder if they wouldn't appreciate rice a little more right now...
07:25 PM on 04/25/2011
They would probably love rice, but that's not my job. The organizations that we partnered up with in Haiti are feeding the children quite nicely. We did however take new t-shirts and 5,000 pairs of new underwear for the kids. Thank you for being all for art.. It's pretty cool..
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ElGuybrush
Centrist, thus a democrat
03:33 PM on 04/16/2011
Maybe you could have brought a tent and some first aid, maybe some seeds for them to plant.
But art is nice, too.
03:32 PM on 04/16/2011
"they are more interested in temporary band-aids and donor dollars than exacting change and partnerships." How true. Not all, but some. I'm from CT, but currently live in Haiti.

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It's not just here though. It's all over the world to varying extents with different organizations... and is compounded by a variety of issues, including the NGO staff, corrupt / non-corrupt gov't employees, etc. It's complicated to say the least.
03:25 PM on 04/16/2011
Children mending hearts of orphans in Haiti, is a wonderful example of how people, even children, can create compassion and, transfer it to to others, for their benefit and that of those who receive the compassion. Compassion means healing, compassion means caring, and compassion means better health, better well-being, better self-esteem and, even better longevity for those who create it, and, for those who receive it. Compassion is a force of nature, a force of good, a force that reduces self-hatred, reduces the hate we may feel for others, a force that decreases violence in the world. Compassion is something we should all strive to create more of, and we should strive to send it more often to those we love and care for. And, it is a force that holds the promise for a better life for all who create it and for all who experience it.
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06:56 PM on 04/16/2011
But is this they REALLY need right now? Ask yourself, if you were in their shoes, or lack of shoes, what would you really want most?
jusathot
a mother from another mother
08:17 PM on 04/20/2011
You don't know Haitians. They love to create.
jusathot
a mother from another mother
08:40 PM on 04/20/2011
Youth is wasted on the young. It's a shame we can't love like that once we're older.
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southingtonian
"I'm a Capricorn and you can't make me do sh*t.."
02:53 AM on 04/21/2011
We can relearn how. It's still in us, just buried under the minutiea of daily chores. And adult responsibilities and preoccupations are less burdensome when the impetus for their fulfillment is love.