Eternity Isn't Forever

Eternity means forever. Perhaps a mother who names her child Eternity hopes it will be a talisman to ward off the dangers that stalk poor and crime-ridden neighborhoods. Sadly, with the gun violence that is so pervasive in many of our communities, too many parents live with a paralyzing fear that their children may not be safe from those dangers. A parent's worst fears were realized on the streets of a Chicago neighborhood the Sunday before Labor Day, 2008, when Eternity Gaddy and some playmates were standing outside her grand aunt's home. They heard some men shouting as they spilled out of a nearby alley and started shooting. Before the girls had time to react, Eternity, 13, was killed by one of the flying bullets. Most 13-year-old girls think they're going to live forever. I certainly did. But Eternity will never see her 14th birthday, will never go to college or land that first job. She'll never get married or have children of her own.

Eternity was one of three Black children killed in Chicago on Labor Day weekend. Nequiel Fowler, 10, was struck by a bullet while bending down to tie the shoelaces of her five-year-old sister. Terrence Jones, 16, was playing basketball at a park near his home when several young men approached and shot into the group on the basketball court. Terrance was shot in the back. He was a special young man who cared for his 60-year-old diabetic and arthritic mother and helped manage her medications. He dreamed of going to Duke University and becoming a pharmacist some day. How these children died didn't make national news, nor are they likely to be mentioned in a presidential campaign speech. But they should be.

As I think about the thousands of youthful victims of gun violence, I'm concerned that we're not hearing enough from the candidates for public office at all levels about what they will do to protect our children. The time for action is now because the danger of gun violence has increased. The most recent data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reveal that 3,006 children and teens were killed by firearms in 2005, the first jump in the deaths from gun violence among youngsters since 1994. The 2005 data also happen to mark the first increase in such deaths since Congress allowed the Federal Assault Weapons Ban to expire in 2004.

The federal and local governments have the responsibility to enact and strengthen laws that will protect children and the public at large. We must make gun safety a national priority and push for measures to ban assault weapons, tighten background check requirements and make it easier for victims of gun violence to hold firearm dealers and manufacturers accountable. And the federal Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms and Explosives must have sufficient funds to aggressively enforce our nation's gun laws.

Despite the Supreme Court's District of Columbia v. Heller ruling striking down Washington, D.C.'s 32-year-old handgun ban, the Second Amendment of the Constitution does not deny communities the right to enact gun control laws designed to protect public safety. States and cities must move forward with measures to prevent firearms from falling into the hands of children, felons and the mentally unstable.

The next President and the 111th Congress must renew the Federal Assault Weapons Ban on high-powered, high-capacity weapons. Federal legislation must be enacted that requires thorough background checks for every gun sale including those at gun shows. It is criminal that guns are sold in private transactions where no background check takes place. This background check loophole enabled Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold to acquire, through private sales at a gun show, some of the weapons they used to kill 12 students and a teacher in 1999 at Columbine High School near Littleton, Colorado.

The President and Congress must support initiatives promoted by Mayors Against Illegal Guns to hold gun dealers or manufacturers accountable for the damage to our neighborhoods caused by firearms.

At the conclusion of the November 4 election, political leaders of all stripes and at every level should pursue common sense gun laws to make our streets and homes safe for our children. It is unconscionable that a child at play should ever be at risk of being shot and killed. No one lives forever, but we should build a society where a girl named Eternity, and every other child, can at least make it to adulthood without dying from a random gunshot.

To learn more, read the Children's Defense Fund's 2008 report, Protect Children, Not Guns: at www.childrensdefense.org/gunreport.

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Comments

[djkrlsn]

2nd posting--Chicago has the laws you are trying to get and still has one of the highest rates of violence and gun violence in the country. Disarming law abiding Americans does nothing to reduce gun violence, it merely empowers criminals because they know their victims will be unable to defend themselves. If gun bans were so successfull--why are areas like Vermont with few firearm restrictions far less violent than Washington DC (Virginia has far fewer gun laws than DC and it is still far less violent).

[GrainOSand]

Mrs. Edelman,

Thank you for your long and courageous battle to correct the wrongs of this country. I am one of those kids that you and many others fought, and sadly, some died for, that they might have the opportunity to rise above the stifling and choking grip of poverty within a racist society. By America's standards, I made it. I got the job, the six-figure salary, the house, and many of the other trappings that America holds up as being successful. I did this despite impossible odds with the help of many people along the way who gave me good advice, a push in the right direction, and hard truth when I needed that. Yet I found that success hollow in the face of the abhorrent state of the community where I grew up and communities like it all across America. I moved out of the old neighborhood but my heart never left, and sadly many of my childhood friends never left or had the opportunity to leave. America has failed on so many levels and it is arrogant in its failure. There is a higher authority than this feeble and flawed authority that supposes to sit in judgment while it hypocritically defiles and debases life itself through greed and its byproduct hate and hates’ sister fear.

I say thanks again. I know you are aware of the problems that continue to plague so many Americans. I will keep trying to help where I can.